what does that say about my sister's husband ?

If the other person has been married before you allowed to get a divorce because she was not your wife in the first place just like Joseph wanting to divorce Mary because of sexual immorality because he thought she already bonded with and married someone else

And what is it with the hats?? Enough with the hats, ladies!

My best friend found my fiancé on bumble. The photo of him is kinda old. She showed it to me. I asked my fiancé about it and he swears up and down he forgot to delete his profile 3 years ago when we first met. I'm not sure what to believe. I asked him to log into his account and prove to me he hasn't been on it and he kept insisting he didn't even have the app on his phone. I'm not sure what to believe. We are supposed to get married in June! What would you personally do?

So am married and I just got my stimulus check of 2400$ I filed my wife this year. But my question is so am going to jail for something stupid and I need to know if I will still be getting a stimulus check from my bank account since that's where the first one came because am still married and my wife isn't in jail. Also am in the army 

My husband does emotional abusive behaviors if he doesn't get his way he locks me out of the spare room and he blares the Tv on and he only comes out if he needs food...I'm tired of this...I also have refused sex unless he removes the lock...but he won't budge and I won't either I am starting to want to cheat...but haven't yet Update since this os legally my home i contacted a locksmith and they will maje a set of keys while my husband is at work so i can open room whenever i feel like it and if that bothers my husband then he can move out and lock himself for hours in another house. This is a community property state. He is not the anynone allowed to put locks honour home. Then if he has an issue he has no business being married to me.

How can I cope with having only males in my life? I'm a married mom of 2, outnumbered by boys. Although I love my husband and my two sons, I feel very lonely and something is missing from my life. Growing up, I had two brothers and all of my cousins were boys. I always thought I would have a daughter in the future, and I saved some things for her. My husband and I have decided that we are done having babies, but I think I will never be able to come to terms with this. I have a estranged relationship with my mother and grandmother. I have no daughter. I have no sisters. I have no female friends. It's like I'm living on an island with only my husband and sons. To make things worse, I have discovered that I'm a lesbian and feel trapped after 6 years of being married to a man. I don't know what to do. I need some advice. 

The man commits suicide when married to his 2nd wife. Neither were of age to collect social security. Can the second wife collect benefits or does it only go to the 1st wife?

My husband is very rude and demeaning when hes angry, he also has a short fuse (bad temper) Before I would just have sex whenever he wanted but he still had a bad temper (nothing changes) Now every time he calls me names such as fat, ugly B***h and worthless I have decided to reject him I told him if he keeps using disrespectful names I will no longer have relations as it is causing me to feel disgusted and closed off after he calls me names. I can't find myself to make love with my husband anymore because I can't get the awful names he calls me out of my head. I have told him numerous times I do not need to be called fat ugly or worthless....it goes one ear out the other and expects me to hop in bed as nothing happened...he takes no responsibility for hurting my feelings he said sorry in the past but less than 48 hours he will ose his temper over the littlest things. I had enough.

I get so jealous whenever my husband talks about his ex wife having their kids. He talks about her being in the hospital and how she has had complications with their kids. I get so angry every time he mentions her. We all get along and she remarried. How can I stop being so jealous of her? 

I really love my fiance, we met online last summer and got engaged in December. We are more than a decade apart. I feel like there are many things I have to change within myself for him to love me. Things got a little better now, I think it's because I have found a much better job. I'm really heartbroken, it's too hard to imagine life without him We live in different states, far away 

She is extremely abusive and is dating a man who does not deserve her abuse.

My husband works all the time and is never home. I sought comfort with someone I  met online. Things were going great until they started trying to monopolize all my time and prevent me from doing stuff around my home that needed to be done. We never met in person but we exchanged pictures and made multiple video calls. I thought this was someone who understood that this was a friends with benefits type deal but they wanted more. I kept trying to ease back when he started to get to intense for me but he kept pushing. Eventually he threatened to tell my husband that I had cheated on him (which would result in him divorcing me and him taking my child away from me). What I want to know is if I contact the police because of this will they leave my husband out of it or will they bring him into it. I've never done anything like this before and I never will again but I can't let my husband find out or my life is ruined. Please no negative responses, just helpful ones. Thanks in advance.

I am a single mom and my 6 year old son used to go to his dad's on weekends. Due to the coronavirus, I have been completing my school course on line at home which takes approximately 6 to 7 hrs a day. As such my ex offered to take my son during the week while I'm doing my school work. I was to pick him up afterwards. The problem is that my ex has a fun house with all sorts of games etc. Now when I pick up my son he doesn't want to come home and wont even hug me. I should mention that my ex tried to fight for full custody so he wouln't have to pay child support and is possibly doing things to intentionally cause my son to not want to come home.

hello. Before marriage, we were getting along well. But, like many others, after marriage and honeymoon is over, things has been going south. One of the main things that bother me is that wife turned out to be those strong minded persons who sees only black and white (no gray), my way or highway type. She makes 90% of decisions regarding our kids and family. She even tries to make decisions on how I run my small business as well.  I'm not alpha male but not beta either. Most of the time we argue, she wins and out-talks me and I feel like a crap. I admit that in many aspects she is smarter and knows more than me. For example, I want to feed our babies those baby food from market like gerber from time to time. But, she is adamant on making her own baby food even if there is no time. If i say why don't we just feed gerber this time since we are busy, we get into argument and she wins and i feel like a loser. It seems she sees me as just a nice guy who is like her subordinate and is supposed to just adore her and support whatever she decides and just help her with it. And I also can't stand her commanding tone of voice (like, Do this, Eat first before me, etc). I do feel like I'm subordinate and very unhappy. I became less affectionate. I'm wondering, did you just give up and be submissive? Or did you just keep fighting? Is this reason why so many people divorce? Plz, I'm not looking for advice. I want to know how other human who has feeling and sense of pride do about this.

