I had our twin daughters, again they didn't support me I was in the hospital 15 weeks. I had them at 34 weeks. I allowed them to visit the hospital to see them. I ended up moving from my small two bedroom place. My babies where in the hospital near my moms house so I decided to move in with my mom until I found a bigger home closer to her. I was depressed going through postpartum depression and looking for a place stressed at just about everything. My girls were waking up every 3 hours 1 hour apart. I wasn't getting any sleep. Their dad convinced me to allow my 6 weeks old babies to go to his mom out with him. I said no so many times making excuse after excuse. (Examples: They don't have their shots, they're not ready yet so forth honestly I didn't want them to go I just didn't want them to go) But I let them go I got a call about seeing a place and thought ok cool. I'll be able to handle my business while they're gone I told him 3 days and that's it. We agreed. So while I was at the place the following day he called me and told me that his mom said they HAVE TO GO. I told him I was at the place trying to get the place filling out the paperwork ect. I'll get them shortly. Do you know that lady kicked out my 6 week old babies and brought them all the way to me. Even though his fatherhood her they can come to his home he died otherwise I would allow them to go to his home (they weren't together) I NEVER allowed them to go back. Am I wrong? It's been 4 years

I mean we're out usually till late night like 12 or1 am but no one seems to care and even when I am home he's always down starter and comes up around 7 or 8to make dinner and we eat he goes back down stares is their a problem?? We're all 13-16 year I've ben parenting myself for alongtime it feels like just need somhelp??

My dad has told me 2 or 3 times when he got mad at me that he doesn't want to be in my life. One was because I took off running when i was 17 because I got mad at him for something. and the other time because last month he told me because I didn't tell him what I was talking about in counseling. He didn't go look at christmas lights with me this year and neither last year even though he said he was and didn't. Also he didn't go out to thanksgiving dinner with us this year,not christmas dinner either. Also he is not celebrating new years with us which was the first time I ever celebrated it before. Because he decided to go to another state next to us to watch foot ball with his friend. He left there yesterday in the morning and is coming back on Tuesday. He also has the flipping nerve to plan to go to Las Vegas to watch a nascar race with his step son which is also my brother and not me just him and my brother. He never told me merry christmas this year either except when I asked him too and he did. But he did tell my brother merry christmas like 2 or 3 times that day. My dad was talking to me on thursday that if I am angry with him or whatever it is better for me to right a note to him than him ignore him and he would rather me do that instead. I told him that when I right notes to him he gets mad at me and he kept denying it that he gets mad when I do. Sure he is 66 but doesn't look like it. I don't want people saying that he is old. Because he will do anything and other things with people except for me. He also says he is old and doesn't feel like doing anything anymore. He will also refuse to take me to work which is only 2 miles. I don't drive and can't because I can't afford it and I don't want to be told to take a taxi,ride a bike,or walk because I run out of energy fast and not only that it is flipping winter. Also the taxi is way to expensive. My mom is gonna take me to work anyways.

My step mom and dad have been arguing over god knows what since last night. this morning I was on the couch and they came back from grocery shopping and I glanced at her as she passed by and she just gave me a dirty look the whole time and said "what are you looking at" disgusted. I dont know what I did and honestly don't care considering she's always like that. My dad left for work and she's downstairs talking to herself loudly about something idk what. She's driving me nuts & i know she doesn't like me, I moved in two weeks ago and she just doesn't want me here. I'm 17 so I have no choice to be here (can't be with my mom since she left). Should I ask to go to a friends house and leave my little brother with her since I can't take him anywhere or should I stay upstairs? If I go downstairs she'll just talk up a storm to me. (Main reason she doesn't like me: my grandparents, dads side, don't like her. & she doesn't like my mom whom I haven't talked to in 3 years. But then again nobody likes her because she's literally never happy ever and there's always something wrong in her world.)

I just had a baby. When the nurses come in to talk to US, they mainly look and speak to her. Not me. Yet, I m the father. Is there a protocol or something.

