I've changed to a nurturing woman by now. However, I wasn't always like this. Shortly before both my friend and I were arrested at the time for doing bad things; we were talking and making jokes about how it would be like to push a little kid in the pool and watch him struggle for a bit. We both knew very well the 6 year-old couldn't swim very well. Someone overheard our whole conversation and we got busted along with the other things. Our ages at the time were respectively 10 and 11. I was the younger girl and the ringleader at the time. I was acting out and not thinking of the impact of my actions at the time. I was empty of any feelings by then. I stopped caring at the time. Instead of thinking about normal things someone that age would be focusing about (playing with dolls, playing ding-dong ditch, play video-games), I was thinking about dark things and started acting on them.

I try so hard to make them happy, but they just don't seem to like me. I was at the mall with them, and one of them just handed me all of their stuff. They said they bought me along as a "book bag". I don't know if we're even friends or not. I have had some really good times with them at parties and stuff, but I always feel excluded. Also, I'm leaving the country to study abroad, and I don't even know if they'll be sad that I'm gone. I wanted to write each of my friends a letter with a gift, and I wanted to draw us all together, but is it too much? Is it weird for them to get all these gifts from a nobody like me? I don't they care about me and I don't know if it would be awkward giving them all of these gifts. I love them all, but I can't say they love me back..

You will agree with me. We have this asshole at our workplace. He's always sarcastic, thinking he can get away with it because of his cane. One time, I came into work and I asked him how his morning was and he rolled his eyes and replied, "Whatever." He's received plenty complaints from customers and other co-workers, but the boss refuses to fire him. One time, an older lady came in and was looking for a certain supply. First, he was getting ready to help her, but when he led her to the wrong aisle by mistake, she got angry because everyone in the store had her walking everywhere. My co-worker rudely replied, "Fine. Not my problem," and walked away. Someone points out it is raining, the co-worker says something like, "No ****, Sherlock." Yesterday, I was having a very bad day and was at my breaking point. One of our female co-workers was crying because a customer cussed her out and he apparently heard it and told her, "Get over your feelings. Most customers are major pains in the ***." When he said this, I stepped in and told him no one liked him because he was always such an *** all of the time. He replied, "Yeah, and I don't give two shits about you either." That reply alone was provocation enough for me, so I punched him in the face and a few moments later, he asked me why the hell I did that for. He didn't press charges, but I did get fired. If he didn't have a cane, everyone would agree he deserved this. Even after being punched, I still hear he's being an ***.

People ignore me, people talk over when I talk, people avoid me in every aspect in life... like instance today me and my friend where walking hiking we both had the middle lane but every single person went the opposite way of me example I was in the right he the left.. everyone I mean everyone went to their right or our left, but when we switched everyone went towards my friend still.. it's like they disliked me one hundred percent.. and everyone disliked me one hundred percent.. and in college I'm all alone, and in the clinics everyone ignore me sits away from me.. so if everyone is going to leave me alone why do I even live? I mean I understand being alone from time to time to receive my peace, but when everywhere and everyone I see and go everyone be like screw him leave him alone.. leaving me alone sucks just means I have nothing in common with the outside world. And if I do it means they don't like it at all... feeling this way is messed up! Probably no one will answer but it's all good I will end up dead soon anyways..

Here is are a few pics of me. Please say and also read the type of abuse I receive and help me understand why On social media I get unnecessary hate from people I've never spoke to in my life. Examples are people saying I just look like an a**hole but I don't see how? A particular time I received a lot of hate was posting pics wearing my Gucci hat, no flexing whatsoever just a full body shot of me wearing a hat I brought myself. I was accused of stealing it or begging my mum for it. I also get hate for taking pics of my haircuts that i'm proud of (I'm a hairdresser so into hair) and I'm told I'm arrogant when girls flex more than their new haircut/colour and don't get told their arrogant. Even when girls flex their bootys in mirror selfies they are thought of as "confident"

