I've only had sex with him no other guys, but I know it could have been better (a guy who was more aggressive and had a bigger ding dong), however for the soft gentle sex he provided I am missing it.

My husband divorced me for another woman that he knocked up. Now, they are married with a child of their own while our son visits occasionally. I have been thinking of ways to break them up and recently, I got my opportunity. While his wife was out of town on business, my husband went out drinking and called me late at night and told me to come over. He said he was horny and needed to get laid. I went over and agreed to have sex with him. While we were having sex, i secretly audio recorded it with my phone. When his wife returned, I sent her an audio recording of us having sex. She was livid mad and hurt. She took their child and left their house. She now wants to divorce him and have full custody of their child. I thought he would use that as an opportunity to get back with me. But he surprised me! He said he hates me with a passion and that I ruined his life. He says he doesn't even remember us having sex that night. (He was completely inebriated. I will admit). He says I took advantage of his drunken state and that I'm a horrible person. He even wants to try to get full custody of our son now. What's his problem? He's the one that called me over for sex. He wouldn't have called me for that if he didn't still have feelings for me.

GIVE MY PHUCKING 47 Y/O LOSER HUSBAND A PHUKING JOB! I WANT TO HAVE FUN NOT WATCH THE "GOLDEN WHORES"! gdtfh I AM NOT USED TO GOING TO BED B4 2AM ON WEEKENDS. I AM USED TO GOING OUT TO DINNER TO DECENT PLACES AND GOING TO A POOL HALL OR DANCE AT AN 80's THEMED BAR AND GO TO BED AT 3AM LIKE MOSTPARTY PEOPLE DO. I WANT SOME COCAINE TOO! OK I am NOT going to eat a damn thing until I get some PHUKING shrimp god dammit to butt phukcing hell

It's been almost a year (around new years) since I cheated on my husband and he found out. I begged him to stay together for my daughter and his son's sake. They don't need to go through divorce again. Breakfast this morning was awful. My daughter's birthday is next week and we were fighting at the table as usual. Our kids were also at the table trying to make plans. We were yelling I guess so the kids couldn't hear themselves think. The kids are so angry with us. My daughter told us to "Stop shouting!" I told her "Pardon me?" That's when my stepson went off: "You know what? I'm tired of this. I was wrong. You should just break up already." Then my daughter said "He's right" and started tearing up. They whispered to eachother. They said they wanted to go to school early. They asked for a ride to school and my husband took them. SOMEHOW on the ride to school they convinced my husband to get a divorce. My daughter told me when they got home and then I asked her how dare she do that. She just said "You did this". Then she told me she wants to stay with her dad more because staying with me is affecting her negatively and she's gonna tell her dad. I tried to talk to my stepson (he's usually not rude) but he just stared me down and said "My dad can do and deserves better... we all deserve better, you're worse with him than my mom". I was shocked. My husband said it's for the best because it's creating a toxic environment and he doesn't feel the same about me anymore. How can I stop my husband from getting a divorce and to love me fully again. How do I stop the kids from resenting us. (They weren't like this until this year). I just want it to go back the way it was before.

Cant seperate the blacks and whites Seperate the men and women though

My husband left me back on January for his affair partner. He has since then moved in with her. I have accepted that and moved on. I don't want someone like that back. We have filed for divorce and started the process. Recently he found out I have been seeing someone and made no reaction if he was mad or not. He is also very mad that his family is on my side and not his. Well at pick up he showed up with his girlfriend in the car. I have told him numerous times not to throw it in my face so I said your not taking my child. He walked into the police station and filed a domestic assault charge on me stating that I shoved him, which I didn't. He was blocking me in the car and I couldn't get away so I walked past him and that was it. Why is he being so bitter towards me. I just want him to leave me alone and he won't. If he is so happy why can't he just be with her and leave me alone. She smiled at me that whole time while this was going on almost like a silent screw you. I just don't understand when we first broke up he was crying on the phone because he didn't know what to do and not this. What do I do.

