I just brought my first home about three months ago. Well today I received a bunch of missed calls from her and she tells me she's having tough times and have to be out in a week and wanted to come stay with me. Prior to her coming to see my home. We haven't seen each other in years and it's because we grew apart. She now has two kids and as much as I want to help her I need my space, I worked so hard to buy a home at 28 years old and I like it being my daughter and I. But I love my friend and how or should I say no?

People are sooooo rude here

Last month I had recently left a 6 year friendship from her ditching plans with me for her ex and lying about my invitation to her graduation. This all happened in a single day. All summer as I avoided her I realized how stupid I was for not leaving the friendship sooner. I had looked back on the memories and every single memory had a bad part about them because of what she did. Her birthday parties always consisted of her friends disliking each other in order to give my friend all of her attention. Until her 15 birthday when everyone was getting along and including my friend in convos and activities, she got upset and made an attempt to make everyone hate each other. No one ever came to her birthdays after that. Trips to the mall, double dates and regular hangouts include her showing up two hours later and blaming her carpool for being late, or flaking to be lazy or to be with her guy friends or crushes. Instead she blames her mom for "always making last minute plans". Her ex also falls victim as she called him filthy and how she had feelings for his bully and wanted a love triangle. After he broke up with her she had blamed him for her "depression" and kept chasing after him. Her mindset is that everyone that she is friends are always dramatic so she needs a relationship to make her happy. If you are wondering why don t you scold her? Well I have and never worked. If you are being as nice as possible when scolding her she blames you for being unsupportive and a bully.

I havent been socializing much over the last 2 year's and just want to reconnect with an old friend.

So I'm a 16 year old guy and I babysit this 11 year old kid. He recently started hitting me in the balls. But he's creative with it like he'll say "can we play kick ball?" And I said yes, and he kicked me in the balls. He's hit me pretty hard a few times, I'm not worried about him doing damage, I just don't want him to hit me in the nuts anymore. He said he's never been hit there, so that might be why he does it since he doesn't know the pain. I wont hit him there or at all, but I have really wanted to a few times, so he knows what it feels like and he won't do it. I'm too embarrassed to tell his parents but I've "threatened" to, but he didn't seem to care and still does it. How should I get him to stop?

my best friend keeps saying that she needs to get away but she never brings herself to do it. How can i fake that she won a trip to get her over here to California. I even offered to pay for her ticket. any ideas??

Last week I went to an event to support a friend, and there was an after party later several minutes away. I was already riding with my bud, but this girl I recognized from school from years ago asked to ride with us. I thought she was going to be weird and awkward because she always was in school, but she was actually hilarious. I honestly never met a female that could make me laugh so much. On the way to the party, we stopped to eat, and she said she wasn't hungry so I got her a drink. She was grateful for it because her card kept getting declined and she was dying of thirst. As time went on, I found out she's incredibly smart too. When we got to the party, she never sang along with anyone because she said she doesn't listen to rap or pop and I asked her if she'd ever heard of this song or that rapper, she named bands I never even heard of. She then prodded a little bit and outright asked if I ever spent time with anyone outside of my own social circle. And it made mw realize, I really hadn't. Later on, when she went to retrieve something of hers, my friends and I agreed to ditch her there and leave her wandering. We thought it would be funny. Now that I think about it, I feel like s***. We left her there with no money, in an unsafe part of town. She found me online the next day and told me off. I denied it all and she blocked me... Why did I do this?

I had an old school friend from class who recently died by drowning in a canal. Now all our cold classmates have got hold of each other on on a group chat online. I was nice at first and was like good to see you all again and hope you are all doing well. But i actually don't really wanna keep in touch with anyone from school. I had a good time with people there at the time but its been 10 year since i left school. I wanna leave the past where it belongs. People on this chat are tying to get my number and meet up. I haven't replied to them yet about that. How do i put it in a nice way that i don't wanna rekindle, I honestly think most of them are only doing it as they felt guilty for not keeping in touch with the guy that died and made them realize how they've missed out on a chance when they didn't bother when he was alive. So I don't even think it's genuine anyways.

