My fiance and I are to be married this year and everyone but his dad and step mom like me. He has been staying with his dad until they left to go on a 3 month vacation and now has been living with me. We are in the process of getting our own place within the next 2 weeks. His dad came back tonight and my fiance has been wearing a promise ring to symbolize our union together well his dad MADE him put it on the other hand. How do I handle this. Its his family and im trying not to get in the middle even though this is now about US . His dads problem with me is I was legally separated from my ex husband when my fiance and I got together and his dad didnt like that... so now I dont think they will ever accept me and that is THEIR problem mine is just trying to protect my fiance and keep them off him and maybe try to understand why some people are the way they are.. I mean we are happy is that not important anymore??

I literally tried EVERYTHING to get in this lady's good side but she continues not to like me. I have two kids with my husband and she's always making rude comments when my husband is not around I tell him and he tells me to ignore them but it just gets on my nerves how I try so hard for this lady to like me for the last 4 years and she still dislikes me what should I do ? I really can't avoid her since she takes care of my daughter while I'm working

He is starting to exhibit some of the same behaviors as he did when I caught him the first time. In addition, he will not let me use his phone for ANY reason....even for me to order US food when my phone was dying, and has started sleeping in another room with the excuse that he's tired of me complaining about his snoring. Mid 30s, no kids, and terrified of starting over after all these years together. When I ask him, he says of course not...but his behavior says otherwise. Any of my requests for counseling are shot down and according to him, i need it, not him. Any suggestions?

My Dad is 72 and the woman he is marrying is 34 and already divorced once and widowed once. I feel she is a gold digger. I am embarrassed my Dad has been married to 10 people with 11 marriages (one woman he married marriages 2 and 4). I am going to the wedding as they are having the whole thing and I want to be on good terms with the future step-mother as she will decide who gets my Dad's estate if they are married when he dies (big if). I feel though that she is a gold digger. Her first husband was 59 when he married him and she was 19. He died four years later. Second marriage was normal ages and ended in divorce I am told. She has no kids but my Dad has 12 kids and only really knows four of them including me and my brother. So how do I explain to people my Dad who ask "he is getting married again" or "oh you must be so excited". I am not excited but feel a compulsion to go and be supportive as I fear if not the wife will cut me from the estate. Some of my Dad's other kids I am sure won't get anything as he doesn't know them. Six of his kids were conceived in marriage and seven have mothers he was married to (one was born before the couple married and that is me). My Mom does not have a perfect record either as she has been married five times, four in my life. So how do i explain this to people who ask is my question? Wedding is Saturday afternoon.

When Angelina married Adriano she became: ---------------------------- What is Angelina's mother's surname? What is Adriano's father's surname? What is Pablo's paternal surname?

We have been married for 3 years and about after the honeymoon phase its like she just get more and more detached every day. She barley talks to me, she always is looking to start an argument, she locks herself in our bedroom and makes me sleep on the couch. I have tried to talk to her multiple times, even bringing up counseling and she just shrugs and walks off. We don't have any kids, which brings up another thing! She practically lied to me about her thoughts on having kids. She always talked about how she wanted 4 kids after we got married, then once we were married she all of a sudden doesn't want any kids. I personally want children and I am very angry that she is pulling this behavior. She acts like the victim in every situation and constantly tells her parents, and friends our personal business about our marriage. I have never been so aggravated with someone before as much as I am aggravated with her. What left is there to do? We are both Christians, and divorce is the last resort. I would prefer not to think about it, but I am very stuck right now. Help. We are both 23 btw.

I have a cheating lying husband who Im leaving, after some research online I found most of the stories were much like my own, he cheats we leave he begs for his wife back she goes back to him he keeps cheating. Why is this? For example, my husband and I have been together 4 years he's cheated on me every day of it however I had no idea until I was 9 months pregnant with our first child and we were 2 years into things. I left for a few weeks he begged for me to come back, so I came back I thought things were good until I come home from the store and find him in the back seat of a car with another women right in front of our apt! I left again this time for a few months, he begged me back, after this I would rarely have sex and when I didn't always used a condom, I didn't trust him not to give me an std well he was popping holes in the condoms! So I had another child.I left again for a few month he begged me back, sitting outside my moms house for hours every day even in the rain begging for his family so I tried one more time, I just came back to him 4 months ago and I'm now pregnant again and he's cheating again, I can't do this it's our 3rd child I can't afford to keep having more so now I'm leaving, but what I don't get is why do men beg to be with a woman they cheat on, if you love someone you don't hurt them over and over on purpose so why do these men want to stay? Why do they want to stay with a woman who gives them hell for cheating then they keep cheating?

my Husband never takes initiative to do anything whether it's sex, dates, food at home or just anything he leaves it all up to me and just sits on the sofa and waits for me to initiate things. I have to plan for dates otherwise they dont happen. I have to engage sex or it doesn't happen I have to cook dinner or get him to buy buy something otherwise he doesn't eat. He would sit home all day and wait for me to start cooking or ask him "what's for dinner" otherwise he would sit home all day or come back from work and eat nothing. When we are home I have to say " let's watch a movie or let's do this or that otherwise nothing happens. If I don't plan day outs or fried meets or family gatherings then they never happen we would end up being sat home just watching the news and thats it. I'm so sick of it I have spoken to him many times about it but he doesn't listen. Would be nice to have my husband organise a date or take me out without me planning it all. Feel like his mom i mean even kids get their parents to do stuff this one leaves everything for me to take charge off

My wife wants me to hang out with and be friends with her ex because they have kids together. She wants us all to be together and hang out. Im fine with saying hi to her ex and being nice to him but thats where I draw the line. I dont want to hang out with the guy. She says this isn't normal and I should want to hang out with him however her parents are divorced and her dad and mom hang out with her moms new husband all the time but they fight non stop and it is not fun. she thinks it is normal. what should I do?

I have decided to divorce her bacause I can t deal with it anymore. She wants to argue all the time. I have dealt with it for the last three years but I am unable to deal with it anymore.

Me and my husband have been married almost two months now and have been together five months all together. I knew we got married fast but it felt right. Now that we're married I've noticed he brings up his ex-girlfriends ALOT. I am glad my husband is able to be open and honest with me but sometimes I feel like he's given me too much information. For example, before he got with me he said he use to be a player and has cheated in the past on his exes. There are two exes he talks about ALOT. One who he was in a relationship before me and another one he was with off and on for five years. At first I thought he still had feelings for the other woman he was with before me but he revealed he still has feelings for his ex who he was on and off with for five years. During the conversation he said he reminded me of his ex-girlfriend he was with on and off for five years in a good way. He also said she was the woman who he was suppose to marry but he caught her cheating on him too. He said they haven't been together or in contact for three years. He says he loves me but I am uncertain. I have the feeling that he may not love me as much as his exes. I feel great he was able to bring this up even if it was after we got married but at the same time now I am feeling insecure in the relationship. I really don't know how he feels about me. It got so bad to the point where I almost started to compare myself to his exes. His actions and his words don't align. I always feel like I love him more.