We were out one night on holidays with a group of people and she took a boy home, I came back with the group we went into the room and nothing was going on and chatted there and everything seemed fine. My friend then asked could she borrow my phone for a sec and I assumed she was ringing someone and she had went through the pictures on my phone. We then left to give them privacy and went down stairs to the lobby, another person from a different group text me saying I had taken videos of her in bed. Which I did not even have my phone out until she asked. She then cried told everyone I had taken videos and a boy she was friends with gave me a lot of abused and called me a lot of horrible things. I am so angry with her for lying about that, going through my photos without my permission and god knows what else she went through. People realised she had made it up and were quite annoyed with her. There was other people in the room so I don't know why she thought I had taken a video and also her back was to us. And I don't understand why she couldn't have just asked me and I would've shown her my camera roll if she was that paranoid I can't bring myself to forgive her, I was made a fool off Infront of my group and made look like a horrible person, and I cannot forgive the boy who gave me such awful abuse which he had no right to even get involved in. Am I right for being so upset and feeling betrayed about this?

When someone says haha do they mean yes or no? it's so confusing!

I asked my so called "friend" what's the matter after she wrote a post on Facebook and she deleted it after I asked. I'll be the bigger person and still care about her even without a friendship present, but why would you just delete it the minute I ask? You don't want Facebook knowing every detail of your life but you do these kinds of things.. I don't understand why she's like this. She ignores me almost all the time. She read my message like always and hasn't responded. She never gets back to me. If she doesn't want to tell me what's wrong, that's ok. But why not just say that? It makes me not want to care. We are adults so this is petty that I'm always ignored. I don't do anything wrong.

We broke up and when I tried going back to him he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't ever allow himself to have feelings for me again. But he keeps looking at me when I go to church where he'a deacon and whatever he does he glances over and when I've caught him a couple times he's smiled and also said he when he walked past. Provided he was so offended and hurt it's weird that he acts like this. Its been 4 months. Could he be just looking out of simple curiosity and the fact I go to church thinking i'm going to see him? and not cause he's interested?

I got a new job last month and I really want to make some friends, but I am so bad a getting to know people. I never know how to start a good conversation. I always feel dumb and like people think i am awkward/weird/annoying when i do

So that's what I believe I have because I can never work up enough nerve to talk... however this one person in my class he .. even though I do not talk much still sits next to me... why do that if I don't speak and it's obvious I'm shy... and there are plenty of other sets next to people who engage in the class and those next to them..

My friend told me I wouldn't like the outcome if I went to my crush work he's dating someone else, however she told me to go to his work if I don't think he's dating someone do it the longer I wait the more heart broken I will be. Then she told me there's something on his Facebook account tipped her off he's gay I told her the truth what happen between me and him she told me I made stuff up inside my head it cannot be true he's gay I made excuses to protect him which is normal when I don't want to accept the truth. She knew I cried and hurt my feelings when she told me I made stuff up she didn't care. Then she told me maybe he isn't gay and told me I made stuff up inside my head for a different reason. About a year later she told me it's hard to listen to something you don't want to hear and told me sometimes she feels my crush is playing games with me. However she told me there's a right guy out there for me she told me it might be my crush but it might not be.

I've been friends with this guy John for a couple years. We're pretty close, I consider him one of my best friends. He admitted in the past that he has had a crush on me on and off for a while and I told him I was flattered, but didn't see him that way. He really liked this one girl for a bit so I figured he was over me. The girl ended up getting a boyfriend and moving, so John hasn't really talked about her in a while. He's always been very flirty with me, but he's more flirty as of recently. Let me mention I've talked to him about other guys, just venting. We hung out in a group this past weekend and he was super clingy and flirty and I just figured he was being typical John. I didn't react to a lot of his flirtations and even came off as annoyed, but he doesn't pick up on non-verbal cues very well. I have a date Sunday and I posted about it. John and I were chatting and he started giving me shorts answers. I asked if he was okay and he said no, but he refused to talk about it. I asked whose *** I was kicking for making him sad and he asked why did it matter who it was and that there was no fixing it. He admitted he liked a girl and didn't really realize until today, that she didn't feel the same. Deep down, I knew it was me. I talked to a mutual friend about it and she said John had actually been talking to her today and didn't say who it was, but he repeated to her what I said about the ***-kicking thing and that's when we realized he had been talking about me. How do I approach the subject with him without ratting my friend out for telling me? He was CRYING over me and before I knew for sure it was me, I told him that nobody is worth crying over and I really mean that and he read it, but didn't respond. I feel so bad. I never gave him any reason to think I felt the same way, but I still didn't mean to hurt him. We're both 27. He is on the Autism spectrum, but is high functioning and I realize he needs to verbally be told I don't see him that way, but I already told him that in the past. I didn't think I was expected to REMIND him constantly "hey, I don't see you that way".

