I have a friend who is married. I respect his marriage and family and I'm very supportive of it always. His wife and I are friendly with one another and I'd never do anything to hurt her. I am in love with my friend, though. I keep control of my feelings and I am PRETTY sure he has no clue how I feel. We've always been rather flirty and we have a bond and connection, but we'll never be more than friends. He's never even given me a hug. Whenever we're around each other, he enjoys the attention I give him...I can tell. Well, I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks and we had a date scheduled for this past Sunday (except I had to postpone it because something came up). When I saw my friend Sunday at church, he was very distant...only waved hello to me (his wife wasn't with him at service). We made eye contact a couple of times, but he didn't bother to wave goodbye or anything. He hasn't socialized with me at all on FB like he normally would. It's a big coincidence that he's being distant, right? Just seems weird he became distant after I announced my upcoming date.

Since it is his body so his choice. She has to respect what he does with his body just like he has to respect her choice to kill his baby.

I've dated I'm happy that atleast but over past 10 years I lose everyone like to the most bs reasons for example my marriage ended year ago, cuz of sex issued and we had to divorce , it's a long story. How are some people so lucky

Say you're married and you have a friend who says they love you like a sibling and you love them like a sibling. How would you feel if they gave you random presents? Say this friend is friendly with your spouse and your spouse thinks of them as family, too. I have a married friend and every time I see something that reminds me of him, I want to get it for him, but the last time I considered it, my best friend was with me and said if I keep buying him random things, he's going to think I have the hots for him. To be fair, his birthday is coming up so I was going to hold onto it until his birthday, but what my best friend said made me paranoid.

My wife just started crying for no reason I asked her what's wrong she said nothing. How can I comfort her ? What's wrong with her ?

Ive been married with my husband for 6 years. We have a 5 year old and i am 7 months pregnant. He come home one day saying he didnt love me anymore and left. Recently he said he also fell in love with someone while still married to me and living together. Him and his new gf comunicate to get me mad. He left me and cheated on me and i dont want my kids around him because he also acts different around them.. Im thinking about taking him to court.. I want full custody tho

I left my job when I was 8 months pregnant in November. We had our daughter the first week of January. I've been getting so much pressure from my husband already to find a new job ASAP. Our daughter isn't even a month old. He makes good money but he doesn't want to "financially" support me is what he's told me. I'm so stressed out and I'm not sure what to do. I assume he thinks I sit on my a*s all day watching tv or something. Any advice? I feel so pressured with a new born and now having to job search. I should add we aren't BROKE or financially struggling!

Ok, First, please no snide insults, I am honestly trying to get some incite here. I am married and I saw prior and currently, that my husband seems to either require or need if you will, a lot of recognition, especially from other females. I assume it may be an age thing since when he was younger, he was quite the "get around guy." However, I have found that if it is discovered (and it has now twice) that a co worker has/had a crush on him, he does nothing to discourage it. In fact, I find that he possibly gets an ego boost. Most recently, I discovered that he phoned a former co worker of his (that he was made aware by others has a crush on him) to boast about his recent promotion. They work in retail and he no longer works with this person so I find it odd that he would call her to tell her about this....he has not worked with her/that location in a year. What I am more concerned with is the fact that she informed another former co worker of his that I am personal friends with, now I don't know if it was told out of spite but I digress. I guess what I am asking of men is, do you feel this is an ego thing? In my heart of hearts I do not in any fashion think he has or would cheat, but I just find his lack of discouragement a bit odd, in addition to any of my male friends have "other motives" but his female friends mean nothing but the best... Thanks!

My husband always complained I never do grocery shopping. He always does it every Sunday and honestly I hate going grocery shopping because I would end up buying unecessary stuff and spend a lot so. I would just make a list of what is needed and he would buy it. So one day I decided to step up and went shopping and bought all the stuff for the house etc. Was hoping he would be happy but when he came home he was just pissed about it and wouldn't talk to me all evening. What did I do wrong ? I bought everything needed and stayed within the budget

We have been friends for one year. He tried to hit on me the first few times but he stopped it when he realized I'm married and that I'm not the type to cheat on my husband. We grew to become very close friends, I know that he cares for me a lot, like no one else does. My husband (who is abusive) has left the house for one year now. My friend calls me every night and we talk about everything and nothing; but I don't understand why he calls this regularly!! It's almost like he "checks-in" every night, I feel that even best friends dont talk so often!! He asks about my day and tells me about his, opens his heart to me if he is upset about sthg. Sometimes if he is angry, he shuts down on all our mutual friends but not me. He doesn't call any other girl, i know it because he is with me on the phone every single night, even though girls are begging for his attention as he is almost every girl's dream. Please am I over concerned?? Or are some men just really good friends???

