No kids, but large assets. We do love each other. She seems more devastated then me. I am really upset though. She has lied a million times the past year. Honest before that. We were happy. Which makes it worse. She never been with a lot of guys or done anything like this. Years ago I had a affair myself but nothing as long or physical as hers. But it was still cheating. So I feel like karma got me. Really don't no what to do at this point. She has said its the biggest mistake of her life. She didn't no about my past dabble with cheating. So it wasn't revenge. Just so unlike her. Part of me feels bad for her and then the other part just wants to run and say this is a waste of time.

Our kids usually play together when either the husband or wie come over. My wife talks to him about farming and her plans for our lot which he happens to be much better at since he works heavy equipment and does this for a living. The children of both families are good friends. It is her hobby now that we live in the country. She says she talks to him because she knows I don't like to listen to her talk about the lot as she makes plans for farm animals. She is friends with his wife, but he and his wife would never sit alone (with kids coming in and out) talking together. In fact, I only speak with women without my wife on professional speech and language visits in the home. I don't spend hours talking to my wife's friends when I am not around. I have never had a woman friend who spends hours talking to me or even appears comfortable doing so. I have a receptionist who might be considered attractive but we would not spend too much time alone ever just because it would feel wrong. I have had to work with colleagues and have had lunch with women alone. Am I just being paranoid. They usually do this when I am gone, but they do this when I am at home sometimes too. Even if I trust both of them, I think they are violating a common standard of conduct. I know many women who would not do this...?

This girl used to teach at this post-grad school . I had a couple of classes with her, and we both around the same age group. We caught each others eyes when we saw each other in school. I'm friendly and she is so nice to me , and we always greet each other and talk . She started dressing really beautifully , and she might come to our class and talk with a teacher and we always exchange looks. She came to our class and told our teacher that she's leaving the school and that today was her last day. At the end of the classes, i went to her classroom , and told her that we will miss her. she immediately grabbed a paper and wrote her number and her website . Then, a teacher walked into the class and kept talking and once he left , she asked for my number and texted me her website. She invited me to her movie on october 8th , but i feel other teachers might be there and i'll look awkward. we exchanged texts and she always replied with awww. now it's around 11 p.m. and she sent me a message asking me to add her on FB and wish me good night. i replied that i don't have a facebok , then said we will miss her as a teacher. i don't wanna be in friendzone, and i wanna ask her if she's free on wednesday so we will meet at barnes and noble , so that will be an excuse to hang out with her . i'm nervous as i never dated before. help me. BTW. we both in our late 20's . she texted me : ( add me on FB .. and GN ) I replied ( i really don't have a facebook ) she replied with aw we will keep in touch over the phone GN i replied that we will miss her at school and hopefully we will have her as a sub teacher a lot. she replied i appreciate the kind words I An hour later, i texted ( did you watch the movie called ... ) but she didn't reply. i feel i screwed there .

So, my parents got divorced, and me and my boyfriend were dating when it started, and were still dating when it ended, which made us stronger. His parents are divorced too. We have talked about getting married, and we are both happy in the relationship, and have had no big giant fights. Do you think that both of our parents being divorced, will end in us being divorced?!?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BTW: My zodiac sign is Pisces, and his is Capricorn. Also, his name starts with an "R", and mine starts with an "H". If any of this changes your answer(s)!!! :)

My husband and I have been married two years whatever dated For two years before I got pregnant and decided why not get married... We are in love. We seem to have a good life together.. Go to lunch everyday eat dinner together good sex life.. Here's the catch, I'm always feeling like he doesn't love me. I don't even know why..? I always get scared he's going to look at another woman... I even went through his Facebook messages from four years ago and noticed he was kind of talking to a few women a month - 2 months after we first started dating... I love him so much. I just want to sit around and talk about "us" but he's not as into talking feelings.. I love him but I just feel so stuck not knowing if he loves me as much as I love him... Any comments or experiences would be very appreciated!! Thank you

I most likely would not. A lot of time being hurt can take a toll on your trust. I would be on my guard and not able to trust. What about you? I'd rather stay single the rest of my life. You?

