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- Question: I am 16 and I think I am depressed and I don't wanna go to a doctor.I have many close good friends but I still feel lonely?
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| Question: I*Always felt worthless*? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:55 PM PDT Ever since I was a little girl I ve felt that people view me as worthless. When I was 8 I bullied by my "friends" who were only nice to me so that they could physically and verbally hurt me. It only lasted about a year. Then from that age to about 15 I was in a group of girls who never involved me, they would stand in a circle and I would be on the outside, they would make plans to go shopping/sleep overs right in front of me, and when I asked about it they would ignore me, their parents were friends with mine so it was hard to stay away from them. I tried to make other friends but I was never wanted in their groups. When I was 16 I finally found a friend who really seemed to care about me, but he eventually ended up assaulting and raping me. So then I go to work at the same age, I m never appreciated at work, so then after 2 years I go to another job, who don t take me seriously because I was young, I put so much effort into being confident and friendly, but when I left they just left a card on my desk. No champagne or chocolates like the other colleague who worked the same amount of time as I did. Now I m 21 and I have a supportive family and close friends, but I still feel that I am worthless and I worry that I will meet a man who repeat what happened to me before, or that I will sum up to anything. Yes I am taking medication and am due to start therapy. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:53 PM PDT I have two friends, Friend 1 and 2, and one of them is really athletic and the other not so much. We live in the same neighborhood so we can call each other out to play easily. Whenever we're going somewhere, Friend 2 has a struggle keeping up and always calls for us to wait. Friend 1 never does and just keeps on going and waits somewhere, and occasionally makes comments about what a waste of time that was. When Friend 2 calls wait up, should I slow down to walk with Friend 2 or just tell her I promise to wait for her with Friend 1? She knows the way, just that she's kind of slow. Should I try to tell Friend 1 to slow down? She does wait, but never slows her pace to walk with Friend 2. Sorry that was so long. |
| Question: Many of my friends use SnapChat. How can I convince my parents to let me have it? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:45 PM PDT I haven t talked to my parents about SnapChat yet, but in case they say no or ask me why I want it (I don t want my only reason to be because my friends have it!), I want to convince them and tell them why it s a great app. Now, I am in the age range of it (13+). Also, I understand the dangers of sending inappropriate images on it. My friends say the group chats are epic, and I would love to use a variation to texting! Please tell me some pros and cons below. I have a few ideas, but I want to make sure they re correct. Thanks! 10 points to most pros and cons (with quality, of course, haha!). |
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| Question: Writing a letter to friends I've grown apart from- is it worth it? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:19 PM PDT Hi, I made some really amazing friends in college who I thought would be my best friends for a long time. Starting my sophomore year, I started to become very depressed and anxious and I didn't know how to handle it. I made all of the wrong choices, and instead of using those closest to me as a support system, I preferred to be alone. I changed quite a bit and found myself very self-conscious of the person that I had become. Over time, I completely isolated myself from my friends because I felt so disconnected from them, and from the world. In my mind, it seemed easier to be alone than to disappoint my friends. In my mind, when I was alone, the only person I could disappoint was myself. So I chose to be alone because it was the easy thing to do. Even when I desperately wanted to be with my friends, I chose not to be. Now, I've graduated and I think about these friends often. I look back on all of the choices I made and I am filled with a deep sadness and regret. I feel like I owe my friends an explanation in a way. I was thinking about maybe writing them each a letter just to express my thoughts and apologize, and let them know that there was so much going on that I was hiding from. I think it might be helpful both for them and myself. What do you all think? Do you think writing these letters might help bring some closure/insight? Thank you! I really appreciate it. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:16 PM PDT Im 22 and live in Houston Texas a college student. I m a loner but I want to change. I want to make friends online or go out and meet new people but I don t know where to start. I don t like Facebook nor Instagram nor snapchat. Do u guys have any ideas? |
| Question: Am I childish for not explaining myself? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:12 PM PDT I just feel like with certain things an explanation isn't needed. So this girl and I stopped being friends. She's a user, selfish, controlling, and a manipulator. For Ex: I was suppose to be healing after being discharged 2weeks prior. She said I was making excuses for not coming to her bday party to drink, and get tattoos. She would pretend like she wanted to hang out with me, but it was really to use me as an excuse for her parents to lay up with random dudes. I remember once, while being in the car with her, she put another friend on speaker phone and told me to be quiet while I listened to her other friend cry her eyes out to her about her cheating bf. With our other friend, she would try to make it seem like we were competing for the best friend title. She was all for her and tried to treat me like a third wheel. |
