only friend. I love her but I would like a friend close to my age,is that wrong? Any helpful thoughts or advice?

So we were working in class in a group of friends she says : (ryan not my friend what did you get) and then touches me because I wasn't looking. She said it loud enough so everyone in the group could hear it. I am confused what she means by this? Also she compares me to a celebrity and tells me I am way cooler than them also one day we finished the lab and she going to study with a friend and she said (ryan can come if he wants) loud enough that I could hear is she leading me on or I am getting the wrong message? my name is ryan. Let me know what I should do ?

My friend , whom i had met, only 2 times, had invited me to come to a party with her, then a week later, she never came to pick me up, and never called and i felt like i got stood up. I got ready and waited for an hour. Then i was really upset. The next day she invited me to go to the movies, i was really upset for almost a week. Is this normal or am i overreacting. I thought why would she invite me and stand me up, without an excuse or apology.

My friend crossed my boundary last March, she didn't seem to care, I told her she made things awkward and uncomfortable talking crap about my crush (who wasn't doing anything wrong) she told me she's going to speak her mind. I invited her to my birthday dinner with family and I was not comfortable enough to have her over cause I wasn't sure if she's going to say something she shouldn't/cross my boundary so I uninvited her told her I wanted to keep it family.

First off black people are treated like a totally different species, in the media, they are looked at as a species that should be honored and respected. I'm being serious, As I said they are treated as a different species, they have their own day, they have documentaries on their hardships and culture, they are looked at as a cut above the rest. I could say that they are comparable to some thing off of animal planet rather than a human being, I'm being serious that's how the media treats them, and we are suppose to look at them as some sorta endangered species or something like that.

So my friends and I were planning to ditch homecoming this senior year and just hang out instead. It was all sounded fine until she told me there would be vodka there. I'm really having a hard time with it. They would never force me to do anything, but being around drinking is so traumatic for me. My dad is a huge alcoholic, has been since I knew him and I've had more unpleasant memories with him and that side of my family because of it than I can count. The whole concept is so psychologically tainted for me. Especially is situations where I would be the only sober and clear-headed person in the room (participating isn't an option at all for me). On the other side, I'm now a legal adult and I know that very soon the future is going to hold many times where people are drinking, perhaps too much, and where I'm going to have to face it. Should I go, in an effort to desensitize myself from it and learn to handle these situations, or should I avoid it altogether. I'm genuinely torn. Also, everyone there is at least 18, though not of drinking age in the US. Doesn't really make a difference in the whole morality, but I thought it was worth mentioning.

I feel like a piece of garbage, I was talking to this girl Sarah and everything was great. We were talking for 3 weeks, She would be texting me all day long, and she wanted to date me. She wanted to get to know me more and she would get jealous when a girl would talk to me. We went out on 2 dates, and it was great. All the sudden on Wednesday she tells me a story about a dude who likes her but she told me she's not interested in him. She told me that he has been infatuated with her for the past 2 years. But later that day she told me that we cant hangout amymore and all the sudden she stopped talking to me.........Obviously I was very confused, so I didn't message her anymore. I messaged her today casually because I saw her in school library, she told me that she is currently dating that one dude and that she would appreciate it if I stop talking to her. Like I feel like crap!!!! I feel used right now, can I have some advice ?????????

termine con ella xq para mis amigos era fea ahora la exrraño q piensan de ella

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I met this girl through her friend but she knew me before this. At first she never really talked to me didn't pay any attention to me. Well her friend started laughing at my jokes and flirting with me asking me to repeat a joke to her then does something to tease me after she to my attention. Her friend started finding any reason to talk to me, got red, didn't look me in the eyes, hides her face and smiles. Well at first she asked me to be around them. The friend had an attitude but found any way to talk to me. They took turns with taking selfies next to me at first it was her then her friend. After that her friend asked me to get closer to her and be in between us. Her friend has to sit between us in pictures and have me close to her. Well behind her friend's back she asks me to be around them. When her friend is around won't talk to me but does it when she isn't around. Seems to flirt with me like she'll laugh at stuff I say. Tries to get me around her and her friend. Then says stuff like "You've been really inappropriate recently". When it was completely unnecessary she offered me a ride home. Then when we had square dancing said we'd be partners. She goes and finds out information about me. She'll go as far as asking someone about me. She's more confident then her friend her friend is shy. At first she didn't do anything it was just me and her friend then she started making bold moves. She walks like me then tells me she is doing it Then goes "Hes 6' tall with long legs