My wife and I split chores, taking care of kids, both work. I give my wife breaks and take the kids out so she can relax or go on a run. When her back hurts I rub her back. Etc... However I have friends who go out every weekend while their wife stays home and watches kids, do the chores and all. Then I hear they get some quite often. Can someone explain?

@melissa...get the f**k out of here you fish-puss-as-bitc

My husband and I have been married for 2 years and 7 months. We have some problems, he feels it's okay to not be friends with me on facebook, his facebook also says that he is single, and he is mutually following many women whom he has met within these last 2+ years on Instagram, likes their photos, but unfollowed me from Instagram and never likes any of my photos. I am not an unattractive women. He also insists on bringing in roommates although we both make enough money to love alone. I told him I would prefer to live with just him, I'm kinda a homebody and don't like having a lot of people in my home, I thrived when I lived alone before our marriage, yet he continues to bring in roommates in our spare room and they are attractive females who speak his native language, Russian. I hardly know any Russian but I've been working to learn it as much as possible, and they never speak English around me. I feel so uncomfortable in my own home. These girls also are too comfortable walking around the house with him in the room while only wearing crop tops with their cleavage hanging out paired with shorts that dont even completely cover their rear ends! I'm at my wits end, any time i try to bring it up as an issue to him he says I'm just looking for a reason to fight. He drives them places and insists that I stay home. I have my mind set on leaving, but I wanted to get some unbiased opinions from people who dont know either of us personally before making the decision to divorce. I want to add that he also demands that I get my checks from my job (I make 45k salary, he makes $10 an hour 30 hours a week) set up to be directly deposited into his personal bank account so that I dont have access to my money. I recently quit my second job which only lasted a week because my boss decided to touch my breasts. I told him to never touch me again and he did it again nto once but twice. I pressed charges and my husband told me it was my fault and that I must have given him the ok.

I have been engaged for a year and a half, we are finally taking the steps to marriage, but now she is getting upset. It's a civil marriage which we both agreed and preferred to do, it's not for family, money or anything that she is getting scared for, and it's really upsetting me. She gets "stressed" for so many things that are simple but she claims they are so bad. We love each other to death and we always wanted to get married, and we both decided that now was a good time since she was getting too "stressed" 5 months ago when I asked if she was ready. And now as she was excited I asked her to come on down and get a license with me (she's 31 by the way) and she says it's too stressful. In my opinion she wants to be with me forever but never marry. She says it's a cage, but it's like wtf? We already live together and have been for months and love it? Nothing will change if we are married. It sounds childish, but even so, leaving her is never an option, what should I do?

From the time my husband wakes up to the time he goes to bed, he plays World of Warcraft. He does not pay the slightest bit of attention to me. He's 27 and I'm 25. He is the only one working right now, and tells me that because he is the only one working, he makes the rules and if I tell him I'm lonely or I feel like he's neglecting our marriage, I'm giving him "attitude." I cry every single day at some point because we don't have sex but once every 2 weeks if I'm lucky. I'm angry, I feel unwanted, I'm bitter, and all he wants to do is play that damn game. I called WoW "stupid" about a week ago and it ended in a HUGE argument where he slapped me in the face 3 times. He has absolutely no interest in sex or anything to get to that point. When I tell him how I feel he says he doesn't want to hear my "bullshit," he doesn't care, calls me annoying, and tells me if I don't like it I can leave. He asked me to blow him tonight and I told him no because it's not fair that he expects me to blow him but he won't make out with me, touch me or anything anymore. He said he deserves blow jobs because it's my job and he's taking care of me. When I start talking about how unattractive I feel it that I feel unwanted and I have needs too, he tells me to shut my mouth and asks me if I want slapped again. Im at my ******* wit's end and I'm tired of crying. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm also 22 weeks pregnant. Please help me.

we had a huge fight last night so to get even with me he showed photos of my bed wetting accident , when I get stressed I sometimes have accidents, I wear adult diapers when I feel that I could make mistake but of course I didn't wear one last night, he showed his buddies while watching football games on tv. One of his friends was so cute, he came to me and said I was still beautiful and that if I was ever single he would take me in a heartbeat. the other guys thought I was disgusting. Should I tell his friends they are no allowed in my home?

