The father of my kids/fiance and I broke up in April 2017 but got back together 6 months later (now still together again) he told me before we got back together that he can't get over me because we were forced to communicate(because of the kids) he said he feels like it would of been easier to get over if we didn't have to talk or see each other. Ouch. This makes me think that everything he ever said is false and lies like I'm his soulmate true love best friend would never be able to get over me etc. Its like wow if we didn't have kids together then you would be able to get over me and just like that. My feelings are hurt and I now feel like I'm not as special as he always claimed I am. That he would be able to just get over me like I was barely anything to him. Now everything he's ever said and his "feelings" are all lies. Advice here?

Why I'm talking about men who are like Ryan Gosling, Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsowrth, etc, except not celebrities obviously, just regular guys who are really attractive and laid back and nice and perfect boyfriend material

My cheating wife hurt me so bad and now I want to do something bad to her.

This is for a story I'm writing and it's purely hypothetical. I already know how my character is going to react, I just want to see what other people think. So say you're eight months pregnant. It's been a rough pregnancy and you haven't felt like yourself. Your husband says he needs to go out of town on business, you don't question it because he does legitly have out of town business meetings. A few days after he leaves, you get a picture message from an unknown sender. It's your husband getting "handsy" with another woman. The stress is overwhelming and tou go into labor. You try calling him once you reach the hospital and there's no answer. Sixteen hours later, you're baby is born. He walks into the room, looking exhausted and defeated. Do you confront him about the pictures? If so, and he admits to cheating, what do you do?

I came home early from work and she was on his lap in the recliner and their pants were off. I yelled and they stopped but I don't know what to do now. What should I do?

My bf and I broke up for a few months but now back together. He told me that during the breakup his ex was messaging him on fb and he told her that I was the only girl he ever loved, almost like he was rubbing it in her face. Why would he feel the need to say this to her? Is he trying to make her jealous? He told me that he was thinking in his mind when he did it that I would be proud and happy because he used to tell me all the time that he never loved her or anyone when I would tell him I don't believe him. This doesn't seem right. What do you guys think?

She looks to be in complete charge and control me in role play to be her slave..Again this is role play..She bends over takes me like man would take a woman..I bought her new computer, used car almost is new ,I buy her clothes..Is it legal to buy my undocumented latina currently America these gifts..I also love her strapon...Anything wrong her training me to be her servant..She is latina ..

My daughter wants to go to this school in the town over and she has the option to live on campus (it's a job core school) , I have primary custody of my daughter (16) and my son (12) and my ex husband has partial custody and pays child support, if my daughter were to live on campus 5 days a week and comes home on weekends does my ex have the ability to cut the child support in half and just pay the half?

Yesterday I was watching the show 16 and pregnant nothing else was on tv but there was this episode about a girl who was fighting with her boyfriend about marriage they kept arguing over about being married just for sex or something I try not to pay attention but the guy got so angry both the parents were fighting the guy walked out the door the girl ran in her bedroom they both left their baby alone out in the living room crying. That made me sad. I hope me and my husband never do that if we do I'll pick up my kid and take her in the room with me not leave her alone to have fits like they did with theirs. Sounds like half these teens on these shows aren't ready to be parents I'm glad I'm not a teen father. I hate drama I wouldn't put up with that. I'm surprised none of those moms have commented suicide yet the way they all act. I'm 27 my husband is 23. It made me really sad to see that I hate these shows but I watch them if there's nothing good on. Also my husband likes them. It's it ok to cry in front of him ?

So I am married with 4 children. The oldest is my step daughter. I found out that not long before we got together, that she had sex with her daughters uncle (step child's fathers brother)... I am devistated that someone I care about so much would go so low morally that she couldnt help having sex with her daughters uncle... and she says she doesn't regret it because it was what was right for her at the time... I call bullshit. I've been depressed about this and want to know if this terrible fact of our lives is worthy of how bad it's tearing me apart inside. I'm lost and just don't know what to do.. sometimes it's all o think about and I take m anger out on everyone around me including my wife...