Im 43 years old. I pay my own bills, I have 2 jobs, and my adult son lives with me and helps me with my bills and chores. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. He has helped me with anything that I need help with. But now, it s starting to feel like he s trying to "Dictate" everything in my life. If I do things on my own, he acts like I have to ask for his permission. From getting a new credit card to doing things he feel I should be making my son do. He claims that he s helping me, but it s stressing me out. Am I being mean or

I grew up without my dad in my life, he was there but he never ever talked to me growing up and didn't raise me. He never did anything for me and we had a language barrier he didn't start learning English till I was older and when he did he still never talked to me.. all I ever heard from him was a hi but that's it. well I'm 19 now and when I first started dating this guy I got a text from him saying "you're not very smart" and he would go on his Facebook and tell my mom stuff about him saying he's fat white and ugly and now that I'm pregnant me and the guy had a bad breakup but we are fine now but I found out my dad was messaging him cussing him out on Facebook and telling the guy I dated that if he ever finds out he's talking to me again he'll do something to him. Mind you my dad is around 56 and the guy is my age. my dad completely cut me off and doesn't talk to me. He talks a bunch of sh*t about me and he's angry at the fact that I am having a girl.ive tried texting him happy birthday and even said hi but he ignores the texts. It makes me feel bad because I know I didn't make the best decision getting pregnant at a young age (wasn't planned) but still. I just decided if he wants to be like that then I don't want nothing to do with him yet my mom still wants him to be st the delivery and the baby shower but I don't. Am I wrong? My younger sister is way worse than me (drugs,sex, dropped out of school) yet my dad has never gave her a hard time like he currently is with me.

Im leaving my 1st love & my sons father because I cant handle it anymore I have fallen out of love. We have been through alot together & it breaks my heart so much to have to do this. After years of physical, mental and emotional abuse I finally gave up .My family & friends always hated him and his family always said he would bring me down .He is one of the most kind hearted people you can meet he just makes awful decisions . He will stop on the side of the road to pick up a homeless woman buy her food and clothes which is why I fell for him but in the same sense his addiction of cocaine also makes him lose control of his anger and he will unleash every emotion possible on you . From him hitting and shooting at me while I was pregnant to him stealing money from me to feed his habit. I quit school and stop chasing my dreams because he convinced me that nothing make me special enough or smart enough to accomplish them. I gave him one more chance & let him move in with me & our son and I also got a car & insurance in my name for him . he used the car in armed robbery and assault. The car ended up being damaged & impounded now im being sued .I don't bother to ask him for money for our son if I know he doesn't have it & I have never threaten child support . I also have never kept our son away from him no matter how wrong he did. I tried not to give up & I tried to love him I helped him get his 1st job , I helped him get his 1st & 2nd car but that life got old . how can I move on

I know it may sound inappropriate to some of you but listen, my parents are very curious about my life. They're going to visit me this weekend and I believe they're going to plant a bug in my house so that they can listen to what I do. I know it's insane so if somehow this happens while I'm gone I need to know. I own an iPad and an iPhone. Is there a way for somehow reaching to ipad's mic with iPhone and listen to what's going on where ipad is located?

Im 24, my brother and her are 20. My brother and I bought a house. So both own half of it. I guess she's considerd a tenant. Anyway, she doesn't have a full time job because she says she's going to go to college witch she's been saying for the past year and a half. I just think she's lazy. She had an annoying laugh that just makes me cringe, a real loud hehehe! She talks real loud and does laundry right outside my door right as I go to bed. She comes home from work when im I'm sleeping and cooks with posts and pans, and messes with the microwave. She sounds like she weighs 300 lbs when she walks down the hall. She's just an inconsiderate *****. If she's home I'll just hide in my room because i cant stand to be around her. I was planning on hanging out in the living room today and play games on the 60 inch, but I guess she's not working today like she usually would. So I guess I'll just be sitting in my room bored out of my room while she just hog the living room and kitchen with her annoying ***. I want to evict her, but I know my brother wouldn't approve. She's honestly not a bad person, but he's just overly bubbly and gets to be a b itch when shes frustrated. Typical women I guess. I realize I'm probably acting like a child. But it's sucks I have to live like this in my own home.

I babysit for my little sister sometimes when my mom goes out. She used to stick to a specific time when she'd be home, but it gets later and later. I ask her what Time she'll be home but she's very vague in her answers (around midnight etc) she gets angry when I ask for more details. Help?

