Marriage & Divorce: Question: If you elope are you formally married? Is elope the same thing as an official marriage? |
- Question: If you elope are you formally married? Is elope the same thing as an official marriage?
- Question: "My wife is a *****" means what?
- Question: A very messed up question?
- Question: Should i change my first name?
- Question: When in process of divorce (waiting for a trial), on applications for jobs etc. do I check married or divorced?
- Question: Marrage and names?
- Question: Where is Gaytres Louise Jackson Foster?
- Question: Ex refuses to discuss parenting issues directly?
- Question: My husband has stopped having sex with me since our baby's birth & i don't know if i should leave, have an affair or find some other option?
- Question: LADIES I HAVE A QUICK QUESTION THAT I NEED YOUR HELP WITH?
- Question: My husband doesn't support my idea's, or decisions?
- Question: I feel bad but he never shuts up?
- Question: I'm a fulltime student at a university, a mother of two kids, and thinking about divorce. Can I still not work after my divorce?
- Question: Should I confront wife?
- Question: I am married and I love my wife but i came across a senior picture of my?
- Question: What should I do about my husband throwing his food on the floor every night at dinner?
- Question: Cut my losses?
- Question: Bible and divorce?
- Question: Am I a terrible person for wanting to leave?
- Question: I caught my wife sexting with my brother. What should I do? I have two kids and I dont want to be an every other weekend dad.?
- Question: Wife begged me to be vegan now i hate it?
- Question: Whats the best thing for me to do in this situation?
- Question: Should wife be allowed to go out with friends without husband?
- Question: What is there to enjoy about intercourse in the "missionary" position?
- Question: What is sex going to be like for two virgins?
- Question: Wife is in domestic violence shelter and wont let me see kids?
- Question: How much alimony can i get from my husband if we divorced?
- Question: What is alimony and if i get divorced do i have to pay or does he?
- Question: Why does Genoa salami taste so good?
- Question: What should i do for my husband?
- Question: My wife has been cheating on me with my friend should i divorce her??
- Question: Will I make a good wife?
- Question: How much trouble can a sheriff deputy is having an affair with another married mans wife? Who do I talk to if sherif has not nothing?
- Question: Curious about her behavior?
- Question: Is it true once a cheater always a cheater? If a women leaves her husband for another man then is engaged to him will she cheat again?
- Question: He keeps photos of ex wife (including their wedding album) up on social media ...?
- Question: Should I help my wife out with the cooking and cleaning?
- Question: Why are married men always saying that they are in a sexless relationship?
- Question: How do you know if you love your spouse?
- Question: How to forgive and move on after cheating on ex wife and divorce.?
- Question: How to be more open and forward with my husband when I comes to sex?
- Question: Husband doesn't want to hook up with other women anymore?
- Question: How does a loving husband survive inhibited sexual disorder?
- Question: Why do women still marry a person even though she knows he has some flaws about them?
- Question: Would you mind if your partner did this?
- Question: Should I tell my wife its over?
- Question: If a woman is married but having a baby by somebody else does my husband have to sign certificate ?
- Question: How f'd up is this?
- Question: My husband has grindr in his iphone, what I do now?
- Question: Is it wrong to want a day off and not tell your spouse?
- Question: What would you do if your husband sexually neglected you after having a baby?? Is cheating an option?
- Question: Confused and heartbroken?
- Question: What should I do about this, my wife watches pornography without me?
- Question: Caught my husband looking at porn. We haven't spoken for 2 weeks. How to reconcile?
- Question: Car or marriage?
- Question: Tired of husband and his flaws plus tired of no damn confidence anymore!?
- Question: Ok am divorce but my ex husband parents take my son every week?
- Question: Women - especially older women - what can a husband do to be more romantic?