Ok so one of my best friends from elementary school lets just say totally when in a different direction I was going I'm 23 & shes 24 I've had my medical job for two years now have my own savings , car & no kids but she hasn't had a job since we graduated high school in 2012 & that was McDonald's the only thing she's been doing for the past 5 years is live with her boyfriend who she didn't even want to marry but she accepted the engagement and still went along with it made him make they're account a joint account so she could use his money (even tho he's only a truck driver) so basically all she's done is live off a guy & sat at home all day just playing on social media anyways they recently had a baby but since the baby came he started making her do everything & controlling then one day she gets sick of it & leaves her "fiancé " to be with her old ex from high school who use to cheat on her & disrespect her and her baby daddy and her ex use to be friends and now she lives with the guy am I wrong for not respecting her as a woman anymore ? It's like she hopped from one guys house to another It's like she can't survive without a man what should I do In this situation I'd hate to cut her off but I'm so disappointed in her high school like decisions & mindset help 😩

She gets very angry when other women (especially younger women) stare at me while we're out in public places. She'll get angry at me for something that isn't my fault. She doesn't like for me to go golfing with male friends or even to the grocery store alone. She is also jealous of women from my work. I feel sometimes that I can't be myself. I'm 33 and she's 26. We have been married the last 3 years.

My baby has red hair, and I have black hair and he has brown. if he cheated i cant beleave it. the baby looks nothing like me and my husband says im crazy for thinking he cheated on me. i don't care im going to try and get a dna test to find out because im close t a divorce.

This couple has been together for 27 years and the lady always cooks healthy food for her husband and it seems like he never gets to eat sweets or food that taste good except on Saturdays. all she cooks is fruits and vegetables and maybe one or two carbs per day. (a spoon full of rice). If i ever get married will my wife be like this??? I weigh about 450 pounds and I love fatty foods.

Early in our marriage there were times I would finish inside my wife, but there was a time she was off the pill and I would pull out and finish on her leg, breasts, stomach, etc. Since then, she received an IUD and we always finish inside without worry, which is a huge blessing? So tell me about you and your SO, how do you finish?

Childfree means dead set on never being a parent, having a career, living debt free, traveling, and so on. I have never been told that my vasectomy is a "dealbreaker". I never experienced any trouble dating. I am married as of four years ago. My wife has no issue with it. I have met many childfree women that complain that every man, over 25 already has children or wants them. The dating pool for childfree men is pretty good, but sucks for women. I suppose that is because few men are childfree? I have mentioned being childfree on Y!A and actually received private messages from women on Y!A asking were they can meet childfree men. I do not know even one woman who divorced because her husband was sterilized, or did not want children. I know three men who divorced women because she could not, or would not have children. I have one friend who lost his girlfriend over it. He was on the Dr Phil show because she wrote Dr Phil about it. So what is the big deal dudes? You like paying child support? A vasectomy costs less than one monthly child support installment. I bet all the nice answers come from people who are 20-30, educated, or are students. People who never completed high school will be rude. Yes education appears to be a huge factor. "Rude" refers to making statements like "You are selfish", "You will burn in Hell". Just go to any childfree forum and see the rude stuff that gets posted by users with names like "Jasons Mom", or "Christian Soldier". My wife and I often get told "You can adopt". Well, if I wanted to do that, would I have not done in 20 years ago when I was 32 or so.

I had a dream about my friend's wife telling me my friend has a big dick. Why did I dream this? Not a hoe, but thank you! I'm a female.

I have a great boyfriend however lately we have not spent much time together. He has a great job but works a lot of hours. He does spend his free time with me when he is not working however if he is working we never see each other because I am a mother of 2 kids full time and cant just run off to see him because I have my kids. Anytime we spend together is him coming to see me. Should I dump him nd find a man who as more time to spend with me and my kids?

