was he happy if the wife was obedient? I do not know what my husband (the good angel Gabriel) is expecting? my pomsl: do not go anywhere without asking for example on a night without him, alone to the club etc. let him give you all the decisions, read the text. what do you think? would you be happy? What else do you think about this issue?

So i been dating a divorced man. He got divorced 7 years ago and he pays child support and he buys his kids whatever they want, but one thing that bothers me is that he gave his home up to give it to the exwife because she couldnt affor to pay rent?!... so he has tonpay her rent, child support and a few of her expenses !!! Am I wrong to get mad?! Because hes pay for pretty much eveything!?!?!... When he got divorced he gave her the house they were living in... she sold the house a year ago and she wanted the house he was living in.

My husband says he has secrets? My husband and I are post 1.5 years after his affair. We are getting better and we're ok where we are. He is healing and so am I. He says there's not a day that goes by that he isn't reminded of how he hurt me and our son. He gets really depresssed about it whenever we discuss it. He is getting much better about opening up and communicating his feelings to me which was one of the initial problems. We still have a long road ahead of us especially for me. One of the things I said was no secrets when we came back together. About two weeks ago he said he had some secrets that he didn't tell me from the affair. This is one of those moments where I think to myself if I wanna know what they are. I do because it's gonna sit in the back of my mind until I know and also I want this off his mind. Do you think it's better if we both discuss it and then we can move on again? That way it's not living in our heads? The other reason I don't want to know is because I'm going to be hurt again, I think I am strong enough to take it. I am at a point where I feel I am strong enough to think about the event, and not let it control me. He's been better about communicating with me and opening up to me. I have somewhat of a secret too, while we were apart I thought of another man and my ex bf, but they were just thoughts. Appreciate any advice some couples who have been through this.

I go for the ideal in every respect. I trust him immeasurably and want to make him happy. so that's why he wants obedience to the wedding, assuming that every man wants it. do I understand facwtow well? maybe he agreed because it's my idea. so should I keep back as in the guide I read? for example, arouse envy Are you happy with the wife that he listens to? Do you prefer different behavior? he agreed but I do not know what he thinks. at one time it was a standard

I want to promise him to obey me at the wedding, give me some examples from the 21st centur

My dearest center of my world husband and love the greatest is a good gentle, he respects me and loves me. I Promise obedience to him. What exactly promises me? Some examples of what he should decide. Someone wrote: she does everything she says.   We know it's not like this: / What is he to decide about? Because he can not make me eat the bleeh popcorn

Is it desperation? or is it because nobody else they come into contact with will sincerely tolerate them being abstinent or celibate before marriage even within their faith and follow through with bothering to marry them? Is it because they are undesirable? They are very old and want kids? What could drive someone to want to marry someone that doesn't believe altogether is always raising protest, questioning and belittling them? What makes someone make a life long commitment to someone that doesn't take it as seriously as they do?! It isn't a jealousy thing it is a sympathy thing I feel bad for them. Maybe they feel pressured to conform and marry anyone cuz of their place of worship surroundings either way the place of worship they attend isn't being helpful if it can't help play matchmaker.

Rick :how can you censor what you said? What can a husband tell me to do? What can he decide about? I need information. I know love loves me and my happiness is most important to him But I want to know .... how far does it go? give examples. I do not want to give it up just to let him be the head of the family

Because it sure doesn't feel like it for me.

We both agreed to cut back on expenses, so we could get most important things done. Instead, i heard him on the phone, questioning about something expensive. I get why he wants it, but it isn't an absolute need. So when he uses his illness as an excuse to get me feeling guilty, how do I Express myself properly?

So last night was the first night my husband touched me in my sleep. Basically I woke up to his hand in my pants, then he started touching my boobs and bum and stuff. I laid still this whole time (wasn't sure if I was aroused, but I was waiting for him to gently try to wake me). He didn't try to wake me ever, instead when his alarm went off he just went to work. This morning I tried to talk to him about it, and he laughed at it at first. Then he says "did I do something wrong?" and I say "Umm yea, you can't just touch someone in their sleep" then he gets upset and says that firstly I was moving in my sleep so he thought I was awake, and secondly he had no idea his wife is adverse to him touching her now. Then I said I'm scared of him now because if he has no idea what he did was wrong then what the heck, and now out of the blue he says that he no longer wants to have sex with me and he wants to break up. I'm quite heartbroken because literally yesterday he was telling me how we're soulmates and will be together forever, and now this. Did I do something bad? Did I overreact? I'm so confused. My husband and I have only been married 3 months now. Please help, thank you! You guys don't seem to understand. He wasn't trying to wake me up with kisses or words or anything. It was just groping, then his alarm went off and he went to work. If he was "trying to initiate sex" then that would be one thing, but instead it just felt like I was being molested.

thoughts and why?