Got back in contact with an old friend, she's kind of a mess, has been an addict and alcoholic. Is asking if I can wire $ for her kids diapers. I'm worried it's for drugs? She has kids I've seen pics, they are under 2

im 18 years old my whole teenage years where **** (still same) went through depression to insecure gained weight nobody whould be friends with me the past 3 years ive been working on myself trying to get a nice body for my looks im a handsome guy girls like i find it hard to stay in a relationship cuz im borring they say , friends wont call me (never did) they never cared how i am if im alive or hows my health going i always carred about people id be always the one calling them texting them to go out to see if their ok i have never felt that in my life to look at my phone and see a Hello nick are you alright or nick wanna go out people dont seem to care about me i do whatever can go through my hand get their numbers invite them out have fun as friends have some drinks they always have plans they never seem free for me like never im not insecure i love myself i respect myself im not ashamed i dont care what others think or say i always have the girl i want but nobody is there for me plz help me tell me what to change it whould mean alot i dont wanna give up yet i have a whole life to live and by giving up i dont mean suicide or anything just i cant keep trying been doing that for the past 7 years

there s an almost 20-year old woman that goes by gilded that manipulated and solicited nudes from my friends who are only 11-15 years old. she blocked my friends and i on everything, unable to contact her or get any information out of her. what can i do?

When I was 17 my parents pretty much let me do whatever I wanted. I could stay out late with friends and be gone all day and it was completely fine. I went to Europe by myself with friends and when I came back everything was different. I though it would change when I turned 18 but it hasn't. I have a curfew of 10:00 and I'm not even allowed to hang out with some of my friends or dye my hair like I used to. Sometimes they even tell me to come home before 10:00. I have good grades at college and I've never done anything illegally. I have two older sisters who are around 25 years old and they can leave for days at a time. Recently they wouldn't allow me to hang out with a friend they used to be completely fine with because he's "weird" and the drive was too far. I've driven much longer distances and have hung out with him multiple times before. That was the last straw. What do I do?

The other night I went for a party with friends. I had 4 vodka shots and a vodka lemonade beforehand. We walked to the club and smoked 3 cigarettes between us. At the club we all did 2 more shots each and drank lots of Malibu. This does sound crazy and normally I have a lot more restraint than this. 2 hours into the night I started to feel nauseous so I just sat in the vip area until everyone was done. We went home and at home I threw up unsurprisingly, fell asleep, woke up in the morning and threw up again. By late afternoon i still felt sick. I've racked my brain for why I had such a severe reaction to the alcohol, my theories are 1. I drank a lot more than usual which it true 2. I've just recovered from a very bad virus and it wasn't good to mix that with drink 3. The cigarettes strengthened the alcohol 4. My drink was spiked (which wouldn't really make sense because the Malibu was out of a bottle and everyone had the purple shots. There was some coke and lemonade jars that I drank a tiny bit of but everyone was drinking from that so if that was spiked everyone would be suffering 5. The night I went out partying was literally the day before my period started and I don't know if that's got anything to do with it but some people say they get drunk more easily the day before it starts 6. I have a health issue that should be checked out? Should I be worried and were these symptoms normal? Thankyou!

my friend doesn t text me for three weeks then accuses me of disappearing, meanwhile i m like, "well i haven t heard from him for a while i guess he s not that invested in maintaining the relationship". is there any point in calling people out on their BS? i suppose the gracious tactful thing to do is to let him you re glad to hear from him and express sympathy that he s been so overwhelmed. i mean if he s not that into me he s not that into me that s okay.