Im serious my dad left me in charge of her shes 85 and ive never gotten along with her that well and this morning she was asleep in her chair and shes a really heavy sleeper so i had my friend vance come over so we could play xbox but then my grandma woke up and thought vance was a burglar so she screamed and threw her cane at him and i tried to tell her that it was just my friend but she wouldnt believe me and yelled at me for 'surrendering' and chased vance out of the house with a steak knife and i got really mad because she threatened my friend so i called her a crazy b***h and we got in this huge argument and i insulted her a lot and she got so upset she stole my dads car keys and drove away and idk what to do now i think she might be at the bar but i cant drive and i dont want to call my dad or the police because ill be grounded for like a week probably please help

Every year for Christmas being the oldest sibling out of 5 I always got everybody or try to get everyone a good gift. It got to the point where everyone looks forward to getting a gift from me. I'm just a kind caring giving person. Anyways, my siblings don't seem to think the same... I spent 20 bucks on everyone this year, and more on my brother and his family which really isn't the point. But this year my 3 Sisters didn't spend not even $5 on me. And my brother didn't even get me anything, granted he has a family but I got each member of his family a gift. I know he has a family and my sisters are in college and it's not all about money or anything, but I guess I'm just sitting here wondering why do I go all out but I'm just an afterthought for everyone else and I didn't even get a gift for my brother's family?

My brother is feeling sick he has a cough a sore throat his head hurts a little. He doesn't have a fever he slept pretty well last night. How can I help him feel better ?

I think I just need to vent because i feel really stuck...My younger sister(21) and I have had a strained relationship for some years now, as do we with the rest of our immediate family. A couple months ago she moved in with my son and I from out of state and has been staying on the couch. I want her to be able to save the money she gets from working (which isn't much) so I have not been charging her anything for food/rent etc... Since arriving she has drunkenly damaged my car, started hanging out with my ex husband and is even on his phone plan.. She lies about her life constantly so she can play victim and i just keep finding out things about her that make me dislike her as a person :/ Im way more anxious now & I'm at the point where I'm not ever home unless I HAVE to be.... People say I should have put her out a long time ago. But I immediately worry. I know the other alternatives she has are not stable nor are they healthy. I've voiced my concerns and she just cries and shuts down. Maybe anyone has a situation similar they are willing to share where tough love actually worked out?? Or you stuck it out and it got better? Idk. This is just a vent if nothing more. *shrugs*

My wife and I have have a kid (Call it Mike). My wife's sister has a son. This son now has a little kid (Call it Peter). My wife says that our son, Mike, is Peter's uncle. And that Peter is therefore Mike's nephew. My mom however maintains that Mike and Peter are just second degree cousins. (We are however not American, so that might be different in my culture - terminology and add to the confusion) I looked online and I believe my mom is -maybe- correct. Thank you To simplify things: My question is: what is my nephew's son (grandson of my brother for example) to my son? A nephew and my son an uncle to him, or are they second degree cousins?

My step-dad is coming over to check out a weird smell we have in our bathroom. He will be looking at the pipes, the toilet, and the walls. He doesn't know if it is the pipes or a dead animal in the wall. I feel horrible though because he has a dinner party at his house tonight. I am worried he is going to get all germy from my house and then infect everyone at the dinner party! Should I not have him come? Or am I over reacting?

I'm 27 and about to graduate. My Dad is almost 60 and single. I help him alot until he depends on me, I also help my Mom and my grandma is homeless with no where to stay. All my life I've taken care if everyone but me. I haven't really lived. I've decided to save up and transfer to another state 9 hrs away. ( Where I was born) my family is making me feel extremely guilty. But I'm unhappy where I am and want a new start. Any advice?

