My husband is a middle-aged man but acts like a child (it has become worse lately). We have kids, and a house. My family paid cash for the house and he agreed to pay a mortgage + taxes. He has not paid in a year. I have to make a payment plan for them because he spent the money we had on music equipment (is in a band) and cigarettes (he refuses to admit how many packs he smokes a week). He made $100 playing a gig yesterday and said he was depositing it for our taxes (which are due asap). Instead, he lied and kept the cash in his wallet and spent it on a vapor cigarette which he claimed he "needed and has has 0 risks". I had to apply for food stamps to feed my kids which is against my morals. He said "he has no regrets about that and that NO WOMAN will tell him how to spend HIS money and I am TRYING TO CONTROL HIM AND HIS MONEY AND UNTIL I CAN ADMIT I am controlling and overbearing, he has nothing to say to me and that there was nothing wrong with this overpriced/unnecessary purchase", What is right here? I am disabled and trying to support my kids and pay bills, and he is stealing acting like a child. If it was not for my mom not foreclosing on us (which she has threatened) and her paying cash for our house, we would be under a bridge. He knows this and sees nothing wrong with it. He thinks my family OWES him and allows his mother to make knocks against my family for buying the house. I have been sick in bed for the last few days with a high fever, so I was unable to verify whether he deposited the cash or not. I (like the idiot I am) trusted him.

I've been married for about a month. Before marriage I used to cook for my family nearly 8 years. But now I cannot make a simple omelette . I don't know what happened to me. my husband scolds as I couldn't prepare a simple breakfast. For extra info, I'm a working woman when I'm busy my other family members share the work including cooking. Before marriage I used to live in a different country with my parents and siblings. Now I've moved to a different country with my husband.

I am currently pregnant with our second child. Not sure how far along I am yet... Almost every night, even after a great sex night, I have so crazy erotic sex with him in my dream. I wake up with my hand in my underwear and super horny obviously... it's beginning to be annoying because it's all through the night.. waking up multiple times soaked and hot. I need help....

My husband and I got married 2 years ago and we are both 28. He never helps with any of the work that needs to be done. For example, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, and cooking all has to be done by me. He literally depends on me for everything, and is starting to get on my nerve. How do I get him to actually do some of the work around here?

I see women mostly wanting to date guys who just want to hook up with them and the woman trying to change the guy into wanting a long term relationship with her, instead of dating guys who are looking for a serious relationship from the start.

I cheated on my husband he found out was upset but got over it. He is still with me. Why didn't he divorce me? Dose he not care I cheated on him?

If I shag my ex one last time before I get married? I'm planning on meeting him for one more night after my hen do. I haven't seen him for nearly 10 years but he was the best sex I ever had and he would definitely be up for it again. Is it really cheating if it's just one time and I'm not married yet?

the fact that people aren't answering the question is suspicious

We had an affair over a year and now I realize he never felt the same way as I did. He complained how he's unhappily married and going to get a divorce. I recently got divorced but about 3 months ago he told me she's pregnant but he doesn't want her to have the baby but now I am trying to stop seeing him. I miss him so much. My body yearns for him. It's been 3 months since I seen him and I'm trying not to give in.

I grew up without a family I was bounced from home to home. Years later I married my wife whose a beautiful woman and I'm going to be honest I made a discovery I went looking for my birth parents and I discovered my wife and I have the same father. My wife and I have two children and we are expecting our third. I want to tell her the truth but I worry how it will affect her. I want to tell her after the baby is born but I'm not sure if that's best at the same time I worry telling her while she's pregnant might be the bad decision. I've known we are brother and sister for a couple days still trying to wrap my head around it and I have two options I ignore it and lie, pretend I never found out and live a normal life with her and our children or I destroy my family with the truth. I was always told growing up that "the truth sets you free" is for children and that the truth dams you and I think I finally understand that now but I just need to know is telling the truth the right or wrong thing to do? If I do tell her when should I? I mean if I tell her does that mean I have to move out away from my kids? I just feel like if I do tell her I'll destroy our family and I'm the only one that knows and the stress is driving me insane I keep thinking how this will affect us and how this will impact our kids. If you were in her situation would you want to know or would you want your spouse to not tell you?

I cant take it anymore. My husband is taking pics of the miles in the car checking for tire marks its insane. O did i mention im 39 weeks pregnant and not working (neither is he) so we literally sit around together all day. I never leave without him unless im going to my grandparents which is 8 mins away. Being so far along in the pregnancy i cant sleep which is normal but if i tell him the next morning ive been up cheating according to him. Everytime we have to put gas in the car ive been out driving around cheating. I cant take it i dont know how to fix it. Im not even excited for the birth of our first child because we r so miserable. I love him so much and i would never ever betray our marriage. I dont know what to do anymore

Let's say you make over 200K USD + after tax and you are still single in your 30s because you decided to opt out of the whole dating ,marriage ,having children thing that everyone else in society does And chose to live the single bachelor life style How would you live your day to day life ? What type of things would you do ? Would you still actively date to find someone and pursue marriage with a woman ?

Things were nice in the beginning when we first met but little by little she started to become super ignorant We have been together for seven years but it feels like each year she becomes more expensive. I would understand if it was for the kids but it's always on her self to where it's gotten to the point of just having to pay rent I need to hide the money She has cheated on me several times both flirting and sexually my family doesn't talk to me because they know the truth I love my kids and I most of all enjoy being with them but I can't I know if I leave her it'll hurt my kids more then anyone. Ive tried taking her to psychiatrist to try to help her but she litteraly plays the two face game by ya sure I'll change I've seen my mistakes and then when ten minutes later it's all who cares, I don't care, owell and so I just don't Know what to do anymore I've given up on religion I've given up on assuming probably it's caused by some event that happen in her past but my question is why should I have to pay for her stupidity?

