I offered drop something of an old school friend's at their house for them which they'd left at school when they moved to college. It wasn't a big deal, since I was going past their house anyway, but they weren't a good friend as I feel they were mean and abused the friendship back then, and haven't made much effort to stay in contact at all- I didn't ever meet up with them. It occurred to me after that being helpful to them even though they're a rubbish person might be sort of letting them take advantage, but I'm generally kind and helpful, even if people don't return it. I have higher standards for friends now and would not be properly friends with this person again. Is it wrong to be nice and helpful even though they were a bad friend?

I put a question on here numerous times saying "if a sibling lays naked with their bro/siss and one kisses the others butt cheek at age 9 & 11/12 would they get in trouble 12 years on. (Seen on another forum)  I admit I spammed the question and became a troll but police wouldn't care about that would they ?

So ive been having this problem for two years and its got worse so i dont know what to do. Anyone have any advice? I get called fat, midget and its just i cant go anywhere without someone saying your a midget and i almost started self harm but roleplaying makes me feel better as i can be someone who isnt me. Then i got told im a weirdo for roleplaying. And my brains gone to thinking everyone around me is saying fat, midget should die. 

i'm a male in my forties who is not very sociable and i struggle with my confidence still and have social phobia...i get self conscious around people often when i have to be around them, i tend to doubt myself too........................in my heart i know the truth, that i'm a good honourable british christian man.....but i struggle to convey this or be convincing because of my lack of confidence and self doubt........an inferiority complex too. how can i deal with these issues and be confident and not self conscious about myself? it is relevant to mention; i have a personality disorder & have battle through a hard past, faced abuse and other adversities.

Do you keep your page on instagram private or un private ? I have this one hater who think i was annoying to them but real life they where annoying to me back in middle school now she just toxic to me I believe she is jealous of me but wonder should i keep my page private or un private

So, I was friends with this one guy. There was a lot of red flags with this fellow and at first, things seemed to be normal, but then we started to hang out more and there was times I wanted the night to myself. I asked for that, but he'd show up in my drive-way. I'd tell him I did not want to hang out, but then he'd tell me he would sit and honk - therefore, I'd go hang out. Then while hanging out, for instance, we would play these trivia games. He won the majority of them, but most of the time I was bored out of my mind and didn't really care. He'd sit and say, "I'm smarter than you. I have a two-year degree and you have a four-year." Ok? But after that, it was constant negative energy. I told him I didn't want to be friends. Soon after, he sent a letter to my parents; stalked me outside of my house. Harassed me using various phone numbers making statements "I'll end your life," and so forth. Hacked my email and would go in my email for a good month and a half. Texted a relative. Posted a negative comment on a place I worked. Does background checks on me constantly. Tries to communicate with me. He's obsessed with me and it scares me. I moved addresses and I'm afraid since I changed it with the postal service, he'll find a way to see me and get the new address. Also, I switched my phone number. I also carry protective gear on me at all times. I don't know what to do, and I have been to the police, but they did nothing. What should I do? 

I felt like my best friend was ignoring me all week she kept saying she was busy with no explanation and would barely reply to me but i see her posting on social media. So i asked for some advice from a friend and while texting my friend about her i accidentally sent a message to my best friend instead of the person i was seeking advice from. Now my best friend is mad and claims that i was talking sh*t even though i should her the messages of me asking for advice. I've apologized and she won't talk to me. Am i in the wrong?  *showed her the messages

yep..still best friends..secret meetings and text each other every day constantly..."oh, but the tv says different..." huh huh

If a girl asks you to be more than Friends and you answer with "best Friends?" and she says "No, more than that" and you say "super best Friends" and she says "No, even more than that" what do you answer? There isn't anything over super best Friends is there?