I get so depressed about it want to die. Had a bad upbringing but wanted to be better father to my son, who's teen-aged. Older father and not in good health, might not be around too long. ashamed of my "mental health" issues, tried to get help, was made worse by state agencies. Am guilty I brought my son into such horrible world. His mom remarried stepfather who has abused him and courts/cops wouldn't help me protect him. Feel like I'm not a man, a weak father. Grew up in castrating feminist household. Son's mom has told him she wished she "never had him". Why is this life such a living hell for some of us and our kids, but not for others? Karma? Have to suffer through it? I appreciate ALL answers. To address some specifically:1)Have apologized, many times, alas, can't undo what has been done. Cops, attorneys, shrinks/therapists, CPS, etc., their "services" often drove final nails into my coffin as well as my son's. Ask for help or don't. Lose either way sometimes. "Timothy James", "Haschwalth", "Anonymous",.what can I say? U could have pounded nails into the coffin a bit more, but u used the claw end of hammer instead and pulled a bit. I won't forget. Thanks. "sats", I'm a mess because when I started reading what you were saying, about how "NO adult" in your life would help you, it makes me start crying a little, and I'm in the library which doesn't help. I was made too sensitive for this world. I don't think children are supposed to be treated like that. Maybe adults deserve it, maybe not even then. You and me, I think we may have different politics, from reading your questions, I make mine anonymous (chicken), but this stuff cuts across everything Yeah, "sats". I don't know how to deal w/this life. My son's stepfather was badly abused. I know that. My son's mother feels all sorry for him. More than for HER OWN SON. She was damaged by her childhood too. This is "narcissistic" disordered personality stuff. It ruins people. Son's stepfather almost died from drug/alcohol combo AND WHO TRIED TO SAVE HIM? MY SON AN Didn't get to finish that...MY SON AND I tried to save him from overdose MORE THAN MY SON'S MOTHER DID, and he could've DIED by next morning, paramedics said, if we hadn't convinced her to call 911. Why did we do this after all the abuse? We could've let him die. I don't understand myself. Think I'm horrible coward. Would Jesus have done the same? But I'm not Jesus. And Jesus isn't here to protect his from all this, least not in earthly form. So we suffer. Just like HE did. World makes no sense.

My dad has been abandoning me constantly since I was in my mothers womb. When he was around he was beating us but sometimes he was loving and I always loved him because he was my dad. He's left me again and for some reason at 19 it hurts the most. He went to go be with a new lady who's 12 years older and he pays for her plastic surgery and takes care of her kids but doesn't give my mother or younger siblings a single dime. When my grandmother told her that my dad has kids she said "he doesn't need to see his kids because they're already big." I'm 19, I've had to learn how to take care of myself and siblings so I'll be okay. But my little sister is 16 and my brother is 11, they need their dad. I'm so angry that I trusted my dad again and he leaves his kids to go take care of someone else's kids. My mother got fired, we lost our apartment and now my mom depends on me more than ever. I don't mind helping her but it's hard when you're a college student working part time and you need to help take care of 3 people and yourself. My dad doesn't even care what happens to us. I feel like I'm not good enough and those kids have something I don't. I feel like I will fail my mom and sibling. Part of me doesn't want to be angry because I shouldn't be mad at how people choose to be happy, I hope my dads happy but I hope he loved us too. How do I get over this?

He has two daughters and a son. I notice his son is getting mean the same way with the son's two kids. He stopped drinking after a family intervention two years ago where the children said they wouldn't cover up for his alcoholism anymore. He is divorced as of ten years ago but the wife, now ex, is not hostile or angry at all so they were opposites.

My brother and his fiancé just got a house. I'm also a bridesmaid in the wedding. It's true we aren't close at all but she's close with my other sibling. She's had parties but I've not been invited to any while my sibling has. My brother didn't invite anyone as far as I know, it was only a few of her friends. So I don't know if it's just that this is more a friend thing and one happens to be my sibling or if I should feel as left out as I do.

Is hating her because of her behavior okay? She is not always mean but she has this toxic resentment of one of her children who is not successful (age 25). That child is her only son. She has two daughters she is better to and is divorced (twice divorced). First divorce was her two daughters father and he abandoned them but the 2nd divorce was more this narcissism of hers. That child's is a good guy despite my aunts lies claiming he cheated (he did not though the 1st husband did). My Dad got mad at me in October when I saw this hated aunt with my grandparents when she was passing through where we live. I saw her in order to see my grandparents. My Mom was ok with it but my Dad was mad I would see her. She is hated by the whole family. She name called my sister's husband and called him fat and stupid. My sister said as a result she will never ever speak to her again. I do understand her anger at the woman (our aunt) for her name calling like a child. So is it ok for our family to hate this woman or should I remain the hold out? That is my question. I remain open to be nice to this woman but am the only one willing to as well as my younger brother who does it cause of his mental illness. However, I hate the behavior this woman (Mom's sister) shows and especially how she treats her son.

