My wife is a control freak who takes over everything in our home. She has sixty projects going at once, none are more than half done. She gets on an idea and either Googles our YouTubes it to death. She over analyzes to the point of paralysis by analysis. She is constantly analyzing every square millimeter of our home and yard to make improvements that never seem to happen. When I offer to help and ask "Is there anything that I can do ?", she tells me in a sharp voice "I don't know!" So when I step in to help she gets angry because I am not doing what she wants. When I ask her what she wants, she says that she cannot tell me but that it is " in my (meaning her) head." I naturally decide to back away and do nothing and then she rips me for not doing enough and that she feels alone because she had to do everything. She then got angry at me today because she said she needs help and that I haven't been helping. I told her I would love to help but that she gets angry when I do it my way . She said that she has a right to get angry, but that she is not angry at me and that I need to be more of a "Prince Charming" some times and save her from herself. I said" I tried that but you get angry. "She said "what is the worst that could happen? I get angry and then I get over it." Why do I feel like those are famous last words. How do I deal with this ?

So BF and I have been together for a few years, I have a 3 year old that I brought into the relationship. We also have a 4 month old son together. It seems as though marriage is out of the option and things in are relationship are going south. His parents are the kind of people that I am afraid would try to take my son from me, fight for custody of him. BF name is on the birth certificate. My question is how hard, or easy, would it be for them to gain guardianship if I am a fit mother? Clean house, clean and healthy kids, food, shelter, utilities, necessities, and a steady job. If we split, my number 1 concern is my kids. I know I may face split custody with his father. But I am terrified of what they will try and pull to have custody of him full time.

I see no one happy. Most people I've met have been divorced at least once. They tell not to waste my time. These days marriage is something you do half drunk in Vegas ss a joke. So what's the point?

I had this affair with a coworker 2 years ago. We only had sex twice or 3 times. Since then, I left the job. I regret what I did then. I wasn't thinking straight. I asked god for his forgiveness, but I never asked my wife for hers.

I'm 29, been together for 4.5 years and live together. Told him at the beginning of the year I want to get engaged by the end of the year(don't think he took me seriously) We are planning a trip to Japan in September where I hinted would be a good time To do it and he hasn't even suggested trying on rings (he knows I want to choose the right style ect.) The other day we were in the city and was looking in the window of a ring shop and i suggested we go inside to look and he was very reluctant for me to try them on. We ended up going in because he could see I was upset. The one I tried on was $11k and he said it was too expensive, I did agree because that is a lot of money but he doesn't say anything about looking at a cheaper one. Just seemed very close minded about it. He sent a photo of the ring to his family and all his mum said was hmmmmm. They weren't excited for us yet they keep asking when we will have kids. It scares me that this may be a dealbreaker ?? What should I do??

My husband are newlyweds and only been married since March. He recently forgot to log off facebook and when i went to use laptop and clicked on screen it came up. He was messages his ex girlfriend saying he misses her and can come see her right then. She tells him she has her son with her and he tells her to bring her kid so all them can hang out. I confronted him about this and he kept trying to make lame excuses. First he tried to deny it but i phot shot from my phone computer screen. i message chick ask what we going on she said she didnt know he was married and don't mess up homes. But he still lying talking about the chick text his phone. Crazy thing about it he asked me to get a motorcycle in my name for him the same day and i said no. Now i'm feeling like he's trying to use me and i've lost all trust in him. I told him he needs to immediately leave my home and i will have courts serve him divorce papers. He keep saying he going to try to make it hell for me.

I'm not talking about a 1 time thing- if your fiancé had a full blown affair that went on for months- were you able to reconcile and married them anyway? What's your relationship like now?

I know many women who stay in marriages or get married to guys who work 60-80 hours a week and are never home, miss their children growing up, etc etc Like I get it if it's only temporarily for them to get financially ahead, but most of these families are financially stable and the husband still works all the time

I need help to cope with caring for my son. He is only 15 months old and wakes in the night about 4am. When I work the afternoon shift, I get home at 1am and sleep for 2hrs before he wakes up. I will then try to sleep for 2 more hours before he wakes at 7am. My wife refuses to get up in the mornings. Even when I'm so tired that I feel like I can't keep going. I end up taking a 30 min nap before work to cope. When I'm a 7am shift, she will not get up earlier to take him to childcare and will force him to sleep until 8 or 9am. Or at least let him play in the bedroom until it suits her to get up. She promised to go to Europe together as a family. But tonight I complained of only sleeping 2hrs and she went crazy again. Again said she would go without me (the past 8 years of being married have involved her doing overseas trips with friends and leaving me behind). She threatened to leave on short notice and leave me stranded with my work and my son. She also turned on the lights and refused to let me sleep. Right now, I don't know if she is going to leave October 1st or if we are still going in December. If I don't book the leave with work, I'll be out of a job! I thought about telling my new boss about my unstable home life. Also, I don't trust my wife and her family to take my son without me. But I also feel I'm selfish by letting him miss out on overseas travel. I have a passport alert in place so he cannot travel. I'm worried he will go to China and not return! My wife always makes me feel like I'm not part of the family and don't belong with her. Also, I feel sad when I see other husbands praising their wives. I suddenly feel like I don't appreciate mine enough. But I also cop a lot of verbal abuse and mind games :( one day I'm going to travel with her, the next she can threaten to go without me. Obviously I'm really upset at the moment because I was rely starting to believe I might finally get to travel again... If I use my annual leave to care for my son, I wont be able to take further leave to travel abroad with him later. Because o need to save my leave for my nursing study placements next year. 10 weeks worth have been booked with work already. I got what she said on record. She first abandoned our son at 3 months old and went to Tibet with her friends. She had promised to go to Tibet with me at the start of our relationship. She always has an excuse not to kiss me or spend time with me. I've been living an atypical almost loveless marriage for 8 years. I even have no feeling during sex anymore. I'm 36 and I have lost all interest in most things. I'm not letting my son go alone with her. Since I'm being emotionally held hostage and blackmailed, I'm not letting up on withholding consent for a passport. He is already on the immigration alert list. They will contact me if she tries to apply for a passport without my consent.

We are just recently married. I don't want to be an asshole. I know she's doing her best, but sometimes, we have guests and I could tell they're not enjoying their meal. As for me, I can manage. Everything she makes is delicious to me.

I've woke up 6 times with my husband kicking my legs,hitting me with his fist in my back, choking me , hitting me in my ribs with fist, also hitting me behind my head with fist.

The kids are on vacation with their uncle for five days and me and my wife need ideas on what to do with our free time

Marriage for me makes no sense.

this man got a rating of 9.3 for attractiveness on the site Photofeeler. How accurate would u say that is about him? do you think he is really that good looking? will give a best answer that is honest or do u think this scores were exaggerated?

How does a guy act if he's serious about you vs if he only want you for sex? My bf and I have been together for 3 years. He said he loves me but he's afraid of commitment. My bf is a push and pull. He need a lot of space in relationships.. because of this reason he's very distant. You see him now and then he's gone the next..by him acting so distant and so hard to reach makes it so hard to be intimate with each other.

I divorced her as she cheated on me....been 3 years to our divorce...I always loved her but I know I cant have a cheating wife in my life. I have not dated anyone since, I still feel emotional connect with her but do not want her back in my life expect for sex, I know she will agree easily... Should I ?

is he a man hubby knows? was Hubby mad or does he like it? Still flirt with him ? to the sad person that keeps changing the category, Get a life and get out of Moms basement !