This guy that I briefly dated years ago has started coming into my life via messamger on Facebook and he keeps messaging me day and night.. like all day. He is very flirtatious and is starting to say sexual flirty things to me. He tells me "I miss you" and "your my favorite girl". I asked him if he was happily married and he said that he would explain it to me when we go out and have a drink and wouldn't say it via message to me. He knows that I'm in a unhappy marriage and he will say that I should stay and try to make it work for the kids. I really like him.. we have a strong chemistry and when we talk we can't stop laughing and are very alike. He will bring up things from our past when we dated and he remembers every single detail about it. I don't know how much more I can take of it because I feel like he is just playing with me and will never leave his wife. So my question is why is he messaging me all day and night. Everyday and saying these things to me?

I open up to my best friend that I've been having bad anxiety lately. I needed a friend to listen to me so I can understand what is going on. I told her that I had been thinking about my life choices, my career and my love life etc. I realized I choose to be single and not open myself for any possible relationship in the future. Also, I told her that my romantic feelings to her have not changed, that I do have these desires to be with her but I feel that we are best as friends since she sees me this way which she told me before in the past. Regarding this, I said that I cherish our friendship but I had to be honest with my feelings so I can let them go...but she started acting odd. She kept telling me we are friends and she has no idea what say to me. I told her I understand that I am only letting out how I feel not pursuing her. And I wanted to talk about my midlife crisis then repeat "we're friends". Why did she make this so difficult? Now I feel like I cant open up to her anymore because she just made it worse even though she did apologize for making it awkward and taking it the wrong way.

When we visit , which isn't often bc they live kind of far and she cries the second she wakes up . She won't let me hold her when she cries and then baby cries even more . The visit is awful . My husband ask her if he could burp her bc she only burp her once and she said NO ! I am not sure what to do about her jealousy, I got her to giggle and his dad was all excited and asked her to come over and see and she just said oh of course she is happy ! She kind of push me out of the way so she can be center of attention with baby . Frankly , I am getting fed up with her

Right now, I currently live in a suburb and commute to the city for my job. I live in the suburbs because it is more affordable than city-rent, even with roommates it is a lot higher there. For the first year I've been at this job, my commute was 2 hours each way. I've now moved a bit closer to the city (my rent is now higher due to being closer) and the commute is still over an hour each way. I wake up around 5:50am, get on a 7:00am train which takes about 1 hour and then I have to walk another 20 minutes to my office. I'm trying to make it work but the commute is absolutely draining me. I hardly get to see my family or friends, I don't have enough time to devote to a relationship and I'm not home enough to have any pets (I love dogs and want to rescue one from the shelter). The problem is, is that the company itself is good and the job pays well. I've already received pay raises while being there. Most of the jobs in my field that are available in my suburb will pay about $10,000 less in salary which is a big drop. The benefits that my company offers are also really good, which I'm worried about losing if I found a job with a closer commute. I'm very torn about whether I should keep sucking up the commute for my career or find a closer job so my personal life does not have to suffer. Would you take a pay cut for a closer commute?

they broke up cuz he was flirting with her best friend. now seriously plz dont give me a lecture on how "their relationships is none of my business" i dont want none of those answers. can u give me some good ideas to convince her. i know they both miss eachother and he regrets it

i made my bio clear that im looking for a rich husband to take care of me. i have a lot of rich men in my inbox ready to meet up, i havent met one yet because i want to make sure i give the best first impression so that he will want me in his life forever. theyre all cool and nice ive facetimed with a few of them theyre welcoming to me but i just know once they realize how much of an enemployed emotional mess ia m they arent going to feel like settling down or love me. at this point im so sick of not having a partner that i feell like the only way to keep a relationship going to get get pregnant on the first date. the people i have dated and got along with dated me for a few months and then left me because of whatever reason its like impossible to make a relationship last longr than a few months and it sucks so bad because it forces me to be alone nd forces me to be stressed all the time and it sucks. i have men chase me all the time bc they admire me and then i agree to engage in discord and intimate relations and all of a sudden its randomly over because we dont have any more use for each other