My best friend and I have been bffs for 4 years, but before that she had another bff she didnt like, and my bff talks **** about her all the time, but then Lies to me about doing something else and hangs with her. And I dont rly care that they hang out but she Lies to me about it and then when I find out from a mutual friend or an Instagram pic I dont know what to do. I cant be mad at her for being with her friend, but I cant help but feel like shes trying to replace me. We were on this class trip to Poland where we sat together all the time because thats what bffs do usually when they're as close as we are, but she ditched me to sit with this friend instead, and didnt explain, we just entered the bus together and I took our usual seats and she walked right past me ignoring me and sat in the back with her friend. Im sick of being treated this way, but shes a little weird and has done a lot of ****, and Im really sensitive so I take **** personally all the time, while she is very confident. I do t know what to do, I just feel like **** nobody wants to be with since even my best friend ditches me. Is it weird or am I mistaken?

He is currently 18, and he has said multiple times that he doesn't want to work or go to college is because "he lacks people skills". His mom takes care of him, I would assume, but I worry that sooner or later he will be in his mid 20's or older with no college or work experience and basically be lonely, broke, and on the streets. He certainly seems to just refuse any of that stuff, which while it makes me sad, I can't change him. He talks about how games like Doki Doki Literature Club made him depressed because he "has no real social skills and gets attached to fictional characters' as he himself put it, as well as just always is linking me random youtube videos. There's nothing wrong with that, but it just seems like he just sits at home watching youtube. It just makes me worried because he seems extremely hopeless and refuses to get out or do anything I have nothing wrong with how he spends his time, and if that's what makes him happy, then that's more than fine. But, I don't think it's healthy and he refuses to get help. How do I approach this?

Hello, I have no friends and the only people in my family I talk to are my mother and father but I don't live with them anymore and don't see them a whole bunch. I try to make friends in college but I've had trouble and I could only make one friend the entire year and they have a boyfriend so they dont have time for me. I always eat alone and I never hang out with anyone. My routine is usually doing my homework, working out, swimming and going to bed. I feel sad / lonely because I have no one to talk to a lot. There is some times where I hardly talk to anyone outside of class within a 3 week period. This guy at the gym noticed I was down and a loner and offered me advice not to get discouraged. What can I do to turn things around? I'm not a mean person I'm actually pretty nice. I try to appear happy on the outside but I guess sometimes people notice there is something wrong. It is hard to connect with people at my school because a lot of them come from different backgrounds and I just feel really lonely and have no one but myself I'm a guy if that matters

I know I haven't actually lost weight but when this guy saw me he asked me if I had lost some weight. Was he just trying to be funny?

I see fake people they make friends and people believe their bull **** or their lies. But they bully the real person or hurt them emotionally. I'm real and I don't have more fans lol im rather be in my own than with drama queen. Fake people they also gets love easily they know how to pretend most of the time.

I just finished Massage School and I've always been kind of attracted to my massage instructor. I did massage him once while I school because I had to. He's a Massage Therapist and I want to go to where he works so he can massage me. The last time I saw him he asked me if I had lost some weight. I don't know if he was just being funny or what.

I just finished Massage School and I've always been kind of attracted to my massage instructor. I did massage him once while I school because I had to. He's a Massage Therapist and I want to go to where he works so he can massage me. The last time I saw him he asked me if I had lost some weight.

I use the Internet to escape reality. To be someone else. But even online I'm bullied by people I talk to. Like I've been talking to this guy online for almost two years now and he subtly bullies me and thinks I don't know it. He doesn't do the other girls he talks to like that. It seems like everywhere I go I'm bullied. Even online when they can't see my face. I know the Internet is a nasty place where people hide behind a screen and everyone on it probably deals with bullies and trolls.

My mom passed away a little over a year ago. It was sudden and I'm still grieving her. Sometimes I will share photos and stories about my mom on my instagram. A friend who I haven't seen in years saw and it and said "you have the best characteristics of your mom". Thing is, this friend never met my mom before she passed away so how could she know what my mom was like?

