Now before you get at me, I don't have any hate towards my little brother's friends because They're kids, but I find it annoying that they enter my parents & I's house w/out asking first & they always do, I know that theyre just kids and my parents don't really mind it which their house their rules but there are days where theyd just walk in and not even ring the bell, I feel like I have no right to be annoyed because they arent being intrusive if my parents dont mind and im probably more intrusive than them cause i live with them but they come into the house and then make a mess even when my other little brother isnt home and make a mess in their rooms, and don't help clean. I guess I have no right to be annoyed bcuz theyre kids and they dont know better but I am & I feel horrible about it

My sister is dating a serial killer I can't say his name he wants to keep his life private but she's really worried for him. They been together for 3 years she's crazy about him it's so wrong he killed dozens of girls and women in the 70's by raping and killing them he even killed a child a 12 1/2 year old girl even molested a child. He's 75 she's 26. I don't see why girls fall for guys like this especially if they're rapists or sex offenders like him. I don't even know how she got with him. She said she visits him everyday in prison most nights she even stays with him. She said he's been in jail for more than 40 years they sentence him to death she's really scared for him she wouldn't know what she do if she lost him. Knowing her she probably go insane. She doesn't have very many friends not many guys like her so she goes for the older guys. She posts pictures of her and him everyday kissing him in a way it's kind of creepy she said he's so cute me being a gay man I don't think he's cute at all I watched stuff on tv about him. She's really upset and worried for him. She wishes there was a way to help him and help him get out of there. How can I comfort her ?

I wanna say I love my sister so much, but having her around 24/7 is overkill. I'm 17 and she's 23. She still lives at home and says she works online (I always see her on YouTube / Facebook though). She used to go out & have friends but now she's basically home all day everyday, always in the living room on her computer. I'll go to school, work, hang out with friends & come home, and she still hasn't left all day. She always tries to talk to me as well. I've told her I need space and sometimes when I come home I just want to be alone. She'll still bombard me as soon as I walk in the door, and then wonders why I get irritated with her. I want to have a good relationship with her but I feel annoyed to even come home /avoid her when I am home because I never get space away from her. Moving out isn't an option yet because I'm not 18. What should I do?

I'm a 14 year old boy and my dad is in his 40's and I feel so annoyed with him because he's always loud and has a problem and pretends to want to solve it, however always ends up listening to him self. I haven't talked much to my parents because I just watch YT videos on my phone past 8pm. They say I never want to talk to them and that I must feel 'empty' and yesterday said 'what would you feel if I dies'. I feel as if he is stupid to even talk like this to a 14 year old becuase any other normal parents would understand that at 14 you lack communication to your parents but it's just a phase and I've told him this/ What should I say to make him understand my point of view and that I am different to my older brother who always talked at 14 and is now 19 but it's 2018 and things are much different. p.s. he also always brings up the fact that he brought me a laptop at 11 + handed down phone at 11 and a £150 phone at 14 and I should be grateful..I am yet I'm not going to kiss his feet everyday when I already showed appreciation and says I should stop using them for less time. WHAT IS THE AVERAGE TIME FOR A 14 YEAR OLD TO SPEND ON A PHONE / LAPTOP A DAY. Basically the basic facts of being a 14 year old and what the parents should expect from one would be very much appreciative , just to make sure I'm right and not crazy.

I'm a 13 year old girl and my parents are going on a trip for a week and since, they believe that I'm too young to be able to stay home alone, they decided to send me to my uncle's (my father's brother's) home. In that home my 50 year old and my 44 year old uncles live. My 50 year old uncle is severely autistic. He behaves like a little child. He jumps around the house and he sings loudly and strangely. I'm so scared of him! I know that this is not his fault, but I'm afraid of mentally ill people. They're so odd! I told my parents that I'm old enough to take care of myself, but they didn't allow me to stay home without them.

My daughter is in college. The college is 100 miles away. She is sharing an apartment with 3 other girls. She ask me how I thought she should get around and go the grocery store and other places as there is no public transportation where she is staying. I ask her if any of the other girls at the apartment had a car and she checked and none did. They told her they will use a bike to get around. She wanted me to buy her a bike. I told her with the high cost of tuition, books, and her apartment, it might be a used bike. She visited my dad and mom last weekend and she talked to them about the problem she would have getting around at college and that I planned to buy her a bike. My dad told her that he used to be an ambulance driver and he had picked up MANY people that had be hit on their bike by a car. He said the bike driver was usually DEAD or severely injured in a car bike accident. He was going to get her something safer than a bike to use at college. He then took her to a car dealer and bought her a new Kia Soul so she would be safe. She thinks she has the greatest grandpa in the world now. I am not sure how I feel about this. Dad did not buy me a new car when I went to college. Is dad trying to make me look bad to my daughter because I could not afford to buy her any car let alone a new one or is he concerned about her safety on a bike. How should I feel about what my dad did?