I've been pretty lonely ever since maybe 7th grade and its because It's always been quantity over quality. I've tried developing close friendships with other but I've never gotten the same effort I received. I've always been treated like a second choice to everyone too. When freshman year began I was pretty okay and had high hopes that I would find a friend that'll have everything I've been wanting in friend and I did for a while..but I'm the most irrelevant person in the friend group. They don't actually care about me and already made plans and started excluding me from things which hurts a lot. I've tried talking to some other people but nothings working. I just really need someone that'll understand me, always be there for me, not treat me like I'm a second choice and won't abandon me like everyone else has done in the past but I don't know what to do anymore and my depression is coming back along with suicidal thoughts and anxiety.

I'm in 11th grade in high school and 6 months ago I lost all of my friends. They hate me now and they think I'm weird. I don't have any friends anymore and for the past 6 months at school i have been sitting in the library using my phone and I'm alone. Today all 7 of my old friends (we were all friends) came in the library and they saw me alone and I they were laughing and talking about me, they asked me why I'm alone and I started crying and left. What should I Do? I'm so embarrassed now.

I gt a bf around 29.12.17 It's now 26.1.18 and he keeps on making fun of my friend who is in a relationship with another person. My friends find him really annoying and sometimes I find him annoying aswell. I also gt into an argument with one of his friends and his friend keeps on spreading rumours about us. I find this really annoying as I don't want people to know. He is also still friends with him and I don't know what to do please help me😫

Honestly my online friend is kinda cute, I want to go down on her, slip my d*ck In her p*ssy,I really want to make her feel good

I'm going to try to make this short: I've known this guy for 15 years, as he was my brother's friend. He was the first guy I ever had a major obsession with (I was 11, what can I say?). We didn't become friends ourselves until October 2016. My feelings resurfaced last January and I told him, but he said he only saw me as a friend. He was heartbroken over his past FWB because he had fallen for her, but she said she didn't feel the same and that she was just using him for sex and she was sleeping with other guys. Her confessions gave him major paranoia and trust issues. I stupidly decided to be FWB with him without knowing his trust issues and paranoia. Fast forward to October, we only had sex 4 times since last February. The last time happened just before Halloween and the condom broke (he got me plan B). He started convincing himself that he got a disease (from me, mind you) and forced me to get tested with him. The fact that we both were clean, wasn't enough. He started harassing me, claiming I needed to tell him the truth about whether I was with other guys while screwing him, or not. I swore up and down that he was the only guy I've been with since June 2016 and he wouldn't listen. He was so convinced I slept around and gave him a disease. -_- Eventually, I told him he was disrespecting me and my character and to leave me alone and I blocked him. A month later, I re-downloaded Snapchat and he saw my story and wrote me and tried apologizing and asking me to forgive him. He then had the nerve to say I hurt HIS feelings. I told him he hurt mine more and that I forgive him, but I want nothing to do with him and I blocked him. He tracked me down on MeetMe earlier this month asking if I was going to ignore him forever and he told me he "misses" me. Less than a week later, he sent me another message saying he got a job and hoped my birthday was good. I told him thanks and congrats on the job. He said "I just want to say sorry :) " Does he really think "sorry" is going to convince me to let him come back in my life? And I know he misses sex and not me. Why would he keep trying to come back for sex if he was SO convinced I had been sleeping with others and that I have an STD? Ridiculous. I'm 27, he's almost 29. Why won't he freaking leave me alone? I am going to block him again soon, but I don't understand why he's being so creepy and obnoxious and psycho. Sorry guys, I needed to include as many details as possible and it's hard to do that without making it sort of long. It's a shock to me because I was the one obsessed with him back in middle school and he only knew me as my brother's little sister and now he's obsessed with me and it's weird. I would've thought I would enjoy him being obsessive and stalking me, but I don't! I'm just trying to understand why he doesn't understand why I don't want anything to do with him.

