I'm accepting the fact I won't get a girl. I'm almost done in college and I never talk to girls and never had a girlfriend. I'm too shy and even though people tell me grow a pair and do something I won't cause I'm too shy or call me a p**** idc. I've had several crushes but never been able to do anything about it. Time to move on in life but girls are hot and beautiful. I just want to stop caring and see I'd be better off without girls anyway

I dunno but that sure seems slanted against men who are forever single by choice. I'm a guy who wants to be forever single, and I've noticed that stereotype a lot. It's better to get yourself out of loser-hood and get a livable career going rather than be permanently in loser-hood but in a relationship/married and barely scraping by, even if your marriage/relationship is happy. Besides if you're in loser-hood it's much easier to get out of it yourself than to have to try and get out of it with someone else dragging you down, and if guys like myself or like many US guys nowadays wanna get out of loser-hood, they must not get attached to anyone and work their butts off and take any and all opportunities they can even if they must burn a few bridges since our economy is so bad. Besides you can still have good friendships and do fun stuff you want to do, without spending too much money of course, rather than be tied down, so honestly there shouldn't be such bad stereotypes of proud, permanent bachelors

Hola que tal. Ayer tube relaciones con un trans, fue sexo anal fuy activo pero use condon en ningun momento se salio ni se rompio, dure muy unos cuantos minutos y lo saque, mi duda es si tengo riesgo de contraer una enfermedad de transmision sexual

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

*mostly for guys* It's a long complicated story but I accidentally disrespected the guy I like by crossing his boundaries when I tried to get him to change his mind about something he didn't want, he got mad & lashed out and told me not to text him anymore & then I got mad cause I felt like he went from being nice to being a complete jerk so I felt the sudden urge to text back & call him stubborn & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & then after awhile I started feeling really bad & decided to apologize because it was kind of selfish and wrong of me & I told him that I acted out on emotion & hoped things  went well for him, at first i thought he blocked me but this morning I was really curious if he did & called him using *67 and it rang twice & I hung up after that cause i got scared he might randomly answer, anyway wouldn't ring once & go straight to voicemail if he blocked me? Well anyway, if he did see it & read it why do you think he ignored it?i thought he would at least appreciate and understood... Don't guys like it when girls admit their wrong? It's been a couple of weeks now & im wondering how he feels about the whole situation like is he still pretty mad? Is he holding a grudge, does he not care to be on good terms.. its been driving me crazy not knowing he how feels? Does he feel as shitty as I do about it? Please share your opinions

I am in my mid twenties (25) and I foolishly fell in love with a man who is doubled my age and... not available. We spent an amazing 9 months together, we literally lived together during the week while he stayed in the area for work (his home is 2+ hours away from work). Unfortunately the company we work for was bought by another and half of management was laid off; he was one of the layoffs. So he left the area and now that he's back home, he's still reaching out to me daily, telling me he loves me and misses me, and he's even visited me a few times. But this is wrong and it's not fair to anyone, not me, him, or his family. I need to move on but I don't know how, I've never been in love with someone before (I've had relationships before but they were not love). He became my world for almost a year, we did everything together during the week, now everything feels empty without him. I have hobbies and friends, I run, write, read, scrapbook, etc. and I see friends often but I love him so much and if it were up to me, I would honestly spend the rest of my life with him. In a heartbeat.

The reason for this is that someone once told me I was not normal and I had to get help. I'm not adding more to this. I just bad stuff. Anyways, I'm fourteen. My friends and classmates think it's nice to be called weird. They call me weird, and I dislike it.

I am young girl. It feels humiliating for me to share my purberty stuff to my parents... (I guess everyone has that) if my parents get know about what exact day I got my period... I will panic and pass out litteraly... because it feels so humilliating for me. Any suggestions? I don't want to hide it forever... just to a point where they will never know when I first got it, unless I tell it.