So I have a friend named Phoebe and she constantly emails me every day saying hi and i want her to slow it down because im busy and dont have time to write all the time, what do i say to her nicely to stop

I have been very sad about people lately. I am a nice girl. I am kind, loving, considerate, I love animals and I help watch my grandmother. Here are examples that make me really hate people and love animals more. 1. My neighbor growing up was like a brother to me. We played together all the time. Now he doesn't even talk to me as much and hangs with his own group of people. 2. I got a little angry with my HS friends and decided to not talk to them anymore. My childhood best friend didnt even ask me what was bothering me. Basically let me just walk away and not try to save the friendship. 3. I asked my friend's boyfriend if I can invite my boyfriend to the birthday party. Her boyfriend got mad at me for asking and hasn't spoken to me for three years. 4. I went on a trip with two girls. I felt like the third wheel. They were laughing and giggling with each other. One of the girls didn't like me (I think she was jealous that I was friends with the other girl) ANYWAY, many of you might say get better friends, but I am telling you that let's say I do find new friends, human beings seem selfish. It would only happen again this way. Different people, same situations.

Me and my best friend were friends for 4 years and for her birthday a couple months ago i bought her a ipad pro 12.9 cellular for 1200$ and i even pay for the cell plan and I loved my best friend so money wasn't important all i cared was her happiness but yesterday she randomly blocked me for no reason on instagram and snapchat so i texted her number and she said she doesn't want to be friends anymore because she found a new best friend and i'm just annoying and then she blocked me there so i'm heartbroken and angry and i want to take the ipad back because i'm so mad

Recently, I was fired from a job and lost a friend who chided me for excessive whining. According to her very blunt criticisms, I "think the rest of the world" is my problems, and I need to "look forward to life" as I had a bright future ahead, given my high education level and professional experience. She informed me that "she couldn't deal with negative conversations" anymore and tired of "having to make me feel better." Maybe I was "whining." I did speak to her on multiple occasions about my frustrations; it was the second time in a year that I lost employment and I was particularly unhappy at the first job I lost. However, I was also undergoing treatment for severe depression that I had thought was bipolar disorder (I did not disclose that to her), so I didn't think my problems were everyone else's fault. Lastly, I tried to comfort her when she lost a job and a member of her family. I even tried to help her find employment by revamping her resume. She also asked me to borrow money due to her financial problems, though no money was ever exchanged (we had this falling out before I could help her). When I mentioned that I tried to help her through her problems, she told me "YOU asked to help me, so don't ******* make people feel bad for reaching out." She then blocked me off all her social media, and then refused to respond when I told her "thank you for telling me about the whining." I tried to apologize, but she ignored me. What should I learn?

I want to hang out with my friends really badly, but there just a few(hundred) factors involved 1) I have Indian parents, who do not approve of anything other than group studies 2) I'm new, and not many people know me that well 3) My parents take my phone away so I'm unable to have any sort of communication with them 4) school's out so i can't talk to them 5) I don't have any friends close to me

I have 2 bosses. They don't like to talk about their personal lives and hate questions. In fact, in one of my reviews, I was reamed out because I would ask about weekends and family. I was told it wasn't my business. They do this thing where they go to lunch but sneakily. Like they'll go within 5 minutes of each other and go in opposite directions but then I'll find out they went to lunch together. Yesterday, they did this and someone stopped by my desk to tell me about their lunch with my bosses. This guy works in the field. I don't care but I find it insulting they are hiding it from me. I understand if they want to go out and do whatever, but it just feels insulting they are so weird about it. Any insight on these guys? I feel like I'm back in middle school.

