My brother Richard wants me to start calling him BIG DICK. Can I do that even though I know that is false advertising?

We met while playing ESO. Then we started skyping and talking. We have so many things in common.. I am in love with him. I know many will say that it is not love but it truly is. Plus my parents are strict and religious and will not let me do anything or date anyone I want to. They have to like them first. He turns 18 next week and he found a job working on his uncles farm. He has the money to get me a ticket there. I turn 18 next month. But I want to be with him now. I am thinking about just leaving and not telling my mom but I am worried I will get arrested for running away.He says I should talk to them first to let them know because it is not far to just leave. Should I talk to them first and tell them I am leaving and they cannot do anything about it? Also, isn't 17 legal in Texas? @History You know nothing about me. I plan to get a nursing license and yes I have a passport. It is sad that was your only comment about how I want to use him when nothing is further from the truth. I have some advice, answer the question instead of just trying to insult me.

so this year I moved back with my mum after living with my dad for 3 years ( he lives 12 hours away from where my mum lives) and he was really hurt that I decided to move back and I understood that but I had to move back for myself and my future because where I lived didn't have any opportunities. Last year was my first year living with mum and I completed year 12 and got into uni this year. But all year we have been continuously fighting. He's still really mad at me for moving and still thinks I made the wrong decision. My mum wasn't the best parent to me in the past but I had no choice and couldn't study what I wanted to study living where my dad lives. I don't know what to do anymore, he thinks I only care about my mums feelings which isn't true, I can never keep both my parents happy. Any advice on what to say to him or what I should do? I'm out of ideas? Ps- sorry if this is confusing, there's so much more I could say but I don't wanna make this too long.

most likely, I will fail and not move on to the next grade level. I am planning on saying something like the bad news is I'm not moving on to the next grade but the good news is since I already did everything this year, next year when I redo it all, my grades should be more better. Any other ways I can tell my parents and have them not as mad? Every time I get a reading assignment, I can't finish reading all of it before time is up. Iam a slow reader and sometimes my mind wanders

I am 20 years old. My mom Came over to my apartment all upset because I am not returning or calls or replying back to her texts. I deleted my Facebook page. Last month I my boyfriend broke with me and my mom is also upset because she found out through Facebook when my ex posted a picture of him and his new girlfriend. My mom freaked out when she saw my black eye, I wouldn't tell her how I got the black she accused me of being depressed because i have been withdrawing from family and friends. She now is demanding that I move back home so she can get me help For my mental sate of mind. I am not depressed I just want to be left alone. My mom said if don't leave with her today that she have put in a mental hospital against my will.

~This contains sexual/uncomfortable content~ When I was eight my mom let one of her good friends and his eleven year old son stay with us. Me and the son were pretty good friends. We played video games together, he helped me with homework, it was like me and him were brothers. Until I started to get my urges... (Heres where it gets sexual) I would constantly flirt with him, try to touch him and try to get him to touch me. He would flirt around with me to but always decline on the touching part. I would always be persistent and annoying and I knew what I was doing was wrong because I did it when the adults weren't around. So one night me and him were alone in the backyard. I started to have my urges and ask him to do the things with me. But this time he didn't decline. I touched him and he touched me and then we finished. The next day the dad was packing there stuff. I never understood why they left. Years later my mother tells me that she was hiding away and watching the whole thing happen and she didn't stop it because she was crying so hard. Ever since that day she hated the boys guts. I tried to explain to her that I was the enabler in the situation but she thinks since I was 8 and he was 11 he should've known better. Comments?

My mother is a total narcissist, my sister her golden child is becoming one... it doesn't phase me anymore as I grew up my mother always favored my older sister and gave her special treatments. I was the black sheep who was called worthless, ugly, pathetic, idiot, even a whore at 15 years old... do they ever get their karma? Or some justice?

