So I have been married 1 year together 4 years with my spouse. He has a friend from a car club who I felt attracted to since we met but never pursued it. He also felt the same. So for 2 years the guy would tell me to give him a chance but I didn't. 1 year ago he married an on and off girlfriend who he has so many problems with, no kids yet. My marriage is literally down the drain, there is alot of domestic violence, verbal abuse, no sex at all and alot of bullying me about my body etc. Long story short, 1 month ago we slept together and it has happen everyday ever since. He says he feels a connection and I feel one too not just sexual but something I cannot describe. We want to possibly be together as a couple in the future. But is it possible?

Dad is getting older and he has recently updated is will. His last will was that all would have been shared equally among his two kids. On the updated will it says it is three ways: two brothers and older brother's wife. Brother's wife literally demanded all his money a month ago because she helped Mom while she was bedridden-she came two three times a week to their home to help her out for one year. Now several years passed. Dad is in failing health and and my husband and I are helping him daily with his meals, shopping, cooking, cleaning, bathing, etc. last three years. He is 93 years old, he is legally blind, he is in need of everything I am the daughter in law. I was not expecting anything in the will extra but I did not appreciate to be left out either if it was not divided between two sons. Now do I stop helping all together because I am not named in the will? I spend at least two hours daily for cleaning, cooking , shopping and I spend my own money when I shop for him.

I been having a rough time lately I need my husband right now I'm also a guy. Is it ok to cry in front of him ?

My mom and stepdad just found out that my stepdad never actually divorced his first wife. My stepdads first wife filed for divorce 23 years ago and my stepdad recevied a letter in the mail from her attorney 23 years ago stating that he didnt need to sign, that it didnt matter if he signed or not he would automatically be divorced. My mom and stepdad married 22 years ago. My stepdad daughter is telling him that his mom and her will get all his money when he retires because they never actually got divorced. Is there a statute of limitations or something to protect my stepdad from having to pay this? Or something about being separated and not living together for so many years?

He left for a business trip a few years ago, since he is an attorney, and my mom is a paralegal, so he left. I haven't seen him since, and there hasn't been any reports about the plane crashing, so.. what happened?

She tells me frequently how much she appreciates all my hard work,providing for kids that are not mine biologically,fixing her breakfast,etc...BUT then when I want sex the answer is no most of the time,even though I literally never turn her down for sex if she asks for it. I don't get it,and when I ask her she just says "thats just how I am"

So he told me it was because of his diabetes but I caught him in the restroom masturbating to porn a few months ago. I am only 44 and don't want to have to do without sex for the rest of our lives. I have basically begged for 2 and a half years. He doesn't seem to want to fix the problem so the problem must be me. I still get approached by men which scares me to death because I am becoming more tempted as the years go by. I want a marriage not a roommate. I have asked for an open marriage and he said no but I think he would clearly have an affair if an attractive woman approached him. Please help!!

what is your taste like? for example can u rate each of these females looks from 1-10? or just say who u think is better looking? Will choose a best answer

Haven t had any contact with him in a long time. We broke up 2 years ago and he got a gf and he told her I was a slut. I know this because somehow she found me on FB (who do you think told her my name?) And I never get on fb but my page was opened for my games. So anyway she contacted me and started being mean and rude to me i didnt even know he was with someone because ive been to busy with my life and she was harassing me. And my ex was aware because she sent a screenshot of their back and forth messages so he knew she was chatting with me. I find it odd though and she said he lies to her a lot and doesnt priortize her she told me mean things he said about me to her and some is true but it doesnt bother me because I have grown a lot since we broke up and he actually broke up with me! And I left. She willingly sent me her number and asked me to call her and I refused. What does it mean when the new girl contacts you when you dont have any contact with your ex? Why is your ex even bringing you up when its been a long time that you guys broke up? She also told me his mom told her I was nice and used to live in this house. Why is she so curious about me? Did my ex make her this way like talking about me to her? Thanks

This married man 61 in charge of our choir who is the musician made a comment at one of the rehearsals about females wearing things that are too fitted. He said last time someone didn't mention a name but wore something too fitted and said other men was looking at this person as if they were saying what do they have on. He said he will have to sit this person down next time they are not wearing the proper outfit. Yet this same man last yr was caught staring at someone a few times. Not only that he was fat and just dropped weight dramatically.