I have worked at a company for 7 years. The last 3 years for a terrible boss. He hit on all the female employees married or not. He often made us work through our lunch hour. We had a big party to celebrate his leaving (after he left). Everyone was happy to get a new boss. However my happiness turned to tears when I found out who the new boss was. It was a guy who had asked me for dates in high school and I turned him down every time. I just knew he would fire me to get back for turning him down for dates. For the first month I worked for him, I lived in fear every day that he would fire me. However he never said a word about us going to high school together. It appeared he did not remember me and what I did to him. Perhaps because I am using my married name now. My close friend Jill thinks he is just a nice guy that remembers but does not want to embarrass me by saying anything about our past. Everyone thinks and I agree he is a great boss. He is giving us all training so we can get a raise and promotion. For those of us that have kids, he will cover for us when we have to go to a school event or when we have doctor's appointment for our kids. My coworkers just adore him as their boss. I still have the fear that one day he will remember me and fire me. Am I fearful for no reason? Should I mention our past to him or just forget it and move on?

Yesterday was my birthday, and it wasn't a very good one. I went to the hospital to find out that I have an ovarian cyst, that the doctors can't test if it's benign or not, because I don't have health insurance. Then, I went to the store to buy myself a cake, and the store ran out! So I texted my friend, "lol when you want to buy yourself a birthday cake, but the store you went to, ran out" and she replied with, "I simply do not care. I have bigger problems going on right now, than a store not having any cake." While she is correct, I think it was a little inconsiderate of her to say that. I know she's going through some issues with her mom at the moment, however, I literally threw myself under the bus for her during our freshmen year of college. She texted me this morning like nothing happened last night, so should I cut off my friendship with her, or tell her how I feel about this situation?

She is turning 24 on the 15th of October. I am already 24. My friend likes the scary stuff and she enjoys seeing me scared, it entertains her. I hate scary stuff and I am a wuss about it. I am in school right now and I have a really important exam coming up and i need all the time i have to study for it. The exam is on the 15th. So before my exam my friend really wants to go to a haunted house which I honestly cannot afford. I don't have a job. My friend wants to do those VIP passes where you skip the line and it's probably like $100 a person. Not worth it to me just to get scared for 10 minutes. Also I really really don't want to go to a haunted house. Like anything but the stupid freaking haunted house. It's not fun for me at all. And my friend wants me to drink on top. She knows I am too scared and I am not scared when I am drunk. But I get really sick and messed up when I get drunk so I will be missing out on study days from recovering. It's literally like super inconvenient to go to this haunted house. I feel like I have to go because its for her birthday. Like I have to do **** I don't want to do for the birthday girl. Would it be messed up if I told her I don't want to do the haunted house at all? I just feel like I am letting her down and not doing anything for her birthday.

So I'm not a good looking guy that most girls look for but Personally, I'm the greatest person you will ever meet. However, back in my freshman year of high school I noticed that I wasn't going to make any friends because they made fun of my big dislocated nose, so i decided to become arrogant and cocky and ended up graduating high school with no friends at all. Then I went to college where If i want to talk to someone they will respond with a single word, as if they want you to get away from them... so i backed off from making friends in college until I seen this girl's twitter account... So I went out of my way to open myself again with people that i don't know... soooo She was pretty and all and after complimenting her two selfie snaps she responded so friendly, like literally she was friendly... until I told her how I got her snap yada yada yada she looked at my twitter account and unfriended me on snap... so now Ive never felt so bitter. I though nothing will top off from not being picked as a $5000 scholarship recipient.... but Jesus man she blocked me because of the way I look... I'm not that ugly man like literally what in the **** am I doing wrong.... I don't dress like a bum and I have a Marco reus haircut (except being blonde)

So this former college classmate and Facebook friend sent me this video about s&m, saying it made her think of me.

The women where I live hangs with these guys, they might be single but that I don't know. If you try to talk to them or get to know them, eventually these guys would begin to roll up around her when you approach her and begin to bully you or harrass you. Asking around it is usually over the way I am. The way I talk the way I look the way I act, just over me being 'different' Typically if you try to talk to these women they would blank you and a guy would approach you and say something incendiary and smart aleck to try to start stuff or they might heckle you when you try to talk to her. These women never 'rolls' alone but with a gang or a clique of guys. These guys are all the same and typically of a atheltic build, skater guys or frat boy. Any suggestions?

