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- Question: Anyone hungry?
- Question: Why does my sister keep stealing all my friends?
- Question: How to distance yourself from a friend?
- Question: Was this kid making fun of my friend?
- Question: How do I go back to August 2016?
- Question: A lifeguard abused me?
- Question: Is it normal for me and my friend to get into these mini fights every time we hang out?
- Question: Should I be mad?
- Question: Why does my friend treat me differently after finding a new friend?
- Question: How to tell a friend you don't want to hang out, without hurting their feelings.?
- Question: Friends physically fighting each other?
- Question: Does friend have a right to be upset?
- Question: My best friend apologized me over some thing that we had argument on. But for some reason my heart is not convinced at their apology.?
- Question: How can I get better socially?
- Question: What to do about this friend? Help?
- Question: Amber ketchmark witch sitrd?
- Question: My friend is a pessimist and egocentric?
- Question: I don't understand why I'm still holding a grudge over such a trivial matter. How do I let it go?
- Question: I answered a question honestly and informatively and my friend (the asker of the question) reported me!!?
- Question: Is my friend being mean or am I dumb?
- Question: Am I in the wrong?
- Question: Told a guy friend a joke and he had a weird response.?
- Question: Hoe do you become friends with someone again if they are angry at you and don't want you to contact them?
- Question: How do i ban dhillon (my friend) from planet earth i want him to go over to some different planet outside our galaxy?
- Question: Why is my ex best friend doing this?
- Question: What to say to a friend who invited themselves over to stay at your house for a week?
- Question: I would like to have opinion or advice that am i wrong?
- Question: Is this Wrong of my friend to do?
- Question: How can I make my friend feel better ?
- Question: How to handle being constantly under appreciated and compared to other people ?
- Question: How do i show show appreciation to a friend without looking weak or a sook?
- Question: How can I hurt people who always attempt to use me in school and aren’t my friends?
- Question: Hey I’m 15 years old and I swallowed a single Neodymium Earth magnet as a trick to show my friends. Am I in any kind of danger?!?
- Question: Liking my brothers best friend!?
- Question: BFF but xechh Hyde’s ffhkyrvs seguiré?
- Question: Should I still be her friend?
- Question: Can someone help me solve this mystery??
- Question: I don’t think my friends like me or want to hang out with me?
- Question: Does this not mean anything?
- Question: I Need Friend?
- Question: Is it totally ok that I don’t support homosexuals anymore?
- Question: How can I stop my social anxiety?
- Question: My friend lost his jump ropes. If I buy him new ones will that make it look like I stole his old ones?
- Question: Advice on how to deal with competitors?
- Question: What are the possible reasons why a usually calm person is suddenly very energetic and hyper?
- Question: I feel like people treat me like crap..?
- Question: In need of help, encouragement, and advice.. please help?
- Question: I want to be a different person...?
- Question: What does this mean?
- Question: How long until the bff emojis on snap change?
- Question: Why is he doing this if he "didn't want me back?
- Question: So my crush said “kiss me hug me” but laughed afterwards Because it was an “accident” but she never said she didn’t mean it. Any advice?
- Question: Nothing really excites my gf....?
- Question: Situation/Scenario need help with...?
- Question: What should I do if I have social anxiety? (Teen)?
- Question: I need hel to understand my friend?
- Question: How can I be friends with her with all this tension?
- Question: My friend keeps asking me for pictures of my homework...?
- Question: What do you talk about with your friends?
- Question: Man being bullied by women. What can I do to stop this?
