Family: Question: Want to move out, but i'm only 15?

Question: Want to move out, but i'm only 15?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 02:47 PM PST

I can't stand living with my family they only talk horribly about me, and I can't stand them, I live in New York and wish I lived in L.A. But that'll probably never happen. I'm just not sure what I can do.

Question: (gold star) family issue here. Looking for good advice?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 02:05 PM PST

I recently found a 1999 vhs of a family trip to lake powell,Arizona. I was 10. My brother was 15. My dad and my mom were still married. My brother was still alive. It's hard watching him as he jumps from the boat into te lake,laughin,smilin. It's hard to think that we would lose him 4 years later in Iraq. That was a pre 911 world. He wanted to become a doctor,then 911 came and he enlisted in the Marines instead. He still wanted to go to college afterwards but he wanted to serve first. My parents divorced after he died. Lots of people would have stayed together,my parents didn't. I had never seen that tape. I didn't even know it existed. I found him in the basement sorting stuff out. Is it wrong to believe that if Bush had never been president my family would be still together and my brother would be still here? Ironically,I liked Bush 41 (by reading about him on the internet). I remember kinda hating that trip because I hated my mom and dad singing the whole time in the car. Now I would give everything to have that back. this is year 16 without my brother. We go on,but we miss him everyday. I go to Arlington to visit him once a year because it's too painful for me to go there more than once. On the positive side my parents are friends now. I miss that sense of family now. Should I convince my parents to go back to Lake powell this summer? he won't be there with us but I think it would be good to remember good times. What do you think? I don't want to make them sad though

Question: How to stop laughing ?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 01:19 PM PST

Me and my brother were messing around with Siri on my iPod saying some random stupid stuff I can't stop laughing. I can't repeat it because some is very inappropriate. I can't stop I feel like having a freaking heart attack. I try taking deep breaths but it's not helping.How can I stop ?

Question: I need advice on how to get out more?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 01:13 PM PST

I'm a teenager (15 years old) who's homeschooled and last November I moved from Los Angeles to Chicago. Because I don't go to school, I have no idea how to meet new people and I've practically been alone for the past year doing absolutely nothing with my life. I live with my parents, but my mom is a flight attendant so she's gone most of the time, and I mainly just hang out with my unemployed dad. But the problem with this is that my dad is a very negative person. I quite literally can't remember the last positive thing he said to me. He complains about his wife, the snow, the food he eats, absolutely everything. I feel like it's deteriorating my mental health because nowadays it feels like I'm suffocating unless I'm out getting groceries or going on a walk. Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to maybe make some friends? I'm also sort of broke by the way, so the lower the cost, the better.

Question: Normal or not?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 12:42 PM PST

Man my mom drives me crazy and before y'all say I should be happy to have her. I do, I love my mother, but she is driving me crazy. I help her around the house and I do everything she asks me to do and what she doesn't. For example, if a see dirty dishes and is not on my shores list I do them. Anyway, I've been feeling very tired lately since I work and then go to class. I took a 5 minute nap and she was already waking me up and arguing about why I haven't gone pick up my little sister at school. I told her I forgot and I thought my step dad would pick her up, and she started screaming that I don't do anything for her and that I always care only about myself. I'm a guy, and I started crying because I got upset at the fact that she doesn't appreciate me at all. I am so tired and I decided to get my own place since I have enough. When I told her yesterday she started saying that I was going to end up coming back and like instead of backing me up, started making me doubt about myself. Is it normal for mothers to be this way?

Question: I made my mom sad??? HELP?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 12:42 PM PST

Ok, so, I got a C- on my geometry midterm. I am 14 years old. I am a primarily straight-A student so this was equally upsetting for me. I felt really guilty about not telling my mom about it, so I did. While it felt great to get it off my chest, and know that I'm going to work EVEN harder to do well, my mom was so so sad. I feel terrible, and I don't know what to do now. Please help.

