I'm 29 and pregnant with me and my husband (35) first child... He is great in every way! He is a very assertive/dominant type person, and has become very territorial/ patrol like over what I do/what time I sleep/ even sit pertaining to this baby... Back story, we had a miscarriage about 2 years ago, and between career/ life I never really had the focus to really try again (it was sudden/devasting) ... The miscarriage came from me being the busy body I am (both my husband have the same advanced degrees), and I didn't think that I would have to slow down as much as I needed to. He wanted me to be a housewife, but I was literally in the height of my career, 1 year after we got married, and didn't' even really process losing the baby since I was in shock... Fast forward 2 years and my husband has wen literally psycho and we have arguments almost every night pertaining to what time I go to sleep. My husband had a very tough upbrining, where his dad left his mom forcing her to work out side the home... And he constantly reminds me how he wants to "continue where his dad couldnt, and always provide/protect me and the baby"... I am worried about his mental state during this pregnancy. I am very fit/nutrition conscious, and have left work, but his anxiety is still horrible

These women see men dating and married to happy, good quality women, and become bitter and hateful towards men and the women who are desired and loved by these men. So they sink deeper into isolation, sinking themselves into their careers, furthering their withdrawal from dating and alienating men from their lives. These women are complete nut cases with mental disorders. Why don't they seek help? It's like men who are undesirable by women, who become bitter and hateful towards women as an entire gender and just become hermits and isolate themselves addicted to video games and p0rn. That solves nothing and is just running away from the problem within themselves Women don't want to date or marry men who hate women and play video games 12 hours a day to escape from their real life issues

I am 17 and she is 46. I feel really grouse having these thoughts but I do as she looks so much younger then 46. They separated last summer and we have not spoken to her since but we see her kids when they are with their Dad, our uncle. This ex-wife of his was and is very pretty. I tried friending her on Facebook but she messaged me that she just uses her Facebook for her side of the family now that they are divorced. She wished me well and I got aroused at her well wishes. She apparently has made it clear to the kids that she doesn't want to be a part of her ex-husband's family anymore. She blocked my mother on social media. So what do I do and how do I stop having these thoughts when we won't be having any relationship with this woman anymore anyway? I feel really bad having these but I can't turn then off. Serious question, what do I do?

They also enabled someone's affair at one time but that affair is off now.

When I was in college I could sleep until 2PM easily. Things have changed quite a bit with a husband, a home, 3 dogs, and a full time job.  (No kids yet we are trying or were before this whole virus!)  Anyway, my husband is a nurse so he's been staying with a good friend of ours who's a doctor closer to the hospital so it's been just me and our 3 dogs for the past month! Ever since this whole virus and my routine is getting thrown off and not having to cook for a hungry husband I've become the laziest person on the planet. I don't fall asleep until midnight and I don't wake up until 7AM let the dogs out then go back to sleep until around 11AM. (It's insane!) I should be cleaning MORE but I keep putting everything off. The house isn't "dirty" but it's not it's usual clean. I feel like I've reverted backwards to those "lazy Sunday's in college." the ones where you are too hung over to do anything (minus the hangover part) I've tried to make a routine for myself but I keep saying "I'll do it later" or "I don't need a routine." It's kind of depressing and I'm wondering what the adjustment will be like when I do return to work? I'm starting to feel a little down and disappointed in myself. Wondering if this is normal to become THIS lazy? Thoughts? Anyone else going through this too? Thanks everyone!

My sons father and I were together like a year I left before our son was born. It's been 5 years I was married and divorced and he went on to have 2 more children with 2 other woman. 3 weeks ago we just kinda started talking even tho month before we ended custody court giving me full custody. We have spent the last 2 weekends together and it's honestly felt like these years haven't gone by at all. I'm so attracted to him and have such good chemistry but can there be too much history to make things good? We are both older mature and idk I feel like I wanna give it a shot.

We were lucky and had a contract on our home in 3 days. My dad offered me, my wife and 3 kids a place to stay which I am great full for. With the pandemic we are waiting to see what happens. So I'm expecting to be here for months. It's just weird and I feel naked without my own home anymore. Any words of wisdom? 

Jumping the broom !  Lol

Hi I been married to my husband for 9 years  Been with him for 13 years all together  Therw out the years I fight with my self to love who I am i work out eat right so I should feel good about my self but instead I feel like I'm bigger then what I am. When my husband looka at other women makes me feel hurt and unseen only he dose she me and tells me I'm beautiful everyday  I gusse my question is what are heathly ways to get over jealousy? 

If yes, then if a wife slept with lots of men and lost her virginity to other men before marriage saying that her virginityis her's choice and so only she can decide with whom she wants to lose it, then should she similarly allow her virgin husband to lose his virginity(or give his virginity)to other people as it is his choice" just like the wife did ? Why not? If she can can give her virginity to and all sex explorations and first times to other men, then why should the husband lose his virginity to him? If gender equality is valid, in marriage too

Can she say to the innocent husband that if he does'nt take the responsibility of her child then he is a loser and is not a responsible person or say he does'nt know what is marriage and what responsibility a husband hastowards wife no matter whatever happens in marriage? And say that this is modernism and the child should not be punished for its mother"s fault? So, the husband should happily bear another men's child one after another without complaining , otherwise he is a loser and not modern?

I'm a young adult but the children are still kids. She is the type to poison children's minds. She's a very bad woman.

I found a note where she said her love for him has been replaced by deep resentment. His apologies were followed by more lies and that's the apologies were just a lie. He lies to all of us.  