Legitimate research please

Ok so Kath is married i said that yesterday. before we say what we are doing is immoral we need to have ALL the info first. They have been together 5 years, how do we know the husand isnt also doing the same thing? Also the culture is hispanic so the women are not encouraged to divorce or leave so you cannot blame her for choosing to stay and cheating. In some ways this is easier for the kids. Separation is terrible. Look what know one doesnt know cannot hurt them. I'm very ig on virginity and mental innocence but i can also be the most open minded guy in the world. Lets study this from all angles. The husband prolly cheats also they are catholic so divorce is a no no. I hate to admit this but over the past month my feelings are getting stronger. She actually told this to me last time but i brushed it aside like i didnt hear it. Not only did i hear it i thought about it while drtiving back . I'm not gonna stop seeing her and i've never used a condom with her. If she gets pregnant i am gonna take the kid if it turns out mine. lol. Stella, What if he is also cheating which he most likely is? She cannot leave cuz of the kids and catholic culture. He may even be a bit abusive now and then. This is much better for everyone. The kids for sure. Look he comes home and drinks a 6 pack of beers. This only confirms my theory about the first year being the best. Maturity is irrelevant. This is life. She cant leave but also deserves a life..

I am 31 but look very young for my age. People always assume I am in my early to mid 20's. I also cannot grow a full beard or put on a lot of muscle. I am 6'1" and 3/4 (almost 6'2") and cannot become muscular. I was 175 lbs despite lifting heavy, eating over 3,000 calories per day, eating protein shakes and taking body building supplements. But I've undergone a lot of stress lately and lost weight and am now only 167. :( I am starting to look very childish and awkward. Is this a turnoff for women? Is this why women don't like me? How can I look older, more masculine, and more distinguished? I want to be a robust slayer.

How often do you and your partner have sex? Are you always the one asking for sex or are they always wanting it? It seems like I'm always asking my husband (of two years) for sex. He is rarely ever the one to ask me. He works six days a week (3 of those days are out of town) so our sex life has been very boring. He only gets one day off from work so I always try to take advantage of it and try to have sex several times that day. He usually always gives in because he doesn't want to upset me. The other day when he came home from being gone for three days he walked in the door and demanded sex and I wish he was like that all the time. We went at it for several hours that night and it felt like he was actually attracted to me again and not annoyed that I always want sex. Should I back off and limit how much sex we have? Is it normal for the female to be the one that always wants sex?

Any advice

My wife & I separated over a month ago, two weeks ago we spoke & she said that she wanted to reconcile but asked me to give her a few weeks? A few weeks to think & breathe & then she would call me. It's already been 2 weeks & still no call, should I contact her?

My husband decided to leave me about a week and a half ago. I cried for the first few days, felt like everything was my fault, and even tried bargaining with him. Now I feel invigorated. I feel happy, and I feel like I have my life back. I m not sure why though. This separation was not my idea, and I was completely blindsided. I ve always wondered if he s abusive, but didn t know for sure because he always accused me of being crazy and abusive. Since I m okay during this separation, does that mean that he was right? Am I really crazy and abusive? Am I in denial? I thought about it, and I wonder if I would take him back if he asked. So I m not sure if I m in denial or not.

First time leaving them this long. 2 kids 5 and 1. Intense training forba new job which involves overnight travel. So basically she is pissed because I did not greet her upon waking. Calling or texting every hour or asking for pictures of the kids. So after this past tuesday she got pissed so i didnt bother to ask her anything. I just called to speak with my 5 yr old and skyped every night. She did not talk to me so its my fault as usual. First mistake was falling asleep tues nite while skyping. Mind u i told the wife i had a crazy headache and wasnt feeling well. Son got angry. N always got angry if i had to go bk to training class or dinner or whater. So she is pissed cuz he tells her i just hang up on him which is not true at all. I already lost all my people skills from not interacting with people. I dont have family or friends to talk to so my famiy is all i have... So trying to network with colleagues was at a minimum. I thought i did the best i could with the crazy training schedule but i guess it wasn't enuff in her eyes. Plus i was 1 hour back and 3 hrs driving distance I guess my question is how to handle this situation. Im not good at confrontations.

