Men. Can you be faithful and marry a woman that can't get on top during sex due to physical limitations and a disability? Everything else is fine.. due to a knee injury unable to have full range of motion. Is that a deal breaker?

My husband is overweight. I am not. The other day when I was eating in the kitchen he made a comment and said god you should really start cutting back. I kind of just laughed it off even thou I was hurt. The worse was the other night we were intimate and he made a comment on my fat roll. I keep trying to tell myself to ignore it, especially since I don't want our young child to see us fight

Some people think they're ready when they're really not and some people think they're not ready when they have the capability to be ready. How do you know when you're ready for such a big commitment in your life?

I'm at wits end with my husband. He literally sits on his *** all day long playing games. I rarely ever ask him to help me around the house, but when I do ask for simple things like unloading the dishwasher or taking out the trash, he always says he'll do it later (which ends up being the next day) but I can't stand when there's dirty **** laying around so I just end up doing it anyway. For instance today I was gone for an hour and I asked him to put the dishes away, when I got home he said he forgot. I just don't understand how men don't help out!? I do everything around the house because I don't like living in filth. We both are in school so we have the same amount of responsibilities. I just think it's ridiculous that he depends on me to clean everyday while he sits on his *** without offering to help. Who else is in the same boat?!

It has progressed in the last 2-3 years so fast. First, she was forgetting things, small things (normal). A year later, she really was forgetting and repeating herself. A few months later, she is constantly repeating herself and doesn't want to be around people or in a crowd. Then here recently, she is coming up with stories and has fixated on my Uncle seeing someone, but he's not. The man works every day and on the weekends, he's with her and their son at a campground. On one of those days, we're there too to go in the pool. She believes he's seeing someone but the person she thinks he's seeing, is the wife a guy they met from NY and isn't there much. They've already left state. She believes she is working at his job and he sees her after work. My Uncle calls my mother-in-law and his wife any time the plant has him working a little overtime, waiting on a truck to come in. He's been very hurt by all this and has said, it'd be easier if he was cheating, but he's being accused of something he'd never do. The main reason, besides his wife being sick, their son has Kabuki syndrome and is disabled himself. He can't hurt his son. My Aunt though is making this a very public ordeal and anyone that doesn't know my Uncle, thinks she is functioning with a full deck of cards and he really is cheating. She needs to be in a facility because my Uncle does work most days and cannot keep this up for the rest of his life. What can he do or what stage is she in? I think she's in stage 5.

My husband and I are really struggling where we live. He's ALWAYS been a mommas boy to the extreme and we agreed to live here so he can be close to all his family. My family lives hours from here. With are 2 kids we are struggling tremendously. I've been offered a job 2 hours from where we currently live. His boss offered him a transfer to their office in the city. We would make what him and I make combined on just my income alone. He's refusing to go because his mother said she thinks it's a bad idea and has threatened to never speak to him again if he moves. He now said if we move he wants a divorce. He told me if he dates again or remarries he's going to make sure the girl has every intention of staying local and in town. Financially we are really having issues. This would be an amazing opportunity for our family. He told me if I accept the job he's filing for divorce because 2 hours is too far from his family.

This woman ran off with my Mom's cousin 20 years ago. I figure after all these years is no harm done and I see the couple every now and then. I have the cousins ex on as a friend also.

My parents say "when you're out you're out" and have indicated she is hereby an enemy of the family. Is this fair when they have 4 kids and I've always liked her? I'm not married to her so don't see why I need to make her an enemy.

My husband and I have only been married 5 months and I'm already considering divorce or cheating (even though I'm not a cheater) or both. We have two babies under 2. I'm getting tired of him and I feel myself shutting down completely. I'm currently at the point where I don't even try to look good for him, I purposely try to look a hot mess when I'm around him and pretty when I'm by myself. I want men to notice me now. The reason why is because my husband and I haven't had sex in 4 months! I'm always initiating it even though I hate doing that and he either has an excuse or falls asleep. I'm bored with him. I'm starting to not find him attractive because of this. I've talked to him about it soooo many times and still nothing changes. He still never initiates it even though he says he will. We are like roommates with kids. This is taking a toll on my self esteem extremely. I'm starting to think I'm ugly or fat and I'm neither. Other men flirt with me constantly I just don't see why my husband doesn't want me even though he says he does no action. What do I do before finally filing a divorce?

