Hi. So my friend (We'll call her J) and me were in the mall on Saturday. My primary purpose was to get a mother's day gift for my mom, while J's was to get a bunch of bath bombs and jewelry and such. I had 25$, she had 40$. So she said she felt guilty to buy a bunch of stuff for herself while I only get some earrings for myself, and I said I'm fine because I didn't want anything else - just a smoothie and earrings. But she was pressuring me a LOT to let her buy me something since she was apparently guilty. So, after around 5 hours of pressuring me on text, I gave in and said "yes, ok." She was ecstatic. But she also decided to pay all my taxes. So let's fast-forward to the mall, where she decided to get a 2-for-5$ surprise bag deal and she said one's for me, one's for her. I said no I don't want it. She made me. So she did that again. At this point I had 2 useless surprise bags. I have bought with my own money as following (for myself) - pair of earrings, a necklace, best friend necklace, hair clips, bracelet (altogether that was 5$), smoothie, mini fragrance from BBW THAT'S IT. THAT'S ALL I WANTED. But J decided to also pay all the tax for everything. She bought me gum and Kinder, together for 2$. She swore she won't ask for all the money back. But what do I get after the mall? She's asking me for 20$!! HOW THE HELL DO YOU GET 20$ FROM TAX? AND 3$ SHE SPENT ON ME? She said she loves making gifts. And if she doesn't get money she will make me give it. What should I do?

So as a rising college freshman, I know it's super important to have money. And usually I get a job every summer. This summer, there's a slot available-at a summer camp that takes place at my brother's school-for a consular-but I also can volunteer to assist at my Tae Kwon Do's summer camp. I'd be working for the same ages, and having earned my Black Belt recently, my volunteer credits are erased and I have to start over. And doing the camp at the TKD will help fill credits so I can have some saved up extra so when I go to school in August I won't be falling too far behind in terms of those credits. Plus, I adore the kids in the TKD camp (as they're in the program I volunteer in). Should I go for the paid job or for the volunteering?

Okay so I went over to my friends house last night to swim. He invited over 2 other girls that were our good friends. After we swam for like 3 hours we got out and just chilled for a bit. My friend was joking around and said we should play spin the bottle. We're in 7th grade and I had never played before so I was kind of nervous. We all got every possible combination (we didn't kiss same gender).

She posted a picture on social media with my other 2 friends that live in the neiborhood saying "neighborhood crew." She always used to invite me over but she never does anymore. We never talk. I never did anything wrong. Yesterday I asked if she wanted to go to open gym and she said yes. I told her to come to my house at 12 so we can leave. She never showed up. I texted her and asked why she didn't and she read it but didn't answer. If you have any experience with anything like this or you have any advice please let me know. I don't want to lose a good friend.

School really stresses me out. I don't have a lot of friends and most of the time I'm by myself. I don't like eating in the cafeteria because it's really awkward for me (Everyone is with their friends and I'm just by myself). I also have a hard time talking to people because I have social anxiety (Every time I talk my voice cracks :P) My mom is never satisfied with my grades. I try really hard to keep them up and It hurts when she says that I don't. We pretty much get into arguments every time she checks them. Everything in my room is pretty much gone because of her. She always overreacts and it's extremely irritating. I used to like drawing and I used to learn Mandarin, but now I can't any more because my grades are "too low". I honestly don't know what to do anymore 90-100=A 80-89=B 7079=C 60-69-D 50-59=F

Ok so at school we had to clean out lockers and I put all of the stuff from my gym locker in a plastic bag. Now this is a decent amount of stuff in the bag we are talking about here too! So My "friend" was done cleaning out her locker and she came over to mine to start talking to me. I had to go use the bathroom so I asked her, "Please just watch my stuff because I need to go to the bathroom real quick!". So I walked off and she was standing there when I went inside. When I come outside, I see her in the student center which is nowhere close to my locker. At this time I start to panic about where my stuff is and she just walks away to the after school club we are in. I was mad to see my stuff wasn't where I left it and my locker was closed so I thought she was playing a joke. At least I hoped she was. I open my locker and I see all my stuff stuffed into my locker!!! The bag was ripped and my stuff was spilling out! I had to stuff the clothes and everything into my backpack making it even more heavier and the rest I had to carry! I was frustrated and I walked into the after school activity saying "I asked you to do one thing! You couldn't just watch a bag for 2 minutes!!!??". Of course everyone looked but not for long because no one cared. She said " Jeez I didnt feel like carrying it all the way upstairs I was just trying to help, your overreacting right now.". Meanwhile she had her own little plastic bag to carry her stuff. How do I convince her she was in the wrong?!

