I miss my friends calls a lot due to my work schedule being all over the place and being busy.  When I text her that I can't talk now and try to work out a better time to talk with her she never responds. When I call her back she doesn't respond. She will end up calling me back a few days later at a time when I'm working or busy, but never responds to my texts to arrange a better time to talk. If she would respond to my texts, we could work something out. What should I do about this? By the way, I'm a girl too.

I was friends with this girl from work, we both worked across the hall from eachother. But we would talk all the time, i had feelings for her but she was married. She would stare at me like crazy but we never talked innapropriate to eachother. She told one of my close friends, that she is falling for me and that she cares for me. But she begged my friend to never tell me.  later on some coworkers began talking bad about me and her, they kept reporting us to management saying that we're always flirting, and other people began making rumours. so later my manager told me to stop talking to my friend, so the drama could stop. she would still talk to me behind everyone's back because she missed my presence, But eventually I noticed she had become really weird with me, and was giving me the cold shoulder. she was still staring at me like crazy but, but would look down. one day for her birthday I gave her a gift card, but she gave the manager the gift card and told him that my presence was affecting her and that her reputation was going downhill. my manager moved me from the floor, far away from her. One week later she quit and block me completely off Facebook She came back to work early February after 1 year of being gone. She doesn't look me in the eyes, and she avoids areas i go too.    Why did she change so much with me???  She knew i respected her

My best male friend is turning 40.  My best female friend is turning 30.  How can I make them feel special while we're all stuck at home during the pandemic?  I'm good at poetry.  Should I write them a poem?

This guy told me he was sexually abused growing up in foster care. At the age of 13 he reinacted what was done to him by a male on another male. He was sentenced to a behavior center or group home until age 18. He's registered as a sex offender.  He said the person that abused him never got in trouble and nobody believed him. I just listened as he talked on phone then he says he likes anal sex. The first thing that comes to my mind is he's probably gay or something. So I asked and he claims he isn't. He has kids but his wife who is now deceased didn't let him see the kids. He also made a statement he guess cause he was a sex offender or something. Since she passed away he now has custody of the kids. Oh yea they were married but she wasn't with him they just never got a divorce  My question is do u think he's gay?!? Or is it just me??

My friend always comes over almost every single week and stays for like 5-7 days and Its getting pretty tiring. She is my friend and I do enjoy her company but I feel like she basically lives here now. Her parents miss her a lot but they still allow her. I tried telling my mother this one day, and she said for me to stop being rude and asked if we were fighting. This is truthfully getting pretty ridiculous and at this point I'd do anything for some alone time.. How do I deal with this situation?? Not to mention that staying the night isn't even recommended due to the entire corona Virus thing. It's in my state but not our county due to the fact I live in a pretty small town. I can't control who my friend or her family goes around and that really worries me that I might get sick. I have asthma and an immune deficiency disorder so I would basically be dead if I were to get the virus. If anything my mom, someone who works in healthcare at home, should know I don't need people around me.

I was friends with this girl from work, we both worked across the hall from eachother. But we would talk all the time, i had feelings for her but she was married. She would stare at me like crazy but we never talked innapropriate to eachother. She told one of my close friends, that she is falling for me and that she cares for me. But she begged my friend to never tell me.  later on some coworkers began talking bad about me and her, they kept reporting us to management saying that we're always flirting, and other people began making rumours. so later my manager told me to stop talking to my friend, so the drama could stop. she would still talk to me behind everyone's back because she missed my presence, But eventually I noticed she had become really weird with me, and was giving me the cold shoulder. she was still staring at me like crazy but, but would look down. one day for her birthday I gave her a gift card, but she gave the manager the gift card and told him that my presence was affecting her and that her reputation was going downhill. my manager moved me from the floor, far away from her. One week later she quit and block me completely off Facebook She came back to work early February after 1 year of being gone. She doesn't look me in the eyes, and she avoids areas i go too.    Why did she change so much with me???  She knew i respected her

I currently live with my girl best friend. We've been living at our apartment for 2 years now. She doesn't always have guys over but when she does I have no interest in talking to her guy friends or getting to know them whatsoever. I'm sure I come off as rude since I do not communicate with her guy friends at all when they are here but I can't bring myself to go and start conversation with them. I wouldn't say that i'm jealous because I don't see my friend that way. It just bothers me for some reason.. any input from anybody?

Now of course we are ultimately responsible for who we let take from our time and whatnot. It always does come down to personal responsibility. We train people how to treat us, through what we will and will not tolerate. The only thing is I have noticed that some people actually seemed to enjoy wasting the time of others, and I frankly don't get why. I mean they would certainly hate it if someone did that to them, so why do they turn around and do it to someone else?

Well she had many issues with me(idk why i had never done somethibg bad to her) But her big issue is my appereance For sone strange reasin she hates when i feel confidence and she tries too hard to convince me that i am ugly... One day i told her that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that i am too ugly for him One other day she told me that a girl called me ugly behind my back only to make me feel like crap She also tries to make me feel jealous of other girls(thats funny because i dont feel jealous of anyone)by compliment another girl for her beauty and while she do that she look at me to see my reaction Btw i had heard that she used to hate me by the first time she saw me before she became my friend and she used to insult me all the time... Wtf????i had never done something bad to her?? Why does she hate me???