Today is my 24th birthday, and I woke up alone. I lost a good job three months ago. I was working as a nanny and my boss lied to the unemployment office and told them I resigned. So I didn't get any unemployment insurance. At this moment, I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I found a little job in fast-food that works for now. My boyfriend and I have had pretty rocky times during my whole pregnancy. At first, I had to beg him to buy groceries when I was out of a job so I wouldn't starve carrying a kid. (You cant get foodstamps in Maryland without a job). Then he would break-up with me one minute, then beg me to "be a family" the next day .It was like dating a 16 year old. Then things chilled out. I was tired, I just stopped arguing with him, and pretty much letting him do what he wanted to do. In the back of my head, I planned to save my fast-food money to leave town once my baby is born. He begins to enjoy this "new me". There we times when he actually tried to be romantic again, and I would get a glimpse of a life if I were to stay, but he would do or say something really selfish and I'm secretly crying somewhere again. Three weeks ago, he buys a new Xbox with three new games and a brand new 40-inch tv. Mind you, NOTHING has been purchased for the baby yet--and I am now 5 months along. Today, is my 24th birthday, and I've spent the weekend watching him play Madden and smoke weed. I have to "Wait until he gets paid next weekend" to do something. What do I do besides kill him?

I m a 31m and I do not know my father. Up until this point I really did not think about him or cared. I recently had a child that I love very much. Lately I have been thinking about who my biological father is. Idk if it is that I am a new parent or what but I really would like to know. Has anyone experience this or know anyone that has and if so do you think I should pursue this or do you think I have gotten this far in life without knowing him so why bother. Thank you for taking the time and helping me out in my littler predicament.

The thing is I don't want to disrespect her nor do I want to hurt her. Not only is she the most beautiful woman I've ever know but she's also the love of my life. This is the only relationship I've had I'm five years her junior. I've kissed her neck while I held her from behind on our balcony ( I'm living with her). We share the same bed, shower, home etc but I feel it would be dehumanizing to make a comment about her breasts or butt. I'm fresh out of high school but it's not just the fear of being kicked out but I've dreamt of her since I was 12 & my dreams are coming true I don't want to spoil our relationship. Do I go for some erotic board games or blind fold her? I don't know. I'm taking her out to dinner on Tuesday is there anything I can do besides compliments flowers and chocolate to make her feel sexy

My mother met a guy she really likes on a date site. He lives distant (about two hours away). They really hit it off. He doesn't have a vehicle at this time so my mom told him she is willing to drive out to see him as they have been texting for four months now. Lately he has been saying that he wants to meet my mom but he is afraid she won't like him when they meet. Also, he told her that because he doesn't have a vehicle right now, he is afraid that my mom will grow tired of driving out to see him all the time. He said other people he has met in the past have grown tired of driving out there. Also, he said he has had very few positive experiences when he actually meets a person. My mom feels hurt and discouraged because she doesn't want to keep this a virtual relationship.

My cousin decided to start acting like a slut but she already has a baby that s 6 months old, im 20 years old so how would I go about getting custody of her? She doesn t take care of her AT ALL, and I fear for the baby s life because she makes her sleep in her car seat....... thank you in future reference.

I don't want love to feel like a prison. I feel hurt. I don't know this is just my first time. She tells me I'm a sweet person but what does that mean? Especially when she went cold on me. After months I finally stopped caring wether or not she'd miss me if I died but before you judge me understand I'm on my final leg. In actuality I still do care and always have because this is the woman who saved my life. Twice. But of course she's going to marry her boyfriend of 6 years. But her first love can't be her best love and I suppose the same goes for me. I fantasized about her since I was 12. Only now am I 17. It was only until May we were in contact again since 2012. She called me sexy and I overheard her telling her parents how beautiful I am. My life feels like limbo right now. I'm falling into hell unless my angel wings spread out and whisk me up to heaven. The complicated part is her mother is my father's sister except my blood father's family disowned me before I was even born. I haven't talked to her since early August and the last words she told me were "Yes, tell me what it is I can do to help you?" I can't even answer that question. this feels like 12 years a slave. I must leave the waiting to God. I only pray I can hold her in my arms again & tell her she's going to be alright. We've only been together 3 times in the same place