First sorry this is so long, and sorry about my spelling.So im in 9th grade at a public school, I am a shy tomboy girl who has no friends in this school, and I eat in the bathroom :(. I try to make friends and I talk to people sometimes in class but still I don't fit in during lunch time to a table. I've tried so hard for the last couple of years to get a friend during the summer I was watching people and videos and how to get friends and get over not being very social but it hasn't worked out obviously. My mom currently found out that I sit in the bathroom (long story) and wants to send me to a differnt school next year, that she thinks is better for me. They are k-12 and have uniforms there and insted of the 400 kids in my grade it would be cut down to about 100. So do you think It would be more likly to make a friend at a school with more or less people. Another concern I have is if I don't make a friend at the new school, then I can't really just hide in the bathroom since they can keep track of u more in the smaller school. Also you know how they go easier on you when your a freshman because your new to the school, well I don't want them to be harsh on me cause I'm in 10th and getting used to a new school and let that ruin my 4.0 GPA. I also have a friend that goes there but we might not have the same classes or lunch. So do you think I would be better off going to that new school were there's uniforms and a smaller population or stick to the same school?

Okay, all my life I've been the "Alpha" male between my friends and I always lead them. They view me as a leader and I like that. However, when I get too comfortable and in a good mood I start acting a little on the other side of the ball park. Nothing much on the actions just dancing a lot, it's mostly noticeable in my speech. In short; I sound like Tyler Oakley. Ok sorry forgot, the question is: Should I change how I act or just live with it?

I've gone to school with these people for about 5 years now. There's boys and girls all in our friend group and at school I never have any problems with any of them. I sit with them in class, lunch, etc. It basically seems like I'm friends with them all individually but as a group I think the girls may not like me (the guys are all fine and are always friendly). On weekends, they are secretly plan things without me but at school we are all friends again. I'm so confused!

I HATE MY LIFE! Okay, be prepared to read this really long story. Throughout 2013, I was being bullied really badly. Luckily, in January of 2014, I moved schools and away from the bullying. I was so happy at my new school! People treated me so nicely and I was friends with everyone! A month later was when I made the biggest mistake. I developed a crush on this guy who we'll call "Lance" and Lance used to go to my new school, but moved schools. I was so in love with him omg and I told all my trustworthy friends and they did everyone they could to get Lance and I to meet. In May was when I made an even bigger mistake, which I hate myself for. Lance goes to the same camp my 2 friends went to. In June of 2014, I met my idol Drake Bell who has noticed me countless times on social media. Please don't judge. I'm mentioning him because he's an important part of the story. So, I decided to go to that camp just to get close to him. That was when everything started to go wrong. But, it took me a long time to believe it was bad because I refused to believe bad things happened to me bc of how happy I was at my new school. I didn't even talk to Lance at camp. And, I was attacked by the girls in my cabin. It was a nightmare. I regret going to that camp so much omg the girls are so mean. Going back to school in September was when things went more wrong. The kids at school were extremely moody and they get worse by day. They are awful. The guys are so mean to me. I feel invisible because I get pushed in the hallway and they don't even notice. Btw throughout all of this, Lance has done everything he could to ignore me. On March 28, 2015, I met Drake for the second time. Again, I'm going to explain why he's an important part of the story soon. On April 12, 2015, I decided to DM Lance that I had feelings for him. I didn't care who found out anymore. I just wanted to let him know and wanted an answer. I told him I'd like to get to know him better and I **** u not, his response was "What." LIKE WTF. So, I was extremely pissed off and that's when I started to realize that ****'s hard. I've refused to see the bad in my life. I tried hurting myself. So, I decided to DM Drake about it because I can definitely rely on him (He follows me on Insta). Drake said the sweetest thing to me! He said to me I'm awesome and beautiful and shouldn't worry about boys. That made my night and his kind words were amazing, but didn't change the way I feel. I still hate myself. I did something worse last night. On Ask.Fm, I decided to go on Lance's ask page (Btw, still like him) and tell him there was a girl that's liked him for a while and dm'd you about it once and he literally said "I don't remember." When I told him who, he was like "Idk who tf she is!" and all I said was "My name. She just thinks ur cute and would like to get to know u better." He literally ruined my life and shattered my self esteem. It's not just him. It's all boys. Everywhere I go, boys do something mean to me! No matter where I go, I get bullied and it's usually by boys and my girl friends are so mean to me in front of guys! I really hate my life. It doesn't sound that bad, but believe me, there's a lot I'm not saying and if you knew me in person, you'd know it's bad. Nobody's words make me feel better. I hate myself. I've been contemplating cutting myself on a daily basis. Drake saved my life (by stopping me from hurting myself. I mean it when I say he did), but obviously he can't save me every single time I'm down. My parents don't understand **** and I've tried explaining it to them, but they're being stupid about it! I'm not even that close with them. Please just someone help me. I hate my life I am basically nearly being harassed by the kids from my old school still and I just hate everything so much!!