- Question: Married women, if your husband came to you and told you he had a fantasy about a threesome with another woman, how would you react?
| Question: If you elope are you formally married? Is elope the same thing as an official marriage? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:43 PM PDT |
| Question: "My wife is a *****" means what? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:31 PM PDT It was 11:30pm, he was hanging out over 1hour after work. We got a bad new in mail, my English is not good enough, got to call him come home to see what is going on. We just have a conversation not even 5 minutes about it and his friend called to ask if he coming for the birthday party, he asked me "do you wanna go" , i was mad, look at him and said " just go". Then he said to that guy "sorry i can't come, my wife is being a *****" 2 times. 15mins later he left home anyway. Me, sitting here and crying for nothing. His wife is a *****....sorry i am not a *****. |
| Question: A very messed up question? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:17 PM PDT Ok so we're all brought up to always care for our family blah blah blah, and how it always comes first. So if a man had to choose between his wife and his son/daughter, i was wondering which is he obligated to save? A wife is your soul mate, your partner, your lover etc but a child is young and innocent. I know it sounds messed up but i'm watching a flash game that gives this option |
| Question: Should i change my first name? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:09 PM PDT Should i change my first name before or after marriage? Is it a long difficult process in new mexico? |
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| Posted: 26 May 2015 07:51 PM PDT So first off since i have 2 last names i dont know which to go by and idk if were suppose to give 1 of the 2 last names. Also ive been wanting to change my first name because of dad issues lol and idk if i should do that before or after the marriage, i live in new mexico, i also dont know if i should do it through court or through leagle zoom i dont know whoch would be faster. |
| Question: Where is Gaytres Louise Jackson Foster? Posted: 26 May 2015 07:45 PM PDT |
| Question: Ex refuses to discuss parenting issues directly? Posted: 26 May 2015 07:43 PM PDT My ex-husband and I split up a little more than nine years ago. There was a lot of animosity for the first 18 months after that, but we both put in effort to get along and function as cooperative parents for our daughter and eventually reached a really good place. Until recently that is. Over the past 8-9 months he has become increasingly less willing to actually speak with me directly, face-to-face or on the phone. This corresponds with his moving in with his current girlfriend, oddly enough. It's annoying because I never speak with him about anything other than our daughter, but now he will not even discuss that with me. The only time I see him is when he drops our daughter off after his visitation, but then we have both our daughter (11) and his GF present, so we can't exactly speak freely. I've been trying to arrange a sit down between us to discuss summer camps for our daughter since February, as we do every year, but he will not do it. But he will not give me his half of the money until we have. (There's only a few more weeks of school!) Now I need to speak with him about the fact that our daughter is struggling in school and will be screened for ADHD, but I cannot get him alone to discuss it. WTH? I do't care what goes on in his relationship, but we still have to function as parents here. How do I get him to cooperate? Why can I not discuss my daughter's situation with the GF present? Because my daughter does not want me to. This is about her and I think it is reasonable to respect her wishes and privacy. She doesn't really want her father to know, but I told her that he needs to know what is going on with her. Summer camp? Because his GF doesn't need to know about my finances. That's a matter of my privacy. There is no drama between us, we get along fine. I get along fine with his GF as well (we've known each other a long time actually). With less important matters, I will freely discuss them around or even with the GF. These are not minor issues though. |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 07:38 PM PDT hey guys….i have been so stressed out about this problem in my marriage. my husband and i had such a great healthy sex life over a year ago but since i gave birth to our child a lil while ago, he has been so distant sexually. it almost feels like he is not attracted to me or something. he is so obsessed with our son which i love that about him but he's neglected me completely and i have addressed his lack of affection three times but he kept saying he was just too tired and that he'd make an effort…hen every time he said he would, no effort has been made, we went from used to having sex 3times a day a year ago to not having sex at all after baby. this makes me have some crazy thoughts about he might me cheating but whatever his reason is, if he cannot satisfy me sexually, would i be justified to get it elsewhere and have an affair? it's just makes me feel awful and unattractive and since i had a baby, it makes my self-esteem worse. I used to weight 115lbs before pregnancy but gained weight from the pregnancy and now i am 145lbs, i lost some weight and working on it now but everyone said i look good for someone who gave birth…i just don't understand his problem... also, when i 6months pregnant, we had a small fight and i went to my moms house to stay and cool off for a day. when i'd come home, i checked his computer, he was looking at some porn and searching a website thats call a social network for sex….which he claimed was just a pop-up. |
