Hi my name is Daniel, I want you to tell me the worst things ever imaginable.

Like you would give someone the shirt off your back if it was twenty degrees below zero and they were suffering frostbite but if a famine swept in and you were scrawny and near death you wouldn't accept a cheeseburger from a random person because you believe you are terrible and don't deserve nourishment. A more practical example might be if someone recognizes you and waves and says your name and you freeze like a deer in headlights or they go in to hug you and you back away or just leave.

So I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over & i saw her looking at me & smiling while she have her hands on their chin

I am wondering, if you have lost a parent due to death or abandonment, what are some ways that you cope? -What were the circumstances regarding the loss? (Death/abandonment, etc.)? -How old were you when you lost your parent? -How did you initially cope with the loss? -Have you had difficulty maintaining relationships with those who are the same gender as your parent? -Have you received counseling services in the form of individual therapy or a support group? -How long has it been since you lost your parent? -How do you feel your life has changed since your parent passed away/left? -How are you coping now? Thank you so much for your replies. I enjoy reading and getting to know each of you. I hope that you may find some peace in your disclosures. Please know that I am writing this as an individual who has had parents that were never present. YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.

We met recently and inevitably we ended up sleeping together on two occasions. I messaged him I feel bad like we're using each other in a way, when it's not because I care about him. He had my rose body cream in his new flat, like he had expected to see me again. He hugged me all night and it was strange like very close, but like a dream. He gave me his backpack to borrow because I had to put my work laptop in something as it was raining. after I told him I felt it was a bad idea sleeping with him, he said why don't we do something on Sunday. I replied that we could do & will give him his bag back. We didn't meet, & he said he wasn't feeling great, so I said maybe it wasn't a good idea meeting up, like I said before, & we're not together & want different things. 3 days later he says he does need his bag back, even though he's got about 2 spare. He said he could get it on the weekend & I said I'd post it to him. He said it would be nice to see me though. I already told him we're not together & it can't work. Why can't he drop it so I can move on. He doesn't know that I've been with someone else either after we split up. Does he have feelings? I made it clear I wasn't going to his place. He got jealous of a story involving a guy at my new job, but he's not the move in, get married, serious kind of guy & he's 33 nearly so won't change. I didn't want us to break up, but he's doesn't want the responsibilities of a relationship & seems unmotivated in life.

the us demographics are changing. MANY FAMILIES ARE FORCED TO MOVE. to escape minorities and diversity. or cope with rising cost of living. The sense of community dont exist. diversity is destroying communities history and homogeneity

I told the guy I liked that I was kind of sad that he felt like long distance relationships were tedious & lot of work & tried to get him to change his mind about them, or at least give it a try & he lashed out, told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & then I got mad cause his attitude changed from being nice to being completely rude & I told him if I had known he was stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and it doesn't make sense to me why he got so offended when he's not even into me.. if I didn't have feelings for a guy I wouldn't care whether or not he offended me or try to convince me to change my mind, but it seems he obviously cares.. I tried fixing it by apologizing and genuinely thought he'd at least appreciate it or understand but I guess he blocked me or is still pretty hot headed about it.. It's agonizing not knowing he feels :/ please give me some answers on what you think about this situation

Last time I saw her ( about a week ago) I approached her and we had a brief conversation. She asked questions about me and so on.. I don't think I made a bad impression. I just thought, since I "broke the ice" between us, maybe she would be a little more warm to me. Should I keep initiating things? She very responsive, but I always have to initiate conversation or it's just awkward silence.

I have someone to stay with & a perfect plan on how to leave, but i'm worried that my parents will figure out a way to see all of my texts and calls somehow and trace the number back to the friend im staying with. How does that work, and can I ever delete texts/calls off of a text database or something?

Ok, so I'm my boyfriend of 5 years and I are living together. We've lived together since we've been together. When we got together we both were fresh out of relationships. So i cheated in the beginning of our relationship with my ex and told him n he eventually forgave me. But over time he never really let it go so he cheated on me twice years after that happen. I forgave him. I feel like i will never be able to trust him. One of the people he tried to cheat with was my sister and they kissed but she felt guilty and told me afterward because he wanted to go futher. But they didnt. I lost it for a while me and my sister hasn't been the same since, we used to be so close. The other person he tried to cheat on me with was a prostitute but he was pulled over before anything happen by a police and taken to jail. Since all of this i can never trust him again. I know i messed up but i haven't done anything since that. He cries and says he loves me and he's sorry and he isn't that guy. But i don't care. He makes me second guess everything he does because i can't trust him and its very irritating i would much rather be alone. I don't have time to worry about what he's doing all the time or if he's cheating on me. We have a 6 year old together. I need advice..

I want to start a trend where people will complain about white oppression and blame whites for their problems, I want it to claim to promote non-violence yet be violent and crazy, where can I start this trend?