So this guy from work hit on me about a month ago and I turned him down. He's managed to befriend 2 of my female work friends since. A couple of weeks ago 4 of them had an outing after work and I told them I`d be late, since I had something else. I had no idea they`d invited him. When I got there, he announced he had to leave, but it was obvious my arrival was the reason. I felt really uncomfortable. Worse is I feel betrayed by these women, to a point where I`ve distanced myself from them and feel isolated now. I`m so uncomfortable at work I even considering taking a leave of absence. Is it normal that it bothers me so much? How should I handle this?

so lets say there is a friendship or relationship. so lets say there is this friend who talks to this person and there person who did the approaching and the other person who was approached immediately fell short to someones standards and things that may happen is that person who was approached maybe gets back stabbed, cheated on, that person thinks really bad of the person, etc. consular wont help, your parents wont help and there is nobody out there that will help you and this pain goes on and on and on in america and it dosent stop. but then there is the other side of the equation of those people not knowing how to behave. it could possibly go as far as these people being considered loners losers and internal problems for that person. even if this never happens people will always desire a good life for themselves and a positive lifestyle.but its a problem when you fall way to short to somebody standards and you get screwed over alot. most people do a little bit of this there is no people that will help you. if your towards the bottom everyone is lieing to you then help is not accessible. its a scary monstrous place. then it gets even more sickening and hedonists complain about their life and the truth is never addressed.the scariest thing of all is that this will not be admitted. i might have been screwed by these satanists who have no respect for peoples lives and the people who are approached cant get anywhere near someones standards. i want it to be better for me. real knowledge america should just admit this

a man from online started talking to me as a friend only..he has a girlfriend so it was just as friends. he was calling me often and trying to meet with me. He wanted to give me an astrological chart reading because he is an astrologer and i know it is true because i seen his credentials online. ..he said he picked up vibes about me. I told him that I was not sure if I would be up for the reading but I have a friend that would be..he suddenly stopped talking to me. I dont understand why though?? I was thinking maybe it was because I was not willing to get the chart reading but I told him my friend wanted one...so I dont understand why he would lose all interest in me over this, especially when i said my friend wanted one instead. it seems like he only wanted to give the chart reading to me ONLY..why is that? i am baffled? will choose a best answer and tks

So we were working in class in a group of friends she says : (ryan not my friend what did you get) and then touches me because I wasn't looking. She said it loud enough so everyone in the group could hear it. I am confused what she means by this? Also she compares me to a celebrity and tells me I am way cooler than them also one day we finished the lab and she going to study with a friend and she said (ryan can come if he wants) loud enough that I could hear is she leading me on or I am getting the wrong message?

So me and this girl have been closer than ever we're best friends. She always comes to me when she's dealing with personal stuff. Here's the thing she never talks about other guys she says I'm the only guy in her mind and if a boy tries to slide in her DMs or something she usually rejects them. She's very religious (Muslim legit she talks to no other boy only her school friends but they're not close to her like me) so she's abstinence and I won't mind waiting and getting married. But she always telling me she loves me and showing me a lot of love and affection. Thing is in the past whenever a girl told me I was her best friend or a brother to her I was in the friendzone. But this is different she calls me her best friend but never has once said tht I'm a brother to her. Sorry if thts a minor detail to others but it's a major detail for me. I really love her and want to know if I have a chance or am I in the friendzone sadly?