Please don't take this the wrong way, as I am just trying to be specific about this situation. So I am not mean-spirited in the least. Keep in mind that his ex, a mutual friend, apparently still carries a torch for him, which was evident by a poem she read to him that she wrote. Keep in mind she is NOT a home wrecker, as poetry is her muse. Even though their relationship was obviously puppy love, and she's not trying to win him back, I'm sure he felt awkward about that poem. Not just because he's married, but because she's far from unattractive, as opposed to his wife. Besides, his ex should not be stroking his ego. That's his wife's job. In addition, his ex told me that he's been ignoring her texts (which she meant in a humorous manner, as he's probably very busy). But, sad to say, I think she unknowingly meant that literally. Would I be a bad friend by not informing her about his mother, now that she texted me? BEFORE the funeral, obviously not, because he wouldn't want his ex at his mom's funeral while he's married. But for her to contact him, I don't know how he would feel about that., since she appears to be a pest.

I feel like two years ago things were good and at a content to where I was comfortable in my situation. Recently however I feel like right when I'm going in the right direction things seem to be going slow or not going at all. I have always felt that my peers are ahead and I'm always behind on something. I feel so alone, even when my friends are with me. I had to distance myself from my family because of how toxic they are, and even with that I still feel alone.

Please don't take this the wrong way, as I am just being specific here so my question will make sense. So I don't mean any harm. The problem is that my friend (the one whose mother died) is married, and our female friend is an ex from junior high school. Of course, nothing became serious between them, as it was just puppy love. Even though he's married, she actually wrote a poem about him... and read it to him. Keep in mind she is NOT a home wrecker, as poetry is her muse. But she doesn't seem to understand that stroking his ego is his wife's job, not hers. Despite that she wasn't trying to win him back via poetry, he obviously felt awkward not just because he's married, but also because she's far from attractive. While she is none the wiser, she actually told me that he's been ignoring her texts (which I'm very sure she just meant humorously in the sense that he's busy). But sad to say, I think she unknowingly meant that literally. Of course, when his mother died, I never told her. Now, in the aftermath of the funeral, she texted me. Would I be a bad friend by not telling her, or would simply assuming he told her, makes up for me not telling her?

I was talking to this guy romantically and when we set up our date his friend had to tag along because his parents are strict. Her and I immediately hit it off before we even met beavUs we had so much and common she invited me out and we'd talk for hours . The guy and I had no chemistry irl and decided to be friends but when I tried to make plans for the 3 of us again he said he didn't wanna make thing awkward. So does this mean my friendship with her is over as she is his best friend ?

I'm currently getting my real estate license, and when this lady (who sits next to me ) makes a comment every body turns around and looks at her. I feel like I get judged too. What do you think I should do, (this makes me feel so self conscious)

based on the message he sent her does he like her a little bit or alot? will give a best answer "I still want to go into our meeting cautiously, but how is this for bluntness... I think you are VERY attractive physically AND mentally. I can't wait to meet you. I don't want to rush things, though, but waiting so long to meet has caused us to know each other more and feel more comfortable. I thought of you today when I heard "You're My Best Friend" by Queen on the radio. I won't settle for a long term partner that I can't say that to. You have many great qualities that make you an exceptional person!" so does he like her a little bit or alot? or somewhere in between both?

I'm 19, my apartment complex matches roommates up. I saw a picture of the girl I'll be living with & she just looks like someone I'd never be friends with. She looks weird & im vegan and I don't think she is, I am strongly against eating animals & I couldn't live with someone who eats meat. Also she seems like the type of person who isn't very creative & doesn't have the same interests on me. On the other hand I'm an artist & life is all about expression to me. Maybe I am judge mental but I'm going to be living with this person for a whole year & they don't look cool. Any advice?

There's this girl I know, she is 24 and am absolute sweetheart. She is very sweet and classy, and attends church regularly. She is a kindergarten teacher as well. She is always smiling and laughing. She has had only one real boyfriend that I know of, which lasted 2 years, and they did have sex. She will have a drink if she goes out, and she has a tattoo like this on her forearm. Does she sound too wild? What do you think about the tattoo? https://i.pinimg.com/originals/6e/f7/59/6ef7593c52b901924d745a1d08840da4.jpg

My mom is a light sleeper and i need some tips on how to stay quiet and successfully sneak out

I recently ended a 2.5 yr friendship, we are in our 30's, lately we have grown apart . She would ignore my texts, be rude on some occasions and have it be about her. We had a mutual friend that walked away from me as I was talking to her in a store and my old friend didn't see an issue in this. I felt like I deserved better, more respect and to have a friend with common interests.