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So my dad forces my mom and i to have a tracking app on our phones with the excuse of if we lose them he will be able to find them with his phone which is fine and i know lots of parents do this, but he also tracks my mother on it and he watches exactly where she goes and if she goes out to eat or to get coffee or shopping he tracks her and see it and then calls to harass her about spending money (even though he frequently makes very large unnecessary purchases like buying a wood chipper, 2 different lawnmowers when we already one, and a new paint job for his truck, all of which were not needed at all at this moment and pretty expensive) i just don't think it's right that he watches her every move on a tracking app and calls to yell at her if she gets food for me or her but buys a bunch of expensive things himself. am i wrong? is this normal?

So shes on tjos monthly period thing where she hates my guts for literally no reason...and tells that I need to move out and get job. I'm in college btw. Anyway you cant normally communicate with such an angry irrational abusive individual. I am secretly trying to find a job and planning to leave cause I'm sick of her garbage.

So, this two week Christmas break has been by far the worst. Why you ask? I have 8 guests (mom's brother's and sister's family) visiting from India. So? That's 12 people in total (my family counted) in a freaking 2 room tiny *** nyc apartment. I lied actually, we, last minute, arranged another apartment for them to sleep (1 family- 4 people). However, if this wouldn't have happened we would be living: 12 people and 16 freaking luggage's in a small apartment. Oh and these people, didn't even give us time to plan (they called 2 weeks ago and said they were coming, like wtf). Oh and my dad still drives them to my apartment for breakfast (which disrupts my peaceful morning with their loud noise). And then we have to arrange for everything, from where there next adventure is to what they're going to eat. And my jobless dad is paying for all of this. And my dad sleeps on the couch. And these people are so ungrateful as well. My mom took them to a two day Washington DC tour (paid for by my jobless dad), and when they returned, one of them said it sucked. And they also have no value for money, they keep on buying unnecessary **** to take back to India as if my dad were a billionaire. I get so freaking annoyed because I have been under so much stress in school and I thought this break would be a nice refresher, and now I am even more stressed that ever. And my dad is sick right now too and he doesn't even know why, but it's probably because of stress.

She didn't do what I told her and kept making excuses like "I forgot" or "I was going to" so I told her to stfu eat sht and die. Now she swears like I'm abusive but I never lay a hand on her and I only talk like that when she doesn't listen.

What do you do when you provided someone with your hard earned money, thinking they'll repay you one day, but they never do? My father gave his hard earned money to his siblings in another country, which is not as wealthy as the US, thinking that when they get approved to come to America, they will repay him. When they finally got their visa approved to come here, my father let them stay at our house for a few months and asked them to find a job. Note that we were STILL providing for them. They did not have to pay any bills, they did not have to pay for their food, and they didn't have to pay for anything bc we were doing it for them. They found jobs, but they never repayed my dad. Two months turned into six months and they were still living with us. It was becoming hard on us so we tried to ask them nicely to find a rent or something. It took many arguments to finally convince them. Today, they still haven't repayed my dad's money. After all my dad has done for them, they became greedy, refusing to respect the man who brought them here in the first place. There's soo much more to the story but I'm trying to keep this short. So my question is, what should my dad do now? It's hard for him to move on bc he spent so much money on them thinking they'd repay him and it's been three years and still nothing. I don't like seeing my dad upset. Any advice would be appreciated, thank you. ( sorry for the long description)

Both had been drinking and I was scared. They were not charged with anything. Both have drinking problems and are brothers in law (uncle is married to my Dad's step-sister). How do I make up to them cause they both are mad at me now. They were fighting and cursing so I was scared plus I knew my Dad was drunk (I think Uncle Tom was also). How do I make up for this to them?

She doesnt treat me like my brother and sister at all. She makes fun of me, doesnt care how i feel, tries to hurt me, puts me down so much im just tired of it. I have helped the most, always been there and she just treats me like nothing. SO i started bullying her, making fun of her misfortune like she does me, and just overall showing her much disrespect. I love her but its very little. I used to think i couldnt live without her, but now i dont really care. Im moving out soon i think, and since she loves me sister n brother so much she can live with them. See how much they care about her because they were never there for anything. Hung up the phone on her many times. But she chose her path. I protected her, took her everywhere, was there at the hospital with her, always tried to love her but she just never loved me. Im done tho, it is what it is. Im in the process of moving out n i hope i never see her again. She treated me so bad.

