I met an old friend for a few beers, we haven't seen in other in years.  We were best friends in high school.  Of the six of us guys that went in the military, work or to college, we connected again and most of us were in each others weddings, and then time took over.  He and I are the only two still married.  He told me that he had been keeping track of the sex he could get from his wife, for close to 7 years.  He said he tracked every occurrence, and the frequency reached a point where it stopped changing.  He said it was just around every nine days.  Is he losing it?  He is/was a really good friend of mine.  My wife said he should stop bitching about it.  Would you ask him if he is alright?

My husband and I have been married for 7 months now dated for 2.5 years, we hardly ever fight but lately his mother has been popping up at our house unannounced. She's done this before in the past and I can usually just let it go but for the past two months she's been her consistently every day except 4! Am I the only one who thinks it's extremely rude to just show up at someone's house without telling them? Today she showed up twice! Not only that but it's a literal pandemic and she just goes out wherever she wants and doesn't care and then comes over here. Needless to say this has caused strife between my husband and I. I need advice about how to handle this! She's extremely immature and will think I hate her if I say anything so I'm not sure what to do?!? Don't like fighting, and also don't like having no privacy :((((

For those with kids from a divorce we just put "children of (name of relative) and a former spouse". Do I switch it? I doubt we will be seeing much of this ex-wife anymore as she is apparently bitter. The wife was the one to ask for the divorce but it was very much two sides so I have no ill will for anyone. 

I haven't argued with my husband in a long time. We have a really good relationship... Enjoy each other's company. Occasionally we will squabble, but we laugh it off. All my friends complain about their marriages occasionally, but I feel like I have not much to add to those conversations. We've been really close and keep getting closer. Anyone else kinda feel like they have close to a perfect marriage? 

How would you feel if you shared the same bed your husband shared with his ex-wife? They shared it for only 1 year. It's a nice bed and mattress. My husband said it was a lot of money and that I shouldn't worry about it because it was only a year old. We rotate and clean it. Any advice?

My wife died about 15 months ago. Shortly afterward, I bought the spot next to hers. Recently, I started wondering if another relationship was even possible. I'm 40 and I know it's too late to start fresh with anyone. I have baggage and anyone in my age group will also have baggage. I've accepted that. But, I didn't know if the burial plot situation would be a dealbreaker for a lot of women. Thoughts?

Some partners are at constant odds with their parents, others treat their parents with love and kindness. Is this important too you?

I have cried our entire marriage and the crazy part I still think deep down inside he's a good man. I've seen his pure side. He has been there for me through my anxiety and depression taking me to my therapy sessions. He's been there for my family helping my younger brothers get a job helping them with their work outs. He opens the doors for people. Everybody loves him and thinks highly of him. I've never told my friends and family the ugly side of him because even if you forgive that person your family and friends won't. I never wanted them to see him in a toxic light. He's the only man who hasn't cheated on me, he's extremely attentive and very present. When I told him someone broke into our house he dropped everything he was doing to make sure I was alright. But he can be set off so easily and goes into a rage over nothing. Yesterday he told me that he would always love me and we would always be together. Today he told me he was irritated with me in a lot of ways. If all started with me having a bad dream about him and he was in a coma in the dream. He completely flipped out on me. He said " look I'll be better off single. You say stupid negative $hit that fck $hit up don't ever tell me you had a dream if it was bad don't ever mention it." I told him I was sorry and he said " I don't care about that sorry $hit I'm done bye. I'm getting real disrespectful because I'm irritated. The only way this would work out is for you not to be you.".... Then the other day I made a joke about him neglecting me and he was mad. I told him I was just kidding. He knows I was joking. He got mad and said well your jokes aren't funny to me  Every time he walks out he always comes back wanting to be together again. I just want to know why I'm not good enough for him. Why is he constantly irritated with me.  I cook him dinner every single night I clean the house daily I motivate him I encourage him the best he can be AND I work outside of the home 

Helooooo my MURRIGE FRENS!  How you dooooin! Although politics is my new home, I like to pop in to the M&D section every once in a while to see what seedy history stories you bunch of heathens been sharing. Now fess up! Don't disappoint me make me come down there!

Should I feel weird if I sleep in the same bed that my husband and his ex wife slept in? He purchased it a year before she left him. We always rotate the mattress and have cleaned it. 

My drug of choice is meth. I knew from the start that my husband never once was interested in any of that drug stuff.But he knew very well even before we started dating that I was a drug user and of course he didn't say anything about it. I believe he like me for who I am that's why I learn to just kept that away from him and that's what I did for all this year long. And no not once he suspected me using or anything like it. I know it might sound weird saying I'm a drug user but not a home wrecker because I have never once bring our life or his life down all due to my addiction. He is well supportive in everything and I'm by his side all the way giving and showing him supports as well. We do good for one another growing our family raising four beautiful children's we have together. Honestly we have never discuss bout my addictions since the beginning of our relationship so I never felt if it would be a problem I was scared at some point if he was to ever find out or catch me using what could actually go wrong? Now after ten years if I still do drugs apparently behind his back does that makes me a bad person? although we're are living at our best at the moment. My addiction has never been a problem or caused any dramas in our lives besides I have to live up to it if I want to continues using which is what I have been doing. Sometimes it mind boggling because just knowing what I'm doing is wrong How can I overcome this feelings like I want to quit but I don't know how?

My wife was abused as a child her mother would hit her and she had a bad temper and she would spank her until she wined and her father would laugh at her face kick her at her face calling her ugly telling her that nobody would want to be with her when she was 17 she met me and when I found out in what was happing I took her out of that abusive home and made her stay here with me and my family i grew up in a loving environment and she felt safe I married my wife when I was 23 and she was 21 and we are happily married but my wife can't seem to move on from her past and she still cries about the fact that her parents abused her things will be good for quite sometime than bam she will remember about her childhood and then bam she will get depressed again she never moved on and she is unwilling to heal from it. What can I do to help her heal? This is not a troll 

Not a big deal but I worked somewhere for almost 5yrs now, but I took semester breaks for school that would prob add up to one year of not being there.. So in that case have I worked at this store 4 or 5yrs...?

why did she have to exist? I never wanted my son to ever get married. Why did my son have to get married? I never wanted him to. Why do I have to share my precious son with her I just want my son all for myself :( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families I tell my son to divorce her just so that I can have him all for myself but he won't and cut off contact with me and moved across the country with his new wife what can I do? 

Every time my husband and I shower together and fondle each, he always closes his eyes. He closes his eyes a lot when I'm going down on him or when I'm just touching him. Should I be worried or ask him about it?