so i graduated high school last year i was doing online schooling but shortly after i got my diploma. anyway usaully alot of people go to college in the fall i didnt i wanted to take a year off school, but anyway my parents and my friends get on me about not doing anything. im not going to college, i do not have a job i dont really do anything except be on my phone and just lay around the house. im 19 and still a virgin ive had boyfriends but only online. my question is next fall should i go through with schooling? or can i just keep what im doing because i feel like it's not really bad.

My friend is depressed. Like, super depressed. I try everything in my power to help, but she always tells me to change the subject. I'm sick of hearing her whine and complain about things that wouldn't make most people her age suicidal. She's 17, by the way. Anyways, the last couple of days with her have been...rough. She left me a suicide note and said she was done with everything. With her parents, school...everything. I managed to talk her out of it but it's getting to a point where I'm stressed the hell out and need some miracle to save her. Help me please :( She lives in Australia, I live in the USA. We are online buddies.mmi cannot physically help her.

i have this best friend who i am really close to and i do so much for her, I'm always there for her but she doesn't appreciate any of it. she use to be so excited to see me and always hug me but now she doesn't do any of that she does it to other friends which makes me jealous and i feel sad but I'm the one who has always been there for her and because she is use to me being there its the norm it just annoys me how she doesn't make an effort with me anymore but does with everyone else

sleepover w/ my friend we're girls. she held my hand while we we're sleeping

In 4th grade, a new girl... lets just call her "Dianne", stole my best friend. My best friend, lets call her "Tori", always hangs out w/ Dianne and Tori usually only speaks to me about 5 times a day during school, usually only asking about assignments and questions. We only hang out once a month and its always with other friends so we don't even talk when we're with each other. She kinda gets mad or moody around me but around Dianne shes cheery and happy and is always talking to her and giving her hugs. Dianne is very nice and we are great friends but I've known Tori since kindergarten and I feel... broken. I usually have to hang out with other friends from other schools to get her off my mind. Dianne is leaving next year, so she says that's a reason why shes trying to make the most of it. But tori says things like, "Dianne is my bestest friend in the whole universe," "I love Dianne more than anyone," "Dianne, wanna work together?" "Dianne, lets hangout today- just you and me." All she says to me is, "Sarah, can you get my pen?" "Whats the homework?" "Can I have some lunch"? I just don't understand how shes known me for 8 years and I was her first friend, but shes known Dianne for 2 and shes probably her 80th friend... I may be overreacting, but I just feel hurt... Please don't tell me to talk to her about it. As I have before, all she did was ignore me about the topic and said it wasn't a big deal.