So I have recently met someone I completely feel is the one. We have clicked on everything. However she is married and she wants to fix her marriage even though she feels the same way....thats besides the point . I have proven to be an honest good man ,but someone told her husband on the internet that his wife was seeing someone behind his back. So now she doesn't even want to know that I exist or here my side of the story. She said " thank you because now I can really try and fix my marriage". What can I do? I at least still want to be friends with her.. I know in my brain and heart that she is making a big mistake....we see each other in class almost every day. Please help

My husband and i have been together for almost 4 years, married for almost 2. We had a pretty great relationship. We were very happy. He joined the military right after our first anniversary. Right after bootcamp he came home and he opened up to me and totally broke down. He realized that he had made a huge mistake. He is a family man and it kills him being so far away from his family. And he was under so much pressure. It just wasn't what he wanted to do. After that he flew to cali for MCT and a month later he flew to Jacksonville for MOS school. It just wasn't what he wanted to do. After that he flew to cali for MCT and a month later he flew to Jacksonville for MOS school. Thats when things started to fall apart. He began to really feel the pressure. And i was starting to get impatient because he wasn't trying to make any time to talk to me at all. And we ended up breaking up. We got back together i think about a month later. Then we ended up breaking up in november for a few days. I now realize that when things get too hard for him im the one he pushes away. Well we made it rhough all of that, he came home and things were great! He proposed to me on christmas and we got married in january. I moved to DC with him in march. Things were great! Until parade season hit. My husband had been working alot. He was under way more pressure this time. He would come home late on tuesdays and fridays. And he would have PT every wednesday and he was just so stressed out all the time. We fought alot but we made it through! I ended up having a miscarriage and i fell into a very deep depression. He was too busy dealing with his own issues, he wasnt really there for me Well this year he had parade season as well but he worked so much more! May-august he literally worked about 85% of the time. Never had any time for himself much less me! It was rough. I was still fighting depression and honestly i think he is too. I have seen the military literaply suck the life out of him. It broke my heart to see what he had gone through this summer. Things got really bad. And we werent spending ANY time together so we got really bad as well. I have been there for my husband since day one. When he had literally nothing to his name. Now he wants a divorce. We were near perfect for parade season. Now he says he doesn't feel anything for me. But he also says he is numb and honestly i dont think he feels anything at all. He is pushing me away because its too much for him to deal with right now. What should i do? How can i get through to him? He needs help, people dont think right when they are depressed. He pushes everyone away. He is not himself at all lately. I just don't know what to do. i know ive made mistakes but i have learned from them and i have grown up alot since hes been in the military. I just hate seeing him this way and i just dont know what to do. There is no need to be rude. I have changed. That was two years ago. I have realized my faults and mistakes. And actually i never said i was upset because he wouldn't pick up my call or reply "immediately" he wouldn't call or text really at all. He completely pushed me away for no reason. I wouldnt bother him about these things i would get frustrated and keep it to myself. I was grateful any time i got the chance to hear from him. But then he started pushing me and his family away I realize after that I should have rephrased the question but am not able to edit it. I just wanna hear from someone who understands what he is going through and hopefully can give me some advice on how to deal with it. Or possibly help him. Or even something that might help save my marriage

