My husband has a sarcastic and really rude sence of humor that sometimes gets us in to fights. The other day it was actually a physical fight and he pushed me but when I pushed him back he completely snapped and started to literally beat and choke me. I finally got him to let go and he broke down shaking and crying and saying he didn't know why he snapped like that. Should I believe him

I'm so tired of feeling left out of alot of things. My husband leaves me all the time to hang out with his friends. He told me before our baby that I would be able to go out once in a while after the baby was born(nothing crazy just like maybe one night a month?) But now he tells me it would be inappropriate because Im a mom and it's my job to stay home. I feel so wrong for wanting to go out but I just need to talk to some one older than 3 months. Am I wrong for feeling this way

and I don't know how this happen my wife was in are room butt naked too don't know if I was jacking with her sister are if her sister just got me hard way I was out and got on not think I would wake up drunk are not you know when the Johnson getting jacked with sound I tell my wife and **** if I do how the hell you tell that to your wife of 8 years

I have a 4- and 6-year old (both girls) from a previous marriage. Our house can be crazy at times; bickering, arguing, yelling, complaining, nagging, the list goes on. At times, I feel I am going crazy because they never stop going at it. Getting ready for school in the morning is a fiasco. However, I am getting married in six months to a man I adore and would love to have a product of us (a baby). Am I being selfish? Our house is already crazy and adding to the mix would make it crazier. But I really want a baby with my fiance; a product of us. Is this a wrong, or not a good reason to have a child?

lets just say that you are a bible beilever and ran across this scripture. once read you would have to set back and wonder.how is this possible? Id like to get your honest opinion tring not to be too sarcastic please. please make answers short as possible.

I've asked this before but it's actually my husband doing these things for another girl. He coaches basketball and a friend of mine helps him. She told me about him and one of the moms. He has been sending some signals, staring at her, has made a suggestive comment, to her about being ready for bed, etc. Yesterday, she was sitting near him by herself and he loudly said "Wow!". She looked at him. He looked at her and said "It's warm in here..." with a big smile. It had such a playful tone to it. He was still looking at her. He then proceeded to take off his sweatshirt! I also noticed that he was trying to make really hard shots during basketball, and one time when he made one, he looked at her. He then decides to park himself EXACTLY in front of her during a dribbling drill! He has his back to her. She was cheering her son on, when my husband turns his head and starts talking to her. First he talks about a kid who's missing that day, they go back and forth like that. After this, he starts doing all kinds of acrobatics with the basketball! He's throwing it under his legs, dribbling it on his sides, throwing it behind and around his back, etc. All in front of her. Is it normal for men who want to cheat to act like this? I have a feeling he was trying to show off for her.

I'm 21 and got married when I was 18, I also became a father 6 months before then with the same women I was marrying. I'm sure you guessed it but it sorta felt like I was marrying because she had my daughter, we dated once before when I was 14 so in middle school but after we broke up didn't talk to each other for years. I was 17 and we both were very into photography so we were suppose to go out and take pictures...that was how my daughter came to this word lol. So after that awkward situation we didn't talk and I feel awful for it seeming I used her, which I didn't. A few months back I was dating a girl that was actually that first girl I expressed myself with and it feel to ****, felt like it was going somewhere but felt like a kick in the balls. After that I didn't want anything to do with a relationship so when she told me she was pregnant I really freaked we talked it over and just went on but trying to prepare for this to happen. She actually became preeclamptic so my daughter was born 2 months early and my wife was dating someone at the time and the thought of someone "fathering" my child made me mad. Even more when I heard him say "I am ready to a step father". So after a day or so of her being born I basically tried to get her and did and we went from preparing for a child together to dating and then married. So it wasn't very long to adjust to that. This May would make it three years being married, I don't know if I'm married for the RIGHT reason.

How would you react

Next month i will be married to my husband for 10 years. We have three children together. A few years ago i had to have an ablation done and 7 years ago i had my last c-section. Ever since I've had these done i have been suffering from painful sex and my husband knows it. I even have sex while in pain just to please my husband. Ive been noticing that on his phone these notifications been popping up from instagram, snapchat, facebook of naked women and posts he has liked in the groups he's in like BBW and wet pu$$y. I asked about it and he says he didn't do it or doesn't know why this pop up. I don't know what to believe anymore. I starting to feel like giving up on my marriage.