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 05:31 PM PST Can someone use my referral code for ubereats. Either on the website or the app I'm hungry and poor. Every referral counts as a burger for this poor human being eats-stephanier19781ui |
| Question: Why does my sister keep stealing all my friends? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 05:13 PM PST I struggle in social situations, and I don't have many friends to begin with, so making a friend is extremely difficult for me. All of my friends from school just stopped talking to me after they started hanging out with her. And I recently started talking with a few people online and we got along really well. But as soon as my sister found out she stepped in and started hanging out with them too, and now they are all ignoring me. Why does she keep doing this, or how do I tell her kindly that I would like her to stay away from my friends? |
| Question: How to distance yourself from a friend? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 05:07 PM PST I feel bad for asking this, because I've known her for four months and she considers my family as her own, but I don't consider her as my family. She is sarcastic and calls me a slut. She acts like she is joking but sometimes I wonder. She says that I'm too skinny and jokes about me (and some other people) being anorexic. I used to have it but I don't anymore and I have worked towards a healthy weight (which I am at now) so this bugs me greatly. Sometimes I will swear, and then apologize for swearing since I'm trying to stop. Then a week later I'll ask her to not swear around me and she'll call me a hypocrite, because I swore last week even if I said that I was sorry and admitted to being wrong. She constantly pulls me into her drama and I'm honestly tired of it. I don't know what to do. My parents love her and treat her like a daughter. I know she's gone through a lot and they feel bad for her, but sometimes I feel like what I've gone through is irrelevant because they treat her feelings as more important. I've told them multiple times, but they still treat her like a daughter. |
| Question: Was this kid making fun of my friend? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 04:45 PM PST So a couple weeks ago my friend posted on Instagram. He hasn't posted in a year. He posted a photo of him and his gf. His gf is really pretty he's attractive too though. Anyways one of his friends fro his (I have no idea if they are still friends) graduated 2 years ago. This kid left a comment saying: you have no game. Idk I thought that was kinda mean. Maybe he was joking and maybe I'm overthinking. I haven't seen something nasty like that on anyone's photos though idk I feel bad for they were making fun of him |
| Question: How do I go back to August 2016? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 04:23 PM PST I'm so depressed every day... I want to go back bc I had a better life and I'm so upset now.. i had all my ex best friends and my crush was a lifeguard so I saw him every day I'm so sad how do I go back to August 2016? Can I go faster then the speed of light |
| Question: A lifeguard abused me? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 04:20 PM PST So basically I went to an indoor pool and so basically I was swimming and then I put on my goggles and then a random lifeguard screamed so loud take them off and I said why?? And he screamed get out of the pool so I took them off and asked why and then he climbed down his ladder and came over to me and slapped my face really hard and kicked me in the stomach and I screamed what the heck? And he started laughing then screamed get out and I'm out and don't know what to do |
| Question: Is it normal for me and my friend to get into these mini fights every time we hang out? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 03:58 PM PST My best friend, I hang out with her almost every week. But every single time we do, she will get really annoyed with me for the most stupidest things. Like one time, we were cooking eggs. And she wasn't flipping the egg so i said "Oh are you going to flip it?" and she gave me this nasty look and said no, I never flip it. and I said, oh could you flip mine? and she got really pissed off at me and just said some rude comments to me and didn't talk to me for an hour.. she does things like this quite a lot and idk what to do. Is it normal? |
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 03:04 PM PST I am a 16 year old female named Alice and me and my boy best friend got into a argument today. Me and my girlfriends planned a secret Santa gift exchange and I told me boy best friend who I had. Today me and my girlfriends decided to play with my boy bestfriend and his friends and ignore them. So today after school it was me my friends, my boy best friend, and some other people in the front of the school. My boy best friend like "since u ignoring me sarah, Alice has you as a secret Santa". I was sooo mad because why would he do that. Then he takes my chips and opens it because his friend tells him if he does it then he's a full man. I was so mad because he was doing it and didn't care about my feelings. |
| Question: Why does my friend treat me differently after finding a new friend? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 02:40 PM PST I feel like everything is always about her new friend now. Like I get you have a new friend who you can hang out with but I am here too. I am glad she found a new friend but it doesnt mean you treat your old friends differently. I am going through depression right now. Two of my closest friends left me. And I feel like its my fault. Maybe I am not smart enough to know how to talk or fun enough. It doesnt mean she should talk differently to me as if she's annoyed with me or treat me differently. Even if I have new friends, I always ask my old friends how they are doing and talk to them. I dont ever mistreat someone just because I have new friends. It hurts when I finally realize my closest friend of 8 years only used me because she was lonely. You dont start talking to me when your new friend ignore you then ignore me when I need to talk to you. Why do people do that? |