I liked this guy, my best friend, a couple years back, but when I told him I liked him he freaked out and said he needed space, but he eventually ended up blocking me. I was heartbroken and couldn't understand why he would hurt me like that. Add to that, that I was going through a very hard time, since I was sick with anxiety and panic attacks. He knew this, but still blocked me. So I decided to email him a couple of days ago, using a fake email account, so he can give my advice about god and my mom who has cancer, because I saw a video of him saying that he found god. I was feeling guilty that I made my mom worse, because I didn't go to church, like I promised god I would. I mentioned that he did know me, but started to hate me, and stopped talking to me for some reason, and that if he knew who i really was that he would probably block me. He emailed me back a paragraph saying that god is not punishing me and he said in the end, "hate you? Who are you?" I replied to him, telling him that he really hurt me in the past, and that i was afraid to tell him who i was out of fear that he would block me and I said that I didn't want to get upset and cry in front of my mom. I told him if he can at least explain why we couldn't be friends, so i could get some closure and move on, but that i hope that we could be friends again and that I'm sorry for whatever happened. I said that I believe his friendship will really help with dealing with my mom's cancer. I emailed him last Thur. and he hasn't replied back yet and I'm kind of freaking out that he blocked me. I'm thinking of emailing him next month that my mom's treatment seems to be working, which I learned yesterday! :) Any thoughts? Think he will answer back? Thank you!

Almost every day he texts me "What's up?" Then we text about random stuff like girls and whatnot. However the only time we hang out is when other people are having a party or whatever and we are both invited. And we both went on a camping trip with mutual friends but didn't even sleep in the same tent. I haven't even been to his house except to drop him off. But now its been months since I have seen him in person yet we still text all the time. I even invited him bowling once and he said he couldn't go. Do you think he's a real friend?

Sometimes I struggle with social skills and panic attacks. I had a very quiet college roommate. I would sometimes try to be friendly by offering her things like cookies and cough drops, but she would always reject them. She also didn't smile very much, and when she did, it looked fake. Sometimes she'd leave her laundry basket in the way (she'd do laundry and then not put it away until the next day), she'd use my plastic silverware (I told her she could use it, but she used it too much, so I moved it to my side of the room. She still used it, so I began hiding it), and sometimes changed pads and pantiliners in the room. She'd also leave her overhead/desk lights on too late/early, and not take out the trash as much as me. I know she was out of the room a lot because she had a job, but when she was in the room, she seemed grumpy. Eventually we had bed bugs. The day we cleaned out our room for pest control, she slammed the door a few times, and stomped around. Sometimes she gave me dirty looks. After everything piled up, I told the RA I didn't feel safe, it was an unfriendly environment, and I was afraid my roommate would judge me if I confronted her. The RA met with my roommate and the 3 of us eventually had a meeting together. My roommate was irritated with me because I told the RA I didn't feel safe and didn't communicate with her first. She said she didn't believe me and that it was a "really bold claim to make." After the meeting, she signed the roommate agreement and cried.

Please help. My co-worker and I have been friends for 8 years and have worked together. She is married and so is our boss. She recently admitted to me that she is having an affair with our boss (much older male) who I have to work closely with. Our boss s wife also works for our company (a large corporation). His wife is one of my managers! I feel disgusted with my friend and notice favoritism at work even though she tends to slack off. She says I m the only other person that knows and it s making me sick. I don t want to lose my job but I feel wrong keeping this secret. She is extra friendly with the wife and even flirts with my boss at work! It makes me uncomfortable and honestly I ve lost respect for my friend and boss. What would you do in this twisted messed up situation? I wish she never even told me

I had texted him, and he hasn't replied since June 7th... I took all my things around May 20th from his place but later told him that it was not really a break up. I did that because he sort of forced me to stay at his place, longer than I could, and tried to force his will on me, and get his way often. When I left with my things. he told me that he'd really miss me but since then he has barely communicated I saw him last around June 2nd. Should I just not text him or reach out until he texts first. He hasn't made much effort at all to reach out, except for two short texts on 6/7/19. Hope do I get him back and work things out? I don't know how he had controlled himself to not reach out in over 50 days. Today is 7/25/2019. I don't know what to do. Please help!!

picture of the same. People kissing each other when they are middle aged to me and say see how the time passes through these pictures.What does this means ?