I only make myself look like a fool. A girl asked what gift was I most thankful for I said my life she was like woah. Someone's daughter said I was her favorite person I don't even know her. I talked a kid out of suicide. And I'm the enemy. People are fake. My dad is fake & his family disowned me for being mixed & his dad told me I wouldn't be ****. My blood ain't my real dad my only family is God & lord knows that I'm going to hell for all the bs I've done. I fell in love with a 21 year old who already has a bf who sees me as a threat & she said she loved me but wait it turns out she's my cousin but IDGAF IDGAF about myself. Her sister is the only person who reached out to me when I was in the hospital. My stalker followed me this morning. A girl complimented me on my nails she said I'm the only guy who takes care of them. I'm Latino & don't know what race I am or what religion I am. I'm tired of hearing screams everyday cause they hate me. They tell me to kill myself every morning cause I said good morning. I'm 17, teacher said I'd only live to see 19 if I'm lucky. I surrender to God. She called me sexy, I overheated her talk about how beautiful I am. How well I dress. She wants to know what she can do to help me but that's months after going cold on me & now I'm cold on her cause I give up on myself. I hate myself. I think people hate me they only being nice. They say I'm emotionally unstable & overthink. But I'm the only sweet guy who sees her as more than a body. FML

My son is 1 and me and his father have joint legal and physical custody. He doesn't communicate with me AT ALL. He'll go on trips out of town on his weekends with our son and I won't get any type of notice that he won't be here to get him. He's missed a lot of weekends because he "has other plans" and doesn't show up. Every time I try to talk to him about our son (his eating for example) I get ignored or he yells at me to leave him alone because he's finally happy. ( he just got a girlfriend) but his relationship is not the problem. I've been In my own relationship for almost a year now so his relationship is not my concern unless it's effecting our child. It's his lack of communication. He ignores me constantly when the only time I talk to him it's about our son. The only time I'll get a text back is its his girlfriend texting back for him. Which I'm not talking to her, I'm talking about important **** to his father and I get nothing back. Can I get full custody for this or no?

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

My friend has this dream of marrying an athlete and her boyfriend recently got a scholarship to a college for football .. So she told me she was gonna get pregnant by him i just felt like this was wrong and so i told him and now she's like in alot of drama with his family and her family and everyone in school is talking crap to her ... she's mad at me and said im a horrible person ... I do feel bad but i just didn't think it was right i probably should have minded my business but babies are alot of work and my brother pays child support for his kid it's alot of work and money i just didn't wanna see someone get taken advantage of i don't know what to do now she said she wants to fight me but i don't know how to fight and i think i might get beat up was i wrong for telling her boyfriend??

Everyone is laughing at me i can't face anyone even my parents they also teasing at me laughing at me my i'm keep hiding myself from others all day long staying alone in my room my boyfreind and his friends everyone is laughing at me ,insulting me, teasing me. I want to walk away from everyone. Feeling enough of everything & everyone. What should i do? Pls help me friends

It's a Greek (male) name (Πασι Νάρκισσος Βασιλ). I won't disclose my real name as it's hideous and I'm too ashamed. I haven't done the legal stuff yet but I like this name because it's pronounced similar in both languages, so there won't be any translation issues when with fellow Greeks and English-speakers. I also like the sound, when the names are said individually, and together as a sentence. "Pasi" means "royal" "Narkissos" is a character in Greek mythology hence the term "narcissistic" Finally, "Vasil" also means royal. I think it reflects my character, and yes I am a bit narcissistic but I keep it to myself. So what do you guys think. Is it too weird? Does it flow? Just making sure it's not too strange before I go ahead with it. (Hope it doesnt sound too much like parsley basil) Thanks for responses

I was raped by a guy that I dated. We were in a relationship and had sex several times . To make matters worse, I took his virginity. He was not my first . Anyways, I had just turned 16 when I was raped and it's been about a year and I'm still not over what he did to me . I feel SO disgusting for having sex with him in the past . Yes I am aware I didn't know he would ever be capable of doing that to me but I feel gross. Especially being his first . Is this normal ?! Not to mention after he raped me I kept making excuses for it and even basically stayed with him until he tried to feel me up again without my consent so I finally told someone. I feel like it's all my fault

My boyfriend and I came home from work yesterday and took a shower then went to his braces appointment. When we came back we got some food on the way and some beer and started drinking so eventually one of us had to pee. This is where it gets weird, my man asked if these panties in the bathroom next to the trash were mine. I said no because I don't wear dental floss as panties. So the question came up who they belonged to? His brothers girlfriend has never done this before cuz she is too embarrassed to even fart around him. But the panties appeared in the hour or so we were gone WHAT DO WE DO???

this guy I liked got mad at me when I tried to get him to change his mind about something he clearly didn't want & he kind of lashed out at me & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & then I got mad & felt an urge to text him anyway and I'm confused why he even got offended because we're not close & he's not into me so I feel like he shouldn't have gotten mad. If I didn't have any feelings for a guy I wouldn't care whether or not he offended me or tried to get me to change my mind, I would've just been wtf, but he seems to obviously care though.. and I tried fixing the situation by apologizing & told him it was selfish & wrong but I guess he's still pretty mad & is the type to hold grudges probably.. I don't know, but I've been tossing & turning wondering how he feels about this & it really sucks we can't at least have like a heart to talk about it.. is this what people call a situationship these days? Cause I think I'm in one.. please share your opinions 😁😁