I've asked this before but it's actually my husband doing these things for another girl. He coaches basketball and a friend of mine helps him. She told me about him and one of the moms. He has been sending some signals, staring at her, has made a suggestive comment, to her about being ready for bed, etc. Yesterday, she was sitting near him by herself and he loudly said "Wow!". She looked at him. He looked at her and said "It's warm in here..." with a big smile. It had such a playful tone to it. He was still looking at her. He then proceeded to take off his sweatshirt! I also noticed that he was trying to make really hard shots during basketball, and one time when he made one, he looked at her. He then decides to park himself EXACTLY in front of her during a dribbling drill! He has his back to her. I was cheering my son on, when basketball dad turns his head and starts talking to me. First he talks about a kid who's missing that day, we go back and forth like that. After this, he starts doing all kinds of acrobatics with the basketball! He's throwing it under his legs, dribbling it on his sides, throwing it behind and around his back, etc. Is it normal for men who want to cheat to act like this? I have a feeling he was trying to show off for her.

We have been married nearly a decade and have kids. When my husband is @ home he plays on social media, watches tv, plays video games, talks on the phone, or edits sound clips from his band. He is in a few bands but if convinced that he is going to hit the big time in country music. I have begged him to take me out on a date (I am disabled and a stay @ home mom who works part time at home while he works over the road out of state as a trucker). He tells me almost every Friday or Saturday night that he has a gig or has to go meet with his manager or producer or something. Some of these gigs are benefits, so they dont pay anything. What do I have to do to get him to pay attention to me? He has basically told me that the kids and I are not a priority and that if I loved him I would understand that music is a top priority and everything else is not.

So I have been with my husband for 20 years, over half of our lives. We have been married for 13 years. I am at a point where I no longer want to be with him. There has been so much hurt and anger in our marriage that I am done. He has trust issues and is doing nothing to try and get past them. I have not cheated. We were young when we got together and I am no longer happy. I guess you could say I took those rose colored glasses off and now can see things for how they really are and the fact they are not changing. But what I am lacking is the courage to tell him. I know all heck is going to break lose when I leave him. Any advice on how to find the courage and strength to make that first step?

My husband is never into sex and when he is it seems rushed and not good. He alway says he has a headache, doesnt feel good, is tired, etc. He also likes to look at models on social media but rarely seems into me much(very little). How should I address this and what should I do about it? Im an attractive woman, in good shape, take good care of myself and often get approached by men at work, when Im out, on social media etc. but I love my husband and wish he was more into me. What should I do?

My friend had a habit of blaming her husband for never being there to back her up during the hard times, even after he paid for her Chemo therapy. Recently, she had an issue with a cop and demanded her husband to take care of it. There was an argument about what to do and she ended up saying she didn't expect his help because he has never really helped her. The husband then claimed he would give her 'all the reason to say this' as he refused to help her and told her to fix the issue alone. This provoked more of a fight but the husband ignored her and said he is tired of this 'blame game' where he is always the villain. She has threatened divorce but the husband has said 'go ahead please'. Does this mean the Husband wants a divorce? Does this mean he is ready to leave her?

i ve been with my husband a little over a year going on 2. he annoys me so much now that i m not even sure i want to be with him anymore. we had an infidelity problem a while back and also a problem with him staying out where now he s ALWAYS home it s so annoying. he s in the military so they ve been having alot of off says for the past month or 2. i should be happy he s home right? well i m not bc all he does is play video games! i m a stay at home mom with a very energetic 6 month old even though i m not working i m still exhausted by the end of the day i feel like i do everything by myself he doesn t like watching her while i nap, take a shower or even cook bc he s playing the ******* game. we never go out on the weekends i m not a big partier but can y we at least go on dates? he s so messy i can literally clean up he comes home and just takes off his clothes and leave them on the floor. he leaves trash from eating everywhere! he has a dog that lives in our apartment (which i think it s ******* disgusting) that he lets PEE everywhere! i don t even like putting my baby girl on the floor to learn to crawl bc i know there s ******* pee residue on the floor. i know this is all over the place and there s a lot more i could go on about but i m not happy anymore. just needed to vent.

It's our first Valentine's Day being married legally and I would like some ideas on what I can do for my husband since he does everything for me