My husband got drunk and tried to hang himself in the garage -- he had the rope and ladder all set up and in the process of putting the rope on himself. We've had many disagreements over how we should live our life many months before this. He came from a very wealthy family but was emotionally and physically abused by his dad. As a result, he gets depressed and drunk. I was considering leaving him for the past month but now our relationship has escalated to this and I don't know what to do. Should I stay at home, quit my job, and watch him so he does not commit a suicide or leave him for good at which point, he will surely commit suicide. Police came and took him to the hospital. Please advise on what should I do? We have no kids and he is going through counseling but he says he isn't an addict how should I proceed?

I never seen to do anything right in my marriage. We have been together 5 years married 2 and he said there has never been once where I have ever done anything right. He doesn't treat my 10 year daughter right. Yesterday we stopped at circle K and the husband just ran in and he came back and got only me and him something and not her. She got upset and he told me she didn't need anything for herself. There's are so many other things

Why would a woman stick up for her ex husband when he was stealing stuff from work and she said what he did isn't wrong.

Any funny stories?

So I am friends with this female singer of mine who is my favorite. I took a screenshot of a music video of hers and putted in captions I'm bringing sexy back and then I posted it to her facebook. I got told by people that it was sexual harassment of what I did to her. I didn't really mean to hurt her at all and I was just trying to be silly and funny. Was it really wrong of me to do this to her ?

I know I'm the kind of guy that's into rape, and violence ... it's a turn on. but where do I go for this? my wife kicked me out last night. I need help she said. I'm at a hotel.

Part of the reason I divorced is because of interfering condecening inlaws. Now everytime there is a get together they tell me kids I'm invited. I never want to deal with these people again. I guess they are trying to be nice or something but then my kids are disappointed when I don't go. I feel like all they do is reinforce that i'm not there. What should I tell me kids about why I'm not there and how do I get the inlaws to respect that I don't want them to keep telling my kids I'm invited but not there? Dr. Stephanie- re read my question. They see their family all the time. I just don't want to see them and tjeir constant invitations thru my kids are the problem.

Where would I go?

my husband curse at me constantly. Say that i never do anything . Blaming me and others for things doesn't go his way. Calling others co worker, bosses, Stupid behind their backs. As a father, he does great job being provider but that's about it. He constantly wants me to take the kids with me and say he'll pay child support. He has no patience to teach or know how to. If foods are not being served , means there's no food. As his wife, i never say bad things about him to my family but he does it to me with his family. But in front of others, he always appears to be a nice guy who have a good paying job and decent. Therefore, i always appear to be a rebel and bad wife. Help please what should i do. i am really tired and lost hope in our marriage.

Guys, please be careful disposing your woman.

This is kinda long, but I will explain. He calls her at least 2 times a week, maybe three or she calls him, and all they do is complain about each other's significant other. (she is not married but has a boyfriend ) She is in a bad relationship with hers, he gets violent when he drinks and claims to not know what to do with him..or if she wants to break up. My husband says he feels stuck in our marriage even though in almost the same breath he says we are in counseling, things are getting better between us. I am feeling as if he doesn't know what he wants or is trying to get attention from her. I know for a fact they are not "romantically" involved. Husband throws out nasty comments regarding things I have done in our marriage and obviously still harbors some animosity about me or resentment. I don;t know what I can do to approach him about this. I've told him in no uncertain terms - he can come to me and we can talk, there is no more of this running to friends and complaining - our therapist even said the same thing. I want him to feel as if he can tell me anything without feeling afraid. His behavior is not acceptable.

Do you think that their wives know they are trying to get laid at work all the time?

My daughter is 20 and her husband is 22 and they are just recently married. They are coming down to visit us for the holidays. A lot of our family is going to stay with us during the holidays. My question is should I let them stay in one room together, while they are here for the visit. Or should I make her husband sleep on the couch? Keep them separated?