My best friend hasn't hit me up to hang out for the past two weeks. He has texted me and called me a few times. But whenever I ask if he wants to hang out he says he's busy doing prom stuff or other things. And yesterday there was a party which me and him were supposed to go to, but he said he couldn't. However, he ended up going after his dance, is he still my friend??bthanks in advance.

me and my best friend would do everything together and we had so much fun this year at school,i only met her this year and she is from Dubai, so she lives on her own she is close to other friends too and spend lots of time with one friend who is from abroad too and they always stay over at each others apartments and i get really jealous

i met my best friend last year and we became really close, but now she had lots of close friends and i always get jealous when she is with them

I have two good friends who I've known for years who I usually go to parties with, but lately they've been REALLY obnoxious wherever we go. My first friend, let's call her Stella (not real name), always makes fun of everyone and whispers gossip/mean comments to me about other people at the party (what they're wearing, someone is a s**t, etc) It makes me uncomfortable and I tell her to stop. The second friend is the worst, let's call her Blanche (not real name). So I never hook up with guys but recently I did start hooking up with this one guy who we hang out with. Last night, she kept whispering in his ear to kiss me and whispering in my ear asking me questions about him when he's RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF US. It's so ******* awkward and annoying. Why do I need to have a conversation about this guy right in front of him and whisper about people when you're at a party? And she doesn't know anything about our relationship (it's not a relationship but idk what to call it) but always tries to meddle. Whenever I look sad at a party (I'm never sad, sometimes just tired or quiet/relaxed) she points at him and mouths "what's wrong with him" and I want to scream and then whispers **** to him about why he's not doing X Y and Z (kissing me...he and I don't do PDA besides maybe hugging/putting his arm around me). They also both drink a lot (I don't drink at all) and start crying at every party and getting into fights with people or emotional breakdowns and it's really dragging me down.

I'm a 3rd year Literature student hoping to enrol onto a Masters' course in September. My best friend and I live together in a spacious flat about a mile away from campus. We've been friends ever since meeting in Freshers' week. We're both fans of one of our academics, who has published some hugely influential essays, poetry collections and allegories throughout his career. My friend has adored him since high school, having read some of his work prior to enrolment. Who would have guessed that I should be the one to catch his attentions? We became unusually close to him, but he regarded her as nothing more than a friend and student - albeit a pretty and talented one. Instead, he began to take an interest in me, and recently we have started dating. Before heading out to see him last night, my friend said she was going to bed. After realising that I had left my phone up the flat, I returned very quietly so as to avoid disturbing her. Upon entering the darkened flat, I heard the sound of sobbing from her room. I crept quietly towards it and peered through the door. She was sat in front of the mirror, speaking to herself: 'We used to be the best of friends', quoth she, 'but had you never existed then Doctor F* and I would be as one!' She began reciting sorrowful verses, and muttered my name contempuously under her breath. She then overturned the desk and screeched manically, 'Olivia White, "that it should come to this!"' and severed the bracelet I had given her for her birthday.

Oooooooh ! That's gotta hurt...Better get the bactine and band aids Speak up cowardly hens...(*((^

i can be a very clingy person, i have this best friend who i normally do everything with, we use to talk everyday and she would text me and i would text her. But now she never texts me anymore its always me who makes the effort, she has stopped now. and i always get jealous when i see her hang out with other friends or hug her other friends she would alway shut me and want to be with me but she never does anymore i feel like she takes advantage of me cause I'm too nice i miss the times we had together and i always feel that she might forget me cause she is always staying over at her other friends house???

I was very addicted to the forum and started getting anxiety about every little post i made so i decided to leave for my own health. So without saying a word I deleted everything my avi, my about me,etc with the intention of leaving for good. Then about a month later i was feeling better so i decide to come back with new rules for myself so i wont be anxious, but i find many people on the thread i frequent are ignoring my posts O.o Now the thread i frequent feels like it has a bad atmosphere with not many posts and most of the frequent users stopped posting soon after i started posting again... Why is this happening?

She has looked at my story once and I've never seen her have a story, but she has 30,000+ snapchat points.

I'm 16, I have a childhood sweetheart I haven't seen or talked to in awhile, she's 16, and lives in jacksonville, but we're both part of the turkish-american community, and there's going to be a festival in ft lauderdale, on september 29. the last festival in jacksonville was in 2011, and there won't be another one soon. im going to the festival. question is, will she be there?... keep in mind our turkish community is close-knit because we're in the gulen movement.

she never cared about me. But I do and I wanna get over her I don't want problematic people like her in my life its just I don't know how to get over her. So uh how do I get over her?

im 18 years old, about to graduate high school. my school is pretty much broken into groups and no one is trying to befriend anyone that's not already in their group of friends. I do try talking to everyone but it doesn't really work. the people that I am friends with are not really my friends. they lie, start stuff, talk about people behind their backs, and just use me to get rides to hang out with each other. I really want some actual friends that I can go places with, and have fun with. not people that just sit there talking about the next girl. am I the only girl that doesn't sit around talking about other girls?