Im 18,f. In some ways my parents succeeded, in others they didn't. I go to an ivy league and will have a great career, but am a mess mentally and am very promiscuous & prone to drug use. My parents are very wealthy and supportive. They'll give me anything I need. The cost is I'm smothered. My parents left to hang out w friends &told me I wasn't allowed to leave the hotel room bc I could be sex trafficked. I tried to hang out w a guy friend, actually an fbuddy but they didn't know. It was in our vacay home. My mom said I could be sex trafficked by him, & said, "y would he want to hang out w u if he hasn't seen you since last break?." Then she said she didn't want me to hang out w him bc he's poor. I didn't want to tell my parents his last name bc it was a Mexican. When I did, they made a series of racist jokes, and were repulsed. My parents always lie about what I do. My mom told her friend, "Emily wouldn't tell me the guy's last name, would u believe it?" And she knew I wouldn't tell her bc she's xtremely racist. My mom told me she didn't want me to hang out w him bc they haven't made many friends in the area. My dad also told me "The way you've been living, something bad's going to happen to you" and always threatens that I'll get raped if I don't follow their weird rules. Also: Things are abbreviated weird so I can fit everything in. My dad also suggested that I saw the guy at the movie theater, and offered to drive me there like I was 12. My parents tell me Im beautiful when theyre in a good mood & that Im fat when they arent. Im 150 ibs &5"6.My mom ignored that I needed glasses as a child also lol. What's annoying is despite all of their weird rules, I was molested as a child and raped later on. My mom gets very ill when bad things happen to me so I don't tell her anything. When I got a C- on a very hard econ test she got sick for 3 days. I spent time w friends on the beach & didn't respond to my dad's texts for 20 mins. I had a tracker on my phone &was further down than I told him I'd be. He drove by the beach, screamed at me, and told me to get in the car. My mom also barely lets me drive, and always does my laundry despite me not wanting her to.

I'm 20. I feel good, I'm taking classes full time, I used to be very shy and never had friends. Up to now I just have a few guys friends. And I'm a girl. I do my own errands, appointments, bills,etc. I rarely go out. I live in a tiny house with a kitchen and bathroom but no bedrooms. Right now I'm having trouble finding a job. I'm not at my old job anymore because it was a bad place to work at. But recently my mom has been yelling at me a lot, if I buy something she will say why did you buy that or I don't like it, I want your hair black not brown. Don't wear false eyelashes. Where are you going. I'm out for 10 minutes, where are you? She goes on everyday how I'm a bad child. I'm getting drained and feel horrible. I feel good doing my own thing being 20, I'm not pregnant, I don't do drugs, nothing. I feel like a salve in my own house no privacy, she hates the guy I like and I have no money even with work I can't afford to be alone and move out. I have not car yet, no friends , the few 3 I know live with parents , I have no family , I'm going crazy, I got a panic attach today when she was yelling and I'm so stressed and trying to relax.

i want to smoke weed because of my worrying toughts. and life dont go that well. im 18 and still life with my parents. and my parants hate drugs

My parents are somewhat on the verge of divorce, and my dad is trying to fix it by spending every minute with her. It seems to be working but it's kinda sad because it means I'm left home alone A LOT. In fact I'm home alone right now because my dad is taking my mom to go to dinner. They got me pizza so they aren't starving me or anything.😂 My dad talked to me today before he left saying sorry that I'm left alone all the time, but that right now he needs to try and help his relationship with my mom. Which I understand. But my mom doesn't seem to care, and my brother is always out with his friends. My mom and dad have more of a social life than I do, and go out more than I do, and I'm 15 while they are in their 40's. Do you think my parents actually care? I think my dad does but I don't think my mom cares

She eats a lot. Both healthy and unhealthy. Her mother is morbidity obese and we're divorced so it's mom's influence as their house is full of candy cookies etc. I've been slowly watching her get bigger and bigger the past 3 years. I can't tell her she's heavy that would only be much worse! Her dad loves her unconditionally but I worry about her health and future. It's only a matter of time before other kids make fun of her and I don't want that to happen either and don't know what to do

Mum's mad that my sister won't have kids. My sister was sick as a teen and was told it's unlikely she can get pregnant, and if she did her body might not be able to handle the baby.