Or is the abuse my fault? I mean I know I am worthless and a burden to my dad...so I probably have brought the bruises, death threats, and him trying to kill me onto myself. I honestly want to just run away but at this point I m probably better off dead.

He failed like usual to see us on Christmas as he has every opportunity to but is lazy and unloving. He often bails saying he likes to chop wood and work in the yard instead. He loves his wood and yard more then his 3 kids. I think he possibly might be coming since his mother will be with him. But if he decides not to I will be devastated like usual and it will ruin Christmas even 4 days later. How do I not let this ruin the holiday if he is lying and does not come? How do I not let it ruin Christmas Day anyway that he is with his new wife's kids and family and not us? This ALWAYS hurts so deeply that I can't even describe it. The pain is so deep he has caused and he blames me when I discuss it with him.

I'm 16, and he's 14 btw

It's so immature, ever since my sis became 16-18 (she's 20 now) my mom and her are like two highschool kids. Dress in the same kind of clothes, my thing is... Why does my mother care about looks and such so much and wants attention from other males when my father is already her husband. I don't like it at all. She's 53 dressing like a 25 year old.

Like they dont support and always be there for u annnddddd hurt your feelingsss ... tbh, it hurts pretty bad . So i was just curious

Sometimes my life just feels like alot and so much hurts. I feel like I can't tell anyone the kinds of things my father is emailing me and I just feel trapped.

My aging mother lives in an assisted living facility. She is the association treasurer. No one else wants the postion- there are about 300 residents. My mother does not want to lose control of her postion and is becoming more and more forgetful. She just told me she cannot find over $500 of cash gifts (we counted the money together this week) for the staff. I have to go over and search for the money tomorrow. My mother also told me we would have to go into her savings account to make up the difference if the money is lost (or stolen). I keep on asking her to resign the postion, and she refuses. There is a bank account involved that she has signature authority over. She was supposed to resign the postion this month, and she apparently has not done so. She is now fighting with the executive director. How do I convince my mother -- or demand that she give up this postion -- without causing a huge fight? I am worried that they are going to hold me accountable for the cash (I am her guarantor). or accuse me of stealing the cash, or even worst determine that my mom is alzheimer's (she is showing signs of early dementia) and move her into the memory care unit. What do I do here?

So many people seem to have so much family and I feel so different and sad that it will just be three of us. My Dad, grandfather, and myself. I am 23 and male. So many people on the highways today and yesterday breaking away before the holidays. All weekend they all will be on a four day reunion with big families. Am I in the minority with just two others? Or are most people only doing Christmas on the 25th and only with a few members of their immediate family?

My mom is always the one yelling the most. When she is angry, she complains about her husband not taking her out anywhere. Also, she gives all of her money to him and she is upset that she doesn't get anything in return. My dad is basically the head of the family. He provided with a house, education, etc. I have no clue what I should do. I haven't been taking any sides. I have been neutral. Any advice?

I do not eat school lunch because school lunch is gross. Last week my parents found out I have been skipping lunch and they said "starving kids would be happy to eat that food". Good for them, I am not starving and I do not have to eat that food, I just wait until I get home. This is irrelevant to my situation. Just because one person would eat it does not mean another will. Most my friends are like me we do not eat what we do not like. If a restaurant had no food we liked, we walk out and get something else? What is the difference with school lunch? my parents will not let me bring home lunch

I live on my own but rely on my physically abusive parents. It's been years since they hit me but last week it happened again. I was upset so I called my SO. I have tried to protect and keep him away from it, but I have run out of excuses to keep him away. He's supposed to come over for dinner to meet them. He and I both don't want to but I am at the mercy of my family in some regards. I don't know how to explain to him why I have to play their stupid games. It's just till I'm out of school. My dad is a narcissist, my mother is borderline with histrionic pd: both drink. The way to deal with my family is to pretend everything is fine. I know it's toxic, and the second I am financially stable I'm out, but I'm stuck. I just need time to get stable & I'm out but he just expects me to leave. I did that and ended up on the street. I can't go back to that. I feel like he can't understand. I hate myself for being in this position. How do I explain it and help him understand? How to I keep him from this? He keeps telling me he is so angry and doesn't know how to be in the same room as the people who hurt me. Its making it much harder on me. It makes it so I have to jump thorough extra hoops to make my family happy. I feel like I can't talk to him if I tell him about what my family does, he gets angry at them, then I have to shut up my pain and feelings to help him. I want so very much to be able to talk to him, but I don't know if he can take it. What do I do?

I will see a few of the family members but not the 32 we usually do. More like 4 or 5 people. Anonymous: Reported for what? I have never asked this before. I put it in the wrong section though so I will ask again in Christmas section.

The aunt is divisive herself but her brother and kids as well as one adult nephew and possibly her adult daughter are refusing to come because this aunt is coming for the first time in 7 years. The aunt is a bully.

She thinks im worth norhing? Hahahahahaha.... What should i do?