Long story short I met a really good dancer social dancing who soon became my salsa partner. We would go out dancing on weekends to practice and get better. I really enjoyed spending time with this person but I always viewed him as a friend. Sometimes we would hang out outside of dance also but always as friends. There was a period of time where things weren t going well with my husband and we were hanging out. He knew this and tried to take advantage of my vulnerability by trying to kiss me. This was the only time that he ever crossed the line. I feel absolutely awful about myself for not reprimanding him and putting my foot down. Instead it took me a while to pull away but I still didn t let anything happen. He didn t even touch my lips! I shouldn t have even said anything about mine and my husbands situation. Is there such a thing as almost cheating? Was this situation my fault? One of my friends said regardless of the factors I didn t let it happen so I shouldn t feel guilty. Is she right? Now that I look back on it I feel as if I could have indirectly been leading him on the whole time. I didn t like him. I liked that he was a great dancer and friend. :( (So much of a friend right?) I learned from this mistake and realize now that I shouldn t be spending so much time with someone else while I am married.This happened about 9 months ago. I didn t feel guilty then but now I feel extremely guilty for not pulling away immediately. My husband knows that he tried to kiss me.

I'm slso older than him like 15 years... It's a silly crush.

I share children with my ex husband. We get along well for the most part although sometimes he's a jerk. Throughout our marriage he was very verbally abusive, manipulative and controlling and getting him to pay child support has been a hassle and a power struggle. He is content in coming over to my place to see our kids however I wish he would get his act together and take his kids sometimes without me being involved. He will call at the last minute and come by my house and want to see our kids there. He will sit on my couch and watch movies and play video games. This is starting to annoy me even though the kids like it. What should I do?

Even if he has stopped seeing the mistress. Will the married couple rekindle? Will things get better?

So my husband lost it on his brother and ended up choking him! He was yelling at him so loud and telling him to get OUT OF OUR HOUSE! IMMEDIATELY! My brother in law is definitely an annoying disgusting loser and my husband finally lashed out on him! Funny thing is, my brother in law didn't leave despite my husband beating him and choking him out and telling him to leave. Because he claimed he had "no where to go!" yea, because he hasn't worked in 10yrs!just living off of us! I've only seen my husband this angry like 2times,this being the second, since Ive been with him! So I know he really lost it on him! Don't want to get the police involved, also scared to even ask my husband about why he's not leaving because he might lose it on BIL again. How can I handle this, we both really want the bother to leave, just trying to do it peacefully but he won't go, despite us asking him numerous times?

So my husband and brother in law

I am highly aware of the time difference and the chance of her being busy.coping with jet lag.. I waited 2 days " I did send her a couple text asking if shes okay but I didnt get any response" and I called her on the 3rd day and she answered with a weird chillant tone.. I was expecting at least maybe few to maybe 10 minutes.. but there is times I get a text from her saying she just got back to her hotel and its 2am.. There is also another problem - she did mention about having maternal depression in the past - Tried asking her if she wanted to talk someone.. but avoided it... She mention about taking trips to other areas while over there..just to relax and to sooth her depression. On the 4th day - she called me -and mention she was sorry for not calling and saying she was going back to her hotel room but right after she was having dinner.. I waited 3 hours and i decided to call her and she didnt answer- type of call and you know someone hangs up on you- I called her again multiple times and she finally picked up saying not now - shes with her co workers talking and just doing their job home work...." her co - workers are all girls " i did get upset at her I raised my voice asking whats wrong what are you doing? where are you .. she txt me the next day says she knows I miss her.. been 2 days now no calls - just text saying shes traveling was expecting a call to say goodnight to our daughter. I pretty much gave up on any type of communication and just focus on having vacation play time with our kids.. she did clal last night on our skype.. but I wasnt there.. and she called me a asshole for not answering.??? I decided to give her space and will only limit any communication to her via text - This morning she called my phone - but I decided not to anwswer since I was carrying my kid and trying to clean up after the mess .. but she gets angry ?? I sent her a message telling her what I was doing and why. The first 3 days I was trying to hold back my tears beause I missed her ..but I gain alot skills recently.. I am able to recite 40 children songs by heart =)