| Question: How to tell a friend you don't want to hang out, without hurting their feelings.? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 02:31 PM PST I was friends with this girl back in middle school. We go to completely different high schools now, but she lives down the block from me and is constantly asking to hang out. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she is really sensitive, but it's been 3 years and I find her a bit annoying. I don't want to sound mean but I honestly just don't connect with her anymore and I don't know how to tell her that. I have been coming up with excuses for the past year like "Im not at home" or "Im busy" but I cant keep doing it forever. |
| Question: Friends physically fighting each other? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 02:11 PM PST I am a female adolescent. The reason why this is serious is because two of my friends hate each other so much to the point of physically hurting each other. This is not play fighting either over a little spat. This is serious hate (A lot like the Montagues and Capulets from R&J, because I read that book). Friend A threatend to gang up with her sister and punch Friend B in the face, while Friend B threw her 40lb backback into Friend A's back, which has horrible issues. They file reports against each other a lot. If one of them catches me with the other, they will start screaming at each other in public. If one tattles on the other, they yell at me because "I apparently knew about it and liked the other friend more". It's out of hand, and I am not exaggerating nor am I trolling. This means a lot because I did not have friends until I was in 4th grade, so friends mean a lot more to me than most people. All of my friends are like a second family to me since my biological family hates me. Please help and do not be a jackass. |
| Question: Does friend have a right to be upset? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 01:29 PM PST I have this friend, let's call her Sarah, and she suggested that we should switch phones for a day at school. So we did. I had a work period in math so my friend Brenda and I went on all of Sarah's social media accounts and said that she took too many laxatives, that she got a tattoo of her boyfriend's face, etc, etc all normal stuff. On my phone, all Sarah did was post a selfie on my instagram and she responded seriously to a text I got from my sister. None of it was funny, which made me wonder if for some reason she thought we weren't switching phones to ruin each other's lives. When we were at lunch together, she saw was Brenda and I had done and she started crying and didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. I was just joking around and what did she expect when she gave me her phone for a whole day? I wouldn't have cried if she put all those things on my social media. |
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 01:09 PM PST I feel depress at times and angry over my friend attitude. It seems like that they don't understand me. Sometimes I think may be I am at fault and they are right. Not sure what to do? I was hoping my friend would verbally talk to me as well and clarify them self but instead I got a test of apology. I meant to say I just got a text of apology |
| Question: How can I get better socially? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:37 PM PST I am 18 years old and for the majority of my life, I never really had friends. It wasn't until just over a year ago I started making an effort to hang out with people who even then weren't really all good friends. As a young kid I was always kind of overweight and very shy, I didn't have very high self-esteem. My parents had a bad divorce with lots of fighting when I was 9, but I'm not sure how much this plays into it. Also, I never really had any common interest with anyone (even though I play football), which hurt me as well especially now. Well anyways I am now in college. I am a nice person but I can be socially awkward. I'm really bad with girls too. I have gotten much better now and always try to hang out with people when I can, and I also have 3 friends from my high school at college. I play football, and 2 of these guys are also on the team. The other is my best friend from senior year of high school. We are still good friends, but he has grown closer to one of the other guys in our small group while I have spent less time. My goal has been to try to find new friends because they don't respect me. Sadly,these 3 look down on me for being the quiet, uninvolved, clueless person I once was and maybe partially still am. I always offered to take them places because I have a car and it got to the point where they were using me. I'm sick of being this kind of person and want a better life for myself. How can I improve my experience and better myself socially? |
| Question: What to do about this friend? Help? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:35 PM PST Me and my friend have had a rough past years ago. We would fight a lot and both got hurt over disagreements. But like any friendship, we've had our good times. We decided to try again a year or so ago after our fallout in 2013. We became close friends again. We haven't had any fights but I notice when she is angry, she takes her anger out on me. She will say rude things, I'll confront her and she will apologize. This week, she said she's been going through a hard time not related to me. So as a friend naturally, I tried to be there for her and text her asking if she's okay and left nice comments on FB. She didn't want to talk about it with me. She flipped out on me and I didn't expect that at all. Then she told me to not ever post old pictures of us on FB from the past, to not ever talk about the past again or give her compliments because she gets triggered(bad memories brought up to her mind even if it's something good). She does have anxiety and low self esteem about herself. I understand her viewpoint but isn't this a bit controlling? I'm also tired of getting yelled at from her and her being just mean. She is not like this with anyone else. I'm thinking of telling her I want a break. Any advice, thoughts? |
