My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and have lived together for about 1 year. We used to talk about marriage and the future all the time but is seems to have stopped. He's more focused on buying other things and know avoids the question. He knows where I stand and that I want him to be my husband. Will he ever ask to marry me or has he gotten too comfortable because we already live together? Are we even a good fit? Just confused and any inputs would be great. Thanks!

I understand that in a typical marriage, that the woman should get her fair share. but in my marriage, my wife has only made my life harder. I acutally make less money than i would have had I been single. The theory of giving your wife half is that because women used to stay at home and not work, they helped the man be able to go out and be the bread winner. in my specific case, my wife doesnt take care of the house. She just goes out drinking with her cousin. She doesnt speak to me when we are together in the house. I have never done anything to even remotely deserve all the neglect and abuse. I do not think she was ever a true wife, and i dont think its fair she should get half of everything just becuase she tricked me into a sham marriage. I have no way to prove any of this in a court of law, and I know when I file for divorce she is going to start accusing me of abuse in order to get more than half. I know this because she has told me this. is there anything i can do

Him what I booked he said really you got 2 beds. Did I do anything wrong?

Me and my wife have been married for almost two years. Since we ve been married, her mom has lived with us since we moved in with each other. Whenever I bring it up that her mom is still here, it quickly turns into an argument. Please let me know what you guys think? It s been bugging me for a while now

I admit that I was a prick to her when we were married. She didn't deserve the way i treated her. Of course, I don't expect forgiveness or that we go back together. That ship has sailed. I never truly loved her, but she was a good wife nevertheless.

She's very kind and sweet most of the time. -When I mildly annoy her she pretends to be sick. For example if i take too long to pee she'll pretend to be sick until I give her enough attention -My mom told me no guy would want to date me with by body count -I took my phone out of its case to clean it. She screamed at me and told me I was disgusting, insane, and needed help -She lies a lot. When I was little I played with her razor. She pretended that bc I played with it, I made her cut herself -She lies that I kick her when we sleep together (her bed was broken, she didn't have a new one yet). Idk why she lies about this -She'll randomly tell me certain friends don't like me/want to hang out w/ me -She confiscated my phone and when a lot of guys texted me she made fun of how much of a whore I was -She makes fun of some of my friends for being poor -I told her I was assaulted a few years ago. She asked me about it later, but in a mocking tone and did ntohing else -She never wanted me to learn how to drive -She says I'm why she didn't kill herself when she was younger -I needed glasses when I was 7. My mom thought I did it for attention and made fun of me to all of our family and friends. Turned out I did need them -I asked her to hold a shirt when we were walking when I was little. She dropped it, lost it, and told me "not to trust anyone"

Hypothetical question you know this couple they been together 15 years now but lately the girlfriend has changed. She's constantly texting on her phone or leaving without telling her boyfriend of her whereabouts she leaves her phone at home and make excuses like her cell died she deletes texts messages. Despite coming home and jumping in the shower changing her clothes and immediately washing the clothes she had on he doesn't believe the allegations. Despite people calling him and texting her boyfriend claiming she is hugged up with guys at the bar he Still doesn't believe it! Despite hanging out with friends alone he doesn't believe nothing is going on he checked her but found no evidence of her cheating. so my question is should a women should just admit she's cheating and be honest?

Hi I'm 16, I had never been in any sorta relationship till this recent summer and it was awful. The guy ended up having a lot of mental issues. Most of my family and I think he might be bipolar. My father is bipolar so is my brother. My parents divorced when I was 9. My dad did terrible things to my mom. The boyfriend I had actually acted really similar to my father. He would say awful things to me and then be almost crying blaming himself the next. He made me feel like nothing. Just like what I watched my dad do to my mom and myself most of my childhood. It was so confusing to me because despite my upbringing I've always been optimistic about love. My mother had a second marriage from my age of 10-12 and the man was so in love with money the marriage did not last. He cheated with web cam girls from India lol. My mom is on her third marriage now and that man is also awful. He said today after 2 weeks of being married that he wants to be divorced. "It's not you it's me" sorta thing. He comes home drunk a lot yelling at my mom. I'm just wondering if I should just be single my whole life... I liked the idea of love and before things went bad with my boyfriend I was happy and just felt like a normal teen for once. Didn't expect to marry him just didn't expect to be treated so awfully when I myself am a very meek person. I feel pretty pessimistic now about relationships. Everything ends. Every guy ends up bad.