I have been married 21yrs with him 23. We have a 19 yr old son still at home. We had a good relationship for the first 5 years even when I was pregnant he did not drink. After that it has been a down hill roller coaster. He started drinking on the weekends never spent time with me and my son. He was abusive verbally physically more than I can count but never flat out hit me. Now that we are both older he is still verbally both to me and my son. Putting us down left and right. He still drinks every weekend and sometimes during the week. He spends it with his friends and he puts everyone else s needs before ours. I love him but not in love with him anymore. He gets so drunk he can t walk. He never helps me do anything. I even do yard work and it s been that way for 7 years. I just want to be happy and be with someone else that will love me and at least show it. Spend time with me you know. I recently ran into my first love and we both want to leave our spouses to be with each other. We have that spark. It hit both of us when our eyes met. We haven t seen each other in 23 years but we still have "that magic I can t explain" I haven t cheated on my husband and don t intend to. I just want more in life. I m not getting any younger. I have tried to tell him how I felt several times. He just doesn t get it. HELP PLEASE!!!!

I have been married for 2 years, with my husband for 4 years. After we got together he told me that he used to smoke crack occasionally, but hadn't in a long time. That was upsetting to me because I would never be with someone who smokes crack. I would never smoke crack, and I look down on the people that do. Off and on for our relationship he has said at times that he wants to smoke it. I get upset and tell him to please not. We have been trying to have a baby for 4 years. I feel that I can no longer try to do that if he does smoke it. The past couple of days he has been saying that he is going to get some today (when we get paid). I have begged him not to because I did not choose to be with someone who smokes crack and I never would. I love him with all of my heart and am very dependent on him emotionally. I have a lot of issues and to be honest, if things don't work out with my husband I plan to not live anymore. Please don't judge me or comment based on that. That is not my issue. You cannot change the fact that I am severely depressed and don't want to go on with life without him. I have been through terrible traumatic experiences throughout my life. He has went ahead and taken $20 out of our bank account today and I called him. He has already picked it up. I am so upset. I do not want to be with someone who smokes crack. We have been trying to save up for a house wtf. Noone has ever decided that they would be a crack addict. Noone wants to be an addict, it just happens. I have tried telling him I am telling his papaw and his work. He just got upset with me and told me that's messed up. I am so upset. Please tell me what to do. Please. I don't want to be with someone on crack. And I don't want to lose my husband. People that smoke crack don't make good parents. I wanted him to be a father, not a loser.. I'm balling my eyes out. I hate my life. I feel desperate. Also, my fertility is failing as we speak. I am 34 and my hormones are going wacky. Of course I don't want to have a baby with someone who smokes. I don't even want to be with someone who smokes. It's disgusting to me. I am so upset. I'm at work right now and I am going to have to leave. I can't stop crying. He is ruining our lives. I knew that he had smoked it before. He was never an addict. It was occasional. His mom smoked it with him. I hate her. He hasn't smoked it in the 4 years we have been together. Do I tell him I'm leaving him if he does it? Do I tell his papaw? He acts like I'm wrong for not "letting him be himself". I feel like I'm right to not want him to harm himself.

She still uses them (the mold, not the exes)from time to time. Im not sure how i feel about this. Im uncomfortable with it but im secure enough in our marriage to not feel threatened. How would you react?

I'm going to wait a decade to start dating, I have my reasons, but what are the advantages of dating in your mid to late 30's and what are some disadvantages ? Thanks !

All I am asking for is moderation. Yes, he does work 40+ hours a week, and he enjoys gaming on his days off. However, that is ALL that he does on his days off. We don t speak, or share a meal, or even sleep at the same time. He says that I should be happy that he is home instead of going out to clubs and doing things he shouldn t be doing. Am I wrong for being upset? I didn t say he couldn t play the game, but at least take a couple of hours to spend with me. Your thoughts, please.

Husband has cheated and just had 3 year anniversary. Went to dinner but there was no sex...sex is rare...will it end in divorce or not?

What is that mean when your husband tells you he feels a special connection with another woman he "met " online never met? What is that mean when your husband tells you he feels a special connection with another woman "met" but never met?

