And how old were you

 I'm that type of person and wondering ehy would a guy want to be with a girl whos basically an airhead with no mind of her own? Serious question 

My aunt has been receiving her own SS for years.  She should have been calculated with her ex's SS but was not.  What can be done now? Aren't there forms she can fill out that I can give her?  She had surgery last Friday.

Her coworker is currently sad all the time from the sound of things, because other girls have BFs and Husbands who aren't shitheads.  They apparently talk all the time about sex, because the one coworker girl has been wanting to know how often they all get eaten out. And from the descriptions, she is a skinny girl and not ugly.  I don't really get much action at home anyhow, it couldn't hurt to let this girl know I'm looking to eat a girl out and get my big cock played with, right?

My husband thinks I'm lazy. We're going through a rough patch as it is, but this just adds to it. I'm working 2 jobs because we have 2 sets of twins. I'm a school teacher and a coach so I'm with kids over 12 hours a day plus I work weekends and then our 4 teens. The only day off I get is if there's a holiday. Being a coach is physically demanding then you add kids to the mix and it's all over demanding. Your energy level has to be crazy high for hours on end to make the kids and parents happy. I'm tired when I get home, body and mind are cooked. Sunday's when I get home I then have to do lesson plans for the week in my class. So because of this the house isn't getting cleaned, at all. I leave the kids notes when I leave on the weekend about what needs to be done but they know I'm not home to enforce it and he can't be bothered. He thinks after working I should come home and do it all. He's off playing on the weekends, out with his friends or just sitting around at home. Then I come home angry that the kids aren't doing what I asked and then it's my fault that he's now in a bad mood because I put him in one being mad all the time. Well, wtf? He gets a 2 day weekend, I get nothing. I'll get thanksgiving day off so I guess I should just stay home and be Cinderella without the happy ending. Am I wrong to think that he should be cleaning the house? 

My ex opened a case for child support against me but, she put 50/50 time spent with me but I actually spend more time with my child around 60/40 or even 55/45 but since she opened the case that's what's on the paper work, can I change it? Or how does that work?

My Ex has filed a child support case and based on my income I have to pay her, but she has not submitted current pay stubs she used old stubs that have a lower amount from a previous job and a amount is set for child support but not final can my rent cost be factored that I provide a room for my child when calculating child support? We have 50/50 But because of her lower income compared to mine I have to pay support.

Person A has 2 kids, a daughter who just turned 2 and a son who's 3 months. The person their married to is trying to pull a "he's so abusive towards me and my kids" which is not true. Now I know what you might be thinking "how do you know he's not" well because this is Person Bs second marriage and she's done it before only she's got kids this time around. Person A as much as he never wanted kids in the past he doesn't want to lose his kids he knows very well he can't get full custody because he doesn't work full time and what not but she's trying to push it to where he can't ever see them again. Her parents are just as crazy, they've been beating Person A's dog since he was thrown out of the house & 2 weeks ago the dog passed due to a bleeding in the brain. His daughter is only ever looked after by a nanny 24 hours a day and is only once a day looked after by the mother. We live 3 hours away so it's not like we can check things out every now and then. The point is as much as he won't say it we know he doesn't want to lose his kids. In the state of AZ it isn't illegal to record someone via voice so that's what he's been doing every time they speak over the phone but it won't be enough. Is it too late for him to drive that far up there & take his kids? There's no actual physical proof that he's been beating her, and the most we have is texts from Person B stating that Person A needs to come pack up his things and leave, we've also got voice recording but nothing legitimate. this has been going on for 7 months now. Also I meant that the mother looks after the daughter 1 day out of the whole week.  Guess I should clarify this is regarding a family member of mine and I've had to shorten a much much longer text of this.  also should probably add in that this is only a quarter of the original text. 

I have a friend that is dating a married women she has kids. I feel weird being his friend. What would you do?

Here's a little background history: my MIL was never happy that her almost 40 year old son started dating me since she said she was used to being the only one in his life. She apologized, so I forgave her after dealing with her passive aggressive behavior for 8 months straight. I never once talked back to her even though she irrationally yelled at me at one point. Post wedding, she found other ways to infect our marriage, by complaining about my mom to my husband (for basically breathing the wrong way(?) and for waving at her at one point instead of giving her a hug because my mom wasn't feeling well and had to leave in a hurry). My husband would yell at me to make things right with his mom, I would stupidly call her and she would tell me I was bothering her and hang up. This insanity lasted the first two years of our marriage. I've recently finally put up boundaries and she's found other avenues to try getting to me. She follows me on Instagram and shows my husband everything I post (he doesn't have an account), asks him why I posted it and thinks every quote I post is about her or her family. I've been tempted to post something off the wall just to make her go nuts. I have to be around her this thanksgiving and am not looking forward to it. I try keeping my distance as often as possible. For those who have asked why I care what she does, I don't. The only reason why I'm left with no choice but to be bothered by it is because unfortunately my husband puts her needs first and yells at me for "offending"her. Mind you, in order for a person to offend her, all they have to do is not act like she's the best thing since sliced bread, not partake in her gossip or be confident around her enough to not accept her rude behavior. Believe me, I've thought of blocking her from Instagram, but doing so will only cause more drama within the family and I really don't want to go there. I'm so preoccupied with school and the kids I don't need another dose of in-law drama.

my wife has a 17 year old daughter and she acts like she is a football fan. I was teasing her saying that she is not really a patriots fan and that under her jersey is probably an eagles jersey. She said the only thing under the jersey is a pink bra and two double d's. I nearly came when she said it. She is gorgeous blonde, big boobs, green eyes, and she has a nice tan legs. She turns 18 in December but  I can't even think about doing anything with her, my wife is the breadwinner.