I dont want to give my kids up. But i see no other options. They need somewhere to go soon or they are going to die on the streets with me. I recently separated from my husband. He refuses to help us. Ive filed child support its going no where. Its been 6 months and i haven't even gotten. Court date yet. We are homeless i get food stamps but nothing else. Im 5 foot 5 and 82 lbs. The food in the shelter is cold and moldy so i dont eat it. It just makes me throw up and poop all over myself. Im spending all my food stamps on the kids so they have something. My healths running out my money is gone. I hoped i could make it but then covid came and shut everything down. I looked online for programs to help. But they all take months. We will be dead by then. I dont know what else to do.  Him and his parents would stand here and laugh at us while we starve. Im sure theres many programs. They all take months because everyones on a waiting list due to covid 19 everyone needs help rn. I have no car or money. Im hopeless. 

I am having more with my hubby that is for sure!

Why or why not?

Just curious if unmarried stay at home parents get a stimulus check? We were not married at the time and we didn't file together. Would I still get a check? 

I have been mentoring my nephew for several years now, especially about the modern western females, and he recently told me this funny story. About a year ago he allowed his college girlfriend to move into his apartment for awhile, she is a real piece of work. According to what he says, she was quite open and proud of having had sex with multiple men, bragging that her N count was in the high double digits. My nephew was cool about the conversation and did nt make an issue of her stupidity or promiscuity, just used what she freely offered... He told me the best part was just last month when this female starting talking marriage, supposedly now she is ready to settle down to be a wife and mother. He simply told her that he would not marry a slut and that answer did not go over well with now ex-girlfriend!

Am I being selfish and childish over this situation? Our first wedding anniversary is coming up and my husbands ex wife is due to have her baby on our anniversary so we have to keep their kids on that day (my step kids). I am hurt because I wanted just my husband and I to celebrate it. He keeps telling me we will do something later and that he can't help that it falls on our anniversary. He said it bothered him that I didn't want them to come. No one else can keep them either. Should I be more understanding? Why does it bother me? 

Hi! So my first wedding anniversary is next month and I have no idea what my husband and I should do considering the pandemic is going on. Any ideas on what we could still do during the coronavirus outbreak? Not sure if stores will still be closed by then. We are also tight on money so I'm not sure about gifts either. Any ideas? 

I am not by blood I know but does their marriage, now ex-marriage, make us related to her and her family? We knew them pretty well when they were married but never enjoyed doing stuff there. 

I'm talking when you've been in a serious relationship for a while and you are talking about marriage. Is it okay to talk about how you would handle divorce if it were to happen? Just to be prepared for it? I would love to stay married to someone until "death do us part", but I'm sure most people know that nothing in life is guaranteed and we have to be prepared for the worst. Is it normal to be prepared for a possible divorce and talk about how it should be handled?

This is the one I posted so much about for the past year. His wife does not believe in forgiveness and so divorced him, he had issues also though and is alcoholic. Any point congratulating him (or her but she won't speak to us). Or ignore it? He is not my parent or anything and I don't see him much but I see his kids at my grandparents. He's already dating again so not to torn up over it and the ex hates everyone apparently and got her daughter to do the same. The 2 sons still like us. 

Hello, I need advice, I know for many people like myself hearing others opinions on these matters is very helpful. Now I am recently married and I have been noticing reoccurring actions from my husband. 1. I was cutting an onion and he stopped me took the onion and showed me how to cut it. ( he's a chef) i don't cook in the kitchen with him because everytime I do I never measure up to him.  2. I don't wear revealing clothes and i have big boobs. Sometimes with my shirts my boobs are somewhat noticeable. Not exaggerating I don't notice it at all until he comes and picks my shirt up or gets a sweater or blanket and covers me. He does this in front of anyone especially my mom. I can't even wear shorts or tank tops without having drama with him. 3. I'm not allowed to speak to men or go out with any men. He also does not want me going out with anyone who is not family. 4. He tells me where to sleep. 5. He cooks all my food and doesn't let me eat anything else. 6.he takes away my phone when he wants and goes through it when i sleep. 7.he cheated on me before we got married he got so mad when i questioned him and told me to get over it because it was his past. He even called his mom to talk to me. 8. When he was working he texted me 24 /7 and now that he's home he never gives me space

More and more people divorce nowadays and I wonder why. I've never been married so I don't know how that is like. What is the most common reason? People are supposed to be with their spouse till death do their part. I wish to marry someone in the future but now it scares me. 

My wife and i have been going for 20 years, daughter wants to come, should we?

Let's say your husband got really horny but obviously didn't wanna wake you up so he decided to jerk off on your butt. Would that be fine to you or wouldn't you like it?

My wife feels she is living her life for me and that I am controlling. We moved from her dream location to be near my family about a year ago. She also quit her job then to take care of our children because I'm not comfortable with daycare and my job is too demanding to allow to help with them.  She is angry that she feels she spends every holiday with my family and they asked her for many favors when we had just moved and she just gave birth and had a toddler. She is angry that they constantly question her about things like why don't we have a dog (she is very allergic), etc. Basically, she is at a point in terms of resentment that she doesn't want to be bothered with my family or friends. What can I do? She is being crazy.

I've been keeping track for over 5 years.  It's not like I was never around before.  What gives?  I've been hard around her for 25 years.  All of the sudden now she's all sexual towards me, when I've been starving for that forever.  Honestly, has she been screwing around at work all this time?  She's not been at work for 2 weeks and can quit if she wants, I pretty much make all we'll ever need.  I just don't get it.  And don't tell me to not look a gift horse ......