| Question: How to make friends in high school when I have none? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:59 PM PDT I'm a sophomore in high school, and freshman year was really rough. I'm really quiet and have social anxiety, so I literally didn't even make one friend the entire year. I really want that to change. I'm really outgoing and talkative when I'm with my family, but not when I'm at school. I feel like everyone has already made friends and won't really want to pay attention to me. I've had to eat in the school basement a couple times because I have no one to sit with at lunch. I really want to make friends, but I don't know how. I know it's important to talk to people to make friends, but what do I even talk about? Please help. Is there any way for me to overcome my social anxiety? I feel so lonely and it makes me really depressed during lunch and weekends. Any tips? Please? |
| Question: How does one make friends without acquaintances? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:59 PM PDT I'm entirely socially inept, and I've never had any meaningful relationships. It seems paradoxical yet true that one must already be engaged in friendships in order to develop friendships. Everyone is always conversing within their own group of friends when given the opportunity. It doesn't matter what groups you're in or how you present yourself because one is so scarcely extended an opportunity to converse with others once excluded for so long. People seem to be under the impression that you can simply walk up to someone and start conversing with them, even though you would be intruding on a conversation that has already started between your subjects and their friends. I don't even theoretically understand how socializing is supposed to work. If anyone intends to offer assistance, I should also add that I tend to be awkward and aloof, and I would be incompetent in a conversation with strangers. understand Has anybody else like me found a way to break this cycle? |
| Question: Why is my "friend" being such an asshole? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:55 PM PDT So I since i started high school i've always hanged out with these two girls (let's call them Pam and Joan) so since like a year ago i became really close with Joan we became best friends, we're always together, yet we ALWAYS include Pam in everything we do because we don't want her to feel left out. However, since like 6 months Pam has been a royal pain in the *** for me. before i came in the picture Pam and Joan were friends (they met when school started and i began to hang out with them like 5 months later however Pam never called Joan her Best friend since she had this amazing best friend from the school she was in before. Funny how she's always talking **** about that so called best friend. And now she is being rude to me and always wants to exclude me from the plans our group makes. I am a very nice person. I am kind, I get along with everyone, but I am very honest. If something bothers me i will say it. i will not sugar coat it, I will just say it like it is. but I try to not be rude. Pam always acts like her life is the worst and she's always complaining. I'm always nice to her but she keeps being mean, and even told Joan "If you want you can invite 'that girl', like how rude can you ******* get? Joan and I always invite her to come with us to the movies or stuff like that but she always has an excuse, and then get mad if we don't invite her. we don't want to leave her alone in school but she is a pain. lmao she even deleted me off facebook. what would you do? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:27 PM PDT So last week at school we had our first back to school pep rally. And basically I met this girl who I didn t know or recognize so I figured she was new (which she was). Anyways as we were watching the pep rally she asked me what was going on (the students were playing a game) and I told her, then a few minutes later she offered me hand sanitizer lol. Then we started talking and immediately in my head I was just like "omg can we be Bffs" bc usually when I meet someone it takes me a while to genuinely like them, and like me and her just started talking like we ve been friends already!! But anyways we don t have any classes together not even lunch and like idk how to ask her to be friends without like being weird and I just need advice 😅😅😭 |
| Question: How do I leak my ex-friends private information? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:13 PM PDT So its hard to give the full story but my friends ****** me over bigtime I would like to get back at them by posting their skype accounts (most frequently used accounts) so people can harass them. Is there a website to do that? |
| Question: How to be more open? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:37 PM PDT So I moved to a new school about a year ago and I've barely made any friends. Everyone thinks I'm quiet. I used to be fun now I'm nervous all the time. I just missed out on the biggest football game because I was scared I wouldn't have anybody to talk to. I can't get a girlfriend because they think I'm lame. My mom just called me lame today. Everyday I tell myself I'm going to make friends the next day but I always stay quiet. I always run out of things to say so nobody really talks to me or texts me. Can somebody help me because I'm getting stressed out cause I can't make any friends. Any ways I can start making a good conversation? Thanks |