They look exactly alike, so would it be pointless for her to be upset with her husband that he basically saw his own wife naked.  FYI, she and her twin both didn't "let themselves go," and therefore look almost exactly alike due to same eating habits and good lifestyle.  So, it's not like her husband had the pleasure of seeing a better-looking version of her, since they both weigh the same.

I gain a lot of satisfaction out of it. Sex with me and other men to be specific. Liz, its boring.

I live in Georgia. I am  seeing words that are a threat to my life coming up as I type under my husband's account or his phone. It's autofill, but I have seen enough to feel pretty sure it wasn't just random as well as things that are current in my life that he has been twisting around and slandering about me to his friends.  It even has become pretty clear that there's another woman and she is very consistently working at getting him to get rid of me and they've had several ideas. I have sat and constructed sentences and sometimes they're the only ones that make sense,  but also have one with too many choices.  I need to hear from a forensic detective or professional who deals with this type of technology and find out for sure that I have something to show for my odd behavior lately and to do something as serious as a TPO or similar order by georgia law so I don't lose my like a fool.  ...also he does get physical at times which is mainly the reason I don't take this lightly. 

The mother of my children has never been able to hold a steady job. I've payed child support for all of their lives and have provided extra essentials because she simply cannot afford them. We don't have a formal custody or financial agreement, because she "doesn't think it's necessary".  Every few years, she ups my support and at this point, I'm financially flushed every month and my loving fiancé has had to help cover some of the extra bills. I'm currently paying $900/mo for 2 kids at her request.  The kids unfortunately, still live at the bAre-minimum basis, as their mother uses this support to cover her household expenses. She has another child from a previous marriage that also receives support. My question is that I would like to assume at least 50/50 custody, so that I can reduce my payments and better provide for them, as I do not see the long-term benefits of leaving them full-time with their mom. I do currently get them every weekend and they are 9yrs old. Btw, we were never married 

I'm 31 years old I recently ended my engagement. I knew it wasn't right and I was only marrying him to please my family who feels there's "something wrong with me" because I'm in my early 30's and not married. My 2 sisters both got married young(ish) One was 24 when she got married my other sister was 25. Both my sisters are younger then me and my one sister just had a baby.  My family is constantly telling me 31and I'm going to have a very hard time finding a man who's not divorced or with excess baggage. They have told me I should consider a sperm bank since I'm 31 without a baby. My mother and father have even offered to pay for it!! It's extremely expensive!! I just feel like I'm the "black sheep" of the family and like there's something wrong with me because I don't have a husband. My one  sister made a comment once (I don't think she knew I was standing there) that if a women isn't married by 28 it generally means she has personality flaws that cause men not to be attracted to them. I'm really starting to resent my family. I moved 12 hours away from all of them. It still really hurts. Is there something really wrong with me that I'm not married at 31? Should I have just married my ex? Maybe then my family would get off my back. Any advice? I'm really hurting and depressed. 

Do you think more young adults in their 20's and 30's are having children prior to getting married? I've noticed teen pregnancy is going down  (from what I hear and read.) but it seems a lot of people in their 20's and 30's are now having kids prior to marriage. (Or maybe it's my circle of friends?) many are engaged or think they are going to get married only to have the child then have their future spouse leave. Why do you think less and less people are getting married? 

... as if his teeth aren't as sharp as mine? 

Six months ago my husband parents started living with us. At the beginning I was happy because I really care for them and they are my husband parent so I though this will be good. The problem right now is that my sister in law has a really bad temper, sometimes she is happy than she is mad and she doesn't talk to you. There has been a couple of times that she has told my husband that she hates him, she said my kids are annoying (my kids are well behave) and she screams to her parents too. The other day my husband ask her what days was she going to help me clean the bathroom, she got really upset and she told him that she was not going to be cleaning. Her mother told my husband that it was five of us so in other words that we had to clean more. My My children's age are, 12,8,6, I do not ask my kids to clean the restroom. They got all mad and she told my husband that she hated him, that she hated leaving here while my three children's were in front of them. My oldest son told me later on that day, "mom, if she hates leaving here why doesn't she leave." This is not what I want my kids to hear, especially in their own house. I am very stress, I usually do not get involve when y husband and they argue but is getting worse and worse. What should do? Should I sit down with them, including husband and kids and discuss how we fell?

Before when a woman in her 30s she would have been to old to marry. Now people tell me a woman aged 50 and above can get married. 

He only let's me drink on his terms. If I don't, he will pour it out. I probably drink 3 times a week. And he only let's me drink 1 time a week. Is this reasonable or is this controlling? He says that he doesn't want an alcoholic as a wife, but I usually dont drink to get drunk, I just like the taste. But every now and then I will get drunk. Definitely not often though. And we have no kids I would drink when I feel like it, but he keeps pouring it out. So it's not like I'm letting him tell me what to do, I just dont like him wasting my alcohol. He's only like this when it comes to alcohol. He's scared I might turn into an alcoholic which I told him that I'm not. I feel like he means well, but he needs to trust me.

My question is does he seem like a msygnosist to you? First of all I'm not gay and have never been. Most women if not all women compliment other women. They say they are beautiful etc. I was telling him about my coworker who's originally born in Spain . Used to be a model who looks exotic and beautiful and he was irritated. He kept saying that she was average looking. And models are average looking. I ran into her while we were grocery shopping and I had told my husband how beautiful she was. I didn't think he was going to get that irritated. I always compliment him daily so I'm not sure where this jealousy is coming from. I've never been with a man who acts like this. I've never been a hateful person and I've never been spiteful. I give credit where it's due. Just seems like he has something against women. He also made a comment a couple days ago saying lots of women are about to be looking rough since hair salons and nail shops are closed. I told him I know lots of naturallly beautiful women. He said no most of them look rough.