With more women wanting the big paying jobs, does this actually help men get back to their family? So the trick is, get her into a demanding high-paying job. Become the stay-at-home dad. She will divorce you because much more successful men will be eventual interest.  When it comes to divorce time, get a good female attorney who can force the Ex Wife to pay all the child support and force the dad to be the custodial parent always being with the kids. Go after her pension and retirement. Sit on the back porch of the home she is paying for, while she goes and finds her own home or new boyfriend, and sit margaritas after the kids empty nest... That seems like the way these days. Avoid college and don't run up debts. Let the women do it all, reverse cowboy, but for keeps and paying you for a living. 

I have a friend who lives in India. He's originally from Afghanistan. His uncle is pressuring him into an arranged marriage but he doesn't want. How can I help him. He loves India and wants to stay.

Long story short. My dad has never helped or been there for me and my brother as kids. Recently he got remarried and didn't invite me and my brother ( he even invited the whole street of people he barely knows abut not his own children). Before he got married he told me that we were too much of the past and he needs to move on. It's been 6months after the wedding and now I get calls daily where he is crying saying he bad a big mistake and if I can please forgive him . What do I do? I feel like it's so hard to forgive him after all the hurt he has caused me and my brother . His new wife says he is up all night crying but I feel the only reason he feels guilty is because his new wife and family have told him to make an effort with his children.

I'm looking at my marriage, it is failing. My husband has been cheating on me for a while now and it's my own fault. I have one of those controlling mothers. I did not realize it until my late 20s. her siblings who helped raise me since she was always traveling were doing it as long as she kept sending money. she forced people to do things for her money, eventually they grew to resent her. And started doing nasty things. by the time I realized all this I was getting married to someone she didn't want because.  I still don't know to this day if these things are true but I heard that she did voodoo to destroy our relationship. She tries to help us, but things just keep going to worse. she gave me the idea that he was cheating (through fortune telling)and that was the reason why things were bad between us. That they say our marriage will never work. I accused him for years, the truth is when I look back I can say we loved each other. we both had controlling mothers  that guided our choices. and they made us do, say or think bad things of each other. Eventually he ended up detaching emotionally, and abusing me financially. he actually is cheating now and he is so involved with the other one he only wants to leave. And when I reminded her of the cheating accusations And according to her I don't listen to her advice and when things get bad I blame it on her or others. I know when my own decisions lead to something bad, but I also know when people influence me to do things. 

how old was he and you at the time ? hubby get mad? or did hubby like it ?

They split once prior cause of his chronic lies. Then got back together as my Mom was unstable but has stabilized (part of that split was on her). Now the only problem is my Dad's chronic lying and my Mom's addiction to her mother (she loves her mother more then her husband and kids).

We have a two month old baby.  He does it with 6pack beers and online games with friends  at every weekend.  So he stays up all night then he goes to bed in morning then sleeping till evening with bad hangover.  So we have many arguments about it.  I'm really sick of it.  I'm thinking I will leave with the baby but it's pretty hard. I really want he will realize how stupid it.  How to talk with him about it?  He is always bad attitude to me after it.  If possible I would like to divorce with him. But it's hard and close to impossible. So I really hope he will stop using stupid drugs.  How should I do to him? 

So I have depression and bipolar and so I am a little late getting my life together. I recently just got a job but a minimum wage job at chick fil a. I can't drive yet and I still live at home with parents but plan on moving out soon. I have an aunt who is in my native country of vietnam who's trying to set me up with a girl over there. I'm 29 and I'm having a hard time finding someone here in the states so I'm depending on my aunt over there to help me. My aunt who lives in the states decided to bad mouth me to my other aunt in vietnam to get her to stop setting me up with women as she claims that I'm too "immature" to be married. I spoke with my aunt in vietnam a few days ago asking how is the search coming along and she blasted me. She said, oh gosh you haven't even gotten your life together, and you keep on having mood swings and go crazy, no parent over here would want their daughters to marry you, they just won't. They won't give you their blessing to marry their daughters and will not allow it. I'm so upset after hearing her say that cause I'm depending on her to help me out. I'm just so upset that my aunt over here in the states decided to ruin it for me. I'm 29 and I'm dying of loneliness and the only way I can be cured is if I were to marry someone. I've gotten close to killing myself sometimes, the loneliness is that bad. Why does my aunt in the states thinks it's right to do this to me ?? Why does she think that I'm too immature for marriage when I have a job ??