So she's 61 and I'm 58 (I'm a man.) We haven't had sex for 2 years now. It started hurting her after menopause. I'm still randy but I don't want to make her feel bad. We've been married for 31 years now. We can talk about everything but this. She doesn't even want to talk about it. I'll never cheat on her, but I have to do something. We still cuddle and kiss (which just makes me excited) but that's it. Thoughts? I don't even care if trolls answer this. I'm desperate.

But he's married. He was taking questions from the audience and said, "You know, every now & again you meet someone that you want to take home?" Then he took a woman by the hand and started out. He stopped and was obviously kidding. I assume there was a note of truth behind the humor (I couldn't tell how attractive the woman was), although it'd be pretty stupid since he was in a public setting. I'd be livid if I were his wife. Would you leave a spouse over this?

So just this morning literally my world has crashed. Found out husband been cheating since last year of February. And continued to do it after we found out I was pregnant. He is 24 and I'm 23, we got married young (blah blah blah). I never really wanted kids but it's something he always wanted and now we are here. I'm doing a divorce, OBVIOUSLY, but I don't know what to do as far as the baby. I want to baby to feel loved by both parents. And the husband wants to still go to every ultrasound and be there...I just don't know how this co parent thing works. Really confused at the moment honestly.

My husband and daughter are too touchy feely with each other and I'm not ok with it. He is her stepfather and did not raise her so it's not like you can say he still see her as his baby. She was 19 when we met and now she's 25...too damn old. Yesterday I walked in on them cuddling on her bed. My husband was laying his head on her stomach. I asked them, "What are you doing?" and they acted like it was no big deal. I wanted to yell. I feel disrespected. My husband should be cuddling with me, not my daughter. Do you think I'm wrong for feeling this way? Yes it did. Why bother replying if you're going to accuse me lying or say something stupid? I don't want to share my husband. Dumbass. Finally, a real answer. Thank you. I really don't believe they are doing anything more. I can't kick my daughter out. I don't want to risk my relationship with my grandson. I have not directly told them that I'm not ok with it, but I asked my husband, "Who are you married to?". And he just laughs. I guess I need to yell. Maybe then they will get it. Why don't you kick your adult daughter out, if she doesn't know how to act? Because my grandson. That's her saving grace. Thanks for validating my feelings. I will have a talk with my husband tonight.

When I first started talking to my wife I was in Jamaica and she was abroad I got suspicious about her actions that s when I found out that there was a guy who lived at her house who she was involved with prior she said its because of her brothers friendship why he s there they only had sex once years ago what do u 😔

All my husband I do is fight...period. I asked him if he would go to a counselor..no, he said, they have problems at home, how do you think they will help us. When we start any discussions, doesn't matter what it is...I cannot say one thing, I let him talk...I listen...and listen....I politely ask him if he is done, he says Yes, the first thing out of my mouth, no yelling, he cuts me off...always saying listen to me, stop talking, listen to me...he does this to a lot of people...I don't want to start a discussion about anything, the weather...what is going on today, it turns into an argument. ..started in the last 3 years of our marriage, we have been married 33 years tomorrow....is this a control thing with him, as I mentioned it is not only with me he does this...help...

I know it sounds weird but it is a thing! Look it up. I am not knocking it just seeking feedback.

He tell mother about how much money we making and get mad when she ask him for money. Today his mom was on her way to our house to see our newborn son.she was on the phone with him saying mommy is on the way instead of saying grandma and I got offended I told him. Your mom is grandma not mommy.as soon as she got to the house my husband told his mom what I said. I had to make it seems like I was joking.he even told her when she leaves I'm going to question him about it. I hate when he does that

I m 38, have 3 kids and married. I will be starting school next Monday and worried how to do it all. My husband has promised to pick up the slack while I focus on myself for a moment, but I don t believe he will. I will be commuting an hour to and from school 4 days a week and then will work Friday, Saturday Sunday. I figure I won t be home anyway and it would be easier for me to stay closer to school and have a quiet place to study by myself. If I m home I ll be bombarded by kids and household chores. Also as a side note, my husband worked out of town for a while. He chose a job that was out of town over a local job and did not discuss it with me, stayed gone for 8 months just 5 months after we got married.