My birthday is at the end of February, and I wanna do something fun for it. I love parties. Having said that, almost all of my close friends have moved away. I'm in my last year of college, and many of them are moved out of state now. Four of my closest friends all live far away, as do their partners who would add to the number of people. The only good friends I have near me are my roommate and boyfriend. I love them, but it's not really enough to have a party. What should I do? Do you guys have any ideas on other people I could invite? Or if not, what are some things I could do with just them to make it feel more like a lively party? Thanks for any help!

So me and my friends have all turned 16 so we've started to drive. I don't drive a whole lot mainly because I don't have to. I don't go out much and if I do it's with one of my parents. When I go to school I don't really have to drive because my mom is already down there. She's one of my teachers. My friends though constantly ask me if I drive or why I don't drive. They've said that I must be a bad driver for not driving that much. I just don't see why it matters or how it affects them. They're almost mad that I don't drive a lot which I don't understand. I get very annoyed at them but don't really know if it's justified. Do I have the right to be annoyed at the question when I really don't drive?

I met a new friend and we've hung out twice. The last time we hung out was almost 3 weeks go. Before then he would send me a message at least each week . But for some reason he's one quiet and that was since I last saw him when I slept the night at he's house. I'm kind of unsure why he would stop talking too me , he claims he's been extremely busy at work but I'm not sure. If I text him he will answer but he just stopped initiating. What can I say to him without seeming to clingy?

I've been going to this store and I've been talking to this cashier. My mother and I talk to him while we are in line paying for our order. Sometimes he'll ask me what's new etc so I told him I was going to massage therapy school. And then he said I could practice on him. So I gave him my number and he said he would call. So he called me asking me to give him a massage and I told him I wasn't doing massage anymore and that I was in Dental school now. He asked me if I still remembered some things I've learned. So he asked me to hang out but I don't know what the man wants. I told him I'd think about it and call him back so I called him back and told him we could hangout next week. He said he'd call me back in the next few days to let me know since he's currently doing physical therapy. I just don't know what this man wants.

Anytime we hang out she is constantly on her phone, I swear there isn't a single minute she isn't on her phone unless she's doing makeup. It gets really annoying because whenever I try to talk to her she kind of ignores me and I find myself constantly repeating what I said upwards of up to three times. Whenever we watch movies I get annoyed because all she does is constantly snapchat a bunch of different guys. I have told her many many times and whenever we hang out that she's always on her phone and it annoys me. I don't see the point of us hanging out if she's just going to sit there while I watch her snap chatting all these people? Why hang out with someone if you're going to pay no attention to them and talk to other people. I think it's really rude because I sometimes take days off work to hang out with her but she just sits on her phone 24/7!? Whenever we hang out it's really awkward now because she always on her phone and I have nothing to do or anyone to talk to so I'll just scroll through instagram, and this is all she wants to do when we hang out. While she's on her phone she expects me to hook my phone up to the speaker so she can choose the music while she goes on her snapchat. Everytime I tell her how annoying it is for her to be on her phone she kind of shrugs me off. How do I convince her to get off her phone even though I've told her multiple times?

I live in a four bedroom suite with three other roommates. It seems to me that since we moved in all three of them got a long quite well. However, for myself I feel like the outsider in the group. Before I talk about my roommates, I have done my fair share of events that have caused annoyance for them that I was unaware of until they brought it up. The only two being, I was in the bathroom to long and I can be loud when on the phone with my family. I may have other traits that bother them, but if so I would like them to tell me. The main issue here is that I feel excluded with them. I try very hard to have a conversation with them such as, "how was your day?" They respond with "good" and the conversation dies after that. I am the only one starting the conversation and asking questions. Maybe it's the way how I'm doing it, but I feel that when it comes to my friends or people I just met I can start up a conversation easily and the other person seems to continue it. Even when I eat lunch everyday in our living room my roommate goes into her room to eat lunch. There is enough space for both of us, and I don't think I'm a loud eater, but then again I could be. But, when ever they hang out they eat together and make jokes. They are totally different people together than they are with me. I would like to have a close friendship with them but I don't think they want it. It may seem fuzzy, but should I tell them how I feel?

So I just found out that one of my close friends backstabbed me. She bought me a Stanford hoodie and told me straight in my face that I was going to get in, but told other people that I didn't stand a chance to get in. She made a nickname for me, so when she wants to talk about me, she'll use this name instead of my real name. She also lies about every single thing, even the smallest matter. What should I do?