I'm 16 year old. I didn't go to school today. I about to call my mom and asked to come and get. If mom does come and get me I am going to text let him know that I moving in with her. I am not going to text let my stepmom know because I am sick of her telling me what to do. I'm sick of her telling me what she wants for me. My mom hasn't been in my life for a long time and I want to get know her My. Dad amd stepmom doesn't want me around my mom because she used be on drugs. When I being up wanting to she my mom to my stepmom she always says that I don't trust your mom and I don't want her hurting again. My stepmom is always telling me how my she loves me and she said feels like my mom is trying to get me to turn against. My mom really did hurt me in past by promising to spend time with me and not coming through. But i want to give her another chance

I can't stand him he's such a whiny brat he has to think he's better than the rest of us. He's the youngest of 3 yet he has to think he's the oldest has to boss everyone around. He even thinks he has to be the father for my kids he's not. He's my wife's younger brother he acts like he owns everyone he has ADHD I don't know if that has something to do with his behavior or not I bet he doesn't rest his own family that way knowing him he probably does. He and his husband have been married for a few years they have a son he's the same age as my daughter they get along well. I try to ignore him but it's hard too especially when he's living with us most of the time. He's so annoying I don't know wether to hate him or love him. I been with my wife 10 years we got 2 kids soon to be 3 so I'm not leaving her. What should I do about him ?

My brother became heavily addicted to pills when he was about 19. My dad had him selling his weed, a half and half bushiness deal. I went with him one time and he was trading the weed for pills and snorting them. I told my father, who did nothing. Two years ago my brother killed himself and I can't forgive my father, who i feel enabled him to find whatever drugs he pleased. What would you do and am I wrong for thinking this?

My brother became heavily addicted to pills when he was about 19. My dad had him selling his weed, a half and half bushiness deal. I went with him one time and he was trading the weed for pills and snorting them. I told my father, who did nothing. Two years ago my brother killed himself and I can't forgive my father, who i feel enabled him to find whatever drugs he pleased. What would you do and am I wrong for thinking this?

My dad's been giving me copious amounts of weed for the last 7 years. Cool and all, but i feel he doesn't care about the long term effects or how it personally effects me. Whenever i date and i tell him about what happens, he always degrades me and takes the person side who ghosts or insults me. He could care less if I shower, take care of myself, or have a future. When I ask him he gets angry and lies about literally anything.

I'm 19 years old, working full time, and going to college full time maintaining a 3.8 GPA, don't do drugs or drink. I love the idea of independence and I told my parents I'm moving out. Of course, they did not like the idea. I'm moving in with 2 other girls and 3 guys (one being my boyfriend, who my parents think is just a friend). We're all great friends, and I'm ready to take this big step. My dad has threatened to stop talking to me if I make this decision. I can't help but feel terrible but all of my life I've been controlled by my super religious parents. Should I try to talk to my dad and reason or should I let it go?

I just realized how often I tell my parents I love them. It's pretty commonplace in my dad and my mom's house holds. "Good night, love you." "Drive safe, love you." "Have a good night at work, love you", etc. When I was younger I couldn't fathom once telling my parents that I loved them. I'm 21 now and I'm not sure when it started. For me it's almost compulsive. It's not like "if I don't say it and they die then I'm gonna regret it," but it's just something that i say so often that it's like a ritual. I think my mother feels the same way, and I believe a lot of my obsessive compulsive behaviors were given to me by her. So that is why I believe she says it back. Obviously also because she loves me. But the love is implied and it feels like there's no need to say it so much. But it still feels like there's a need somehow. It goes that way when I say it to my father, but sometimes I think that I'm not really the son he wanted and I think he knows that I think that so he says that he loves me so often to reaffirm his alleged love for me. (That got a little deep but I didn't know how else to put it. Don't read into it, I'm handling it just fine.) Anyway, how often do you say to your parents that you love them? Is this something childish that I'm holding onto?

So due to a complicated weird family thing and excessive reproduction my siblings have other siblings that they count as family and together we add up to 11-13 kids, should I have my own point of view and ignore this or should I just live with the fact and don't care?

