When I asked him about it he said don't worry about it and that he is trying something. While snooping through his nightstand (yes I will snoop if you act suspicious) I came across some condoms. We have never used them in the last 14 years so, he can't hit me with the "oh they are from a long time ago" because they expire in 2023. I'm thinking I should put them back and then see how many is left at a later date. What should I do?

Long story short,im going through a divorce and the b*tch is taking 2 of my cars ,2006 jetta gli and 2014 explorer..I want the jetta back, so i need the car to fail on her. She is taking the cars next week and i really want the jetta back so if there's a way to make the engine fail (a failure that is hard to diagnose but easy to fix for me)...that would be great. Any suggestions? the car has to be driveable,so she signs the paperwork.

a) your infidelity b) the risk of STD's you have put her in c) the humiliation of all your neighbours knowing, laughing and gossipping. Which would hurt the most?

After giving brith my husband would be home with me helping me to get better and helping with the baby. Now he had to go back to work (he works for himself-does car transprt) he drives to Chicago and back and is away at least 3 days or more every week. I am alone with my baby even though I have my mom 5 minutes away from me, I am in need of him being home. I wish he had a regular job, but i know it wont pay as much as this one does. And we are in debt so everything is happening at once. Its really hard for me to be with the baby and knowong that I am at home alone and that my husband will be back in few days. Also when he is back he is too tired to help me with the baby. Gosh i keep telling myslef things will get better, but I know I wont take this situation for long. He wold need to find a regular job.

Sexual health. Lord knows what he's got.

I am aware that a lot of Arab man marry Filipino women as a lot of British women marry Thai women But do they both marry Indian women a lot?

We've known each other almost 2 months. He was training at my job's location to be a manager at another location. In the time we've known each other, we've gotten along really well. We flirt A LOT. Mainly bickering or playful teasing. He would walk by and tap me on the shoulder and act like it wasn't him or he would "accidentally" get water on me. The last time, he got water on my shoes and was like "you made a mess" playfully so I playfully smacked him on the back. He also seemed to be very concerned about my love life. He saw that my brother came and picked me up from work one day recently (I have a suspended license) and he didn't know that was my bro. The next day, he asked if that was my "dude". Also, he made fun of the fact that my boyfriend took me to McDonald's for dinner one day recently and I told him how I told my boyfriend he doesn't have to take me somewhere fancy all the time. He also made several comments about a hickey my boyfriend gave me. He left a few days ago to start at his location. On Thursday, one of his employees came by to get something from us and said that he (the guy) was starting there today and that mistakes that the former manager made, were hitting him hard. I messaged him saying I heard that was his first day there and I wished him luck. He said "Thanks :P " Yesterday, he came by to get some paperwork and as soon as he walked in and we saw each other, he was smiling. We flirted a little while he was there. We became friends on FB the evening of his last day and he hasn't tried interacting with me (other than when I wrote him). I'm kind of surprised. Why do you think I'm suddenly non-existent to him? And non-judgmental answers only. I know how it sounds, but still. I'm 28, he's 41. They don't have kids. Who said ANYTHING about cheating? Nobody, that's who. Lala, you have a silly imagination.

So my wife has been increasingly violent and abusive towards me. Slapping, kicking the bathroom door enough to split it, trying to prevent me from leaving the home, smashing my glasses that I needed to drive to work. Trying to force me onto public transport etc. She already has an AVO in place. Must see a psychologist and answer to criminal charges from June when our son was in the home and my parents overseas.. Our 6 month old has been living with my parents for 2 months. She has repeatedly broken the AVO. Over 2 days, she terrorised me because she thought I was having an affair with my classmate. I certainly wasn't. I had received a text asking about a vacancy in the hospital I work in. I had an emergency bag ready. On the second night I called the emergency number. But calmed down enough to not let them attend. I got away and police attended late at night. Then came the barrage of begging me not to leave a statement and give her one more chance. Her mum is back from China. Our son returns on Wed, the day after the court case. The problem is that despite being given so many chances, she still has me blocked on her social media. Like I sm worth less than her friends and family. If I gave police all the evidence of breaches, I could get an exclusion order to get her out of the family home. I am giving her this chance and she is still abusing me by her social media actions. I can't live with the stress anymore. So the real question is when to go and kick her out. I have a plan B. If my son comes back and she turns violent or starts yelling, I will take our son to my parents for safety and commute 1.5hrs each way to my job on night shift. Tell police to get her out. Put an exclusion order in place. Help my parents care for my son. Return home to supervise exttaction of her stuff. Then arrange child care so my parents get a break. Keep him in my home as much as possible. Arrange custody. There is the option to have settlement agreements in place leaving my current property plus one of our investments. Let her take the rest of the property. Clauses for majority child support since she earns more and controls more assets. Trust fund for his education through to college. Sign and get or go to jail for repeated violations. I figure that she won't change without years of therapy. I sent her a link to a video explaining that repeated hits to the head can cause brain damage. My only worry is about my son. He needs a healthy environment free from violence or yelling. I will do my best. Also, it will affect him if he sees an unhealthy dynamic between his parents. But likewise, he will be affected by being shuffled between homes. I would want supervised visits. Imagine she loses her cool or hurts him to hurt me! She is not to be left alone with him. He has a routine and I expect them to adhere to it. Any failure to cooperate, will result in them being forced to leave and my son coming under my full time care with child care in between my work hours. On night shift he will be shared with my parents.