| Question: Amber ketchmark witch sitrd? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:14 PM PST |
| Question: My friend is a pessimist and egocentric? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:13 PM PST I try to help him and cheer him up but he makes the conversations depressing, serious and always says that hes superior to everyone. This ruins my mood completely. I can barely joke with the dude. But I don't want to lose him, what do I do? |
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 11:36 AM PST I know this will sound idiotic but, for some reason, this struck a nerve with me. I have a friend who called me illiterate for not reading the Harry Potter series when I was younger. I tried to explain to her that, growing up, I didn't really care for fictional books; I liked books on botany, marine biology, astronomy, paleontology, ancient civilizations, et cetera. Unfortunately, she wouldn't listen and refused to apologize for calling me such a thing. It has been over a year now and I am still quite vexed at her. How do I let this go? |
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 11:31 AM PST She reported me right in front of my very eyes! Should I stop being friends with her? She's really a b*tch? |
| Question: Is my friend being mean or am I dumb? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 11:26 AM PST My friend was twitching all over and I said "it is probably nerves". She responded by saying that it was a dumb thing to say and wasn't necessary because it is obvious. Then we argued over whether or not she was being rude. What do you think |
| Posted: 20 Dec 2017 11:22 AM PST About a month ago, I asked on here whether I should quit speech and debate even though I had already agreed to be partners with my friend. If you look at the old question on here then you can see the details of that, but basically I wanted to quit speech and debate but would have to leave my friend with no debate partner. I decided that she'd be disappointed but would understand. However, a couple weeks ago, I decided I was quitting and told her. She can stay in speech and debate, but she'd have to switch to single debate, which is what she didn't want to do and is the reason I feel bad about quitting. However, being a childish human, she immediately started ignoring me (like not talking to me at all even when I'm talking to her, basically doing the "silent treatment", my favorite game when I was five) and talking to her friends and my friends about how she "has to quit now" and "wasted $160". If she really didn't want to quit, then she would switch to single debate, but she's telling her friends that her only option is to quit. It's been two weeks and she's still just as salty. Should I have not quit, or is she just being childish? Or both? Am I in the wrong at all? (Also, when she originally joined speech and debate, she was planning on doing single debate until I joined and we decided to do partner debate.) |
| Question: Told a guy friend a joke and he had a weird response.? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 11:15 AM PST I heard a joke earlier in my day. It was: Why is santa's sack so big?? I sent it to a guy friend I've had for a few years. He usually responds with a answer him and I both do if either of us tell a joke but today he said, "I think the santa joke is heading in the opposite direction then what I am thinking." That's it and he carried on texting about a holiday party at work. What in the world does he mean? |
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| Question: Why is my ex best friend doing this? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 10:25 AM PST Nearly a year later and she's still causing problems. I am trying to move on with my life. She rarely hung out with my friends and only hung out with them Bc I did. She even admitted to me that she didn't even like some of them. Now that we're not friends anymore (for nearly a year now) she's trying to be friends and hangout with my friends. Why would someone who admittedly said she didn't like them now try to befriend them? Has anyone had anything similar like this happen to them before? Btw we are both 21. I tried to save the friendship due to there being a disagreement but she felt that it couldn't be saved so I let her be since she felt that way. She has kept me on her social media still which still confuses me. Can I have some advice? I might think it's to get information about but I'm not so sure but there isn't any information to get. |
| Question: What to say to a friend who invited themselves over to stay at your house for a week? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 10:25 AM PST My friend bought airplane tickets when she found out what days I took off of work. She has invited herself to come over. I just found out and she lands on christmas eve. I'm livid, because I would never be so inconsiderate to someone else, this is not a "surprise" I see it as an intrusion. What do I say to her to ensure she never does this again without ruining our friendship? |