| Question: I feel lonely, depressed, and unwanted...? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:30 PM PDT So two years ago I have felt the same way I felt right now. Until I got into cheer, I know it sounds cheesy but cheer really brought me up. I met the nicest people I know, the most supportive coach and everything. I felt wanted again.. I had a postition in that team, I was needed. But then today my dad went nuts on me.. I had a big performance in three days, but I had a heart appointment the same day. I asked my dad if he can change it maybe an hour earlier, and he starts screaming at me.. He told me I should kill myseld and he wouldn t have to worry and take care of a child anymore. He said everyone would be happy when I m gone, because I will not bother them. He said I was never wanted once, and that I was a mistake. Also he said that he will pull me out of cheer. Cheer. Freaking cheer! The thing that pulled me up and made me actually happy. I m crying my eyes out right now, I don t know what to do. Also we have a big performance coming up and I m needed, if not then they will just have to cancel it and I don t want to make them unhappy. The first time I felt depressed is when my best friend did that to me, I believed her because no one has ever called me that.. But now it s my FATHER. My own father.. I don t know what to do? I don t want to talk my school counselor, she does a terrible job. Believe me I tried.. What do I do? I m so upset. |
| Question: Am I a terrible person? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:15 PM PDT I don't like my family, I think I'm better than all of them and I think I am royalty. I talk **** about everyone including my friends and I play mind games all the time. I'm mean to people that I don't like and I bully them by stalking them and getting dirt on them or try to get their grades down by stealing their text books and notes. I told my brother to go die because he raised his voice at me and I don't like it when people shout at me because I am superior and you can't treat someone better than you like that. I tell my parents that what they are doing isn't enough and I should get more because I'm deserving (my dad rarely gets me any gifts, how ******* dare he?!). I'm only 15 years old so is this just a phase or am I a cruel person. I also forgot to mention that I don't feel sad when people get hurt and I don't care about gay people and I give zero f*cks when they are getting killed. I also hate jews |
| Question: Why does my friend do this? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:10 PM PDT BACKSTORY: i introduced my two good friends to each other and now it seems like they are better friends than I am with them individually Okay, so here's the scenario that often happens: Me and my friend (let's call her Joan) are standing and waiting by the door for my brother so we can go home from our school. My other friend (let's call her Pam) runs up and goes to Joan, completely ignoring my presence. PAM: OMG, I missed you so much, Joan!! What are you doing? What's up? ME: ......hey, Pam JOAN: omg i missed you too pam, blah blah blah This has happened a lot. And I know it sounds really bad, and to be honest, I know they are kind of toxic people, but I just want to know why Pam might be doing this??Does she want to hurt me? I know I've been in a bad mood since school started but they've never cared to ask me about why I'm so upset. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:58 PM PDT I am happy when I am with friends but when I am alone in my room I feel so sad and lonley |
| Question: How do you find/ make friends? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:53 PM PDT I m 16 and home schooled. I go out and walk sometimes but theres no one my age to talk to. I have a job but no coworkers because i clean houses by myself. I just dont know what to do to find friends... |
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| Question: Why do I feel so alone? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:26 PM PDT Guys, what do I do? I'm lonely... My 2 best friends moved away to another state, I'm not allowed to hang out with another friend, and my other close friend seems like he doesn't want to hang out with me anymore. He just bums rides on me. The only people that want to hang out with me, is the party crowd, and I'm not into partying. My best solution is honestly just find a girlfriend but I go to a really small school and options are limited for girls and friends. How can I meet people from other schools to hang out with and girls from other schools without partying? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:22 PM PDT So sometimes im just in class or in a gym and sometimes a cute girl would be near me would ,try to be my friend or be a little sexual but not in the private parts around with there friends. I sometimes ignore it and sometimes i wont are they really doing these thing or do doing these things just because there friends are around and there friends would be like "he dont like you" or be like "he dont wanna be your friend". i know the answer but i just want some opinions on this and im not that good looking btw |
| Question: I'm depressed, help?? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:05 PM PDT I'm a 17 year old girl, im going to 11 grade after 2weeks, im really stressed i have no friends and its my second year in this schoool , everyone is so illmannered and wild, and im so sensitive and the two girls which i was quiet friends with'em turned out a ***** and always backbited about me and one of them said that she's leaving but it turned out false and she's staying and im really sad about it :||, as i said im too sensitive and shy and we have always presentation which im shy and cant present infront of the class , and im going 11 which is way more diffculty ahead of me and idk what to and the sad part is that i have no friends and everyone is weird and bad im not trying to say im the best or anything but i cant make friendship and as soon as someone comes again they turn out backbiting and stuff about me, it has always been like that :( i know that im souding to problamatic im sorry but this is it and i would be thankful if someone could sooth and advice me. tnx :) |