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months and she is the sweetest thing ever. She is 23 and loves kids and is really down to earth and classy. The thing is, she is pretty innocent and a "good girl." The thing is, whenever we are intimate or just acting flirty, sometimes I will call her my "bad girl" or my "dirty girl," and that will absolutely drive her wild. She gets the biggest smile on her face and she kisses me more passionately. Why would she do this when I call her that? Also, she doesn't ever cuss, but loves to cuss in bed. Why?

She was completely volatiling her privacy. Can I get her fired?!. And she was aloud to have her phone during lunch.

My best friend is having a birthday dinner. She picked this quite expensive restaurant because she likes the food. She invited 8 other friends who all agreed to "try" out the expensive restaurant. However, I don't make much money to try out the expensive restaurant. I have been convincing my best friend to pick another spot (less expensive) or all-you-can-eat places. One of the girls my best friend invited messaged me saying "stop thinking about yourself. It's not your birthday" Was I being selfish? I don't want to spend money that's all.. Thank you

So this had only started recently, or so Ive only noticed it recently. Usually when people just cut themselves off from my life im not phased, but some of these people are some of the most reliable and SEMI-close people I know. (As lets say, one of my best friends girlfriends or etc). I dont particulary act "fake" or try to always get up in their business as I know I have no place to know everything. I also dont start drama, and will usually just back off and let the drama go through its' course.When anyone that has that friend-like relationship with me needs help or needs to vent im always there to give them advice or etc.Infact, If I find out something negative is happening or is coming to them i usually tell them straight up so that they know. Its the right thing to do, like if their loved one is doing blah blah or if theyre depending on someone toxic etc. 1 example of this random disliking is one of my own closest friends' girlfriend. We dont dive into drama, and most of what we talk about is jokes and banter. I give them space to do whatever, as really I have my own time to do better things. I could see how she could possibly dislike me, but there is barely anything negative in this relationship. I was there for her venting or for their relationship when they asked for help ( i didnt just barge in. Thats annoying) then she unfriends me from social media. When things have really always been the way they are. I havent done anything wrong that I cant fix, I dont think.

Something to follow up 'I only have one dimple!' (Don't ask) I'm not clever enough. Lol k thanks

I'm ******* serious, I'm gonna find someone to kill me. I just can't take this life anymore. I feel like a total fuck8ng failure in everything. I'm 22 and I haven't been to college since I was 20. Now I'm living at my home, but I just REALLY want to ******* leave!!! I'm too restless and anxious!! I just want to go away for college. I tried getting a job all that time since I was home and I ALWAYS ******* wind up with nothing or getting ******* fired!! I'm ******* sick of this ******* ****!! I'm a ******* loser ******** and I just want to ******* die already!!! Can someone PLEASE just ******* stab me already!!! ****!!! :'(

We're acquaintances/friends from school. Recently he just randomly asked me "do you drink?". After I said "no...well, only cocktails", he said he quit drinking.

Dont wanna go into detail but just heard about an old friend i havent talked to in over a year died in a car crash recently I asked for his number to be like whats up and all but i never got it and now this happened. I dont want to be emotional but how do i get over something like this? I don't want to forget I'm saying I want to know how to cope with this sort of thing. I didn't have very many friends and I was to see him again in the future.

I'm a 14 year old girl in 9th grade, He's a junior and I worked on a project with him and he used to always smile at me and help me with my schoolwork, I haven't talked to him since but in class he started always staring at me, whether Im getting a tissue, going to the teacher for help, or just sitting down doing my work, and when i had to sit next to him, he never talked to me but he kept looking at me back and forth whenever he thought I wasn't looking and whenever he isn't talking to his friends to the point it makes me really uncomfortable and he even does it to the point where he even moves his entire body just to look at me since we sit across from each other.... It's not apart of my imagination either since my friend told me she saw him looking at me. I tried giving him a dirty look to make him stop but he keeps doing it :(

My problem started when I invited some of my high school friends for a sleep over at my house. These girls bonded with my mom who is a doctor mostly because they could ask her questions about their body and mostly about their reproductive system. Mom gave them correct information and corrected MANY errors in their thinking about their bodies. This info really opened their eyes and hopefully made for less teenage pregnancies. These girls told their friends about the sleep over and several other girls ask if I would have another sleep over and invite them. I did this and had the same result. They all wanted to talk to my mom about their bodies. I did this 4 times. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I feel a little bit unusual about sharing my mom with these girls. Mom is always available to answer their questions as she has seen the tragic consequences of bad information on teen girls lives. Should I be proud that my mom is available to give these girls the facts of life. Why is it they feel so free to talk to my mom with their questions and will not talk to their parents.