Her kid made abuse accusations towards her boyfriend and kid hasn't visited his mom in 6 months. I think daughter who is 12 is lying and am thinking of saying something to the daughter at friendsgiving when she comes to visit me with another family member. She is known to stretch the truth. She doesn't like rules and often lies. My other friend thinks we should tell her to stop lying My mom and several of my other friends believes the kid because they thought the boyfriend always came off as a creep. My sister says that is a bad idea and thinks it is a bad idea to gang up on a kid. We really don't what happened. We should stay neutral.

Recently I got married. We only invited 16 people total. Of those 16 people invited were 3 of my friends. We all stayed in the same house in the mountains together so we would all leave from the same place and avoid being late. The 3 friends showed up 30 minutes late even though we left from the same location and ignored the printed out instructions. After the wedding the three of them ignored me and only spoke amongst themselves. I spent more time with their husbands. 

I'm in 10th grade. I was quiet cause I was depressed for a long time. During that time, people used to bully me verbally and hate me so much. Girls used to say that no one will ever date me with a face like that. This month, I got over my depression and started showing people my true self, I love making people laugh. So I started making everyone laugh, making weird noises and animal noises. Laughing in a way which annoys the teachers which makes other laugh cause of that. Feeding the dog outside the school pieces of bread using the spoon telling him *ahh open your mouth* while everyone staring and dying of laughter 😂😂. Now people are telling me to sit with them. All the dudes who used to hate me now suddenly consider me as their brother. Girls now sit beside me in class to get a good laugh. Why they all of sudden started loving me?

Imagine that, I'm lonely after pushing everyone away. I don't know what to do. It's so hard for me to meet people, let alone get along with them. And now what few friends I have are either moving on with their lives or just not responding to me anymore. I'm getting desperate, and very clingy. I don't know what's wrong with me

Hi I'm trying to find another attention seeker that you know and I'll leave my Snapchat down below it's cfullenwinder send me messages so we could talk.

Oh and he tries to come in. 

I was with my friends and I wasnt in the best mood and just decided to leave. I messaged my mum to pick me up and on the way my mum pulls over to my friends who have now walked away and went off at them. At this point I'm angry at my mum because now those girls are going to tell other people and I'm already not too popular with people in my grade. Later on one of my friends mums rings my mum and my mum goes off again. My friends are most definitely going to tell other people and it's practically social murder for me because girls my age are horrible and I sooooo don't want to go to school and my mum is forcing me to. She is saying she was standing up for me but I wish she had not done that! What on earth do I do

My friend, who is a director, was at a work Christmas party and one of workers came up to her and starting handing her a gift and then grabbed it away from her.  She laughed swatted him on the backside.  He said nothing about it until later and said that he could of reported her for sexual harassment.  She was shocked and said she was sorry. She and this co-worker always was friendly, laughing and talking about various things.  Months went by and when he had something again that was silly and she hit him with a folder.  He then said  "I told you not to touch me", but not in an angry way.  They went on joking and talking with each other and he was, being a Christian, bought her a bible, a phone charger and a coffee cup.  He had done this to other persons on the job, besides her.  She had asked him how much it as and he said it was a gift.  He had also been texting her religious quotes, inviting her to his church, which she never went.  Then one day, she went up to him in the coffee room and was talking to him and all of a sudden, he jumps up and says "Get away from me woman".  My friend was shocked.  She didn't know what was wrong.  She asked him what was wrong.  He said to her that she was too close to him and why was she so close and so on and so forth.  My friend was shocked and went to her office and decided that she would not say anything or go near him again.  Two weeks later, she was fired for sexual harassment.

I'm a 24 year old guy. I know a guy from church. He's 11. I met him by playing basketball with him at church. He's really talented for his age and we play video games online together. His parents told me it's fine if I take him out to a movie or dinner and my girlfriend says she thinks it's cool to have younger friends. However, I recently posted a pic of him and I playing basketball on my Facebook with the caption "my lil bro". A couple friends commented saying "he's not your lil bro, that's the kid from church" and someone commented "why are you hanging out with a 11 year old" with a laughing emoji.

My friend just left and I already miss them. What does this mean? Is this normal?