So, we have a swimming test in our school this Thursday, and she is really worried that someone might see her cuts... What can she do to cover it?

My best friends and I are worried. We used to have our group, the 4 of us. His life was no good before. This girl is his first gf(he's 25) his first kiss, his first sexual encounter, first person to say "I love you" He is Overweight and stuck at a job he hated for 9years(fired now, more on that later). We have tried to talk to him and convince him she's awful for him. She has ruined his life. He used to be close to his family, traditional redneck with a slice of not strong(I quit using the word gay, so was hard to find something to fit) he had his family values, loved his family and mom who passed away gave him his prized '79 Blazer. He sold it for 500$ so she could buy a new car. He got a credit card to help with our project and we were paying him back. She spent the entire balance and now its killed his credit. He got them an apartment. Couldn't make rent when he was fired and he lied to us(his best friends) and said rent was raised. well I called. They never made their rent. He is living out of the car with him. She had him take a case of sprite from the hospital he works at, well a doctor saw him and told and he was fired for her sprite(he worked 65+ hours a week) because she spent all of his money. She wanted a new phone, he said no hers was good enough. well that night someone "stole it" and he had to buy her a new phone off contract. I need advice on how to get him to get out of his terrible situation before he does something ignorant or more so that he's done.

I guess I do have "friends", but they're all unreliable, untrustworthy, and they only seem to pop up when they want to use my parent's pool or my parent's beach house. I go to a lonely community college, much like high school except nobody wants to interact with each other and everybody just goes home after 2 hours. I'm really trying hard to get into an actual university so I can live on campus and make new friends, however it doesn't seem like I'll get accepted anywhere. I live in the boring suburbs, where the most interesting place we have is a home depot. There are no real places to be social and have fun. The few friends I did have from high school all moved a trillion miles away and they want absolutely nothing to do with me anymore. Apparently they now have "better" friends than me, so they just discarded me like a little piece of trash. I do work, but my job is lonely as hell. It's easy and it pays well, but there's virtually nobody to socialize with. I just feel so damn lonely all the time, I have literally nobody to talk to. I spend all my weekends alone, isolated in my basement. I am so sick of living this way. What do I do?

i dont make friends easily because im shy, introvert, i have bff but she is in different high school i have no pair/true friend in my class..i talk to them but they already have friends that they rather sit/talk/hang out...they never invited me anywhere...and they text me only when they need something from me ... and i feel really depressed so i was so happy when the new girl came into our class.we became good friends and we have many things in common, i always sit with her, but i was ill for a week and when i came back kate (new girl) was sitting with lucy (girl i hate and she hates me too) and i dont know why .we used to go home together but now she goes home with lucy.she had her own friends i dont know why she "stole" my one friend in class..and now i sit alone again !i shouldnt have been ill :/ but when we have some work in group to do kate calls to come to them but lucy always say "lets find someone else to be in our group and then she stares at with look "i win *****" thats why i hate her so much....maybe i dont have some true friend in class because im shy and it takes time to me to get comfortable with people in class but other they are already comfortable with each other...i dont want to to school trips because i know i would be alone :// it would be ok to me to have just 2 true friends in my class please help me how to make true friend in class when everybody has their own friend with who they always sit with etc

So about 8 months ago, me and this guy started talking. We didn't talk in school, we only texted (just friends). Later we got into this HUGE fight and I told him I didn't want to be his friend anymore only because I was mad, not because I meant it. Anyway, he got mad at me and didn't talk to me. Then when I finally got him to talk to me again he said he doesn't think he should be friends with a person who doesn't want to be friends with him. We don't talk anymore and it's really awkward at school. But my problem is that we're not friends and I don't exactly know why. It's not because of that one thing that I said. He told me there are a few more reasons. And I can't live with an unresolved conflict. Like I need to figure out what I did wrong or end the friendship. It just kinda got cut off. I have dreams about him over and over, and in the dream I'm scared to talk to him. Idk what to do, he won't talk to me, please help!