Next week is our 9th Anniversary. I bought her a camera that she has been wanting since she has wanted to try out doing photography. I wanted to write something in her card that was sweet and romantic that related to that, but I'm not the best at coming up with the words I want to say. Something like "This is for you to capture the memories we will make in years to come". But I wanted to put more than that. Any help would be appreciated.

Finally, both kids are out of the house tonight, so my wife and I are planning on a lot of fun in the bedroom. Been a while since i told her a hot story during foreplay. Ignites the fun for both of us. Trying to think of a topic. Looking for ideas. Do you have some? We are married 25 years, she's 60 and I'm 58. Yes, I know stories aren't for everyone. But after 25 years, well, we kind of need a little naughty inspiration now and then. So, please don't judge. Thanks. But I know people here are creative thinkers. I love, absolutely love, when anonymous people take potshots. I was just trying to jazz up everyone's afternoon. Lighten up, Francis. Of course, we can't see what anonymous is all about because he won't use his name. Nice.

My wife wanted to make childrearing the focus of our marriage (hence me spending 10 years on here complaining about my sex life and my wife). My youngest is 13 now and all 4 of my kids are acting like they want to be independent from us and take care of themselves; the way I see it is this is the best opportunity to cut the umbilical cord finally and let them do it while we get our marriage officially on track! I presented the idea to her and she's thinking about it and might agree to go spouse focused (she's reluctant because parenting is easier for her since she's an authority figure whereas in our marriage she'd be an equal and that doesn't work out well for her communication style). If she does agree though, what are the main differences between child focused and spouse focused marriages (besides the kids will have to wait their heckin turn now for her attention)?

he only stopped because I put my foot down, but I just can't see him the same anymore. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to end it, but I can't get past it emotionally either. in the past 14 months, he's almost died Twice! that's partly how she got him. listened to him, making him feel good, then started telling him things he didn't know, people who kept them apart way back then. she was trying to protect him, supposedly.

I just graduated high school 2 years ago and a bunch of girls from my graduating class are already married. These girls don't have a university degree or probably a stable career so I don't get how they financially support their marriage. I don't plan on getting engaged until after college and I don't plan on getting married until after I get my masters + a stable career.

We're together for 11 years and married for 5. Both still happy together, though 3 years ago we found out we can't have kids. It was a very heavy thunder that fell on my husband. I am at peace with it. Since then we lost drive in our relationship. We lost energy, we became lethargic. We both question ourselves a lot, are unhappy with our individual selves (complexes, insecurities) and though relation seem ok, it lost its joy and drive. How to resurrect that?

It's not like it's my parents or something but I'm still kind of shocked after this long. They've all had problems so I'm not terribly surprised the same time I'm kind of shocked to hear it like when someone who's been sick a long time dies The aunt always kicks my husband out and then takes him back but it sounds like this time they're down for. Should I treat her as an enemy now? Is she not related anymore, the uncle is the blood relative. They have four children who are all grown up one of them is married with kids.

I think my parents are going to get divorced. Growing up there was a lot of fighting in the home, when i was about 8 i even remember trying to decide who I was going to live with when my parents inevitably got divorced. Although they went to counseling and decided to stay together (later having one of them telling me a large reason they stayed together was due to the inability to afford living if they got divorced, and they thought it would be better for me and my siblings to stay together). Now I am 18 and although somethings have gotten better, many things have gotten worse. My mom has told me and my siblings that she is scared for us to leave her house because she cannot maintain their relationship and she will be alone. The two of them have talked about divorce with each other unless he actually listens to her, and the councilor. Knowing him I doubt he will due to his endless amount of pride. Realistically i think they will probably get divorced because they're relationship is not healthy. I would be happy for them if it means they are happier. Although it makes me so sad, even though it's probably for the best. I don't really know how to respond to it? How do i cope with this? I am an adult but i still heavily depend on them, and i dont really know how to cope with my emotions while also being glad they're out of their toxic relationship?????