So we have been married for less than a year and when we were dating I would always get full Brazilian waxes every 4-5 weeks. Now that we are married, and have bills and other expenses I figured I would just save that $150 every 4/5 weeks and just shave instead. Now he doesn't want to have s*x because he doesn't like the stubble that happens after I shave, I guess my hair just grows extremely fast. Shaving down there everyday is very irritating and I just don't understand why he is making such a big deal about it. Its not like I have a amazon down there. Should I go back to the expensive waxing to please him or try and talk to him about my feelings?

Don't get me wrong we are not rich. So money gets tight. However, it's been 2 weeks since we have been staying in his mom's attic (it's beautiful) so we have no bills while we wait for our new place to be finished in a month. We are both in school and we both work. His last check he bought himself clothes. My last check I went and got a anniversary gift for him for 200.00. For me it's the thought that counts. He draws, so even him drawing me a beautiful rose and painting it would have been enough. A backrub is free, a foot massage is free. Breakfast in bed is free, cleaning up for the day is free. A card with a poem cost 4 quarters. Instead I get nothing. I paid for dinner, I paid for balloons and cake and icecream. I'm resentful and feel failed, especially because our last anniversary he went overboard with drinking. He only drinks on holidays and is not normally a drinker. However, he landed himself in the hospital due to high level of alcohol in his system. I stayed up all night because he was attacking doctors and my voice was the only thing that kept in calm while he was completely out of it. I thought this year he would make it up. Instead it;s the same crap that I am kind of tired of. Should I scream at him or just give the silent treatment. If you'd like to add a third option I'm down to consider it.

First we both work same hours a day but he makes twice more than me. He pays rent I pay all the bills. We don't have a shared account When it comes to food I'm the better cook. He used to cook for himself when we were dating and I cooked for him sometimes but since we got married he doesn't enter the kitchen but for a brew. It's all on me. I try my best and cook 3-4 times a week after work and the rest of the days we get takeaways. I pay for it sometimes but most times he does pay for it. Now he gets mad at me saying all his money goes on takeaways. I suggested buying frozen meals which are cheaper so we can eat that when we both come in from work but he doesn't like it. He says he doesn't cook because he's tired after work and I'm better at it. But point is I'm tired too after work. . He never works weekends but I often do but still I'll come home from work and he would be sat on the sofa all day waiting for me to come home and cook. When I don't and say we should get a takeaway he starts sulking like he's entitled to home made meals everyday. Basically he never cook, refuses to eat frozen meals and now he doesn't want takeaways. Don't know what do do at this point I can't be cooking every day I work as hard as him and pay bills and assist with everything else in the house. Is it fair that the kitchen should be my responsibility just because I'm the woman or because I'm better at it ? We've fought about it so often I'm exhausted.

My husband is so boring. Not to mention his 20 years older than me. I'm starting to feel nothing when it comes to him. I obviously care about him but nothing emotionally... makes sense? I have started to feel this amazing feeling when younger guys flirt with me. In fact, it makes me feel happy because half of the time I'm so depressed with my husband. Should I tell him how I feel? Or should I keep this inappropriate stuff to my self and work on our marriage I'm a 27 year old female.

Hi all My wife doesn't let me buy PS4. She keeps saying that's wasting for time that I should use to work on my career, I know that she is right but I told her that I get bored sometimes and I really like to play video games. what I should do ?

I thought he withdrew the money to put it into another bank, but it's been in our house for almost 2 weeks. Everytime I ask him about it, he starts getting irritated and even angry with me and refuses to tell me why. All he tells me is "nothing is wrong, everything is fine". We have two kids living in the house and it isn't the best neighborhood. We aren't wealthy by any means and if something were to happen to that money, we would be devastated financially. How should I approach this with him? I'm thinking he is having some trouble with the IRS, but I don't know. I have not seen any letters. I'm completely left in the dark and it worries me having so much money in the house even if it is in a safe.

We are struggling with money. My husband is trying so hard to pay off a hospital bill of mine. He blames it on me and i understand that it is. I am trying my best to help. Im working and finding a new job to help aswell. But my husband is mad and grmpy and i just want to sooth him, calm him down. I have written love letters , messages, meals, baths. So my question is men, what would you wished your significant other did for you on a time of stress?

I have a doc appt for my pregnancy in a week . I have known since Jan 11th . I am a little nervous and am not sure how not to be because the last pregnancy didnt go well but I've had no trouble this time