are teenage couples able to see a couples therapist for relationship problems? would the therapist take them seriously? the therapy would deal with cheating

when u file divorce and it costs $435 plus $100 process server, is there also a minor children fee for $100 in Hayward, CA?

A friend of mine was married to this guy who is very controlling he ignored her when he didn't want to be bothered but demanded she be at his side when he told her to. She finally divorced him. During and after divorce he intercepted all of her emails. Tried to dictate how she spent her money. Refused to let her go. He would contact any guy she dated and used her family against her. She got pregnant from another guy but the relationship was over when she found out. Shortly after giving birth she and her two older kids remarried her first husband. He went right back to the way he was. Ignoring her and using her . she divorced him again. He has since done everything to get her back. Makes up horrible lies about guys she is dating. Gets her friends and family to be on his side. She is currently back talking to him. How can someone get her to see she is being abused and manipulated by this evil man. He even raped her in between the first and second marriage.

To put it simply, I like my friends sister and she likes me. I've known them both for over seven years and this just sort of started over a month ago. After she graduated high school we just started to talk more often about anything, then we started hanging out (we didn't tell him) and now we're sort of going out. I didn't mean for it to happen and neither did she. I really like her and I know I'm crossing a line by doing this, but I don't want to let this go by. Should I tell him or should she? Or should we both? (I'm only two years older than her, so don't think I was waiting until she was 18)

I don't get it and it irritates me. My husband will spend 1-3 hours on his phone on the toilet every day. On the weekends it's in the morning and on week days its once he gets home from work. I've told him no one takes that long and his response is "I'm giving myself time so I have a healthy colon". I can't be the only one who has a significant other that does this. Am I wrong to be irritated?

I am divorced but I remained friends with my ex husband Joe. He is the ultimate fix it guy. If something goes wrong with my house, car, computer, etc he can fix it. When I need something fixed I give him a call and he comes over and fixes it and will not take any money (or anything else) for doing so. He has saved me hundreds or even thousands of dollars with his help. He just says he does not charge friends for help. My gal friends tell me I have to stop having him fix stuff for me as my boyfriends and/or future husband will not want me to have any contact with my ex husband. Guys is that true? ADVICE PLEASE. THANKS.

I will married my wonderful husband for 7 years we have three lovely children the thing is I feel like he's very high maintenance I need a lot of attention which I knew before I married him his job is pretty much nights so when he comes home, as I'm a stay at home mum he will talk from the moment he gets home in the morning until we get the children from school the problem is with me is that I'm a natural introvert and I get energy by being alone sometimes he's the Opposite, by the time the children, as you know ask 100 questions or want to tell me about their day I am totally drained and vety short with them becayae ive spent all my day talking. and this is been playing on my mind for such a long time because I don't get the time the quality time i want with the children without feeling drained. because he's taken up all my energy by conversating and talking all day. I've tried to explain to him I've tried to tell him I'm an introvert and need some time to be alone sometimes in order to share myself to every member of the family but it's hard especially when I don't get a chance to spend time with the kids because he's talking is incessant. We are in temporary accommodation at the moment and it is very small so I don't have real space to go to another room except for the bathroom and I do spend 3 hours in the bath because of it what do I do

I know many people will fail to understand .... some will call me abnormal , some asexual and some will fire the arrows that i am sexually abused ... anyway i will like to share my thoughts I am a female , 23. Ofcourse from childhood I realized that there is some relationship between man and woman that results in producing babies. When I was in my early teens I find out that there is something called "sex" that produces babies. After some time I learn't that it has to do with naked bodies and naked touchings. Ofcourse the concept of naked touches was hard to digest but not unacceptable. However, I never in my nightmares can think of something like sexual intercourse, seriously penis(the whole peeing organ) inside women's body. I was devastated and traumatized. I never thought "sex" will be getting into one creature's "internal" . For man it is external , nothing gets inside man's body. But for women..... Honestly touching private parts or even rubbing private parts with each other is bearable but one's inside is one's dignity and one's itself right. How can God design something like this out of his infinite wisdom. It is humiliating and insulting for the one whose inside is intruded. I really want my inside to be mine. Either both creatures should have to have inside intrusion or none.