I am gay and engaged and I don't want to get married if it means same sex marriage will become illegal 😭😭💔

Would she still be aunt or just, that lady Uncle Peter was married to?

This morning my husband woke up at 5:00, went to the bathroom, put music loud enough for the bass and high notes to bother me. I usually wake at 5:30 to pack him some lunch and go back to bed around 5:45. Around that time he is done in the bathroom and dressing in the room. So I ask him to turn off the music and the lights when he leaves. He leaves the room and leaves everything on and mumbles some kind of insult under his breath, I try to ignore it and get some extra sleep. I don't need to be up until 7. He then starts to honk like crazy outside waking the nieghbors and telling me to move my car because I parked behind. I ignore him a minute hoping he will just move it or go around. But no he kept honking so I got up and moved the car before we get the cops called. Mind you all this happened before 6 am. Idk why he gets so upset I stay up. We are both in our late 20's and early 30's. We don't fight a lot, but this exact issue happens at least 1 time a month. I am starting to tire. Any insight or advice, I don't want to lose our marriage.

My mother doesn't know if they are having sex or not and they are with a travel group.

I would never agree to backup plans. Kyle and Adrian were put in there against my will. I don't talk to the person who's done that and I consider him a traitor and an enemy. But in reality he meant well, only he meant well for me, only for me not for you, not for us... I'm sorry. The sorriest thing i could ever do in my life was betray you. I've tried more than humanly possible not to betray you, I'm sorry if I have. To be fair someone had to be there to stop me from adopting you. If it weren't for the people I betrayed you with I'd now be your adoptive mother. That would have been quite a pickle.

I am in very confusing situation , my wife started to talk to another man apperantly she says that she isnt happy in our marriage she complains we dont have sex , that i watch pornography , im hard time controlling my anger etc. Im telling im tired since i work full time job also she works full time job as well, i love her but she doesnt believe me we been married 4 years now she says i dont help with house work , i shout on kids and animals . Im 37yrs old and she is 42. She keeps talking with another man who she says shows more emotional caring to her that i am and he is 47 so older than me. Im not willing to change anything as i believe women in marriage should accept husband as way they are . She says she wants to break with me and i should find a suitable woman for my self, but i dont want to i have no other family members i dont want to lose her . Stop judging me , she keeps saying before marriage i was a fine man but life do change my health isnt on top shape. She also blames me how i cannot have children because i dont look after my health , i dont have children on my own i have step daughter and step son . I trying to show how much i love her i work 10 hrs a day 5 days a week i always bring wage fully back to home yet she still complains. What i dont like she keep telling her relatiomship problems to her adult daughter as she feels like she has no one to talk to . I tried talking to her telling that i love her she says words are not enough. I also think she is falling for another man she sees him daily at her own work as they are collegues she is more happy to see him than me.

My boyfriend of 10 months have a wonderful relationship, we have met each other's kids, families. My parents think he is wonderful as do my children. Our children also get along very well. He has 2 children 13 and 10 as do I of similar ages (2 boys). Problem being my partner and I are talking about Christmas and he let me know that he would be spending this with his ex wife at her home in Oxford, only one hour away from his. I am distraught at the thought. They will be having dinner as a family, Christmas Eve routine and Christmas morning. I am struggling to ascertain why he feels the need to stay over and not do something with us for his children. The direction of the relationship we have meant I had presumed he would think this too. I have asked him not to stay over with ex wife and said I am now effecting his relationship with his kids. Despite having no problem with him going there to see them Christmas Day. It is make or break for me, he does not seem to accept or give my feelings any credence and said his will go ahead regardless. Given the kids ages a also see no reason why playing Santa is necessary in the ex family home. My ex husband and I are on good terms however we have year about. Last year my ex had the boys Christmas morning and I will do this year, we buy our own gifts for them etc... am I being unreasonable I don't want to loose him but I don't want to be in a three way relationship where he is still playing husband and daddy in a marital role.