I've been "officially" going out with my gf for 5 months now, though we've been unofficial for close to a year. When we first got together officially we basically had a no "BS" rule where we told each other anything that might be a problem or might come up later. I told her everything and I thought she had too. Well things have been great since, I've never been in love before but I think this might be different. I never get into her personal things and she has always been open with me, and yesterday I went thru her instagram and I ran across some photos from about 8 months ago. She had a few with one of her friend I had actually met. In one she actually refers to him as her bestfriend and in another one of them snuggling intimately. When I asked her about it she said it was nothing and when I pressed her more she tried to make it about me being paranoid, but she never said nothing happened. We got into a huge argument about why she had not told me even though we actually hung around him with her other friends. Some words we're said and were not talking now. I'm twisted right now, she basically lied to me and had me hang around this bastard like nothing happened. I know it was before we were officially together but it still feels wrong because she had already met me and we were talking. Was she wrong? What should I do? I'm seriously lost here.

I don't get it. I know that wives say that it's not about the money. What is it about then?

My husband goes to college, I noticed there was this woman who teaches on campus he never took his class and reached out to him on Facebook to try and show him something to help his business. I noticed she insisted they meet more. They started meeting off campus and I started to noticed some stuff. One she is extremely touchy with him his hands, his back. She even showed up one time showing her cleavage with a hickey there. I get the vibe she wants to f**** him. Is this possible? Or am I wrong?

I am disabled and have a disease that is acting up and I cant walk- my husband is immature/selfish & drums for a band that is having a benefit. I cant stand the singer of the band as he has repeatedly stalked/harassed me on social media and went through my page and took screenshots of platonic male friends and I joking and "reported me" to my husband and exaggerated/lied on me. My husband claims this guy has "apologized to both of us" through him, as I deleted family thinking they were the ones who caused this problem when it was the singer using his now ex girlfriends page (who he was cheating on his wife with at the time). Should this guy have to apologize to me? I told my husband I am ill and dont want to go and he is threatening me and saying he will make my life hell and never forgive me for "not cooperating"- his friend's repeated obsession with me is what caused this. Whenever my husband has confided in him about fights we have had or discussions, this singer/friend has taken it upon himself to privately harass me via social media and once said to me "you think youre somethin dont u? well I tell you I have the meanest most vicious divorce attorney in the state and we will find you". He wont leave- I cant get rid of him. I have tried! His bands/friends have always been more important He claims he "handled it mos ago when I raised holy hell and asked him to" but Jim, the singer has never apologized to ME the singer is in the service and he was ordered by military court to spend time in a mental hospital due to his ex wife causing him to lose his mind he said

I am having bad experiences because I am searching for a life partner. Anyone of you out there having such experience (s). ??

My wife's family gets along with each other very well for the most part. Occasionally, they do have skirmishes with each other. My wife will periodically get involved in a skirmish with a family member. My wife gets angry and upset with the family member she is fighting with. I have to deal with the emotional nuclear fallout from the fight. My thinking is when my wife has a problem, I have a problem. But I am looking for an objective response here. Are my wife's fights with her family my fights too because I am her husband?

Like hard working guys are technically too busy and tired with their jobs and businesses, they probably aren't thinking about sex as much as the women who want them. The guys who dont work as hard have more time on their hands to play in bed. So why do the women waste their time chasing the wealthy people when they could receive more attention from part time guys? Same goes with marriage. Why get married if both partners spend more time at work than they do at home together. The couples who are poor actually seem happier together

My wife is suffering from depression after having our daughter. Our daughter is 2 weeks old she still has it she cries at every little thing or for no reason. She had a hard time sleeping last night she was up half the night crying she wanted me to hug her all night. How can I comfort her ?

My wife's son (21) lost his apartment because he got fired from his job last week. My wife decided to voluntarily invite him to live with us. we get along okay. but my wife babies him to death. We live in a 3 bedroom house and we've been living together for a week now and he hasnt even tried to get a job. My wife gives him some of our money, spoils him, makes him dinner, cleans up after him etc. I laid down the rules straight forward. I let him know if he doesn't find a job by the end of February, I want him out. He informed me that if his mother wants him to stay and agrees to take care of him he doesn't have to take orders from me. I bluntly and sternly told him that he will do as I say in my household and will support with rent and will work as an adult in my household.

My best friend was out of town on New Years/Eve for work travelling. So I was alone and so was her boyfriend. Her boyfriend always did small flirts with me even in front of his girlfriend and I thought nothing of it because she would joke along too. On New Years Eve, because her boyfriend was alone and I was alone she wanted us to hangout alone. I didn't feel comfortable with this because I do have a slight attraction to him. But I didn't want to be alone. Anyway while we were out in a different city when the ball dropped we were both drunk and we kind of made out and then we awkwardly went back to our hotel. When we got back he was really drunk. He wrapped his arms around me in bed and thought I was his girlfriend but I was drunk as well and we had sex... I felt really bad. We didn't talk about it. Its as if it didn't happen. He still flirts with me but I play along, but it bothers me that I'm lying. Should I tell her the truth?