My friend needs help this is her story : My husband was raised practicing Orthodox Judaism In 2010 we started dating and in 2011 I fell pregnant. His family, mainly his mom required we marry and I convert. My husband barley saw me during the pregnancy and after much heated debate i was able to finish the 3 months left in earning my Bachelors degree. We married but in order for me to finish school I continued to live at home and he lived in the house his parents bought for him 2 hours north of me. He came to see me 4 or 5 times in the 5 months we were apart. I gave birth to our son and didn't move in with my husband until our son was 6 weeks old . Upon moving in I found that my husband would require me to live there in secret not telling anyone of our marriage or son. When my son was 4 months he finally told his neighbors of our marriage and when our son was 5 months he finally told his neighbors and family about his new son. continued in comments.....

My wife and I have been married for 5 years. She's 34 and I'm 30. We talked about having children and I was very happy and excited about the prospect of being a father. Now, we just found out my wife is pregnant. I'm bummed. I feel like there was so much more we needed to do before we had a child. My wife and I both wanted to complete our PhD's and fix up the house and travel like we did previously. She recently lost her job 2 months ago so I'm the main source of income. I can't help but be bummed out. It really stinks! Is this a bad sign? Is our marriage basically doomed because I don't want this child?

My husband and I were together for seven years before we got married. My heart wasn't in it when I got married, I did it because I felt like it was the right thing to do and I owed him. He paid for my masters degree and has financially supported me for years I really regret this now. I realized after marrying him and doing some research on odd behavior he has always had that he likely has Aspergers. This is close to autism and just means he has issues with language (he took speech therapy as a kid) he finds it difficult to make eye contact and worst of all he is extremely socially awkward to the point that I'm embarrassed of him. Actually the worst part is how lonely being with him is. People with Aspergers have a hard time connecting emotionally with others. I don't have sex with him anymore bc afterwards he would get straight out of bed and say he felt he needed to be productive. He is very much like the Vulcans on Star Trek, and when I accused him of being like a Vulcan he said that was a complement bc he was "above emotion". Him being this way makes him a good employee as he is very good at math (that's it though) and works in finance. He is obsessed with being productive and lacks the ability to b even remotely romantic. We haven't had sex in a year and it doesn't seem to bother him, like most things. I'm afraid to live my entire life without having sex just bc I shouldn't get divorced

My husband and I have been married 25 years. I've seen him angry and we've had our issues like every couple. Last night I never in my life saw him so angry.My husbands sister lied to my husband about his father. She told him everything was great his dad was doing well etc. A day later it came out she had lied and that his father had a very serious car accident the night before and may not make it. We live 5 hours from his father. My husband FLIPPED OUT at his sister. I've never in my entire life seen him this angry. I never knew he could get that angry. It was to the point where if his sister was here I truly believe he would have gotten violent with her. He left, didn't take any clothing nothing with him and headed to the hospital to be by his fathers side. I've decided to stay out of it. It all happened so fast. I'm very shaken up and scared. What should I do. I've never in our 25 years of marriage seen him behave like that EVER!

small pen*s? poor job, ugly? lets say a guy was 43 and his wife was 54 ? this guy couldn't get a girl his own age so he had to settle for expired woman.

even men wh0 are gentlemen and fr0m 0ld upper class families d0 tjis s0metmes. in eurpe the upper class men w0uld never d0 this. it is n0t right t0 supp0rt a w0men financially wh0 has past l0vers, and if they have them they must bring wealth int0 the marriage as well, usually great wealth. i see men in the USA wh0 are weLTHY MARRY sl utty freel0aders..its crazy

many times, so I had a few of my friends write letters about wife and their affairs but now my lawyer says he never got them, then I find out that my wife is sending nude photos to my attorney. He is so smitten with her but my wife is pure evil. I feel like I am being used but I am broke and cant find another attorney. isn't this illegal?

She admitted to the phone affair. I discovered it was also physical. I see no sign of remorse, I do not see or feel any attempts from her side to comfort me. She is always like, it happend we discussed it, lets move forward. Why is she not remorseful? What can I do to make her feel remorse or shame?

