we've broken up about 4 months ago and he has been with someone else for almost a month. I still love him and I'm not other him. He other day he texted me saying he misses me and them last night he told me that he loves me. I am so confused and he also won't tell people he is dating her. So when he posts about a girl they think its about me. And on thanksgiving he posted me saying he is thankful for me and that he loves me blah blah blah etc.

This guy sent an email saying that he wasn't living the life he wanted to sexually and I mailed him a letter asking if really was him.... EVERY sentence started "is this you" He emailed me calling me delusional and threatened a lawsuit If straight, why did he act like that?

I got this girls number. I volunteer to mentor disabled teens. I was thinking of inviting her to come see them. Is this not a good idea. I know it's not a date but I'm trying to work things up. We live in Chicago I'm thinking of taking her downtown with a group of friends after that but I've got to build up to that. Give me all the advice you can give

Growing up my brother and I were very close and I would say he was my best friend. When I was 16 (he was 22) he began dating a girl who completely changed him for the worst. Since day one that she was introduced to my family she done nothing but start arguments, divide people and plays the victim each and every time. After my mom past away that is when she really took control of him and took him away from us. She would start even worse fights and really get under all of our skin. I have spoken to my brother so many times about this I lost all hope. In his eye s, I am the bad one, I am the one who starts problems etc. and she can do no wrong. She talks poorly of all my family members and is currently riding my brothers coattail. She is very mean and cruel and I don t understand why a smart guy like him can t see it. He has become so mean and heartless like her. I feel like I lost my best friend I believe I lost him forever. Any advice on what I can do? or how I should look at this situation? Please help me : (

A friend of mine keeps asking me to date his ex wife. He says he will set me up with a date with her. I wonder how he could do that? He says "She is beautiful (this is true because I have met her) and she is great in bed and has a wonderful personality". I thought that is odd. Why should a guy try to get his ex wife a date. If she is that great, why isn't he still married to her. Then I saw the light. He is paying alimony and if his ex wife remarries he will not longer have to pay alimony. Guys, would you go on a date under these circumstances?

I'm in my 20's and still sexually attracted to 12-17 year old girls..

When I asked her, she was very nervous. Almost confused? My sister and I took a walk together and did some jogging. The landlord was NOT happy, but she has always been stuck up. The rabbit is okay. After we took him to the vet when Tim told me everything was going to be fine and that when we go to the restaurant tomorrow, I should invite her. Then Sarah agreed and now Beth (her sister) is going to call the landlord? Beth and I never got along. After the thanksgiving we had together, things can't be the same again. I shouldn't have gone to the vet and now I think Tim is mad at me because of it. The birdhouse I built for him was suppose to be an apology and he faked a smile and pretended to be happy. I know I ruined everything and things can't be the same with Beth and I anymore. I don't know what's wrong. Sarah keeps telling me that Tim is going to the restaurant alone if I don't go, because then Beth won't go and Sarah would be upset and the landlord would be mad because Beth would call her to complain. I'm just nervous about the birdhouse and if Beth is going to be okay after the divorce with her and his wife. I tried to be normal and I can't pretend to be okay anymore. I love her. He's not fit to run. On Saturday, Beth even bought him new shoes and I don't know what else they did, but when they got back, I could see how upset Sarah was about it. It's like everyone is becoming each others enemies and the landlord only makes it much worse. Please help

Me and my ex broke up. They day after we separated he got with someone else. If he really loved me like he says he does why would he do that ? He also told me that is girlfriend won't allow him to talk to me or other females, I told him thats a toxic relationship and he got mad with me. And the funny this is that the girl he is dating they haven't seen each other in 3 years all they can do it text. My friends told me is just a rebound relationship because he won't leet people know he's dating her. Im still madly in love with him I don't know what to do. Please , help. He also texts me everyday and 3 days ago he told me that he loves me.