| Question: I would like to have opinion or advice that am i wrong? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 10:20 AM PST I met a new female colleague at office and i hang out with her for about 5 months and now i found out that she took my photo without my permission. She took many photo. I told her once before that i don't like taking photos and she knows. Since then she took my photos when i didn't know. I found out when i accidentally checked her phone. I told her to delete all and she is angry doesn't talk to me anymore. Am i worng? I am female as well and now i feel afraid of her |
| Question: Is this Wrong of my friend to do? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 09:36 AM PST Okay so Today I posted that I went to the Gym and etc but then my so called Friend texted me telling me "no invite"? And I simply told her that I stopped inviting her because she always told me no that she can't go every time I did invite her and then other times she would come up with excuses and so on and then she replied to me all offended "I'm not in a good mood bye" but all I told her was that she never wants to go with me anymore I'm seriously so sick of her acting like the victim in every situation when she's not but what really pissed me off even more is that she said bye etc when she didn't have any right to be mad I am the one who should be mad like wtf What should I do I need advice |
| Question: How can I make my friend feel better ? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 08:51 AM PST This is Richard's girlfriend him and his friends are here from England it's their first Christmas here his friend is worried that Santa or Father Christmas they call him won't find them here. Especially since we won't be home. We're gonns be at my grandmas house almost 2 hours away. He's worried about not getting any presents. I told him that Father Christmas has been to my grandmas house 100 times before he knows where everyone in the world is he's still a little worried. How can I make him feel better ? |
| Question: How to handle being constantly under appreciated and compared to other people ? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 07:20 AM PST |
| Question: How do i show show appreciation to a friend without looking weak or a sook? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 07:14 AM PST I have a friend that has really stood their for me when i was quite depressed. How do i show gratitude without looking dependent or weak you know? I haven't seen him in like one month. What do you think of this? I'll ask how has he been and everything? then i'll be like: -Btw you're a good friend!! I really mean it! I don't know why i'm saying this, but it's good to show some appreciation once in a while :). No-homo LOL. Update: do you think that's good? |
| Question: How can I hurt people who always attempt to use me in school and aren’t my friends? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 06:57 AM PST |
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| Question: Liking my brothers best friend!? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 04:38 AM PST Im 21y f, and I really like my brothers best friend (he's 25y). Is it bad that I really want to be more than friends and I don't know if he also likes me like that. He makes jokes of me being his fiancée and dating and things like that. I don't know if it's a joke or does he really mean it or is he just pissing off my brother by saying that. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him or not, or should I talk to my brother about it because me and my brother is very close and I don't want to ruin that and also not his friendship with his best friend. Please help.... |
| Question: BFF but xechh Hyde’s ffhkyrvs seguiré? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 02:18 AM PST |
| Question: Should I still be her friend? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 01:51 AM PST So we were friends for about 3 years.She makes me cry every month.I just don't understand.I am so nice to her but I have to say she is so stubborn like one day we had this school program where you have to be in your cultural clothes.I already had my clothes, she has her clothes too but she wants to wear something new and she asked ME to buy her clothes while my parents were busy and had to work and pay rent. She got mad at me cause I couldn't buy it.Like she always goes shopping. Always telling me to get stuff for her and it's like she's glued to her seat never wants to get up. She doesn't really like other people and if I hang around with the people she hates and completely ignores me and be's friends with the people she hates and some days later when she needs me then she starts talking.She has made me get into trouble with our principal because of cyberbullying a special needs kid but I still forgave her. She made a lot of people cry and people are also confused at the way she behaves. It's so irritating.I am deciding to move schools because of her. It's because of her I had become a bully.shes is a cold-hearted innocent fake person. AND she always says go ask the teacher my question but she says don't say I asked like ***** whats wrong with that? shes a person that doesn't want to get into trouble at all and she will try to expose all my secrets I have in front of everyone.There's a lot more to say but for next time.shes too much I cant deal. HELP.ME.PLEASE. |
| Question: Can someone help me solve this mystery?? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 01:02 AM PST My friend called me on Thursday last week. I spoke to her on my lunch break, she was sobbing. Then on Friday she sent a text saying she was going to take her life. I immediately sent a text back but she didn't respond. I called her home no answer. I waited until the next day on saturday and called again. I finally got through and her sister said she took her life on MONDAY!!! I am beyond confused I said quit joking with me I just spoke to her on Thursday and her sister said I was mistaken when I spoke to her on Thursday... Her sister said I'm lying and that she died Monday night when that's impossible. I'm so lost help thanks |