I had to break up with my ex after we started seeing each other again, because nothing had changed and he use to control the relationship, because he was scared of commitment and responsibility. He is also emotionally unavailable. I tried to explain to him why I can't see him & he was hurt, but when I said I shouldn't have seen him again and trie to explain more, he told me to get lost. He was obviously upset. 10 days later he text me "sorry for being rude." Should I reply? He's 35 and immature. It feels like he wants to talk, but avoids talking about the real issues. Or maybe he just felt guilty. I hadn't seen him for a month, as he said he was too broke to see me over xmas. When he finally got paid he went to a funeral in Devon that his friend invited him to. But he said he really wanted to see me. We can't see each other in the week. we live too far apart. That's not a relationship!

The other day i was using my cousins Instagram account & i search for this girl i had a crush on back in high school. so i look her up on Instagram & when i went to her profile page she had it on private. so idk if i added her on my cousins Instagram by mistake because the next day when i went to her profile page again she changed her profile picture of herself to a art drawing. & she also deleted some of her posts. but then when i went again she put a picture of herself again on her profile picture. but i heard from a friend of mine that she made a new Instagram account & she puts pictures in her new account but she uses both of those account. so idk if its because of me

My friend had always been effortlessly thin — no matter what she ate, her weight never changed. She never did any form of physical activity either. Her body also bounced right back instantly after her first two pregnancies. After her second kid, she started to get a bit full of herself with respect to her slim figure. She began acting like an expert in diet and fitness, despite really just being lucky. And she started doing rude things like: - Commenting how other moms have no excuse for holding onto weight after pregnancy. - She started bragging about being "immune" from weight gain - When I had trouble losing pregnancy weight, she started teasing me about my love handles and tummy. However, she had her third kid about 6 months ago and is BIG now. This time was completely different than her first two. Not only did her body not bounce right back afterwards, but she's continued to pack on a lot of weight since. In total, she said she's gone from 105 lbs pre-pregnancy to 180 lbs now, which is huge on her 5'3" frame. She's really gone from being the skinniest woman I know to being one of the largest. I can't help but think that her mean comments have caught up with her. I ask this because I started thinking a couple years back that her comments were asking for bad karma and now here we are.

Even my loved ones and family do that. Although I haven't done anything rude or mean. I don't tend to say "okay" or "cool" a lot. I asked questions and they still left me on read. They are family members and friends that never reply.

Recently someone told me that they are in love with me but a part of them feels that we won t end up together. What does that even mean? It doesn t make sense to me. How can you be in love with me but don t think we will end up together.

Last night my very close guy friend and I stayed up till 5 am talking on the phone. He began asking me questions like, what my dream husband is, and what a perfect date looks like to me. Could he possibly be interested in me?

My sisters boyfriend is handsome works out regularly and takes care of himself to sometimes he dresses in t shirt and jeans or sweatpants but sometimes he wears really flashy clothes and suits my sister is the same way. They dress like pop stars like gaudy sometimes. I can't see myself doing that. My boyfriend is more of a gamer. I think they're the materialistic couple and we're more reserved

What are some signs and symptoms of a love spell?

When he kisses on my lips I feel loved and cared for, when he kisses on my breasts (happened for the first time yesterday) I felt a mixture of things, like awkward, adored, loved, desired. It felt so good but not just the feeling, also seeing him with those eyes, like he was looking at me in such an intense way made my stomach close. It wasn't butterflies, it was like a slighr punch... He kissed me like he really adored me, and sighed and complained (he said, oh god, what do I have to do?). I'm virgin and all this is new and scary and beautiful at the same time. The guy who has always loved me is kissing me. Yesterday I told him I wanted to be forever with him ans have a family with him, his eyes lit up and kissed my forehead saying that I was his love and that it will happen, but not now, in a few years, til we have everythinf figured out and a few savings.