Ok, so I learned about this whole cuckolding thing (google it) especially involving humiliation. How is the woman willing to do sth that can be self destructive to her "love" like this? Ex: a guy convinces his wife to cuckold him, they (or she) does it with a steady "lover", one time the wife is out of town, when she goes back, she doesn't return to the husband, she goes to the "bull" or "lover" to get him first.The husband btw is locked in chastity coz he doesn't "deserve" her, and he never has sex with her again. Does she love him in anyway or respect him? I know the usual answer "he loves it", "he begged for it", well some people like cutting their arm, or drugs, is it ok just coz all parties give consent? Now I see lots of women initiating it, not even the husband. How do u see urself as partners when there's no equity? Ur husband thinks he's unworthy, not enough, that he's worthless, their words, so instead of helping him get over this, u instill those beliefs so he accepts them and so now he doesn't feel bad? And so what if he nagged for years before u did it and liked it? Doesn't really seem relevant if u did it eventually. Some say they won't do it coz if their husband wants to share them, it means they don't love them. OK, but ALSO what happened to "I don't wanna touch/be touched by anyone but him"? or "I don't wanna share the raw/powerful, diverse experiences in sex except with him"? or "I can't stand hurting him even if he wants it and thinks its ok"? I get the fantasy and its turn on, I even see how my low self esteem & habits & past experiences contributed to that. And yes, maybe if I go down the hill, I'd ask my future wife, to do it. What I sure hope is that she doesn't do it at any cost, because maybe I won't be shattered to pieces afterwards (like others have), maybe I will even enjoy it, but my entire existence as a person will be reduced to a being simply inferior to the issues that lead to the fetish, this is not a good thing!

The other day I forgot to take out the trash so the dump truck could take it, and my mom was really pissed today. She took my phone away and gave it to my older sister and told her to hide it somewhere as a punishment. Later during the day, my sister was put in a bad mood because my mom forced to her to cancel a date with her boyfriend so that the two could shop at the mall for an upcoming marriage. To get back at her, my sister told me where she hid the phone: There's holes in the bottom layer of my mom's mattress in her bedroom and she put it there. I decided I'd take it back during the night. We had dinner at around 10 and everyone was about to go to sleep. I had already changed into a sports bra and tights and was filling up my water bottle in the kitchen. My mom came into the kitchen for her medicine and asked me where I was headed. I told her I was gonna go work out at the gym for a bit and she said 1 hour tops. I took my car, and just walked on the treadmill for about 20 mins , and then headed back home. I opened the door with my key and all the lights were off. I decided now would be the time to take my phone, because my mom was asleep. I remembered that I have severe allergies and my mom's room hasn't been dusted in months and I was afraid I might cough or sneeze. I went to my own closet and found this old ski mask that covered everything but had 1 hole for the eyes. I decided to stay in my bra and tights because I didn't think they'd make a sound. I put the mask on and I walked to my mom's room. The door was open and the bathroom lights were on and my mom was snoring. I crawled under the bed, and it took me a while to find the hole, but I eventually got the phone. I didn't think I could crawl while having the phone in my hand so I slid it down my sports bra, between my cleavage. When I got out, I noticed in the corner of a sink and wall in the bathroom, that there was a 100$ bill. I just picked it up and slid it down my cleavage as well besides the phone. I went to my room, changed my clothes, and put the 100$ under some old clothes in my closet. The next day my sister told my mom that she gave me my phone and she didn't care much. It's been 2 days since this all happened, and I'm afraid my mom will catch wind of the bill and I might get blamed. I don't know what to do.

I'm late almost every day at work and my managers couldn't care less unless I get behind on my work. They even tease when I'm on time. They let me slide if I take longer breaks or if I leave early and rarely get in trouble when I do something wrong or am just chilling. I try not to take advantage of them so I really do give my all to my projects and always finish my work early and help everyone finish their projects as well. I always go in when they call me on my days off and stay extra hours after I'm supposed to be off. However, everyone else gets write ups or get terminated for the "bad" things I do. Today my main manager saw me and three other girls chilling and she clapped to get us back to work and she came to me and said "You're such a brat sometimes" and smacked my shoulder. I couldn't tell whether she was joking or not. Now that I think about it, am I really a brat or was she just teasing? Is that a bad thing? Cause when I think of someone being a brat I think of a child crying cause they don't have their way or a teen not being grateful/respectful with their parents.

We have been together for over a year. We do not live together. He spent over 600 dollars on their Xmas presents. His kids are 5 and 8 years old. He want d me to pitch in for the costs but I don't think it's my place. Their mother also spent hundreds of dollars on gifts for them.