| Question: I don’t think my friends like me or want to hang out with me? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:45 AM PST Hi, I recently joined a new friend group about 3 months ago. Everything was great! I got invited to everything! Everyone wanted to hang out with me because I was the newbie. Then once I wasn't a newbie, everyone still really liked me and we always had fun. Then some drama happened. I had a few personal issues and people in my group took them the wrong way and ever since then no one wants to hang out with me, I constantly ask everyone, who wants to do something? who wants to go out for coffee? and no one ever replies or says yes. I used to constantly have people ask me if they could stay at my house and now it's the other way round but no one lets me stay. It's really annoying and makes me feel really insecure. My 'best friend' is now the 'favourite' of the group, everyone loves her and she constantly talks **** about me. I'm honestly really sick of it. She lies to me all the time about how she can't do anything because her mum won't let her. It really really hurts my feelings. When i'm having fun with my friends, we have so so so much fun and I really want to stay friends with them so what can I do to improve my relationships with them and get them to how they used to be??? I really really miss old times |
| Question: Does this not mean anything? Posted: 20 Dec 2017 12:10 AM PST a few months back ex bf said it wouldn't work with us again and he wouldn't let him self have feelings when i texted him after 2 months of breaking up. I gave him a dirty look whenever I saw him staring. It's been 3 months he's always staring at me in church. One day as he saw me as he was walking past he smiled then said hi i did too. The following week i looked up saw him looking he smiled and i smiled back. Btw he also fidgets with his hair, watch, touches his face when I'm around. To explain his body language |
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| Question: Is it totally ok that I don’t support homosexuals anymore? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 11:16 PM PST Since last year, I've learned to look up to our president AND our Vice President. Gay people seem to be out of hand nowadays, very different to how I remembered them 10 years ago only. I totally accepted them back then. The progress is done however. The VP doesn't approve of homos, it's only causing conflict. so I won't support the LGBT group anymore. It's sodomy now that I think of it. I'm just asking if it's ok I radically changed my own views. Since I can change whatever I want. (No I won't harm them in any way or say cruel things directly to them, not at all. I just don't support them anymore) Is this fine? |
| Question: How can I stop my social anxiety? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 10:25 PM PST I can't control my anxiety when it comes to holiday parties or social gatherings and stuff like that. The only ppl I talk to is my friends and my family. I get very scared when I'm talking to someone and I think their opinion on me will be like they'll think I'm weird or stupid or awkward and they won't want to be my friend. Somebody help meh |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2017 10:04 PM PST I slept at my friend's house last week and coincidentally he texted me yesterday asking me if I'd seen his jump ropes. He literally never even showed them to me but I have a feeling he suspects I did something with them. I figure I could put this whole thing to rest by just buying him some new ones. It would be perfect timing with Christmas this week. I could give them to him as a gift. But I'm wondering if this would make him think I took his old jump ropes and am doing this with a guilty conscience? I guess he'll find his old ones eventually, but I just don't want this tension between us to drag out any longer. I just wanna move on since he's one of my favorite friends. |
| Question: Advice on how to deal with competitors? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 09:46 PM PST I make ravewear and these this company who i highly check up on and I'm always upset that we're on the same wavelength but her company is bigger and does everything faster. People always comment on her stuff that everybody wants to be like her brand! I've seen her make stuff right after I did and follow people I follow. It just really upsets me because if her company does something before me I can no longer make it or else it looks like I copied her! :( Idk what to do. |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2017 09:34 PM PST A usually calm and respectful person becomes hyper, makes dirty and cruel jokes (from sexual jokes to joking about putting children at harm), brings up random topics. They also sleep in often and their weight fluctuates. |
| Question: I feel like people treat me like crap..? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 09:08 PM PST My friends make stoner jokes about me, and slut jokes. I know they're joking and everything but why? It's entertaining but it can suck and get annoying. I feel like they're treating me like crap. How do I get them to stop? ((I can't just tell them to stop, that's too serious. My group of friends are very lighthearted and don't take things seriously.)) how do I appear as someone who won't take ****? Do I have to do a dramatic argument with one of them to put them in their place? |
