Or is it fun :)

My sister had an expensive wedding. But I heard someone say it was boring because there was no alcohol or dancing. We just don't drink. I don't drink, neither does anyone in my family. My sister probably didn't think alcohol was necessary. The dancing. It's a genetic thing. All my exgfs have tried teaching how to dance, I never could. My sister can't dance either, she got an orchestra to play at the wedding. If a wedding doesn't have alcohol or dancing, is it boring?

http://www.uexpress.com/miss-manners/2006/11/7/wedding-dress-not-worth-the-fight

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