Question: How can I deal with family problems as a child btw I’m 13.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 11:58 AM PST

Question: What’s so wrong about wanting to take a trip with my boyfriend?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 11:51 AM PST

I'm 21 years old I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. Recently we planned a trip and I had asked my parents if I could go and they flat out said no. They said in their tradition they don't do that. That it is wrong. I don't see what's wrong with it. My boyfriend respects me so much he always has yet they do the impossible to ruin a situation for me. I have to ask them multiple times to let me go out with him but they always want me back no longer then 10pm. They're over protective and I feel as if my relationship can't go anywhere because of them. I just don't know what to do.

Question: When would be the right time to tell my son his 'dad' is his stepdad?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 10:51 AM PST

So I am pregnant and will give birth soon. I left my abusive ex and the biological father of my son over 5 months ago. I ended up dating soon after and fell in love with someone amazing. He accepts me and the idea of being the father figure to my son once he is born. I am not trying to be over-confident but he and I have the potential to last. He's an an amazing guy who treats me with respect and emotional care. My vindictive ex has threatened to never be around besides help with child support.

Question: Does my dad actually love me and my mom?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 09:34 AM PST

This probably sounds like a really weird question but let me explain. My dad acts like a totally different person at home. When he's with his friends he's super outgoing and talkative and is really nice, but when he's at home he rarely talks to me or my mom. He wasn't there much when I was a kid because he was always out drinking with friends and would always come home drunk even though he had a little kid. He will go places and refuse to tell us where he's going and he will go out even when my mom doesn't want him to. Its gotten to the point that my mom has broken down crying before. I have really severe anxiety in general, but its worse when it comes to people being drunk, yet my dad will still get drunk and drinks around me even though he knows how upset I get. Also he and my mom don't sleep in the same bed. He sleeps on the couch every night while she sleeps in her room. But he also is sometimes really nice to me and will bring me to friends houses and buy me lunch when im home from school. Its so confusing because sometimes he seems like he hates us and other times it seems like he at least kind of likes us.

Question: My parents found my paper shredder?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 08:48 AM PST

My parents always snoop through my stuff. They always want to know what I'm doing, and they check everything, from the car odometer to our devices to our bedsheets (to see if we fap). I sometimes doodle when I'm bored, and I get love letters from girls, and I use my cash to buy stuff like snacks and candy I don't want them to know about. I don't want my parents to find out, cuz they'll get really mad at me. So I bought a paper shredder and I shred my "artwork" and love letters. But yesterday as she was snooping thru my room, my mom found my paper shredder. Everything is shredded up, but she demanded I explain to her everything and pt the papers back together for her. What should I do?

Question: Can a travel to South Korea as a convicted felon?. i have a valid honduran passport. I was also deported from the United States.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 08:34 AM PST

Question: My mom threatened to put me back in kindergarten?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 08:21 AM PST

yesterday i had a quiz in my ap us history class. i got 70 on the quiz, and my mom found out by checking the school portal. well, she asked me how i got a 70, and i told her i got 3 questions wrong. they were about imperialism and the late 1800s. i should have gotten those right. i told her the questions i got wrong beacuse the teacher went over the quiz in class after we took it. my mom, who is asian, was very mad at me, hit me with a chair, pushed me to the ground, and said, "you retarded idiot, go back to kindergarten. wear diapers and a pacifier. you can't do anything right. i paid extra money for you to be in this ap class, and you disappoint me." then she cussed at me. well, i'm in 9th grade, i'm 15, and this is my very first ap class. last semester i got a 98 for apush on my report card, and currently my average is 96. i can't believe she treats me like this. she even emailed my teacher and asked him to send me back to kindergarten. @Pearl L: don't say call the cps or move out. she's asian, so she'll never let me move out

Question: How can I help my sister feel better ?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 08:03 AM PST

My sister hates winter unless she's able to play out in the snow she hates it. She can't be out much because of her asthma and health issues she said it's not fair almost everyone can be out in the snow but her even kids and cartoons on tv can be out even in the coldest of weather. The other day we had a big snow all her friend's kids but her was out even our cousin let her kid go out but she spoils him. Whenever they show episodes of her favorite shows when kids or the cartoons play in the snow it offends her because she can't. She was able to last week but it was a little warmer. She wishes snow wasn't so cold or she didn't have such bad health problems. She feels like the only person who can't play out in the snow. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: For six years I haven't talked to my grandson because his father (my son)told me not to, he is graduating this year and I got invited, why?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 07:59 AM PST