| Question: In need of help, encouragement, and advice.. please help? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 08:40 PM PST So tonight my high school just had an alumni game and I saw alot of my old classmates. I was REALLY REALLY leaning towards not going, but my one friend needed a ride so I ended up going anyway. We graduated 6 months ago, and ive already started my first semester in college. During high school i was super depressed and suicidal because the people in my class (mostly the other guys)didnt make me feel so good about myself. They called me names, excluded me, and basically tried to degrade who I was because I wasnt like them. I saw all of them tonight and the main two that I have the worst/most awkward relationship with sat right behind me. I try not to hold grudges despite them making my high school experience a bit more lonely and terrible, and I wanted to say hi or something... but I was just too scared to and didnt know how id come off. I kinda regret it now and I feel kinda rude... on top of that just being back at my school and just seeing so many people that found reasons to tear me apart just brought all the depressing memories back. I feel empty and completely regret going. And I feel like this is going to bother me for a while and put me back in a negative place... when i wasnt around them anymore after highschool I was happy and doing amazing and didnt ever want to see them again because of how they treated me (i had forgiven them and moved on though), but now I feel bad and just dont want things to be this way...Any advice or ways I can deal with this? |
| Question: I want to be a different person...? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 08:26 PM PST I don't like myself. I'm too shy and too lame. I like everything else about me. I want to start hanging out w more ppl because I recently realized that I only have three-four friends that I don't... to be blunt, hate. I don't wanna get sucked into the same kind of crowd I'm with now, I want to start hanging out with fun ppl. My friends are mostly book ppl, ppl who don't like to do much. |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 08:00 PM PST a few months back ex bf said it wouldn't work with us again and he wouldn't let him self have feelings when i texted him after 2 months of breaking up. I gave him a dirty look whenever I saw him staring. It's been 3 months he's always staring at me in church. One day as he saw me as he was walking past he smiled then said hi i did too. The following week i looked up saw him looking he smiled and i smiled back. Btw he also fidgets with his hair, watch, touches his face when I'm around. To explain his body language |
| Question: How long until the bff emojis on snap change? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 07:53 PM PST so me and this guy are each others #1 bffs, yet we still don't have the yellow heart, any idea on how long it'll take until it shows up? |
| Question: Why is he doing this if he "didn't want me back? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 07:25 PM PST a few months back ex bf said it wouldn't work with us again and he wouldn't let him self have feelings when i texted him after 2 months of breaking up. I gave him a dirty look whenever I saw him staring. It's been 3 months he's always staring at me in church. One day as he saw me as he was walking past he smiled then said hi i did too. The following week i looked up saw him looking he smiled and i smiled back. |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2017 07:11 PM PST So my best friend and I have a very close friendship. We say that we're soul mates because we're very close and have a strong connection. Lately, I've been feeling a little more "love" than just a best friend towards her. Now, we're both straight, and I wouldn't even want to label myself because I'm still confused. But, I don't like or find any attraction to any other girls, but my best friend. So, the other day I decided to tell her. She said she wasn't weirded out and all and if she was gay we would already being dating by now. She'll sometimes say she wishes I was a guy but then if I was the love wouldn't be how it is now. She'll joke and say well maybe who knows, but since I've been developing a little crush on her I take it literal. She said she never cuddles with anyone like that or compliments anyone like that. She will lay on me and say I'm the cutest thing ever. A few months back I did ask to kiss her and she said well are you and it was just a quick peck but we haven't again. We again have a really close friendship and love eachother deeply, but idk what to do because she didn't disagree with what I said, I think it's maybe we both have a little crush on how much we love eachother? She even will say things like well definitely get married if you get a boyfriend then I'll say leave him. She says she's serious and that she would get jealous even though she's not a jealous person. She even said "what happened to us" or that maybe she did become gay for just me. |
| Question: Nothing really excites my gf....? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 07:01 PM PST I find it difficult to make her really happy - there is nothing that really make her loose her mind..not sure what to do??? |
| Question: Situation/Scenario need help with...? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:53 PM PST Good friend whom I was extremely close to for 5 years abruptly stopped reaching out to me. We met in college, she ended up with my husband's best friend. Major issues. They broke up, haven't heard from her since. She had a major crippling surgery & her family are psychos (mom threatened to shoot her the day before we stopped talking). I have tried to reach out to no avail. What could/can be done in this situation? Am I supposed to just let it go or do I try to get an answer to know she is okay? It's something that just lingers in my mind due to the horrible situation she was in. There is a high possibility she was forced to not respond/block communication with everyone other than her family. Other people I've spoken to said they haven't heard from her in MONTHS either. Is there anything legally that can be done or that can harm me for trying to reach out? I have never been anger, threatened, or done anything but reach out and ask if she is okay and well. |