| Question: LADIES I HAVE A QUICK QUESTION THAT I NEED YOUR HELP WITH? Posted: 26 May 2015 07:22 PM PDT Do you think it's alright if a guy shaves his legs because I'm not sure if I should? |
| Question: My husband doesn't support my idea's, or decisions? Posted: 26 May 2015 07:14 PM PDT And he is with me why!!!! Seriously if he was a really rich guy, I would just divorce him, and take all his money. I'm 21 years old, he is 24 years old. We need things like more cups for our house. When we go shopping, I say that we should buy this. And he's basically like shut up. I go and have a shower, he's like don't take too long it costs money. I booked a flight too Australia, ages ago before we got married. And he totally doesn't support my decision. Infact he doesn't want to too go. My sister lives in the south, also very soon I'm away too go and see her. And he doesn't support my decision again. It's just bull.... And seriously, I'm waiting for the day for him, too get lots of money. And I'm going to divorce him, if this doesn't change. Two days ago I was crying, because also he treats me like I can't do anything. Or if I do, do something. It's just not good enough.... And he gets really angry, when I tell him, how I feel.... |
| Question: I feel bad but he never shuts up? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:29 PM PDT This weekend we went to my husbands family. He talks to much to the point he don't even know what he's saying. For example we was all sitting around his cousins wife said go with him to the liqour store. My husband responded he has a stuttering problem by the way. He go like like like best friends. His girl cousin response dam he stutters and says the dumbest thing. He felt embarresed they kept making fun of him. Repeating what he said is felt so bad but he always says stupid stuff. He got embarresed and went out after a while to play ball with the kids. |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 06:28 PM PDT I have been with my common law husband for 5 years. We have two kids. My oldest is my son of 6 years who is of another man (my ex husband). Our daughter is 4 years old and she's from my current husband. I've been going through an abusive relationship. I've been told many times I am stupid for trying to work it out with him. Although he has tried working things out with me, he doesn't change. He was not like this when I met him, but things have gotten out of control. I'm a stay at home mom and he allowed me to go back to school without having to work. But then he began abusive red flags like financial controls (closing a joint account and opening one that only he has access to and putting his mom as the person who receives the money if something were to happen to him), giving me an allowance and I have no say about finances, he tells me we are broke when I recently found out he has over $15,000 in a savings account and $3,000 in a separate checking account. Aside from money, he manipulates my social life to an extent. I get accused for being a whore because I have a Facebook with male friends I went to highschool with. When we fight, he takes away the debit card that he lets me borrow, the keys to the car, and my cellphone. My question is, if I divorce him, and I still want to go to school (one year left), do I have to work? I want to work, but I also want to be with my kids and have time for homework. What if for one year I rely on childsupport? Can I do that? |
| Question: Should I confront wife? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:27 PM PDT During a conversation me and my wife was having with friends about sex they all agreed that black men were much better at sex, do women generally agree? And should I confront my wife? (I'm white) |
| Question: I am married and I love my wife but i came across a senior picture of my? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:23 PM PDT Ex fiancee from like 10 years ago when we were in High School and she was hot. It kind of made me wonder what would have been. Is that a bad thing? |
| Question: What should I do about my husband throwing his food on the floor every night at dinner? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:14 PM PDT I have been trying to get him to eat something besides cereal (it's a long story - basically he is trying to prove you can live off cereal and nothing else). I make food and put it on the table in front of him but he always picks up the bowl, holds it at arm's length and turns it over so the food falls into the floor. All the while giving me a dirty look then he eats his stupid cereal. |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 05:09 PM PDT I have a wife that expects too much of me , who complains that we dont have enough sex, who complains I dont work enough , who complains that I dont treat her kids like their real dads should. everything about me is disliked by my wife, I used to have a body , and a sweet car, and a talent as a musician . now I have nothing . except a " wife , and kids" I have lost so much of what I had and now I have nothing. I cant stand her kids cause they always want to be around me , never knock , never ask to hang out just invite themselves. they never listen, I feel forced to love them and support them financially when