My sister is crying over her favorite serial killer. She has a crush on him she can't go visit him because he's too far away also I wouldn't want her anywhere near him. She said he's so cute and adorable even though he's old enough to be her grandpa. She said it's not fair he has to be so cute. Why do some girls cry over guys especially guys who are famous ?

So me and my sister have the same mother but different dads so is my cousin her cousin if it's not on my moms side?

I've been smoking pot since I was 14 and I'm 16 now but I want to tell my parents about my "habit". It's truely not an addiction and I'm mature about when and where I do it... it's also not legal here... but most of the time it helps my anxiety, I haven't taken my anxiety pills in the last year and I feel amazing since I started smoking. I just don't want to tell them and start a bad relationship because it's helped me everyday of my life. And I have a strong relationship with my parents but I can't be lying to them anymore because they have started to be suspicious about it. If you think I should do it how should I explain it?

I have known this girl for a few years and early on she tried to get my attention and acted flirty. Like she blushed around me and got red couldnt look me in the eyes. She couldnt even say hi first and when I did first blushd and smiled. She got giggly and laughed at all my jokes. Found any excuse to be around me, get close as possible and talk to me. Could only approach me with her friend besides her. Her friend couldn't talk to me. Well her bFF looked at her when I entered a room and said her name. Her BFF helped her approach me. She stared @ me in school. A teacher she talked to told me she talked about me. Well her friends stare at me when they see me around town. Then like family members noticed me like her cousins and they stare at me. I see her around town he places herself in spots she can c me and Ill see her.Well her and her mom have done mean stuff on my fb like they unliked a picture announcing my dads death when I blew her off. Then her mom removed my dad on facebook. Shes done dumb stuff like that. Well I go to the same college as her and she saw me in a class that is her next class. She walked in and saw me then sat down and stared at me for a few seconds. She showed up on time but after that. She shows up 30 minutes early before everyone else and then walk by the room looking in and then walks by the door when its open. She walks by at least 4x then stands in the doorway and then waits outside for when I walk out. She doesnt have her friends to help her.

his email account is by msn

Okay so 12 years ago(when i was 7), I remembered walking down the stairs in my house hearing yelling. As soon as my parents and I had caught eye contact my Dad announced what had happened. I live in a relatively small town so words get spread like a California wildfire and it didn't help that my mom was a teacher. So growing up I had to deal with multitudes of older and bigger guys constantly cracking jokes about it in the fieldhouse. I remember wanting to hurt them so bad but it wasn't worth it. Over time I feel like I've generally forgotten about the whole dillemma because my parents decided to stay together. Although for me it seems to be vasty more difficult to overlook the fact that my mom done that to my dad. I have so many questions yet it feels like the situation was just a bad dream due to how nobody acts like it happened anymore. Don't get me wrong, I love my Mom with all my heart but I just know it's not right.. She lied to my Dad, She lied to me denying it ever happening. How can I confront her about this without stepping on her toes and making her depressed? i don't want to let her know that i'm still bothered by it today.. I almost feel as if they stayed together just for me. So when she and my father are constantly working to provide for me it feels as if they are just trying to make up for the world of hurt that I was engulfed by after finding out. If thats true then it's even more sad, they should be doing what makes them happy. If my mom wasn't happy with my dad 12 years ago then why go **** some random dude and just stay?

Whether its my hair, my makeup, my weight, my clothes, what I'm eating, my job, the music I listen to, or my friends, she always says something nasty to me, like I'm doing something wrong and I should be ashamed of myself for liking sweets or that my boyfriend has a tattoo like she always says things that make me feel terrible about myself. She's never once agreed with me on anything, and seems to think I'm incapable of making good decisions. I'm over 18 but I still live with her, I still go to school so I can't exactly afford to move out. What do I do?

He is moving and doesn't want anyone to know since his wife is so weird and toxic. He accused of this and I did NOT do it. I told him but he has long labeled me a big mouth because when I was a kid I did run my mouth a lot. I am 31 now and not a kid. How do I get him to remove this label about me that is almost as outdated as saying I am being breastfed or that I am a big 5th grader now. How do I get my Dad to see this since he is an *** about it (as is my mother). No one else accuses me of this. My Mom is the one who has LIED BLATANTLY to me and my Dad is the one who told our grandmother my sister was pregnant when it was HER announcement and not his job to run is fat mouth.

My sister is for some reason obsessed with gay men. She's only 11 I'm surprised that she even knows what gay means. She said she even wants to watch me and my boyfriend have sex. She watched that movie about Queen she said her favorite part was when Freddie and his partner kissed she said she wishes they would have had sex. She was watching a show about Jeffrey Dahmer he's here from Ohio he was gay also a murderer she said the first murder he had he tried to have sex with a guy it showed them in bed together kissing she said she loved that. I don't know where she's learning all this from or why she's so fascinated by it. She said she just loves to watch men having sex with each other. What's wrong with her ? Is this normal for a kid ?