I own a home in another city that I am renting out to: my son, my daughter, and my wife's step-son. All are about the same age. My wife is upset with my son and feels he is not appreciating the deal he has at the house. (BTW they all pay the same amount in rent) Anyway, my wife feels that my son should pay more in rent, so he would learn to live within a more realistic budget. We even agreed to put the increase rent into an account, so it can grow, which will be given back to him at some later date. The wife and I discussed what the new rent should be and agreed on a number. Then I said that this was such a great deal we should do it to ALL the children renting the house and not just my son. Now my wife doesn't want to do it. It seems she had no problem playing around with my son's funds, but when it came to the other children she didn't want to do it. I believe she wanted to do it to punish my son, because they do not get along. Do you agree or not?

My father in law is depressed because mother in law will not do anything around the house and she spends a lot of money and goes out to eat all the time. My father in law does mostly everything around their house such as doing dishes and cooking and cleaning and when he asks her to help she just says he can do it or she doesn't do it. He also is the one who goes to work and makes all the money, but she always spends a lot of money and goes out to eat all the time instead of cooking and eating at home. My father in law always complains to my husband (his son) about the way my mother in law is acting and my father in law also seems to be very sad and depressed about it, but he doesn't want to get a divorce or separation because he believes in the sanctity of marriage. But my husband is concerned because he seems so depressed and upset. They have both tried talking to my mother in law about how she acts, but she is completely in denial and set in her ways and refuses to change, and also seems to take for granted that my father in law will not leave her or divorce her. So I am just wondering if there is anything that anyone might do or say that could fix this situation or anything that my father in law could do or say? He doesn't want to get a divorce and he already started giving her less money every month but he doesn't want to completely stop giving her money. He has also tried talking to her about how she acts but she won't listen and she also refuses counseling or therapy.

When I married "John" a bit over a year ago, he promised to love only me, treasure me and make me very happy. This has not happened. He constantly goes out with his single buddies. He should be with ME, his WIFE! I heard they were at Hooters the other night and that John was flirting heavily with the bartender. I think he was trying to **** her, even though I give him great sex and lots of it! Hooters is no place for a married man to be anyway- it's one step removed from a strip club! Now I haven't heard of or caught him actually cheating yet, but if I do I will cut his dick and nuts off! But I'm trying to keep it from coming to that! Any advice on how to tame John and make him better husband material-and make him EXCLUSIVELY mine?

I am Jamaican and does that make it worse? She has Caucasian kids and clearly the father is Caucasian. Is it bad we are having sex and she's still married and I just found out from her...

Peacocking is when a guy tries too hard to look good in order to get a girl, especially when she's married, in a relationship, or engaged to a normal guy she's happy with, along with doing crazy stunts or other things normal girls don't like. Whenever my husband sees other guys do that with me, both online and in real life, he threatens them with violence, reports to authorities for fakery, and gets into fights with them. Would you do what my husband does or just tell the guy to simply back off (even though he won't sometimes in which he gets into a fight with you)? If another man was flexing his muscles and flashing his six-pack abs to your wife in front of you, you wouldn't beat him or threaten him like my husband would. Would you? My husband thinks all guys who peacock are always bad people, no matter what.

My libido has been low for the last 2 years. 2 years ago my husband told me that he had cheated on me about 8 years ago (we've been together 15 yrs). I've just felt distant from him & only very recently did he start making any effort towards our relationship. My libido has also been low because my mum was dying from a smoking related illness (plus I had a bad relationship with her) & our daughter who is 15 was diagnosed with an illness last year that has had her in & out of hospital. So, for the last 3 months I have been grieving but trying to hold it together because of work & family. The other day I was in the area where my husband works & I thought I'd surprise him & take him to lunch, so I popped into his work place & asked his collegues where he was; they all looked nervous & said they hadn't seen him. So I texted him & asked him how his day was going and said work was hard! Then for quite a few nights in a row he was back really late, so I looked on his computer & he had left his iMessages open & I could see that he had screen shot women who he was talking with & shared the images with friends & was laughing with them about talking with these women. I could kind of forgive if he needed the company or an ego boost by talking to someone else, but the fact that he's advertising to his mates what a cheat he is is humiliating in the extreme. I still feel pretty raw about my mum dying, our daughter is still recovering and I can't believe he's done this. Cont'd

I quit my job a couple days ago and we were texting back and forth. I texting saying I hope my next boss is as cool as he is. Now he wants to be friends and hangout. Hes married and has a 4 year old son. Would this be a good idea to become friends with my ex boss?

It's like saying, I DO, but I might not, so I need the insurance to protect my money just in case I might change my mind? Like, I'm not sure whehter I will love you for ever. I think that's a big turnoff. It's not unconditional love. Do many people in the US get prenups?

My friends wife refers always refers to him as her baby. Cooks for him. Feels on him. Parades him. He's the same with her but he's not a baby. He's not even five years younger than her. But she babies him