they dont even respect me and do what I tell them ( what I tell them is just what I am told to make them do via their mom ) should I just call it quits with this marriage and date a woman with either kids who are grown or just find someone with no kids? aside from focusing on what I want out of life? |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 05:03 PM PDT I've filed for divorce and fighting for our kid. She left for a weekend with a (co worker) she said it was a girl.... Nope it wasn't. I had a bad guy feeling about it. The she neglects our kid. No doubt she loves our kid but, leaving every chance she gets to go out. And leave our kid with me or someone else. She should want to spend time with our kid! I'm not for sure if she has cheated but it sounds and feels like it. She's said their just friends but she put him on a pedestal and chew me up and spit me out after doing so. Like ( he does this.. You never do that ) What does the bible have to really say about. I know if their unfaithful it's lawful for you to divorce/ anything else??? |
| Question: Am I a terrible person for wanting to leave? Posted: 26 May 2015 04:51 PM PDT I've been married for only 6 months and every single day, it feels like it gets worse. We left our hometown to build a new life and within that small amount of time, he accidentally totaled my car (so we have been trying to manage with one, which is difficult because there isn't really any public transportation here), I've been the only one able to find stable employment, etcetera. He works 2 days a week, while I work 5 days a week. I told him not to stress about getting a second job and that it will come in time. All I asked was that he would clean, while he is at home all week. Every day I beg him to PLEASE just do some cleaning. And every day I come home from work, it's messier than when I left it. All we do is fight now because I'm exhausted from doing everything on my own and he just keeps making excuses as to why he doesn't do anything but watch tv all day. I feel like I deserve better than this and nothing has changed in these six months, he just keeps getting worse. Is marriage supposed to be this f**ked up? |
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| Question: Wife begged me to be vegan now i hate it? Posted: 26 May 2015 04:14 PM PDT She nagged me til I said yes it's been a month and I still hate utilize fruits and vegetables but I also like chicken and a nice big steak I want to change back but she yells and says shel never touch or kiss me again after what can I do? |
| Question: Whats the best thing for me to do in this situation? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:43 PM PDT Im married been married 3 years together 10. Ive got a child from my younger years who is 11 that I have 1/2 custody of (or joint custody as it is called) Im in a bad marriage he lies constantly bullies me constantly never around my fam or friends just his he was taking meds for his aggression now is not and is getting worse. I need out. So Im trying to get income based housing but i dont qualify for a 2bdrm only 1 and I need a 2bdrm because my 11 yr old needs a room of there own via the court papers. So what can i do here? Ive tried family but none of them can afford to help us out and I cannot live with any of them theres no room! Please help me. I really need some outside advice! Thanks guys |
| Question: Should wife be allowed to go out with friends without husband? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:35 PM PDT |
| Question: What is there to enjoy about intercourse in the "missionary" position? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:30 PM PDT Booooring. Apparently thats all wives enjoy |
| Question: What is sex going to be like for two virgins? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:24 PM PDT My girlfriend and I are very much in love and we have decided it's time to have sex. We're both virgins and we're pretty scared on what's gonna happen. We both agreed that it's time and we are ready but she's still very tight. (I only use 1 finger to finger her and that hurt her the first time) so what should we do? I know she's gonna be in pain and i don't even know if I'm gonna be able to enjoy it but I just want to it to be special. We are going to be able to take our time because her parents aren't gonna be home so we're gonna take our time and try and make it as special and loving as possible. So is there any way I can not hurt her? What position should we do it in? We plan on having A LOT of foreplay before and she gets really wet pretty fast so at least that's good. Please be as detailed as possible and help me out! Thanks |
| Question: Wife is in domestic violence shelter and wont let me see kids? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:02 PM PDT How do i get to see kids or is she allowed to keep them from me ans and why would i have a warrant for threatening? |
| Question: How much alimony can i get from my husband if we divorced? Posted: 26 May 2015 03:01 PM PDT He works 50hrs a week $10 hr And im stay home mom |
| Question: What is alimony and if i get divorced do i have to pay or does he? Posted: 26 May 2015 02:49 PM PDT how does Alimony work? why do people get it? If we divorced will my husband have to pay me alimony. Do i have to pay him alimony? |
| Question: Why does Genoa salami taste so good? Posted: 26 May 2015 02:30 PM PDT What is the secret? |