| Question: When they say I love you? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:03 PM PDT If anybody says "I love you" to me. I don't tell them I love you or anything. I just remain silent. People get pissed on me. Because I am not saying them I love you. Why do people have to say that even in the first place. Telling someone you love them and expecting in returns I love them back these words to seems stupid. What do you think? Is it really necessary that we have to put that in sentence. Can't we just love without expressing with words? |
| Question: Why does he do this? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:46 PM PDT Whenever i view my friends snapchat story he blocks me and if i dont view it he remains friends with me. Whats up with him? |
| Question: My cousin is so annoying? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:43 PM PDT He's not really my cousin but I call him that because our parents are cousins. Anyways, he is 1 year older than me and every family visit he is always there. I don't like him and he wants to be my friend so bad and I don't like desperate people, he always tells me that I need to enjoy life cause I'm always depressed and sad and I don't want any advise from that irrelevant dork. He is always sitting next to my and trying so hard but I just don't want nothing to do with him. Last family visit when he came to talk to me I told him "stop being fake and pretend that we are friends" I kinda felt bad after so I talked to him a bit and man was he ******* ANNOYING!! he asked for my number and instagram account and I gave him what he wanted and as soon as I got home I blocked him. My mom really likes him and thinks that he could be a good friend but I don't want to talk to him or have anything to do with him. Tommorow is the next family visit and he is probably coming so what should I do? Don't tell me to tell him to stay away cause it doesn't work and my parents will get mad if I act like a dick to someone from my family so I can't do that. I want to let him down easily so he doesn't want to talk to me ever again. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:38 PM PDT So I have changed almost everything about me & my past except making new friends. I lost fat, gained confidence, look a lot better, and I m not afraid of facing my fears (including speaking to new people). But I think my problem is I m very stubborn (Capricorn XD), so I like it being alone and kinda forget about the goal of making friends, but some days I feel very bad for being alone, so I want to make new friends whether it be boy or girl and maybe potentially something closer with a girl. Any tips how to get my stubbornness about this out and start making friends would be appreciated. Like I said I think it s the only thing I m lacking. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:28 PM PDT Hi Everybody! I have a Chinese friend in school, where everybody seems to hate her. She usually takes a roller backpack, then I noticed that some mean people kick her roller backpack, and sometimes people pretend to trip on her backpack and then a person beside will say: Hey! Why do you trip him?" In a very mean way. So does Americans like to bully Chinese people? Thanks. |
| Question: Need help on spacing my self from a very unhealthy friendship? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:13 PM PDT there is this girl I was friends with for awhile she always wanted to be my bestfriend but I wasn t on the same page I have a boyfriend of 7months and a loving family I love to be with. this girl is on the same team as me so I can t be mean to her she has no rides home from school so she guilts me into taking her home and then guilts me into staying at her house etc. I have tried every excuse in the book and even flat out saying no she will not accept that I do not want to hang out. she yells at me for not hanging out with her and if I say no to plans with her and see my boyfriend she goes nuts on me even if I haven t seen him for weeks. she try s to control my life like she is my only priority, she yelled at me for staying home with my brother when he came to visit from college. I have tried so hard. and I m about to lose my **** but I can t because she s on my team and I will get in huge trouble. I have staged text with my mom even making my mom say no to plans with her and she expects me to try to lie to my parents to hang out with her. I like my alone time and she always stands directly next to me and yanks me away from my other friends. and when I don t do what she wants or I talk to somebody else she gets mean as ****. she makes me feel so guilty if I can t give her a ride home I never agreed to ever give her rides home I try my complete best to be nice to everybody. so nothing to harsh please |
| Question: How to make new friends on a team? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:13 PM PDT So this year is my first year on the cheer team at my school. How do I make friends with the other people when they are all friends and they are not the type of people I would normally make friends with? |