The reason my son forbid me to see my grandson, call him, or send him birthday gifts etc, is because I stopped talking to his daughter (my granddaughter) because she refused to help me for a few hours a week when I faced a life threatening illness. Even though I offered to pay her generously she told me she wanted a "real job", so she wouldn't help me, even for money, when jobs were hard to find. I did so much for her ever since she was born, I am still totally devastated and hurt over this after all these years. My son's attitude was if you don't talk to my daughter, don't talk to my son (he helped me when he could, but he was a 12 yr old kid back then). Now, because my grandson is graduating this year my son asked me to go to the celebration dinner and I said no. I figured why should I go after he was kept out of my life for six years, and besides, they could be looking for money to finance his college education and someone from his family (like his mother, my son's ex-wife), may be telling him to make amends with me to get my money. BTW, I don't talk to my son either, over this situation and other issues. Any comments?

Question: Scared to tell my mom my geo midterm grade?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 07:26 AM PST

Ok, so I kinda did embarrassingly bad on my geo midterm. I'm a good student who hardly ever does bad and let alone gets an A-, but I freaked out on this test and got a C-. I'm scared to tell my mom because she's a single mom with a high-stress, high-profile job and me failing will only make matters worse. I feel really guilty and terrible for hiding it but idk what to do.

Question: My brother thinks I need to grow up and says he has no interest in trying to be friends with me until I do?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 04:47 AM PST

So my older brother and I are very different people. We always have been and we have never really clicked. We have tried to get closer but I just don't think we ever will. The other day he kind of unloaded on me. I was surpirsed because we had lunch a week and everything seemed fine. "Listen I honestly don't have time for you right now. I know why you called me the other day. Mom told you to. Mom told you I am having problems at home. My wife is sick, my marriage is rocky and my business is getting sued. My head is full of my own crap and you sit during lunch and want to talk about what car you should buy. When I tried changing the subject your response was that you have a salary review coming up. You know the world doesn't revolve around you. You have a lot of growing up to do and my problems are not your problems. But you made it clear that you don't to even know what my problems are". I thought maybe he wanted a distraction. I didn't mean to offend him. It seems that we are just too different. Is there any point in continuing this charade?

Question: How permissive should I be with my 3 yr old now that there s baby b#2?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 03:50 AM PST

We just had a little girl 5 weeks ago and for the lady 2 weeks our 3 yr old boy has been waking throughout the night and getting into mommy and daddy s bed or heading downstairs to sit on the couch. When I do take him back to bed the battle is unending. He gets up through the night and sobs everytime you send him back. My mom b says, "don t be permissive" while my husband s mom says, "you ll miss the snuggles when he s older, enjoy them while you can." What should I do? Should I let him stay in our bed? If I do, how long should let this go on? If not, how do I put an end to the all night war? How did other parents handle this or similar issues?

Question: My parents robbed me of confidence as a kid by telling me certain family members did not want a relationship with me, how do I get this back?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 12:29 AM PST

By get this back I mean the confidence.

Question: When a family member dies from an outer part of the family (like a parent's cousin) when is it disloyal not to attend the services?

Posted: 24 Jan 2019 12:29 AM PST

I obsess over fear of being disloyal. At the same time I naturally cannot take off 15 times a year for funerals.

Question: What can I do?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 10:58 PM PST

My ex lives with me. We have a child and now he is paying all of the rent and cable bills because I'm on workers COMP from getting hurt at work. I can't afford to pay my own rent right now. I know you're probably saying what's the issue besides him being an ex. It's really deep. Things went south with us 2yrs ago when I was pregnant. He wasn't the best man and I spent a lot of time by myself crying and thinking. Finally had my daughter things got better but that was temporary. We ended things for good Oct 2017. I told him to move out. He said he would, still waiting a whole year later. But now I'm stuck dealing with him cause I can't pay my own rent. He has been very disrespectful to me. I told him I didn't care who or what he does just don't do it in my house. And when I go over to my moms for the weekend he invites whomever over to my house. How I know?? I've found female nails. As of recently Jan 14 and Jan 22 I found strands of black hair dyed blue. I found it all over my bathroom, in my child's tub. Then I found 6-7 strands all over my pillows in my room. I am highly disgusted...and beyond angry. My child and I sleep in that bed. I don't know what to do.