| Question: What should i do for my husband? Posted: 26 May 2015 02:22 PM PDT We have been together for about 8 years now and have 2 amazing children (one daughter who is 6 and a son who is turning 2). My husband has been great to me these past few years with the household chores and stuff and even helped me out around the house when i was pregnant with both children. He rarely asks for sex and when he does its reasonable and i have no problem giving him some love. He is a pharmacist and works 5 days a week and barely gets to see the family on weekdays, On weekends he is a complete family man and does things like fix things around the house and play with the kids and even takes us out to eat as a family. Latley we have been getting distant because of our responsibilities (me with the kids and him with work)) and i feel like im ignoring him (havent had sex in a while, maybe 2 months, he cooks his own dinner cause he comes home late at night, and he has to go in on weekends sometimes, also he has anxiety and i know something is bothering him sometimes but i never have time to talk to him, im not worried about him cheating, he hasnt shown any signs and doesnt seem like he would) how do i show him that i appreciate him still and always will and make him feel at ease? |
| Question: My wife has been cheating on me with my friend should i divorce her?? Posted: 26 May 2015 02:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Will I make a good wife? Posted: 26 May 2015 02:17 PM PDT I'm currently engaged to my bf. We've been going out for 3 years and will be tying the knot soon. Since we've been engaged there's been a lot of ups and downs but we normally resolve it. I'm still a senior in high school and my fiancé is out of college. I know I am still young but anyway. . . whenever he visits I make sure there's enough food for him and that he makes himself at home. If he is sick I take care of him. Like recently, he has a really bad flu. I took him to the doctor, put him to bed, fed him, made sure he took his meds etc. I put him before anything else, even my own health. So my question is will I make a good wife? (Please no judgemental comments) |
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| Question: Curious about her behavior? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:55 PM PDT Very nice social friend of my wife's acts strangely towards me. When I first see her at social gatherings at my house or hers she won't say honor awknowledge me. She will my wife but pretend not to see me. She will talk to me later on during the event but ignore me at first. Then when I say goodbye it's much of the same. What's up with this? I don't get it. Last time we were at her house she did this. I left beer in their fridge and she texts my wife a picture of her and her husband partying drinking the beer with a caption to me that says "thanks David for the beer we love it!" |
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| Question: He keeps photos of ex wife (including their wedding album) up on social media ...? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:29 PM PDT I have been dating a great guy for the past 4 months. We are both in our 30s. We are in love with each other and I can see this relationship going somewhere serious. He has been separated from his wife for a year and in 2 weeks his divorce becomes final. She left him and is seeing someone new as well. They have 2 young kids together. My boyfriend still has a ton of pictures up on facebook with his ex including an album of their wedding pictures entitled 'our wedding'. We have not posted a picture together yet, said we are in a relationship or posted anything about one another on facebook. The ex knows we are dating and is perfectly okay (and even seems happy for him). I know he thinks we have the potential to move forward because he just introduced me to his kids (which he didn't want to do until we seemed in a stable relationship). Honestly, the facebook albums of the ex and the fact that he hasn't shown he was with me at anything even though we spend several days a week together may start to bug me in the near future. He may just be waiting until the divorce is final (which I respect)? I haven't posted any of him either in respect of his divorce and those changes. In the future however, what do you think the protocol for exes & facebook & new relationships should be after a divorce? It is not the end all to me ... but I am happy and I would like to share moments of our time together with my family and friends on facebook. Thoughts ??? |
| Question: Should I help my wife out with the cooking and cleaning? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:17 PM PDT This sounds like a loaded question but here's the back story. Some time ago I was unemployed and had been for almost a year. While home I was going to school working on my degree while looking for work. I did most of the cooking, all of the cleaning, and running kids around. My wife always harped on me that I needed a job. I had to remind her to be careful what she says because you never know when the shoe was going to be on the other foot. She swore all up and down that she'd not be in the same boat as me. Well, last week my wife goes to work after being on her job for almost 3 years and they told a few of them they were moving their dept up north. So now she's out of a job. Yes, I found a job last year and now my wife expects me to help her with the cooking, cleaning, etc. And on top of that, her 19 year old son (my step-son) failed out of college his first year because he didn't study and started partying. So now he's back at the house. I gave him until a certain day to find a full time job and my wife thinks I'm being mean to him. Am I wrong to not want to help her with the house work? I mean, she's home all day, every day now. I did it when I was unemployed and it was part of my daily routine with little to no help from her. When she got home every day dinner was almost done, laundry taken care of, and the house was fairly clean. Now she expects me to pitch in and help her out. |