I was really close with my older brother. He always seemed to be a happy person. He always made everyone laugh and smile.He was 22 he had a girlfriend who he was happy with and they had a baby on the way. I'm trying to make sense of it all I miss him alot he seemed happy and he had a good job and he had a baby on the way. Why would he do this :(

So my mom is refusing to pay this bill that is $12,000. If she dies, will the bill be passed back to me and my siblings? My brother is he oldest, my sister is in the middle, and I'm the youngest. (It's the rest of her college tuition)

Ever since I was young I've always gone to church and I'm now 17 and my dad and stepmom are my youth leaders. I hate it because I have one good friend in there and the rest of the kids are in junior high and they are all brats and could care less about anything. In my church I always sit in the back away from my dad and stepmom and they don't mind. But they basically ignore me during church and that really irritates me. I basically sit there and do nothing after service as I wait for them to quit talking to everyone so we can go home. If my friend is there I will talk to him but I hate how I'm ignored and most of the time I feel like they're just trying to make their image look better.

OK I'm 13 and my mom always is a big baby and cry's over nothing, she said she has 4 mental illnesses?! I have none, she always smokes every 9 minutes in 17-° temperatures I live in Minnesota so it's cold this time of the year. She believens witchcraft and bought 3 book about it, she ate lead paint as a kid so I think that's why I'm not sure. She blows weed in my face and falls over everything This is not a troll

Soo something has been bothering me for a while, my parents got divorced when I was 3 and I've always lived with my mom. Now I'm 22 years old and I don't visit my dad much, I visit him once a month and when I don't visit him, he takes it soo personally. I don't want to seem mean but he wasn't really there for me growing up, so It's hard for me to say I love you and mean it. My sister has always lived with him sooo it's different for her. Any advice please????

So basically, my twin and I are 20, both in college. I support myself and take care of my own business, she doesn't support herself. She did a 3 year program and is moving back home this summer. I'm graduating next year and have enough savings to make sure I don't have to move back home after college. I do my best to be mature and take care of everything myself and when I go home to visit I help take care of things around the house and really try my best to show my parents I'm an adult, while my sister bums around with her boyfriend all day and doesn't even clean up after herself. However my parents still seem to believe she is a mature adult and I am not. It is really getting to me and even my twin acts as though she is above me. It's always been this way but I thought it would change after I started supporting myself and working through college, even though I could just take my parents' money and let them pay for everything for me. Why would my parents act this way and why would they think my twin is more of an adult despite all this?

My dad is constantly yelling at me, specifically calling me names, mostly "ungrateful", "mean", "lazy", "rude", etc no matter what I do. He gets reallyupset when I can't do something due to anxiety. He occasionally grabbes my arm, too. He is constantly making me feel like I'm worthless (which I have tried to tell him) and then denying he did anything wrong and points out how he buys me things and takes me places, as of that makes it okay. Is this abuse or am I overreacting like he says I am?

I'm 27 and most of my life I've had taking care if others, my Mom doesn't want to work, my Dad does but depends on me for everything, my grand Mac is homeless and I take care if like three if my nieces. I graduate soon and wanted to save up and move to another state to get on my own. But afraid of how my family would be without me. My dad is getting older and live alone. I feel so guilty. I've told my family and they were upset. But I'm ready to spread my wings and fly but it's still guilt trip moving away and then all the what ifs if I do and thing don't go well..any advice?

Like in the household she get mad at almost everything, you cant ask her for nothing without her going crazy but around others she plays all kind and lovable towards me and **** because other people likes my company. I hate how fake she can be. Why is she like this???

My brother and I used to fight because he would instigate with me because of petty things that happened back when we were children.( I'm 22 and he's 18). Yeah, sometimes I would pick on him and call him names, However, it was never in a constant basis. All siblings argue and pick on each every now and then. He told me how he used to get bullied in grade school and I apologize to him for sometimes being a dick. If I had know, he was going through that I would of been more careful of what I say. (There were times when he would be a dick to me as well. But w.e). I apologized around when I was 15 and he was like 10 or 11. As time goes by, around when I became 20 and him 16, he felt as if he had the right to fight me because "of things I have done to him when we were young". He started to tear up the furniture and break the walls. He even started calling our mother a ***** and it was too much living with him. My mother Sent him to live with our father instead. Even living there he would act up but ,after a while, he calmed down. Maybe because he's done with school and doesn't have to deal with bullies? Anyways, every now and then he'll call and i cant help but to resent him. There is no love I have for him and he calls me a hypocrite because I hate him for what he's done in the past but got mad when he took his anger out on me for things that I have done in the past. Isn't he the hypocrite for treating his family the way he was treated?