Question: What to do if not allowed to use medical coverage?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 10:50 PM PST

Hi, I'm 22 and I am under my father's insurance until I am 26. This is not a money issue, as he is well off. I am a college student living on my own, paying for school, my apartment, and my medication all on my own. I fell down the stairs nearly three weeks ago, injuring both of my ankles. I called my parents to know which hospital I should go to that will be covered by his insurance. Instead of getting an answer, my father had my mother pick me up from my apartment, (making me crawl to her car, as I could not walk.) Then, I was driven to my parents house, and forced to stay there without outside contact. My father then continued to hug and kiss me (my face) without my consent, and even would press on my injuries against my pleas. I finally got contact with a friend who came to help me move and function. Eventually she sneaked me out and I returned home to safety. So, fast forward, it's been three weeks. My ankles are still swollen, my toes are numb, lots of bruising, and freezing cold. I need medical help but he refuses to let me. What do I do?

Question: Is it normal for fathers to call their sons 'babe?'?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 10:46 PM PST

Last night while my family was having dinner, my dad asked me if I wanted to have some more chicken. He then said to me "it's all yours, babe." I felt creeped out (since I'm straight) by this. He usually doesn't show emotional affection to me. If and when my mom does this, I'm perfectly okay with it and if I ever become a father, I will never show this type of affection to my son past puberty (regardless of his age or sexual orientation).

Question: Would u kill frank Saunders aka...??

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 10:16 PM PST

Question: Help I don't want to play tennis. That's my parents dream not mine?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 10:13 PM PST

I am 16 my years old. Since I can rememberI have been force to play tennis and. I hate playing so I quit My dad and stepmom think I could go pro and I don't think I am that good plus I don't have the desire to pro. I want to be a mma fighter, I want to be a ufc Champion. When I told My dad that I wanted to be a mma fighter. He said that no daughter of is his gonna to be a getting hit in the face to make a living then my stepmom threw her two cents in just made angry. My mom got me memebership at a mma gym. My dad and Stepmom trying to force me to do something that i hate doing with all my heart is the reason why I won't have anything to do with them. I don't return their calls or texts. I haven't seen or talked to them in two months. Yesterday I got a voicemail from my stepmom she said it I didn't come to their house this weekend that they are going to take my mom to court and get full custody of me. I don't nothing do to them.i am done with my dad and stepmom.

Question: Being in underwear around siblings?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 09:57 PM PST

I have a brother and 2 sisters and this is pretty common in my house, normal or nah?

Question: Is it racist because I only my my daughters black dolls If so idc I refuse to by my daughters white dolls?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 09:18 PM PST

Question: Whats up with my mom?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 09:08 PM PST

So long story short, I'm 17 almost 18 and my parents are divorced. When I stayed with my dad for the weekend I slept over at my boyfriends on New Year's Eve and didn't tell my mom or my dad. and my mom found out somehow from social media and has not brought it up to me. I had no idea she knew, My sister told me my mom knows because my dad told her, because my grandma told him, and my mom told my her. My mom found out and asked my grandma (dad's mom) if She knew anything about me sleeping at my boyfriends. Then my grandma told my dad my mom asked about it. My mom did not talk to my dad about it and nobody has talked to me about it. I am wondering why my mom has not brought it up to me and it was a week ago. My mom is pretty strict and grounds me for lying to her anytime and I'd think she would be upset. She knows we are dating and have been for 2 years and she knows we are sexually active. She has not brought this up to me yet? I have anxiety and makes me anxious to think that she's might bring it up any time and I could be in trouble? My dad told my sister not to tell me yet but she did anyway. My dad is not mad and does not care. But I thought my mom would be? Why has she not brought it up and what is going through her head?

Question: My little sister ran away and she came home but was different?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 08:39 PM PST

My little sister is 9 years old. She ran away when my dad dropped her off. She came back after a night of looking. She was a lot more to herself and cried all night. I've been sleeping next to her since but I don't know what happened when she won't even speak about it. What should I do?