| Question: Why are married men always saying that they are in a sexless relationship? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:17 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you know if you love your spouse? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:12 PM PDT Do you truly feel like you love your spouse? When I ask myself this question 9 out of 10 times I feel like I do not love my husband. I loved him when I married him but after living with him, I do not love him. He is a very good person but I just don't love him. I guess some things he does that gets in my nerves. Is it normal to live a married life always asking yourself whether you love your partner? The reason I am with him is for practical reasons. Financial and that he is a good person and a lasting marriage if I stay with him. And I am afraid of getting out and starting all over again. I do not want to deal with the drama of dating. Well, main reason I don't love him is because he has more intimacy with his family than with me. I am more like a guest and his family is more like his wife. It bothers me. |
| Question: How to forgive and move on after cheating on ex wife and divorce.? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:07 PM PDT I cheated on my ex wife several times. There were multiple reasons for it; excitement, sex, not feeling connected with ex etc. I cheated on her even during pregnancy. I see websites for "how to recover from infedility from "victims" side" but I need help. I live daily with a sense of guilt and depression. I miss my family. I have a girlfriend who is just wonderful but an idea of marriage is just nauseating. I don't feel like I deserve happiness or forgiveness. How do I move on? |
| Question: How to be more open and forward with my husband when I comes to sex? Posted: 26 May 2015 01:01 PM PDT My husband told me his ex was better sexually only because she was open and forward about it... Ladies and especially gentlemen how can I be more open and forward about it on a sexy way not just walk up and say "I wanna have sex" |
| Question: Husband doesn't want to hook up with other women anymore? Posted: 26 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT 29 year old married female. My husband and I have been married 8 months and met each other last January. I have always got turned on by the action of him being with other women, whether it be in a threesome with me or hooking up with him after he's slept with another woman. Lately we've been involved with two women. Woman #1 he has gone over to her place and hooked up with her and then hooked up with me after. Woman #2 comes over and has threesomes with us. Since he's the only one that communicates with them the only rule is he tells me when they do attempt to reach out to him for a hookup. During sex last night he told me that girl #1 has been texting him the past few nights asking him to come over and so has girl #2. I asked him why he doesn't tell me right when they do and what does he wait till several days after to mention it and he says because he's not interested talking to them or seeing them anymore. He says he enjoys doing this for me to a certain extent, but he'd rather not anymore. He says he was just doing it to get me off. Anyway I'm wondering what changed or why he feels this way? He wouldn't go much into it but he said he started to feel obligated to do these things just to please me... Then I began to look at myself.. I do have a history of getting bored sexually with one person quickly..i was just asking him to do these things to spice things up..do I need therapy? My marriage is the most important thing to me. |
| Question: How does a loving husband survive inhibited sexual disorder? Posted: 26 May 2015 12:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do women still marry a person even though she knows he has some flaws about them? Posted: 26 May 2015 12:55 PM PDT Why do women still marry a person even though she knows and see's he has some bad points or things he needs to change or he has some flaws about them? |
| Question: Would you mind if your partner did this? Posted: 26 May 2015 12:50 PM PDT I feel like I have no privacy with my husband's family. My husband tells everything to his family about me like where I go, what I do as a job, even when I am on my period. When they ask if they can talk to me, he would tell them I am not feeling well because I am on my period. I feel like why he releases all this info. Basically his family know everything about my life. My husband video tape my do and our house and send it to his family while I have never visited his sister's house 5 minutes away. I do not even know what his sister does, or have never met her husband. His parents live overseas. This really bothers me and I talk to him, he just does not understand. He does not even respect my privacy. video tape my dog and when we go anywhere.* |