I need some random, unbiased advice. What if you were involved in a group of guys that was like family to you, outlaws, and it was your home? Then with them, you start doing bad things, things you see in your sleep some nights. It messes with you so bad you had to leave them. But later in life, you realize, maybe outlawing was all you re good at. And you miss it all. The thrill, the brotherhood. If you could do it again, would you? Would you do more damage, if it s all you knew?

I only make myself look like a fool. A girl asked what gift was I most thankful for I said my life she was like woah. Someone's daughter said I was her favorite person I don't even know her. I talked a kid out of suicide. And I'm the enemy. People are fake. My dad is fake & his family disowned me for being mixed & his dad told me I wouldn't be ****. My blood ain't my real dad my only family is God & lord knows that I'm going to hell for all the bs I've done. I fell in love with a 21 year old who already has a bf who sees me as a threat & she said she loved me but wait it turns out she's my cousin but IDGAF IDGAF about myself. Her sister is the only person who reached out to me when I was in the hospital. My stalker followed me this morning. A girl complimented me on my nails she said I'm the only guy who takes care of them. I'm Latino & don't know what race I am or what religion I am. I'm tired of hearing screams everyday cause they hate me. They tell me to kill myself every morning cause I said good morning. I'm 17, teacher said I'd only live to see 19 if I'm lucky. I surrender to God. She called me sexy, I overheated her talk about how beautiful I am. How well I dress. She wants to know what she can do to help me but that's months after going cold on me & now I'm cold on her cause I give up on myself. I hate myself. I think people hate me they only being nice. They say I'm emotionally unstable & overthink. But I'm the only sweet guy who sees her as more than a body. FML

I was talking to my friend & smiling & then I guess the girl I liked was looking at me & i heard her telling her friends that I have the nicest smile & then when I look in the corner of my eyes I saw her looking at me & smiling while she had her hands on her chin

I moved out of my parents home because I was starving with the rest of my siblings(which all have left too btw) and they used all the money including the money they made from selling food stamps on pills. I live with my friend which isn't any better at this point. There are three cats now and a dog. 2 cats are stray and so in the dog and 1 cat and 1 dog are aggressive where they will snap and claw at people(Including myself). My friend's mom stays at work all the time so the aunt who is the owner of 2 cats is the only adult truly there. The aunt sleeps with tons of dudes for money and also believe that the cats should keep clawing at people and not expect anyone to make the cats stop(Such as push them away or hit them with a newspaper). My friend mom doesn't listen to anything anyone tells her. Does anyone at all know what the hell can I do? I am willing to give my email out if you think you can help me its andrewrich2099@gmail.com.

My boss is very attractive, and not only physically. He is always super sweet and energetic. I ve never seen him without a smile. But, he is married and has kids so obviously I can t say anything. Plus he s store manager and i m an associate. The problem is I can t stop thinking about him outside of work, and when I work with him I get very panicked and embarrasseed when he comes near me. I try to avoid him... but that doesn t work so well. I just want to get over him..

My mom asked me to close the blinds so I walk into the room and walk out without closing them or remembering to close them when I walked in.

when I was little my grandpa used to try and teach me how to pee standing up. Being a girl, this never really worked out. But he would touch my private area in order to help "teach" me. Do you think this was just an excuse to touch me in an inappropriate area? I don t remember a whole lot about the incidents, only that it they happened.

and you know you are much better looking than she is, Is it ok that I go out with him?

I've been feeling extremely inadequate lately. I feel like a loser because I haven't achieved anything with my life, and I feel unmotivated because I'm scared it's too late. I suck at life, can't even get a job, or a husband. When I was younger I had big dreams for my life but they never came true and I am 30-something now, and feel overcome with failure. I thought I would go out and get famous, or write a book, or be a vet or something, maybe even become president. I hate myself so much because I am such an unimportant little nobody that it makes me want to kill myself. I wish I could be someone else because I hate myself and don't want to be me. I have a college degree and speak several different languages, and I have a professional credential. I've tried and tried to get a job but I've had terrible luck. I also live in North Carolina, which has third world poverty and quality of life. I just dreamed of escaping that. I wanted to do so much more than be an ordinary person and survive and now I feel like a bottom feeder, inferior to everyone. Some days I wish myself dead. Should I give up?

This cashier has told me that I am pretty lady and is always smiling at me...is he flirting and does he like me?? How to respond if int? He is always smiling at me and is also waving at me when I am leaving thru the window...smiling. He even asked me where I am from...while shyly looking down at the stuff I was buying. Is he interested in me and is this flirting?? If I am interested...what is the best way to respond??