| Question: All the friends I never see anymore...? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:10 PM PDT I guess it's stupid, but I am sad all the day because I have been thinking about all the friends I used to call "best friends" a few or even 1 year ago. I can't believe how quickly people befriend and then their ways just seperate without them even noticing. What makes me really sad is that I see people I used to be friends or even best friends with walking in the street and we only say "hey" to each other. When in the past we would go out and communicate so so so much! What's even more sad is that we didn't even get into any sort of argument with NONE of these friends we just somehow SLOWLY stopped commuinicating. This way I lost so many friends throughout my life. And all the memories I had with them are just so precious to me. I now have 5 real friends. One of them is my best friend I know from baby hood. And I feel like I am gonna lose tghem too I am scared that my friendship with my best friend is also sort of slowly falling apart after 17 years of being friends, because when we meet we hardly find something to talk about. I guess that's my own fault, because I really feel that the older I get, the more socially awkward I get. It's hard for me to communicate with other people in general because I always keep thinking how boring I am to everyone and cant seem to find any topic to talk about. I guess I am too old to be sad about things like that, but I really need some advice. How can I stop losing friends? And how to not be socially awkward and make some new friends? |
| Question: Want to add friend as co-owner. How? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:09 PM PDT |
| Question: What does it mean whe someone's phone keeps ringing? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:04 PM PDT When someone's phone keeps ringing when you call what does it mean? Does this mean they don't wanna talk to you anymore or are they just busy? If they say they have been busy would you trust them or is that a nice way to say they don't want to talk anymore? |
| Question: Should I move away from my best friends? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:03 PM PDT Recently my best friends, two times in the past two weeks, have been ditching the plans I have with them to hang out without me. I feel very hurt and upset and confront them about it, but they say I m overreacting and make up excuses. I have an opportunity to move away which also comes with a much larger cash flow opportunity and a new start many states away. The only thing keeping me here is my friends, but im beginning to think they aren t worth my time if they keep ditching me. I feel like they don t care. I asked my best friend if I should go and she said yes. shouldn t a best friend try to convince you to stay? what should I do? |
| Question: Best friends moving and I don't know how to handle it? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:49 PM PDT My two best friends from kindergarten are both moving away for Highschool.We have always been there for each other through thick and thin and I can't believe they are leaving.I don't know what to do it's hard to make new friends.Im all alone now and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Should I leave my rude friend? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:42 PM PDT Okay, so let's just call this friend Pamella. Basically I've known her since elementary school and we didn't hang out much but we were still friends. Just last year we started hanging out again (8th grade) and she was very rude to me. Saying things like, "Hey do you know the TV show ___?" and my response would be, "No but I've heard of it." and she would say, "Wow you're so stupid." Or when I would try to talk sometimes she would interrupt and say, "Shut up." or the one day I thought I was looking pretty decent and got a few compliments she brings me down and says, "You're so ugly." I've always been there for this girl.. I've always been there for each of her problems, I'm one of the only people she hangs out with and she just hurts me. People like her make me wanna kill myself and rid myself from the world, just thinking about it makes me tear up. Just last week (9th grade now) she says, "You look uglier than yesterday," and "You have no friends, you're so lucky I hang out with you." And I say, "Neither do you, who would wanna be your friend?" B/c I just lost it and she says, "Are you fking dumb? Who do you think the people I hang out with are dumba**?" And I say, "The people that feel bad with you." And she starts nervously laughing like I was joking and goes, "Shut up you're stupid." right after the lunch bell rang. I really don't like this girl at all. But I'm not used to HS and wanna make new friends.. but I just don't know how. I really want a best friend.. any tips? |
| Question: Am I being too overly cautious by saying no? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:42 PM PDT This 6th grade girl knows me at church. I was her kids world teacher, and she looks up to me like a little sister. Well, there's a worship night at our main campus... a 30 minute drive away. She wants to go so badly. Usually she rides to church with her friend, because he mom has nothing to do with church. But her friend isn't going tonight. So this girl had my number from when I ordered something from her. She asked if she could go with me... her mom said it was okay that she rides with me. I wasn't planning on going... but even if I was, I honestly feel awkward taking a child by myself whose mother doesn't know me personally. If I had kids her age, I'd feel different, but I don't. ...I nanny for five boys at church. I'm often get asked to take them to church stuff, them, and we are always inviting their friends. But I'm my opinion thats different, because I have the kids I watch with me and I've also worked hard to be sure their friends parents know me. I'd feel fine if one of their friends needed a ride, because the parents know who I am. |