| Question: Should I tell my wife its over? Posted: 26 May 2015 12:43 PM PDT Look I dont think there is a enough space for me to write everything but the bottom line is I havent really seen or heard from my wife in a month... She started acting off about 6 months ago.. and then a couple of months back she just never came home one night needless to say we got in a huge fight.. After that I surprised her with a trip out of town for our anniversary and she actually got kind of bummed and didnt seem to want to go. We ended up going but didnt have sex at all during the trip now mind you we hadnt had sex for a couple months prior to that either. Once we got back she pulled the same thing and took off with no call no nothing. I flipped and told her until she could figure somethings out it might be best for her to to stay somewhere else... However that was a month ago and other than her showing up to pick up some clothes I havent heard from her at all... We have been together 14 years.... I am not sure if I should continue to wait or if it has been to long and I am just being stupid thinking my wife is going to come back... Also she has said she wants to work things out but again every time we have set up a time to talk she doesnt show or call. |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 12:21 PM PDT Nd does the baby have to have the husband lastname?? |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 12:14 PM PDT My friend met this woman on vacation while in Ireland. They quickly fell in love and within a year she had moved to America to live with him in his parents house. Over the course of a few years they got married and had kids (never moving out of the family house) both of his parents passed away and his siblings sold them the family home at a huge discount so they could afford it. Throughout the years she developed a pretty bad drinking problem (becoming incoherent at times, and violent at other times). She began talking really poorly about my friend and slowly losing respect for him due to his laziness with the kids, the house and their relationship. She began taking vacations without him and one one trip with a friend she cheated on him. He found out, was devastated and confronted her. She cried apologized and they agreed to work it out. Within a few months she was going on another trip she had already paid for and could not get out of. While on this trip she cheated on him again. He confronted her and she told him she didn't love him, threw him out of the house, filed for divorce and planned to sell the family home and take her half. He was more upset by this than the cheating because his family bought the house after moving here from Portugal when he was young and also because the neighborhood has had a major upsurge in home prices. She he was preparing for the divorce but once again as the time drew near she cried and told him she didn;t want to sell the house. |
| Question: My husband has grindr in his iphone, what I do now? Posted: 26 May 2015 11:54 AM PDT My husband is gay. What now? |
| Question: Is it wrong to want a day off and not tell your spouse? Posted: 26 May 2015 10:05 AM PDT A little background... I have been with my husband for 9 years, We have no kids (just 2 dogs) He has never worked. He had the excuse of not being legally allowed to work for a while but that was a long time ago(he is from another country) He has a million excuses for not getting a job - this is my favorite one: "You make enough money for both of us, I wouldn't want to take a job away from someone who actually needs it." Even when I had SERIOUS medical issues not even an attempt to get a job. So - back to my actual question. I am never alone, the 15 minutes each way to work and back is the only time I am by myself. I can't even get a haircut without him wanting to drive me there and wait. I took today off - for an extra long holiday weekend. I had told my husband, but he forgot and I didn't correct (remind) him. So I got up and got ready this morning but instead of work I went and got breakfast at IHOP and I was about go to the salon for a haircut and manicure when my husband called and said Where are You, I am outside your office and you are not here, I tried to lie and tell him I was at a restaurant using their wifi because the internet in the office was down - but he said stay there I'll be there in 5 minutes - I was 30 minutes away so I had to tell no wait I am lying I am in ... Is it wrong for me to just want a day to myself without having to tell him where, what, why.... (There has never been any cheating or even suspicions of it - so that is a non-issue). |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 09:53 AM PDT guys, I'm frustrated bc my husband has been so sexually distant since i had our son, he doesn't even attempt to kiss me or tell me that he loves me anymore let alone sex. I'm in my 20s and he's a bit older than me. He claims the reason we're not having sex is bc he is tired from work but he doesn't work on winds and we don't have sex during the wknd either. I'm frustrated bc i do enjoy a healthy sex life but i don't understand what his reason is… what would you do with a husband that constantly neglects you sexually over and over??? |