I always give her rides everywhere, and this time she got her period all over my fabric seats, so I don't think its going to come out... She just laughed and said "guess you have to wash it", and left, didn't thank me for the ride and didn't apologize for ruining my seats. I always give her rides everywhere and she never does anything for me so I feel like I'm becoming more of a chauffeur than a friend. What should I do??

Hey. Im a 15 yr old guy in school and. During my last 3-4years. I have never had a bestfriend in school. Is this weird or normal? i mean like i have ton of friends that i hang around with in school but not a friend that i really do stuff with outside of school much only some ppl.It seems like everyone has their one bestie except me.. Do you guys also have friends but not bestfriends?

I have this ex friend who treated me like crap when we were friends. It was a toxic friendship. And I didn't deserve being treated like crap by her. So I ended the friendship and moved on. I have been much happier. Today she tried adding me as a friend on Facebook. I decided to ingore it. Why is she trying to come back into my life? Btw I'm 32.

So I know this is a prank, because I use to be friends with this one girl for a few years, and she turned mean and rude and different so I didn't want to be her friend. Then she got all mad at me and blah blah. She has pretty mean friends, and they keep calling me( I think it's them but she really hates me , and if she doesn't get her way she becomes mean and stubborn.) They called me 3 times and I know they used that *67 thing where they block their number, so I can't tell who it is. They gave me a voicemail of some song, and I told my ex-friend that calling me 2 times isn't scary. She's like IM AT A PARTY!(she even had to take a video)And telling me why do I accuse her and she didn't and all that. They called me again, and I picked up and they played porn in the background. She's really annoying me and sending me black people emojis and saying stuff about RAP. She think it's a game, but I don't want her 10 year old friends calling me and making me listen to porn and crap. So how do like block or do something for them to like leave me alone?

So its been really challenging to make friends in middle school. Everyone from elementary school is so different and I thought I'd eventually make friends but now I'm in 7th grade and I still dont. Also I'm not like any of the other boys and it's uncomfortable for me to talk to them

I have no friends and I broke up with my girl friend one year ago and I feel so lonely right now. Within one year after break up, I have lived life enjoying of it but after a year, I feel so lonely these Two days. I am about to give up on everything and suicide while I am not afraid of death, but I think of my family and there is a reason why I must not suicide. I don't have friends because I want long term friends not liars, social climbers etc. I would be glad for a good help. If there is someone with negative answers, please go away

My friend is 16, I'm 14. She always pushes me to find a dude to **** on weekends and sometimes when we go to fires and parties she hooks up and gets with the dude I think is cute and wanted. Then she kinds rubs it in my face. She almost forces me to bring a guy over to her house because she has one too and when I want to leave with him she's so mean about it. When I want to do something she says "you can but I'm not". And then accuses me of ditching her. I have a life of my own. She hates when I borrow her make up but expects me to let her use mine. Her hair is medium length bleach blonde with black roots and she had acne and always has an orange cover up line and mascara marks and fills in her eyebrows almost black. She's skinny and shows off her body tho. Do guys like girls that are trashy and can't do their make up? I have a brunette bob and i really am good at doing make up. Whats wrong with me? I'm not fat, just curvy but I struggle with my weight. She always points out how much I eat and then forces me to buy her food. She forces me to buy her drugs too. She makes me drink and do drugs and then is super mean to me when I'm ****** up and do something wrong. There are fun times tho. Kinda. When I stand up for myself she accuses me of having an attitude. She's nice to me and then bitchy. I have no idea what to do.

im in love with a girl Samantha but I know she will never be mine, we are both 20 and she was my close friend but due to me liking her she stopped speaking to me the same way... its been exactly 1 year since ive liked her and I can't seem to forget her. we still talk once in a while only as friends.... but ive been through different relationships lately but all I think about is Samantha! and I don't know what too doo I feel super depressed and alone. what should I doo

Last week, one of my closest friends attempted suicide. Thank god she was not successful. After three consecutive days of not being in school, she came back and told me what happened. She has been my friend for the past eleven years and this absolutely crushed my heart. I knew she wasn't feeling herself but I had no idea it was this bad. She is getting help now and seems to be doing much better, but I want to do something for her. The problem is I don't know what to do. Please help. I just want to help her feel better.