| Question: What should I do if I have social anxiety? (Teen)? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:41 PM PST I developed social anxiety when I was bullied in 7th grade and now in high school I'm struggling with truly maintaining any bond, or even forming a friendship. I'm so nervous and shy on the inside, but I play it off as "the chill, quiet one" on the outside and I think that's why people think I'm fine? I don't know, it's been making me feel really horrible about myself ever since high school started and I have no hope. Before you say "focus on your academics!" or "there must be something wrong with YOU if you're not making friends", please know that a) since I don't have any friends my academics are already high and I'm not the type to "hang out" and b) I have already tried making friends but people talk to me when it's convenient for them or when they're trying to be nice. I just need some advice for me. |
| Question: I need hel to understand my friend? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:25 PM PST This is a really weird situation. We have been friends over 10 years. Just about a month ago, we were talking so much. I'm always there for him. He came to visit around thanksgiving and it was weird because my husband who I'm divorcing was here. My friend asked me what is my status and I told him it is what it is. We had fun but as soon as he woke up he wanted to leave. In my mind he will always be my friend first. I guess that's not true for him. He started avoiding me after that but then every so often we would talk like 5 hours on the phone. The last time we talked I felt very odd, almost used. The entire discussion was him asking me for advise on business things that I would usually charge for but once he got his answers kind of hung up. Had to go! I felt so used. Today I texted him with question about business and he took an entire 3 hours to respond with one word response that didn't even make sense. I asked my question again. He didn't even respond. I just texted him Never mind. I'm calling xxx. Thanks! He didn't even text back anything. I don't know what this is?! I thought of him as a friend but now I'm insulted. |
| Question: How can I be friends with her with all this tension? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:19 PM PST This girl started talking to me and seeked me out and it seemed that feelings developed. She seemed to have clinched on to me real quick we had a period together in school and she paid a lot of attention to me and talked about me. She moves on to a higher education and I don't see much of her but she said quite a bit she's going to miss me. Well I see her around a few times she would say hi right when she sees me. Well one night I run into her after a year and 6 months and basically I look at the side of her face and she turns her whole body pretty much while sitting and stares back and focuses completely on me not stopping even though I look away and pretend she's not there. Months go by and I go in for a shift and she walks by me looks at me over her shoulder entering the other room. When I come in as she's walking by says hi in a high pitch but we don't have eye contact. She talks to a coworker but isn't focused on them and stares at me so I make eye contact she doesn't look away and basically crossing paths we just avoided eye contact. What do I do. I don't know if we can be friends. I think we had a connection with the eye contact. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04 |
| Question: My friend keeps asking me for pictures of my homework...? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:08 PM PST at first, i was happy to oblige, thinking it d be a one thing, but she s continued to ask and i feel bad if i don t send it to her... honestly, she s a really nice person with a good heart but her schedule s always packed and she barely has time to do her homework. lately, her asking has been irking me tho? like i put so much time and effort into this homework and i ve always believed in fairness, if you don t do your homework, you deserve that grade. today she forgot to do her homework so she copied mine in class. i m honestly getting super annoyed but i really don t want to say anything because i don t wanna ruin my friendship with her. but we re not like best friends or anything, we just kind of talk here and there and we carpool. for the last couple homeworks, i lied and said i didn t have it done or i pretended not to see the text message (that last one made me feel bad so i just sent it late). what should i really be doing tho? i know lying is wrong, but i just don t want to ruin things. i know i m technically being a bad friend by sending her the homework anyway. she s kind of dropping from my list of people in my good books just for this tho. aaaagh i feel so bad. |
| Question: What do you talk about with your friends? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:05 PM PST Some people talk about gossip or whatever. Personally I don't even have people to gossip about. Don't have many friends. Even if I did have lots of friends, I just don't like saying bad things about others (unless I'm joking). Anyway usually when I'm hanging out with my two friends, one of my friends usually talks about her boyfriend and tells stories about recent events that as happened to her. But I never have stories to tell about myself. I do the same things everyday: look at memes, social media, video games, YouTube, my dogs. Not many relationships with others besides a few friends, parents, siblings, and obvs my dogs. Sooo not many things to talk about..I just joke around really. What do you guys talk about with friends???? |
| Question: Man being bullied by women. What can I do to stop this? Posted: 19 Dec 2017 06:04 PM PST My colleagues in university bully me. Ive told the head of the program and all she did was call me a lier. What can I do and who can I talk to about this? |
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