| Question: Confused and heartbroken? Posted: 26 May 2015 09:26 AM PDT My husband of 7 months only. Left me. Left me on a vacation a few hours away. He wanted space he felt I was controlling him. He went camping a few days then he packed all his stuff, got a new place. I try to talk to him but he gets mad. Yells and screams he hates me and I'm psycho and Insecure and nothing's changed with me. . He has a lot of anger and has punched holes in the walls. Then returns a few days later that he misses me and wants to work it out. He's left about 5 times back and forth. Every time he's blaming me. For being insecure and me thinking he's doing something wrong. Why wouldn't I ? I found texts to other girls In the time we were apart. This has been going on a month now and I try to move forward with heart break and let go. But then he reels me back in with his words. He knows what to say every time? Is he using me as a back up plan? Or does he really miss me and love me? The reason I'm confused is because those are the words I want to hear. I know I should move on move forward with my life. But why is it so hard? Does he want his cake and eat it too? |
| Question: What should I do about this, my wife watches pornography without me? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:38 AM PDT I think its disrespectful. It has nothing to do with unit size. She is looking at other guys waistlines. First its those videos and next she'll be out looking for skinny guy side action. I just know it. Its disrespectful and might be a deal breaker. She should accept me as I am and not be longing for some skinny guy. We've been married a long time and sure I've put on a few pounds, we have children. |
| Question: Caught my husband looking at porn. We haven't spoken for 2 weeks. How to reconcile? Posted: 26 May 2015 08:08 AM PDT |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 07:25 AM PDT I have a 1.5 year long distance relationship with a woman who lives in europe. I live in america and we have already met many times and got engaged.Well this august we planned for me to fly over there to marry and then decide later who is going to move where. The problem is I currently dont have a car. I been walking back and forth over a year to work. Getting rides while i could to get food and walking when i cant. Well me and my fiancee had a fight over my airplane ticket. I was trying to get the lowest price possible since im saving money for a car. I have 6k saved up so far and a airplane ticket to visit her and get married would cost 1,500 and set me back months of savings. My targeted goal was to hit 7k and buy the car cash. When talking to her about prices, she got bored, and started ignoring me and playing video games on her tablet. I dont think she cares that i walk or how much this sets me back. She told me she gives everything to me and that im cheap. That just pissed me off so much thag i would rather get a car than marry someone who doesnt care about what i sacrifice just to be with them as much as i can.. Am i right? Is she right? |
| Question: Tired of husband and his flaws plus tired of no damn confidence anymore!? Posted: 26 May 2015 07:01 AM PDT I always turn to yahoo ppl for answers that maybe to complicated so hopefully this one I can get an honest answer. I'm tired of husband and his flaws. Masturbating while he thinks I'm sleeping, Craigslist sex ads he reads along with porn mags he looks at at work, gives me all his responsibilities clean his office to filing papers to watching his son that we have during the summer. House is always clean and I'm suppose to be ready for sex when he's in the mood but when I am I have to wait. I feel taken for granted and he doesn't care about what I need even when I express this. I don't need to know how he is or how he's being selfish I need to know how I am suppose to put up with this and how it's crushing my confidence to the point where I don't eat sleep etc... Someone plz help! I thought working out and loosing weight (and I did weigh 120 pds now) would help but it's not. I still feel crushed he chooses too do those other things that make me feel crappy oz help! |
| Question: Ok am divorce but my ex husband parents take my son every week? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:58 AM PDT I have a son and the grandparents take my son every week and I'm the one that deals with him Can the his grandparents be there for my son or the court or I need hire some one for me to win the case |
| Question: Women - especially older women - what can a husband do to be more romantic? Posted: 26 May 2015 06:56 AM PDT My wife and I have been married 28 years. I have never been a romantic guy, full of emotion and passion. I am more of a constant, always there, through sickness and in health, and a good provider. My wife had he share of passionate men in her twenties, but all she ended up with in the end was a broken heart. We have great chemistry with religion and politics. She has begun to learn more about my one great passion: American Football. (We bicycle to local high school games.) I have provided stability in her life for 28 years. We have our house paid off and are debt free. But I want to now give her a more passionate husband (meaning me.) So - women, girls, etc. - what can an older man (in his fifties) do to be a more passionate husband? I'll take any answers, even trolls. Have at it. To everyone advising me about sex....that is not a problem. I am getting my needs met, I want to make sure my wife has her's met, is all. Still, thanks for all the answers so far. |
| Posted: 26 May 2015 06:40 AM PDT Lets assume you want your husband to be honest with you about things that turn him on or off. If one of his turn on's was to be a in a threesome with another woman and yourself, how would you react. Would you be happy he was open and told you or would you be mad, or would you be excited because you want that as well, or would you try it for him or is divorce right around the corner at that point, what would you do? |
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