First of all I am a pretty responsible person, I take care of my niece and nephew, and most of the housework. But I spend my free time on activities I love, emphasis on I, and I get pretty upset when someone comes over unannounced and they stay over (I count for the moment the leave). Because I want to read books, play games, watch some informative stuff, learn something, work on my writing projects(blogs etc). I feel like I don't have enough time to do any of that stuff. In five years I haven't seen the friends I went to high school with, they still meet up and we used to do that together from when we left high school 2010. They express how frustrated they get with me, but most of the time they are silent. One of them is getting married soon and I'm not going. I'm just not interested, and when I'm with them I just feel like they never grow as people, still asking the same questions and still thinking the same things about people, politics and life in general. I made a friend over a year a ago, I dread having to go see her, I imagine with social interactions/friendships there is a quota of get togethers you have to fulfill to remain friends, I can perhaps manage to see her 1.5 times in two months. And I'm happy, I can manage. I like her but I can't be that regular hangout, I don't want her to think I don't like her, which I imagine she is thinking already. That is how I pretty much treat every friendship or a romantic interests. Am I neglectful because of it?

So my best friend is older than me, he's turning 20 in a few days and we are in the US where most places you have to be 21 to drink/smoke/whatever. It doesn't bother me when other friends smoke or get drunk. I indulge too sometimes. My relationship with this friend is very familial, I see him as an older brother. I know it's hypocritical for me to be hurt??? Or upset?? Or very extremely worried???? I don't know why it's just this one specific person, help? I just wanna stop feeling this way and I don't want to communicate my feelings to him because that would be extremely hypocritical and probably selfish.

i wanna know if i look good or not as i have big esteem issues im just paranoid that one of my friends could see the pics and then laugh at me or something

My brother invited one of his coworkers over. My brother and I are two different people with two different personalities. I'm more of a nerd whereas my brother is more of a guy's guy. My brother's coworkers/friends are guy's guys. When my brother invited him over, I felt like I needed to act more manly to get his approval. When his coworker walked in I deepened my voice and went, "What's up man." I don't usually talk like that so it came out weird. His coworker gave me a funny look and said in a tone that was a little hostile, "WHAT'S UP." I believe his coworker felt like I was being fake and picked up on it. However since I was his friend's little brother, he didn't call me out on it. When he left, my brother called me out on it. He told me, "You know you don't talk like that." Looking back on this I feel a little embarrassed and ashamed. I don't want my brother's friends to think I'm weird or that something is wrong with me and will judge my brother because of it. What do you guys think about this?

Last year, there was this one guy whom I have hated the most and now we are going to separate schools. He was very annoying and I was glad he was gone from my life. I was always counting the days where the school year would end and I would never have to see him again. Now, suddenly I'm thinking more about him. I even had a weird dream with him in it and I came to the conclusion, I miss him a lot. He's been on my mind and it's getting annoying that I just want to slap him. Though, some points last year, there were some good moments. Like, at graduation when some of my friends were laughing at me because I was wearing a dress, made me upset. I was almost crying the whole time for wearing a dress and when I saw him, I thought he would make fun of me.. All he did was say "Hey, I can't find my family. Maybe I should find a new family." He didn't make fun of me but instead walked up to me for a small talk. I don't know why I remember that specifically and every other small memory with him in it. He was never a boring person to be around either. I remember last year I felt disappointed when he wouldn't go to some places or he got in trouble sometimes and couldn't make it to some school events. That feeling annoyed me and I brushed it off, like nothing. Sometimes I would think, "I wonder what he's doing while our class is doing this.." Everyone practically knew that I hated him. I also wanted to get his attention for some reason. Probably because I wanted to annoy him I'm not sure.

He's a junkie he pops Xanax and does anything he can to get high and I want to intervene but I'm scared of losing his friendship and like it's gotten worse I knew him back in 7th grade we are freshman now he went from weed to pills and coke and anything and I smoke weed and take addy which in itself is an issue but something to discuss in a different post but yeah can I help him and if I can than how

If a guy calls himself a heartthrob Is he basically a player?

Today is my birthday, and everything that could possibly go wrong, went wrong. I had to go to the hospital this morning to find out that I have an ovarian cyst, that the doctors don't know if it's benign or not. Then, I went to the store to buy myself a cake, and the store didn't have anymore! So I texted my friend, "lol when you want to buy yourself a birthday cake, but the store you went to, ran out" and she replied with, "I simply do not care. There are bigger problems than a store not having any cake." While she is correct, I think it was a little harsh of her to say that. Do you agree?

They didn't treat me well when I treated them with respect.