His friends will stay from friday to sunday (without leaving) and always sleep at our appt. Ive talked to him about it but every time i do he gets defensive and says im being selfish. I told him i want private time with him and am tired of waking up to his friends on the couch all the time. We are newly weds and he is deploying very soon and all i want is time with him before he goes. I dont think im asking for too much:/

I met my husband while he was studying language elsewhere. He is from another European country. He was the nicest and sweetest man. His visa, it turns out, was valid for 2 years. We have since got engaged, married and now have an infant son. His visa ran out while he was with me and I was having a terribly pregnancy. For that, I filed all my papers and doctor's notes and presented them, hired an attorney and it looks like he won't be deported but is allowed to stay. He is my age and has worked in mandatory military service in Scandinavia, after which he decided to be postman and then he joined university and quit it because the curriculum was not exactly what he wanted to be to the T. His parents are worried about his future. Luckily, I can support us both and have invested money, saved some and made little applications and do freelance work that generates revenue so we are fine financially together. When he is mad, he tells me that he hates being here and the only reason that he is is because we are. On the other hand, he wants me to invest in building a CLUB for his martial arts hobby for which he can be an instructor. I thought if he loves it then so be it. Let's work on it. Nothing changed. No efforts taken. I also explained to him the importance of a university degree if only as a fallback if he is raising a family and would like to expand his horizons and help with many charitable projects my father has set. He keeps complaining about the job that is now on hold home I take care of the electricity bill, rent, household items. Everything including his lawyer. I have asked him for one thing in return. To motivate himself and to try! He refused on the grounds that he wants to focus on a club. It is all fine and well until his parents rightfully ask him if he had thought about his future. I used to fend them off and talk about the club but now I realise that he is nowhere near knowing how to even go about it (I am doing the legal paperwork and bank stuff. He tells me how much he hates here. How much he hates his job in sweden. How, with a child and only one of us working, he feels like he should have a purpose so I asked him if he would like to take up education again but he was overwhelmed. I offered to be with him all the way through and told him failure is a part of life, even though it is difficult but nothing will change. I am naturally busier than him but I am cramming so we can get both of us on a path we would like but whenever whenever we talk about the future and he shows enthusiasm and I look things up and try to present him with things, he says at the age of 32, he only has a highschool diploma and dropped out of college for no good reason but because he thought that working on his own terms with teenagers in school as PE teacher is fine but his own terms don't work in the real world. I swear I have never raised my voice or have been aggressive, but I have told him that he should try with baby steps towards a degree and if it fails, it fails. We will always support him. But lately whenever we talk about that, he falls asleep. He can be on games for 38290 hours and I asked him why can't we talk for a little bit instead of gaming, have a game plan. Nothing changed. Instead, he said that I am trying to make him something he is not and he hates it here so I told him I am quite happy if he wants to return home instead and work in a job he hates for the rest of his life for a lousy pension. Only when I talk, he sleeps. When I approach the subject, he starts the waterworks and how much opportunity he has and now is lost so we decided to start at the start. English language test as he would like to go to an English university. This has made his elderly parents so happy and set my mind at ease. Somehow, he forgets all that the next day and goes out to do martial arts, alone. I intercepted him today and told him baby can't be in the sun for ann hour watching him. Also I know this is weird, but I recently found out that he talks crap about me to his family. That I am the vulture. They don't like me very much and he joined them. Luckily at that time there was another girl who could understand and she told me what was being said. I am still recovering from a bad birth and still working. He says he will do things but is always gaming. He shouts at the child. Squeezes him so tight to force him to sleep. So many skills he missed out on because he was because the child when I am working or not around hardly has his nappy changed or fed. Instead he is fed water with a little sugar in it (1 month premature, not he is 5 months old minus one. When I fall asleep at the keyboard and the baby doesn't want to sleep I wake up with him yelling at the baby or because the baby won't sleep and up screaming. Today he wanted to take him to the park when theres a serious alert re typhoon. Nothing about what we talked about works. I asked