so my friend is getting really annoying now. the other day i was hanging out with her and one of my other friends and she just keeping on grabbing my phone out and i find that incredibility rude. i said that next time she does it ill ask her to stop. and sometimes during gym class shell just sit down and be depressed and stuff and i try to help her buy she doesnt want me to and i cant help someone that doesnt want to be helped

i have this best friend who doesn't appreciate the things i do of her, we use to do everything together and talk everyday, now a days i am the one who has to make an effort with her she never makes an effort with me. I am a really nice friend who helps her out and does thing for her but she never appreciates it. she always hang arounds with other friends and sometimes i get jealous and don't know why and she never replies to some of my messages when i know she is online

Later we got into this HUGE fight and I told him I didn't want to be his friend anymore only because I was mad, not because I meant it. Anyway, he got mad at me and didn't talk to me. Then when I finally got him to talk to me again he said he doesn't think he should be friends with a person who doesn't want to be friends with him. We don't talk anymore and it's really awkward at school. But my problem is that we're not friends and I don't exactly know why. It's not because of that one thing that I said. He told me there are a few more reasons. And I can't live with an unresolved conflict. Like I need to figure out what I did wrong or end the friendship. It just kinda got cut off. I literally have dreams about this guy over and over again. In my dream, I'm even there scared to talk to him. Idk what to do, he won't talk to me, please help!

We are 15, so we are definitely old enough to bathe by ourselves. But she stinks all of the time and seems to have no idea. She says she takes baths and wears deodorant but all of the evidence is against it. She has 3 pet rats and their cage is in her room and it smells so gross. I think it clings to her clothes or something. She once said that her dad doesn't put the clothes in the dryer after they are done washing so they just sit there for a couple of days wet and starting to smell. And I assume the dryer then bakes the stink into them. She needs to know. I've known her for 10 years and I can't take it anymore. I've told her she should get an ask.fm account so I can tell her anonymously ( I know that sounds horrible but I can't bear to do it to her face) Help!

So me and my friend are just alike, both extremely uncomfortable with sharing our emotions. She calls me on my bullshit, but I'm kind of afraid to call her out on hers because it's hard to tell girls they're wrong. Lately, she makes up excuses for not wanting to hangout with our group of friends. I feel like she is doing it for attention and she likes to make us think she is busy. Should I confront her? We all used to be so close, and I have no issues with her but I feel like this is destroying our friendship. Any advice? Sorry about any bad grammar!

We talk all day through our phones. We talk to each other more than we do to anyone else and even have our own words that only we know. We do some activities together just the two of us. We see each other several times a week. We share books. Is this just good friends or something more? How to tell the difference?

At work, a coworker will refer to things I have done in the past, but pretend he is talking about someonrnamed Tyler. Tyler does exist and he is not well liked at the store. For instance, he said that Tyler once hit his ankle and was limping around the store, and that he and another guy at work were saying that he should man up and walk it off. I hit my ankle and was limping for 2 days at work about 3 months before he said this to me. He said that Tyler told another coworker that if he could be anything he would be dog. I said something similar, but was joking. There are at least two other instances of him saying that Tyler has done something that I have done in the past. I can be very quiet and awkward at times, and have huge difficulty talking in groups of people. For that reason people at work kind of avoid me or think I'm stupid or something. I also have a friend who would do the same thing to me, but much more often and much more specific. Am I being paranoid or are they being passive aggressive and thinking I wont pick up on it?

Okay so I followed a boy that I know in real life on instagram and he has a girlfriend and maybe a couple minutes later after I followed him, he changed his bio saying he's taken and loves his girlfriend. He saw that I followed him because he followed me back. I was just wondering why he changed it so fast after I had followed him and he had been on Instagram for about a month

I have a friend who stinks very badly of poo and wee mixed in with other mysterious substances. Nobody wants to be friends with that person anymore. I once puked because of the smell but blamed it on bad food. That friend even has this odd dark layer on her neck which i have been told this this builds up when somebody doesn t wash for a while. I do not want to sound mean but she has to be told or she will have no friends left. Her house is very bad too as when i came over there was dried dog wee and poo and her bed stunk of pee and definitely has not been washed in months( the bed had some kind of mysterious brown liquid on it which stunk).

I think i m dandere but all of my friends think i m kuudere. I smile. I m quiet and shy. I am easily embarrassed. When it comes to meeting new people, i m shy and say what I need to say, like "nice to meet you". Once I know that person long enough and am comfortable around them, i m more sociable. So am I a Kuudere and a Dandere? (or possibly a mix of both) Thank you!