My divorce is final. The judge awarded my home to me. I have the certifed copy of the divorce decree.stating I get the house. My ex name is on the title. Can I use the decree in lieu of a quit claim form or anything else to get him off the title. In Arizona can I use my certified Divorce Decree to take my ex off the title of my house? Edit

I am BC (Hindu) married a girl from MBC (Christian). Wil this marriage come under Inter Caste Marriage Act? Can I get the benifits from that?

He finally came home and I told him I wanted to save and leave. He asked me to stay just a little longer and work things out. He wants me to pray with him. He said he found alot of good people when he couldn't come home. He said he wants to live life and doesn't care about the money house or car. Out of everything he said he never said sorry for hitting me. He believesaid me and him can work through never being violent again. I feel bad because he's really happy to be home with me and all I want to do is find a way to get away after we get paid again. I even got him room mates so he could pay his mortgage. Also he only kissed me onetime since he has been home and didn't say sorry he just made promises.

we were the love of each other's lives for 15 years, we lost track of each other long ago and a year and a half we reappear in each other's lives when he got divorced and my husband threatened to divorce me each of us for different reasons, we swear we wanted to be with each other so when I accepted to divorce my husband he no longer wanted the divorce and instead kept threatening me that if I did he was gonna take whole custody of our child or at least make it as contentious as possible. After 15 years of not even knowing if I was gonna see the love of my life again we were together for first and only time that we got to hug, kiss and make it, since my situation is now kind of complicated I suggested him to find someone else in the mean time I trusted his word of leaving everything or anybody for me, then he found someone else he said it was not love, but he also said I was not longer the love of his life, so I told him horrible things like I am more attracted to my husband now, you have hurt me more than my husbands fists, Idk and Idc about you, now I see why your ex gf broke up with you, you are the most selfish person I've ever met, and even the lie of making him believe I had been sleeping with my husband during that year and a half he had been waiting on me, then I tried to apologize and he said no amount of apologies will ever undo what I said, I told him about the proves of the promises I made and convinced him I didn't have sex, but he still doesn't want to know anything about me, after I sent him that message I block him and what happened is I was getting the money I needed in order to get out of my house, pay for a lawyer to get me divorced, because even though I already had reasons to get divorced I didn't care because I knew my hell was gonna be the same not being with him, but when he said he loved me I was the happiest woman, and now this sadness I try not to think of is killing me and I have even asked a friend of mine to play the ouija board and ask it if he would go back to me because that is the same crap what he did in the past, I know why I want him / need him to hear him say those words again so just please I need to know what my chances are of this happening again

whenever were together, he puts his fingers in my crotch over my skirt or pants, and he starts to vigorously rub to make my eyes close and my head go back.

Okay so I to clarify. I m not against my husband watching porn, I do it too. The main problem is that my husband has trouble getting off more then once a day. He busts his nut once and then he s done. We have two different shifts, so while I m at work he ends up watching hentai and masturbating, which means that I will not be having sex that day. Watching porn is out of the question too because he can only get off on hentai, while I can only really get off on regular porn. My sex life is pretty much nonexistent and has been replaced. It s making me bitter, angry, insecure, and betrayed. He refuses to see a doctor, what should I do? Watching porn together is out of the question*

She "guards"it, i asked to look and she got mad. Were married and i use to go through hers all the time and she could mine too. There was no issue until a year after marriage. She also took a 200 mile trip to mississippi in a car thats broke and broke down up there. She said it was to hang with her friend but its not adding up. I had to go get her car.. she stopped giving me oral as well even though i still gave her oral. Help me please

We had been together for 7 years and we had a talk about where our relationship was going and I lied and I said that I didn't know and wasn't ready for marriage and don't think I'll ever want to get married, even though I do. He said that if I didn't want to get married, then he had to break up with me because he was looking for someone to spend the rest of his life with and didn't want to keep dating someone who he will never marry. I actually DO want to get married and I want to get married to HIM, but I froze up and lied and said I didn't want to get married ever because I didn't want to appear clingy. I am so stupid and ruined a relationship with the man I thought I would get married to. Now if I tell him I actually do want to marry him, he will think I'm lying.