It's a long complicated story but I accidentally disrespected the guy I like by crossing his boundaries when I tried to get him to change his mind about something he didn't want, he got mad & lashed out and told me not to text him anymore & then I got mad cause I felt like he went from being nice to being a complete jerk so I felt the sudden urge to text back & call him stubborn & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & then after awhile I started feeling really bad & decided to apologize because it was kind of selfish and wrong of me & I told him that I acted out on emotion & hoped things  went well for him, at first i thought he blocked me but this morning I was really curious if he did & called him using *67 and it rang twice & I hung up after that cause i got scared he might randomly answer, anyway wouldn't ring once & go straight to voicemail if he blocked me? Well anyway, if he did see it & read it why do you think he ignored it?i thought he would at least appreciate and understood... Don't guys like it when girls admit their wrong? It's been a couple of weeks now & im wondering how he feels about the whole situation like is he still pretty mad? Is he holding a grudge, does he not care to be on good terms.. I've been trying to forget about it but sometimes I just can't help but wonder that's all..

OK SO MY BEST FRIENDS BDAY IS IN A WEEK AND I ALREADY SPENT THE PAST MONTH TRYING TO THINK OF SOMETHING. OUR FRIENDS ENDED UP PLANNING A SMALL HANGOUT AT A PARK AND I WAS THINKING OF GETTING A PIÑATA AND IDK WHAT KIND OF PIÑATA TO GET. We're all 14 year olds (but I just turned 15 recently in the oldest) so..what kind/type of piñata should I get?!

Okay, I have a big crush on this dude that I got no chance with. I saw a vid on snapchat and he was with another girl. He talks to this girl in my science class in a flirty way (the girl has a boyfriend anyways) and he never text me back so I think he hates me. My friend talked to him for me and he said my crush has a boyfriend and I feel like I just got shot in the heart.How do I get over him!? Please help! Im gonna be lonely forever :(. Im 14 and never had a boyfriend.

I suppose that normalcy is kind of a nebulous term. Is it a symptom of a serious psychosis, or can a mentally healthy person experience this? If I may ask, have you ever been attracted to someone ficitonal? If so, who was it? Just curious.

It's a long complicated story but I accidentally disrespected the guy I like by crossing his boundaries when I tried to get him to change his mind about something he didn't want, he got mad & lashed out and told me not to text him anymore & then I got mad cause I felt like he went from being nice to being a complete jerk so I felt the sudden urge to text back & call him stubborn & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & then after awhile I started feeling really bad & decided to apologize because it was kind of selfish and wrong of me & I told him that I acted out on emotion & hoped things went well for him, at first i thought he blocked me but this morning I was really curious if he did & called him using *67 and it rang twice & I hung up after that cause i got scared he might randomly answer, anyway wouldn't ring once & go straight to voicemail if he blocked me? Well anyway, if he did see it & read it why do you think he ignored it?i thought he would at least appreciate and understood... Don't guys like it when girls admit their wrong? It's been a couple of weeks now & im wondering how he feels about the whole situation like is he still pretty mad? Is he holding a grudge, does he not care to be on good terms.. I've been trying to forget about it but sometimes I just can't help but wonder that's all.. I don't understand why he's acting like this.. Like a simple I appreciate it would've been nice.. it's agonizing

My niece is dating this guy and I'm dating another guy. Our boyfriends are both cousins and we didnt know that til a few days ago. Is this kind of considered incest or what?

A female friend of mine recently asked if we may be roommates because of the economic benefit of paying less for rent. She is currently in a battle for custody of her 1 year old daughter in which she is visited monthly by a social worker. The social worker said that my friend will likely never get her daughter back if she moves in with a male roommate. They also said that the only way it would be okay is if my friend and I were to be married. We re not in a relationship. We re just looking to be roommates. That s it. Is it true that her moving in with me would prevent her from having custody of her child? It doesn t make sense to me. Thank you in advance for your input.

My bf of 4 years (22 year old) is crushing on an older coworker. I found texts on his phone when he admitted he checks her out and he even called her his baby, those texts were between him and a different coworker who knows about him liking the older coworker. I confronted him and he admitted he sent those texts to his coworker, and that he thinks she's cute.. he apologized to me and told me he loves me, and that he was just 'being a pervert.' I don't know how or what to think/feel about this... any comments/advise from anyone would help..