him to do his but his idea was parking a baby in a stroller and making him watch when I am here and I volunteered to take care of him and try to get him on a schedule, which he got mad at. Also baby has a long day at the hospital so I wanted him to relax. I told him that yesterday and he is very angry that I did not remind him about 10 hours later. We were meant to go to lunch together and then I split for a dental appointment and have dinner with a friend with a rested baby. So they went out anyway only only for a walk during which I told him that we can have baby out that long bug a stroll is nice. He threw a fit and decided not train and wonders why training is different than walking. He asked for help re academics. I offered. He is disinterested. I napyped while they were out after working on something and made the baby babthroom ready and sent a message saying that theres no point in lunch, let him rest then I will bathe him. (he swims with a ring around his head in the bathtub so I laid everything, light on ceiling and the stuff he enjoys rather than gallavanting on a rainy day. He took tha as "I dont want you to martial art training". He forgot baby has along long day, even though I told him. So the message said put him for a nap and then we will bathe while he registers our marriage (for a chance to stay) but never happened which reflects badly on his immigration status. I had my towels and dress and he came and shoved them off because when he got back I was napping. Im a little immobile from a c-section gone horribly wrong but gaining my energy so I was looking forward to it and the fact that he shows interest in his future. He knew I wanted to the park on Saturday when the typhoon passes through. I told him in the text that maybe lunch won't work but out of spite and anger everything thats mine was thrown out. I have been told when I talk to him about his education, he feels bored and sleeps. Talking never works. He has zero interest. He called me childish for telling him that a recently vaccinated baby in hot wey ather and big chance that it may flip. He called me childish when I tried to talk to him about his future and ours but he gets really condesceding. He thinks that drinking two bottles of wine, not occasionally or ordering beer with a child in his arms is okay but hat latter when I was there and took him away. I was the one who suggested the park tomorrow. Our marriage is unregistered in his home country STILL. Hurls of insults at every opportunity. Foul language. Is there any hope?ays, he is He doesnt remember. For the first few months I gave him clear instructions on what to do because I was bedridden for while. He is angry at me now and he is hurtful and viscious when angry. Talking never works and he falls asleep immediately however if its the gym, even with no sleep, he runs to it. "sports and games are interesting"when I asked him to talk to me. And so here we are... he holds the fact that he overstayed his visa over my head because it I want there, he would go so his presence is a favour.... but arrest and deportation are looming and then he won't be able to see his child whom he loves. its early days.....(of marriage... only 7 months) so do I stick out or shall I say enough is enough? When my brother passed away killed by someone he was about to section.... I was sad, But he told me just to put it aside and move on. That is only about a month and sometimes it hits me in the gut so I am sad so I go out and do my crying because I dont wanna disturb but he can hear the sobbing and comes out to me asking me "what happened?". The baby was a mutual decision but first his idea. He told me to find someone I can relate to if I want to talk (even though I never asked for that) I am not allowed to be sad. am not okay being the responible person if all I get insults. His parents talked to me and they really want him to think about his future, because who knows. I want him to try... and if it doesnt work then he tried. Shall I bow out? I think his parents were really excited about him having an education and a business and I am happy to give it to him in name but there is no effort being made alone and snarky hurtful comments instead. Will this pass?

My childs father arevtryna make things work after 3 years of not actually seeing each other and things ended really badly,through those 3 years her proposed to the woman who broke us up she also has children by him, she broke us up by doing bad things to him and because she knew about me and i knew nothing about her framed me ,cause he was doing her wrong. Now fast foward 3 years later im hurt by the fact he even proposed and gave her a ring i was with hin before her great girlfriend did everything for him and he never proposed to me. We are tryna make things work but this is hurting to me, and he hates that i bring it up.

My husband's best friend is completely obsessed with his ex girlfriend and mother of his kids. She left him to move in with her parents. He can hardly keep a job and whenever we see him, he sits around with the pity party about how he cant see his kids and his ex wont marry him or take him back. On his Facebook profile, he has put her photo instead of his own. It is really weird and we cannot fathom why one would do this. What is the reason behind this?