So recently my peers and I have decided to put together a dance for fun to display at a future event. I love dancing and honestly, I know this sounds arrogant but I do feel that I am one of the stronger performers of the group. However, I can't help but feel irritated during practice because of how others aren't doing as well. I am aware that some people try their best, which I appreciate, but some people look as if they don't really care about how they look when they dance and don't put as much effort. Sometimes I try to give some feedback but after giving it multiple times, I feel judged a bit as if they think that I'm the boss and that I'm better than everyone else. I just want us to look good because we will be performing in front of an audience. I also feel bad because I get annoyed by the fact that I don't have more of the spotlight compared to others who I think I show more confidence and flow in comparison. Overall, I really looked forward to it but now I feel angry most of the time which is not fun. Am I a bad person for feeling this way? Would I come off as arrogant if I consistently pause the dance to say something about our performance? I try to do it nicely though :(

I puke whenever I am outside of my home, which makes work difficult. Please help. I got denied health insurance, to get help. I cant keep waiting. https://www.gofundme.com/f/social-anxiety-is-killing-me&rcid=r01-15627786149-ee3b873c1f0f413b&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

I recently went out with a man who is quite a bit older than me. He told me some pretty personal (and somewhat alarming) details about himself. He told me he used to do cocaine up until about four years ago (he is in his mid-50s). He also told me that his mother was somewhat physically abusive towards him when he was little and flat out stated that his family is "so f$&@ed up". He also said that he thought he needed therapy. Hearing all of this changed the tone of the date from positive to negative really quick. He ended up getting mad at me (because I became uncomfortable and it showed) and called the date a mess. The reason it was a "mess" was because he told me all of these details within an hour of the date. The guy is intelligent and successful, so I was just taken aback. This is too much, right? Was it normal for me to have a bad reaction to all that he told me? He made me seem like it was my fault the date was bad.

My ex said we'll be happy with other people, then why is he texting me first out of blue after months and try to have a friendly conversation.

So my "best friend" hasn't been a good friend lately mostly hurting my feelings. I tried calling her for a couple days never got a response (mind you we used to talk almost every single day no joke) so when I confront her she made up the excuse that I call to early and she wakes up in the afternoon. Also her sister just had a baby and since they all live together I already know that she is going to fall of the face of the earth. Now this bestfriend "Judy" is not my only one I have other best friends that treat me like how a best friend should and do not act weird with me like this. It's just annoying because whenever she calls me she always acts like I need to stop everything I'm doing and answer she bothered me when I was on a girls vacation the whole time (I answered the phone) when I was with my cousin shopping she called and I answered because she needed me. Most of the time I only call just to talk and see what's up. It seems recently that she only calls when she needs my help with her stupid guy, or the times she has called it's been all about her basically the whole time and I couldn't even get in what I was doing that day etc. I'm not sure what to do because I feel so hurt and used. It's just that this friendship is not the same as it used to be anymore and it's really tripping me out thinking about it. Any outside opinions/advice is greatly appreciated.

Being poor and worse off we use to be close cousins .like best friends but her drug use and drinking and smoking and so on got the best of me I could not take the mean text the lies she told to others my health is not good it no one had been here for me .But she gets brest cancer and and thinks her life is over. Now she gets mad at me cause k have stepped back from dealing with her and making me look bad by other family members .

I'm so nervous about meeting this guy I've been talking to for the past 2 weeks. Like I'm having anxiety symptoms thinking about it. It's not because I don't want to, I really want to. I'm just super anxious and shy when it comes to meeting people one on one from the internet especially. I feel that in more natural settings I can even show more of my friendly and warm personality. And I suppose I lack confidence and fear he won't want to see me ever again afterward. The funny thing is though...we're not even looking for something serious or to date, we're basically talking about meeting to hook up. In his place. Of course, what else would you expect from the app he messaged me on (feeld), which is mainly a hook up app, I think? I tried to give up casual encounters altogether, but I couldn't resist him. Part of me is flattered and also somewhat curious about his overt enthusiasm about how I look, and meeting me. He is handsome is an understatement. I found out he's also a fairly success actor and model from Brazil who works in the industry here where I live now. He did verify his identity to me by speaking to me by video . I just want tips to relax and not let my thoughts get messy and overboard

with other people, then why is he texting me first out of blue after months and try to have a friendly conversation.

I'm not liking my options either. Ever since I passed 27, I'm not into women my own age. Women my age are used and abused. I still like women in their 20's. Since I'm too too old and no experience, I think I'll sit this one out.