Well i had never done or say something bad to them but when i good thing happens to me they immediatly try to put me down Examples: I told to my friend that a guy asked me out and she make a disqusting expressions very obviously I told to another friend that a hot guy approach me and want to date me(that is true)and she answered me:"so now they are not only desperate guys but hot ones also"..of course she said that to put me down and make me feel worse than her... I told also to another friend that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that i am too ugly for him... Why all of my friends are such b*itches???why they try to put me down and destroy my mood if i had never done something bad to them???? Is that mean that i am ugly?

Well i had never done or say something bad to them but when i good thing happens to me they immediatly try to put me down Examples: I told to my friend that a guy asked me out and she make a disqusting expressions very obviously I told to another friend that a hot guy approach me and want to date me(that is true)and she answered me:"so now they are not only desperate guys but hot ones also"..of course she said that to put me down and make me feel worse than her... I told also to another friend that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that i am too ugly for him... Why all of my friends are such b*itches???why they try to put me down and destroy my mood if i had never done something bad to them???? Is that mean that i am ugly??

A guy at college came near to me and he asked me where i go when i go out because he has never met me somewhere...why?.? i had never done or say something bad to them but when i good thing happens to me they immediatly try to put me downExamples:I told to my friend that a guy asked me out and she make a disqusting expressions very obviouslyI told to another friend that a hot guy approach me and want to date me(that is true)and she answered me:"so now they are not only desperate guys but hot ones also"..of course she said that to put me down and make me feel worse than her...I told also to another friend that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that i am too ugly for him...Why all of my friends are such b*itches???why they try to put me down and destroy my mood if i had never done something bad to them????Is that mean that i am ugly?

I had a friend since 1st grade and of course going to different schools made us more distant, she would text me « hi » sometimes but I wouldn't respond and now I regret it so much since we don't talk. I made an online friend but I took a joke seriously and everyone got mad at me so I took blame, blocked them all, and ran away. Why can't I just keep one friend? WHY can't I just have a friend?

One of my friends drinks a lot. When we hang he's often gotten really drunk to the point that If he drives there(I don't have a car) I habe to drive his car back. Also he's really negative all the time. Always complaining, and if I crack a joke he gets super mad at me and blows things out of proportion. I mean he is nice to me to. I have no money he does so he'll cover my part of meal. Also when we go home he'll stop on way to pick me up. But I've been nice to him by going suit shopping with him and helping him with homework and all.  But he's so negative when he talks sometimes towards me and I can't take it. HIsnparents are rich and I am struggling to get money for food. What really set me off last night is he kept telling me to drink I gave in and I ended up getting into a big fight with my gf and we broke up. I don't drink as much as him and got super drunk which got me and my girl into a fight. I only drank cuz he told me. Should I cut him off.  Also once we hung out at restaurant by my rents house. He gets really drunk again and I drive his car back to my rents house and sleeps there for like 5 hours. My parents really don't like drinking. Like I said he's invited me to his parents house but the whole being drunk at my parents house really annoyed me.  It's not like I use him for his money if I have money I'll pay if I don't I say I can't come and he's like I'll pay nbd m, so I pay when I can. I think he just likes being social and all. I feel bad if he pays you know?  I don't expect him to pay he just offers that's all if that makes sense. 

Friend couple years younger than me. Foreigner from India, never drinks. One night we hanging I egg him on to drink causes him and his gf to break up and he annoyed with me. Is it my fault? He never drinks drank mainly cuz I said he should caused whole thing and all. 

There is a 24 year old guy I know. He has never had any kinds of jobs in his life. He always stinks and smells very bad and when I asked if he ever takes a shower he said like "no, I don't because I don't work. Why do you?" He looks normal and talks like a normal person but he is not smart. (He didn't go to college and he barely graduated high school and he forgets things.) He has no money and his mom still gives him 5 dollars a week and he sneaks into Starbucks and Mcdonalds and watches youtube videos there with his smartphone. When I got a new Samsung Galaxy S20 last month, he asked me if I can give him my old Galaxy 10 because his iPhone7 is slow. He also calls me during the day time and it bothers me when I work so when I tell him to txt me unless it is really an emegency, he just says like "Then I will call you after you get off work" and he never tries to txt me. He once fell asleep and started snoring while he was talking to me on the phone and I was really surprised. Also, when we are supposed to meet, he usually doesn't show up and calls me later and says "hey dude I fell asleep" like nothing happened and never appologizes to me. It pisses me off. I thought he was a friend but now it feels like he is really weird. I wonder if he is really mentally ill or he is just silly and has bad manners. I wonder if this guy is a very rude and has bad manners or he is actually mentally ill.

My brother and i were having a conversation today,  he told me he met someone when he was doing volunteer for college.  He met this woman who is 35,  and my brother fell for her.. my brother is 24 so,  obviously she couldn't be with him because of the age gap.   Eventually back in January of 2019 they stopped talking.  And to this day he still misses her,  and he fell into depression because of her.  She's always in his head,  and even this year my brother went to lots of dates.  But this woman is still in his head......why cant he stop thinking about her. I find this weird because my brother is known to be a player,  and this is the first time ive seen him cry over a girl

I have hobbies where i go out and meet people. but not many friends nobody ever rings/messages me asking if i fancy meeting up i have to always contact them I always ask how people are (my mates) but they never me i wish them happy birthday but they never me. I am part of a drama group and we go to quizzes have events. i just get the same results