So, there is this girl(let's call her lana)and she really bugs me; she is cocky, talkative and always has to be the centre of attention. However, this is only when she is around my best friend(let's call this one Jude). Outside of school me and Jude have a really close friendship group with two other people(they don't go to my school)but the other day, Jude introduced Lana to our friends over facebook(we have a group on Facebook that Lana was added to by Jude)and Jude has been talking to them on it looooaaadsss and it's really p*ssed me off because I don't want her to then become friends with them because I will then get all mardy(knowing me)and then push myself out of the group and no longer be friends with them which will REALLY upset me because they are bloody awesome people. So the only peaceful solution I can find is if I just manage to tolerate her and then I will be happy with her being in our friendship group. How can I get over the fact that she is excruciatingly cocky and annoying when she's with Jude and also boys(my friends out of school are boys)? Thanks in advance. You guys are great cheers👍

My peers have pointed it out to me that I am different, that I'm not normal and I would like it if one of you would tell be just a little bit of what the hell is going on, they say I do things I shouldn't be proud of, for example, I'm racist, I break the law repeatedly with no regrets and I laugh and/or smile when something 'bad' is happening. I also blurt out rude comments about people when they walk by ( because they are what I say mostly) , and I hate society and everyone in it, and when I say these things at school people around think I am joking ( not the ones I shout at or be rude too ) and laugh about it and they like me for some reason but I don't like them, I only have two true friends and even they are annoying and I say the truth to them sometimes and I don't really have any regrets of saying rude stuff to anyone because I don't like them, and I lie a lot to get away with stuff and usually when people blab about their problems I find it hard to give a **** when I should be empathetic apparently, also my grades are terrible but I don't care and I have tried to change but I feel like it's not worth the effort and just because it's not the social 'norm' to be like this isn't a bad thing is it?

I m a 22 year old female, shy with bad social anxiety, but even online where I spent ten years on an RPG site I still apparently didn t make any friends. I thought I did, but then hearing people talk behind my back and then someone, who I thought was a good friend, openly in front of everyone started making cruel remarks and finally said that they never liked me, I was never thier friend, and I was promptly ignored. :/ my best friend from grade school won t answer texts, facebook, or anything either. So lately I ve been having a terrible time with it. People only talk to me to unload all thier stuff, then promptly say they never liked me or considered me a friend. I m nice to everyone I encounter, so I just don t understand.

I always give her rides everywhere, and this time she got her period all over my fabric seats, so I don't think its going to come out... She just laughed and said "guess you have to wash it", and left, didn't thank me for the ride and didn't apologize for ruining my seats. I always give her rides everywhere and she never does anything for me so I feel like I'm becoming more of a chauffeur than a friend. What should I do??

So my best friend of almost 2 years now, we are very close. Idk if i have developed a crush on her or its just i adore her and love her so much and care so much and i would do anything for her. We are both girls in highschool. I have a boyfriend as does she, she always jokes around with my boyfriend saying she is still mine. I always love to be around her i smile so much and we just have a lot of fun together, but i have never felt this way for another girl. Im straight nor do i believe i am lesbian because i dont like girls like that. I have kissed her as a dare but i dont bring it up we used too not anymore but i want to do it again, not date, but she always looks at me, or when were talking shell look at my lips, we always play around like smacking butts, ill hug her a lot or ill kinda make sure im close to her, sometimes i notice shell always be touching me, like when we slept in her bed her arm was on mine, we kiss on the cheek a lot, my fav number is 27 and thats also my basketball number and she had either 4 or 27 for softball and she picked 27 and i smiled so wide and i go hey thats my number! And she said i didnt really want 4 hah but she must of thought about me tho too cuz she knows its my number too, and yes we r really close. I know she would never feel this way about me but sometimes by the way she acts i feel she does, but no shes too into boys. I mean yes we love eachother but i just dk if ive developed a crush now

-Where you're clearly a fun person, but flawed like everyone else. Your friends start to take you for granted and not be great to you, so you move on. Then they cry and say: "We miss you" and/or you KNOW they're not having any fun without you, lol. But you're like: TOO LATE. lol?? -why do ppl do this to you?