Question: What to do about brother beating me up?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 07:22 PM PST

Im 17 (his older sister) and my brother is 14, however he's over 6' tall and im barely 5'6". He constantly insults me and punches/kicks me out of nowhere, like literally walking into a room im in, calling me ugly, and punching me because he feels like it. My parents won't do anything about it except the occasional light word to him like "hey stop it", but they mainly just tell me I need to learn how to defend myself. I really don't like hurting people, it makes me extremely uncomfortable, and I don't understand why I should have to be the one defending myself everyday in my own house when my brother is the one who won't stop. I've tried talking to my parents about it seriously but it just falls back to "okay we'll try but you need to handle it yourself." I'm really at a loss for what to do at this point. I'm in online school so I don't really have other adults to go to, and im scared that if i tried to fight back my brother would escalate his levels of violence. He's threaten me with knives and stabbed me with pencils at some of his angriest moments, so honestly I'd really prefer not to see how far he'd be willing to go.

Question: Should I feel bad?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 06:43 PM PST

So my niece and her baby have been living with me,my mom,and girlfriend since Jan.6th.We have come to the point where we really don't want her here anymore.She took over our living room where we can't even walk anymore in it anymore.She has also took over our kitchen.Our kitchen is FILLED with her food.People keep giving her her stuff that she doesn't need and buying her food.We even had to throw some of our own food out.We can't even sit on our couch anymore cause that where she lives.Her mom can't take her in due to no room.My 2 other sisters say no we don't want her here.We live in a studio.They have damn houses.We're thinking of asking my 2 other sisters.So my question is is that rude when we had her in our tiny studio apt and they never took her in yet?My family always drops here off at my place without even asking us.They'll call us the day of and say we're dropping (Blank.)off in 10 min and she has a lot of stuff come and help.So is it wrong to ask other people who have HOUSES??? Thank You.

Question: What can I do to make my dad understand he needs to step up as a Father without sounding rude?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 06:27 PM PST

My dad was absent a lot in our lives growing up. Luckily for him he only has 1 son because me and my sister have had each other to grow up close with for female support. My brother never got that from my dad. And my mom never took on the dad role, in fact she kicked him a lot for being "too much" he wasn't even a bad kid just lost. My dad never taught him anything, my brother has zero life skills. I feel bad for my brother because it's not like I can teach him how to work on cars or go do manly stuff. He doesn't do house chores, never has. My dad never complained about it until as of late. My brother is now 28 and unemployed and plays video games 24/7. My dad now wants to complain about him to me!? He acts helpless like "nothing I can do, he's an adult" and I want to scream "you didn't prepare him for adult life you jackass!

Question: How do I convince my mom to take me to the doctor?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 06:16 PM PST

I ve suffered intense pain in my shoulders, back, neck, and legs since i was seven, but my mom refuses to believe me or blames it on my phone. My dad has government health care now so a visit would only cost ten dollars but she won t listen because "they ve never found anything before". How to I get her to take me?

Question: Would it be best to just stop trying to think change is possible in my situation with my family?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 05:51 PM PST

Although I forgive and respect my parents for all they could have done for me growing up. I forgive the abuse I endured from my mom, and the absense of my dads presence in my life growing up. Because of their selfishness I missed out on proper parental morals and guidance. I rise above their ignorance and fend for myself in this life and world. When I try to have conversations with them I just feel they don't give a damn about what happens to my life, they don't care to talk about my future or what I plan to do with it, and when I share my goals they dismiss me and the opportunity to reply. My mom says "oh ok" and my dad usually disagrees or stays silent and he NEVER asks me about my goals, interests, or passions. I talk about them a lot so I'mnot expecting him to remember/read my mind. My parents communication is always complaining, or about their day.. I respect them but it makes me sad they have ZERO guidance and it makes me feel like my life isn't a worth trying to be successful. I think that's a good reason to try! It just feels like a gravitational downward pull with zero support or guidance! What do I do

Question: How to tell my mum I lost my ring?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 05:05 PM PST

I was given a gorgeous ring for my 18th birthday that cost a few hundred pounds. I wore it all day every day, I only took it off to shower/wash up. It fit perfectly so I could wear it when I was dancing. Then, at a competition, one of the girls on my team (not even one of the people in charge) told me to take it out and put it in my pocket, while we were dancing it fell out and I couldn't find it again. How do I tell my mum?