| Question: Is it normal for a teenager to not have many friends? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:37 PM PDT I see all these girls on social media with 20+ girls in a group and I only have 3 friends who I rarely see.. |
| Question: My friend and I lost connction all of the sudden? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:02 PM PDT My guy friend and I use to text and spend time together constantly. However, latley he has been distant. Why cant a friend find time? Does this mean our friendship is down the drain?? |
| Question: Why would my friend switch from Apple to HP? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:56 AM PDT I don't know if I should stay friends with her. |
| Question: I feel bad for hitting a bully? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:44 AM PDT I recently hit a bully because I had enough of him for calling me names and insulting me everyday. I feel very guilty now, especially when I think of his reaction when I did so... |
| Question: My friend's dog died and I don't know what to do? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:37 AM PDT How can I make her feel better? ): I feel really bad. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:34 AM PDT My friend has told this guy that I have feelings for him and ever since she told him, he has been treating me differently. He isn't completely blocking me out or anything like that but we used to be able to talk to each other with no problem and now it's like he is shying away from me. Fortunately, this Friday, he started a conversation with me and we talked like we use to but I'm afraid that he will go back to the way it was before and continue to treat me like that. My friends think he is trying to figure out his feelings for me and so to keep from hurting me or getting my hopes up, he isn't talking to me. When he talked to me on Friday he seemed completely relaxed and was making jokes. Is this his way of telling me that he doesn't feel the same way as I do for him? Is him being so relaxed around me Friday a good sign? Plz answer (i'm a Sophomore in highschool and he is a Senior btw) |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:29 AM PDT So I have a friend who is in a different friend group than me, and she just texted me and said that she feels like she isn t being herself and she wants out of that group. What do you think I should do to help her? My friends don t really like her that much so I don t know what to do? |
| Question: I want to be sociable but I don't want to hang out? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:19 AM PDT I want to be sociable and make new friends when I start university but when it comes to actually doing something I don't want to? I made plans with my friend a few days ago and now it's tomorrow I want to cancel. I don't know why I'm like this and I want to change it, what is wrong with me? |
| Question: I feel so misunderstood? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:13 AM PDT I know everyone says it, but for me it's true. In fact, I lost my old friends because of this. I appear "serious and quiet" in my daily life, but I have a naughty, adventurous, rebellious side. When my old friends saw this, I think it turned some of them off. Conversely, I'm written off by people who meet me for the first time—as a "square"/nerd cuz of my initial demeanor. So they don't like me either. I feel like I'm doomed for the rest of my life??? |
| Question: Help me... everyone at school calls me dirty because I did something:(? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:39 AM PDT Basically I needed a poo while I was in school and there was no loo roll and I only had my sanwhich with me so I took out the tuna with my hands and ate it and used the bread to wipe it as that was the only thing I had with me... It didn't flush and the person who went in after saw diarrhoea on the bread and took a picture and told everyone and now everyone calls me dirty I don't know what to do:( |
| Question: How to say no when someone wants to hang out? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:35 AM PDT My friends and I often hang out but sometimes they bring people I dont like.. I dont like saying no and im not sure how they will react but I also dont want them to come over all the time... what should I do |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:31 AM PDT I don't think they wouldn't like me anymore. I think my friendship with them - the people whom I hang out in my whole college life is at risk here knowing that plenty of things have happened to us and what they think about me. We have heard what toxic people are and I am afraid to be labeled as one and that I may be considered one as well. But if they left me after many years, I gradually stopped caring about it. One friend might have thought she is being directed but she is not. At all. And would probably find what I did as immature and insecure despite me counterarguing this or not. I just have this "friend" from our group of friends who humiliates and belittles me in front of them and others just copy him. I think that was only what happened from our overall friendships. Hence, making this passive aggressive response on facebook. I have brought it up to our other friends and they might have had enough of this drama yet I don't want to get them involved to begin with. They have encoundered me being like this before and probably wants to disassociate with me. Did our friendship just stop now? Was I all wrong here? Was our friendship that ineffective and did I have a point? I had unfriended this "friend" so that was the only way I can comment to him. |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong with my girlfriend's dad? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:20 AM PDT My girlfriend's dad is really into golf. He plays whenever he can find the time. His favorite golf partner is me. That is because he wins every game. He is not very good at golf. What he does not know is that I let him win every game. I do this because he REALLY ENJOYS winning and usually buys me lunch or dinner after the game to celebrate his winning. These meals are far more than I can afford. The few people that know about this tell me it is just not right that I don't play my best and try to beat him. My girlfriend knows I am letting him win and is happy with it because it makes her dad so happy to win. Her dad is happy with it and I am happy with it. It brings him SO MUCH JOY to win. Am I doing something wrong if everyone is happy with the outcome of our golf game? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:53 AM PDT I have a friend I've been trying to talk to again cause she's always been busy and I needed to talk to someone about it so I did. Then she called me selfish and attention seeking, which makes me freak out and feel horrible, so I said I'm done with her BULLCRAP and I also told the one that never talked to me anymore that I'm not wasting my time on them if they can't spend 30 seconds just to say hi. I then said I'm glad I hate them and stopped talking to them I'm gonna get this poster one gave me and throw it out. Am I overreacting at these toxic friends or did I do the right thing? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:41 AM PDT I would because I could always make new friends in the country I emigrate to and start my new life in. If my friends really supported me they wouldn't hate on me or tell me BS stories about the country I'm going to emigrate to start my new live. The reason they are hating on me is because I'm planning to leave the US that's the only reason. Idk if I understand your answer but your answer sounds about right I don't wanna give people the pleasure just because I backed out of what I wanted to do. |
| Question: Me and my best friend cuddled? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:38 AM PDT So lately I ve had some feelings for my best friend, and the other night we were both at a sleepover and we started cuddling and holding hands? I think that goes beyond the realm of cuddling but I still don t know what to do. Should I address it or what? |
| Question: I need new friends!!!! Help!!!!!? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:29 AM PDT I'm friends with some really rude people!!!!!!! I need to get away from them!!!!! There are some people in my grade who seem like I would mesh well with and I want to know how to be-friend them and get rid of my old friends! Help me!!!! My friends rn are so toxic and I can't stand them! |
| Question: Are there any decent people in this world? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:19 AM PDT I stopped hanging out with my last friend group cuz they took me for granted. They wanted me to be the "Quiet one", so as I got older and louder, they passive aggressively ignored me. They were also not as adventurous as me—I was the one who wanted to try new things and push the envelope. I know the answer is: find new people who will appreciate you. I've tried for years. At this point, I'm starting to realize that I'm just too "unique" to ever find anyone who gets me. It's life. I'm not saying I'm "all that", I'm saying: my combination of traits apparently is not appealing to most people. Help? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:08 AM PDT I met an old friend on Friday by accident. We had no contact 3 months, but then we talked on Friday about 5 minutes. Then I sent him a text message in the evening and got 2 responds but after that he ignored me and didn't respond till now. He's in my school but we NEVER have an opportunity to talk. I care about him but don't know what I should do. :/ |
| Question: Is being alone in a group and having no friends miserable? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:07 AM PDT |
| Question: What should my finsta name be? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:53 AM PDT A finsta is a fake Instagram account were you post stupid pictures of yourself. Usually the username is supposed to be a pun using ur name. My name is Ava and I can t come up with a username, Any ideas?? |
| Question: Why does she do this? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:51 AM PDT My friend introdiced me to her friend who is yeat older than us. My friend introdiced me to her friend in freshman year and the girl name was clarice and my friend Taylor told me one day that her friend wanted to add me on sc aND said clarice said I was the bomb. She been screens hotting my sc at times and sc me funny weird stuff like saying I would marry you in the future if I wanted too and called me daddy. One day on sc I was holding a contest sayin the context would be based on the beautuful girls on sc and clarice screenshot that. Idk why she doing this. I'm 18 and she's 19. |
| Question: How to coach girls.? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:36 AM PDT I am a high school football player. Every year 5 of us volunteer to coach the girls flag football team. This year I'm coaching the LB. My issue is they never really take anything serious, they are always laughing. They don't care if they win or lose drills. I don't want to just make them run gassers all practise, but they really just font take anything serious. |
| Question: My friend gave me my first...? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:26 AM PDT My friend gave me my first mascara should I tell my mom or should I just start wearing it? I don't really tell my mom a lot of stuff,like we aren't that close. |
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