Okay so I'm here thinking I should talk to my best about this but I don't want her to think I don't like him or I'm not happy for her but she's only 18 they been together for a year and a month and I'm just worried that it's too soon and to the fact that the wedding they want is not going to happen they want a big wedding and to the fact they both don't get paid that much they work at a hotel (housekeeping) idk if I should talk to her about it because it seem like I'm the only one that it's too soon and her parents said it's okay and they talking about having a child when they hardly can't afford food and they house and pay the bills I'm just worried am I over reacting or am I right

My best friend is 18 and getting married I don't know if I'm over reacting they only been together a year and a month I'm thinking it's too

Planning a road trip with my wife and kid. Would it be ok if I asked my wife to drive? I hate driving.

Ok when we go to Florida for a week vacation she seems to have a problem with me bc she does not want to sit by me at all when we eat out i mean she makes my mother in law move if she ends up in front or beside me . She wont re add me on Facebook over some silly joke i posted a long time ago ,but then at Christmas she buys me a 40 dollar pillow with my husbands face on it ? I am not sure what to think ???

I'm 29. I'm finishing up my masters degree. I have a year left of my degree. Currently, I'm unemployed my department just closed back in November. My bf and I are talking marriage. He's put a lot of pressure on me to quit my masters degree and just get a full time job. He said he can't financially support me forever and that I need a full time job. Once I finish my masters we will have to relocate out of this area which he's very much against but we will have no choice. I guess his concern is "how long" will I be unemployed for? I understand his concern and now I'm thinking of dropping my program. I am scared that if I don't have a full time job he will leave me. Thoughts?

Me, my wife and the baby daddy all take care of our kid, the baby lives with me and my wife. As for school can all 3 of us be permitted on the school records for pick up, signing papers etc?

Am I right to believe that my son's married basketball coach is interested in "something"? Or am I making too much of it? Quite a bit of staring - during practice, before a game, when I was at a restaurant by the exit. I'd always look away quickly because it made me feel uncomfortable. Always the one to start conversations, even asking questions to which he knows the answers (previously discussed in emails). Once started a conversation by smiling coyly and saying "I'm ready for bed..." The tone was suggestive. I've never seen a man smile so much. Failed to introduce me to his wife when she was two feet away from us. On another day, saw him introducing another mom to her. When he was leaving one day, turned to my son and said "Good game!" Then turned to me and said "See you Tuesday?". It as very definite question - that's te day we practice. His wife was walking behind him, so I got flustered and just managed to nod yes. There were other parents there but he only asked me. Spent an entire practice showing off his basketball skills then checking my reaction - took off his sweatshirt staring at me after telling me that it was "so warm" in there; stopped a drill to start a conversation with me I'm married but my husband was my first relationship. I used to get hit on at work a lot, I don't know if married men all act the same when they're looking for an affair.

I've been seeing the ex of a friend and things have been going good and now I'm unsure of what to do. So they broke up almost a year ago and her and I have still talked to each other ever since. I've had a crush on her ever since I met her and even though I've tried not to go there I can't stop thinking about her. Up until recently we've started hanging out during the week as just the two of us. Nothing's happened but there's a lot of tension and I'm not sure how long it can stay that way. I feel like if I don't make a move I'll regret it, so should I ask my friend how he feels about it? I know he doesn't own her but should I ask him?

I hate my husband so much. He has put me through hell. And he continues to. The reason I'm with him is because he supports me! I'm a student. We have a daughter she is 3. I'm sick of him I don't know how much longer I can last with him. I already cheated on him. He found it and was not happy. Another man helped me forget about my horrible situation that I have to live with him. I also, travel alone a lot to get way from him. But lately I cannot stand him anymore no matter what I do. His so controlling. I hate who he is. He has a lot more power and money than I do. What can I do. I can't divorce him yet. Help!

Why does my older husband (he is 23 years older). Always disrespect me. When he doesn't like something he tells me why don't you leave then? When we are arguing he has the comfort to tell me when to talk and when to be quite. He will state something in an argumente and the immediately say I never said that. When it was said by him a min ago. When I have an issue with him he accepts it but then turns and throws an old issue at me. Why is it okay for him to watch porn but not for me? I hate that he treats me this way. He makes me feel less and very unhappy! Why does he treat me like this? By the way I am 24 and he is 47.

7 months ago I met someone at work whom to this day I would describe as physically perfect, my ideal. Unfortunately his personality did not follow suit and his neglect, arrogant behavior led me to end the interaction and ultimately tell him that I am cutting contact. I see him at work every day but we do not work closely together and remain cordial. I am fine with this. However he will walk by and look directly at me, or smirk, or even stare into my eyes if he's walking my way. In the beginning I guess I understood but now I am thinking, it has been 7 months, what is going on? plus it was HE who said he does not want a relationship and threw his personal history into my face. I quote him as saying "I don't fall for anyone." I really didn't need that kind of thing in my life, but again, what's happening NOW?

due to that the wedding certificate and registration was never submitted to the legal courts, or the judge. Is this true. I also went to the Public courts in lLA, and cant find anything with me being married. Also I read the when you marry at a wedding chapel you have 90 days to submit these papers or else they wont be valid.