Before that I was veryoutgoing, had dozen of friends, then i got alienated by some guys in school when I became 13 or so all my so called friends turned on me. I then realized friends are sh*t at an early age, and that being alone is pretty fine.. since then I haven't had a very much social life tbh I keep it very minimal since I dont trust people, the thing is.. i'm 26 today and I still like being alone

so I have this nickname (bunny) and I m going to a new school and I ve been called it all my life and I want to be known/called by my nickname. I just dont know how I ll get all my 8 teachers to get to call me it? also does it seem inappropriate? help lol.

I am 24M and my brothers friend (24M) always laughs so loud and makes fun of how skinny I've gotten. I'm in the army and in a new work environment which overworks me in the hot sun, running 5+ miles everyday, etc and I lose weight like crazy. By the end of the day I'm so tired I can't even eat. Every time I see my brothers friend he always makes fun of me and laughs so loud pointing out how skinny I am. It's so irritating. How is it okay for him to say that but if I comment on how fat he is (he's on the heavier side) it's considered rude?! I'm not trying to hangout with my brother and his friend until I get fatter but it's gonna be hard because the army just loves to keep people skinny. Why does he do this and what do I do?! It's pissing me off! TL;DR - someone teases how Skinny I am every time and it's irritating. What do I do ?!

I have a severely mentally ill friend. I am not going to lie, I am afraid he may have done something to himself. I am afraid to go to the police because he is an illegal alien here. He has a history of disappearing and told me that he might do it again. Ive known him over a year, and we were quite close. He lost his job however, and it was really hard on him. He deleted his all of his instagram posts that were about 3 years of posts (but the account is still open just all of his past posts are now gone). Then his phone account just shut off and no word from him at all. Again, he has a history of up and running to a new area but im worried because he didn't tell me and because he deleted all of his posts on instagram. He is homeless too (he lived out of his van which he slept in but usually parked his car in a walmart). His car is gone and no trace of him. Im worried he did something to himself BUT he has a history of just up and running to start a new life somewhere. Do you think the possibility of him hurting himself is a possibility? Or do you think he just up and left?

I've known her since 6th grade but never talked to her 7th-9th because we weren't in the same classes. She was in my 10th grade first semester PE class. After PE, I was massaging my tired friend, Nika, and Ava bumped me to the side so she could massage Nika. Ava never said anything. Whenever I hung around Ava, I always felt dumb. I've always felt dumb but my feelings of stupidity felt different around her. Knowing me, I have Epilepsy. My seizures are caused when I'm overexerted from exercising. There was a fitness test and Nika was absent so I partnered with Ava. She kept pushing me way too much to the point I got a seizure during that test. I was sweating and tired like crazy and it was really obvious I needed to take a break; but being around Ava, I wouldn't get a break. Even after that seizure, she never apologized or asked if I was okay. Every time I've hung around Ava, things always felt awkward. We couldn't keep up a conversation past, "how are you?" I've told two relatives and my best friend if I should dump Ava. One relative and my best friend said yes while the other relative said to keep her as a long distance friend. We've grown apart over time. Still, we're friends on social media and all the things she's done to me has made me question if I should maintain my friendship with her or not. She de-friended me on IG yet decided to compliment how nice I looked in my pics on FB…?

my number neighbor won't answer me and it has saddened me. comment ur number and age if u wanna text out of bordem.

I've never really been in a group and the one I'm in now no one really likes me and I just hang out with them so I feel like I'm part of something, but I'm not. I just feel really shitty rn cause I just realized like every movie and everyone I know has a friend that they've known forever and that they're really close with and I've never had that with anyone.

If someone is only an acquaintance and I discover that I don't like him or her, I'll quit returning emails. If I see the person, usually I'll say hello, but if I really dislike the person, I'll walk right by him or her and not even acknowledge him or her. How about you: if you've intentionally ignored a friend or acquaintance when you see him or her, why did you? Because you really disliked him or her, or for another reason?

So basically my friend phoebe was holding my baby and she wanted to keep my baby because i'm a single mother and i told her it's my baby and i love her and she said she really wants the baby for herself and i said no and she grabbed my baby and threw it on the ground and smashed it she threw my baby on the floor and stomped on it over and over