Question: What to do in this situation?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 04:13 PM PST

I wanted to see one of my teacher's whatsapp status, but I ended up pressing the video call button by mistake. I took it off the moment I saw it. Now he's going to think I tried to contact him when he sees the missed call on whats app. And he'll tell my mother. What to do? I told my mother I did this by accident, and she quarreled with me but said just forget it, and delete his number so I can't do that by mistake. What to do?

Question: Should i move out at 21?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 03:30 PM PST

I know some of guys are gonna tell do what you want but hear me out. Right now i am going threw alot by that i mean right now i am living with my father and sister. the reason why i want to move out is cause i cant stand my father no more we agrue everyday i am not gonna say im a innocent person but sometimes my pops will agrue for no reason sometimes i have to tell him to be quiet. anyways the reason why i havent left is cause my mother abandoned my sister and i have no one to look out for her i always have to take care of her. sometimes she doesnt appreciate what i do for her and shes 13 years old. please guys give me advice. i know some of you guys are gonna tell its your life but i want some real advice.

Question: How do I make a change to be a good person?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 03:25 PM PST

Please help!!! I've tried everything but I'm just not a Goodman person . I want to change but every time I do something gets in my way . I always beat people up and get into fights in school . I'm not trolling either . If you have any suggestions on how to change then plz tell me .

Question: Would this piss you off, or am I being just ridiculous for being upset?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 03:23 PM PST

So my daughter who is turning four and my step nephew who is turning 10 have the exact same birthday. So of course there is an issue. At Thanksgiving, two months ago I asked my step sister if she would like to book an event place with me for both of their parties. She said no and that it was too far in advance, I said ok. Well now three days before, she decides to plan his party last minute right after my daughter s in another town. So since we are the black sheep and the outcast in that particular family, my child will suffer and no one will show up for her party since they all live in the town that the other party will be in. I m just really pissed. Do I have the right to be or am I being completely selfish.

Question: How do i stay motivated?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 03:05 PM PST

I have 2 family members who constantly criticize me, my mom is very supportive of me though. My dad and sister criticize how i dress, my sister said i look like a prostitute and my dad called me concieted. I like how i dress and i like my style, i can look good without exposing my body, what i was wearing was my gym clothes and false lashes. Im a 16 year old female, and im currently trying too be a straight A student. My dad doesnt let my sister be in the wrong, she'll try too switch her words too justify her case. I tried too talk too him about how i feel but its always dismissed, or he tells me too shut up, or he gets my sister involved just for her too justify it too. Its tough and tbh im not happy anymore, how am i gonna express that too them? I feel like my life has no meaning, i dont know why i have too try not to make any mistakes but the thing is everyone makes them! I just wish i graduated high school already..

Question: What can I do about this family issue?

Posted: 23 Jan 2019 01:57 PM PST

My sister is in her 30s with a preteen kid. She is obviously battling depression and not making good decisions. She failed to get a degree even though she is capable. The problems started as far back as childhood with my parents divorce. She and my mom were pretty awful to each other. Throughout my life, she has always been mean...I'm much closer to my cousins and friends. Since she's failed her last attempt at independence, she's been living in my house. She beats my niece and is verbally abusive. My niece, no longer is the bright cheery girl she once was, once asked me to kill her because she couldn't bare to live—she was nine at the time. My sister doesn't really leave her room, which is complete filth. You would never know from social media, she's always looks clean on IG, but in reality she usually looks like a disheveled feral woman. If you try to talk to her, she completely blows you off but she recently confided that she was broke and has no idea what she's doing. She really needs mental help but can't get medical insurance. There are many, but the most worrisome of recent bad decisions I've seen of her is that she made a new secret social media account full of thot pics and she's going to visit her ex con ex/bb daddy out of the country with my niece. Why make a bad situation worse? Why not use that money to take her kid to the doctor or dentist? Why won't my sister ask for help? Why does she insist on making everyone's life around her completely miserable?