I'm meeting with my pastor on Sunday to discuss the anger I'm feeling towards God about my mother passing away and really just a lot of things in regards to that. He said his wife will be joining us, as she just lost her grandmother. I get it, but I don't. Losing a grandmother is NOTHING like losing a mother, no matter how close they were. What do you think? Do you think it's just as hard to lose a grandparent as it is to lose a parent? I have zero parents and zero grandparents. Both of my parents are in Heaven. My mom's mom and dad's dad passed before I was born. My mom's dad was an evil human being who passed away when I was 7 and I had nothing to do with him. My dad's mom was a b*tch who wanting nothing to do with us after my dad passed away when I was 8. I personally don't understand why people care when their grandparents die. cherrybalm, you're right. It is harsh. I don't mean to be, I just don't understand because my only two grandparents that I had, were awful. This woman is only 6-7 years older than me, by the way. She has a good relationship with her mother from what I can tell based on FB posts, but apparently she saw her grandmother as a mother figure as well. -shrugs- I am bitter and I know it. My mother carried me in her womb for 9 months. We were inseparable for 27 years. It's hard not to be angry. William, she has a mother who she is seemingly close with. Thank you for your prayers. I feel bad that I feel the way I do and I'd never say it to the pastor's wife. I just don't think anybody could understand what it's like to lose a mother until they do. Losing my mother has been so much harder than losing my father, which I was a daddy's girl for those 8 years I had him. 27 years with my mother and she died unexpectedly, it's been hard. choko_canyon, I post all my questions (and majority of my answers) as Anonymous. I don't want to be easily identified.

Everyone else was going so I didn't want to be only one who didn't go up but I was crying too much to say goodbye like everyone one else was. Now I feel sad because I never said goodbye or I love you or anything. How can I get over those feelings?

My daughter is dating a Latino man 7 years younger than her (we're asian) he's a very handsome young man, he excercises at a gym and it shows. He's very smart when you get to know him. He's very different from my other daughters boyfriend who is white who dresses like a nerd and is skinny but also smart. This guy dresses like a rapper and sometimes in suits. He's very young but I think he thinks I don't like him

My sister insists on her 25yo son living with her. And running after her needs. No, she's not disabled and requires no assistance. Shes divorced and has no friends. Extremely difficult to deal with... She's scared to be left alone so finds every possible reason to make her son stay with her. I don't know how to get through to her that she's ruining his life. Please help

I know it sounds strange but hear me out please. I recently walked in on my mom and dad sexing and ever since then I've been fantasizing about me joining them and having sex with my dad and mom. Of course I won't tell them about it. I mean I wouldn't mind joining them but I don't want to make them freaked out if I tell them. Then again what if they want me to join in? Idk what to do. I've had sex with my brother every night for 3 weeks so far after I caught him jacking to me playing with myself. How can I bring this up in conversation with them to see if a 4sum is a possibility. Or even a 3sum. Or just me and my dad having sex.

I'm wondering where the family went after their son died, as they sold their home and left the area a few months later. I wanted to put up something for Greg Curry on his memorial, because we were classmates. And I never got to go to his funeral/memorial to say goodbye. I was also trying to find on face book the youngest son, Graham who was 4 when his brother died. I am not sure if Greg was buried in Columbus, Indiana or if the family took him another place. Thanks in advance for your help. I appreciate it.

Hi I'm 18 and I'm just wondering if I'm the only one who doesn't really trust they parents? I wanna say one of the reasons is growing up I was beat for the smallest of things ex:crying , whining, being annoying stuff like that but some beatings we're too much one left my leg dripping blood and having big purple brusies. I was 8 but IDK I feel like I deserved it but sometimes I feel it was uncalled for anyways I like smoking weed and drinking but I don't ask for a beer for my biggest fear of rejection. I freeze whenever it happens so I just end up stealing beer or alcohol and been caught and feel like **** about it but then again I think it's ok to have one beer at 18 . Also I don't trust them because they ha e humiliated me in front of people if I did something wrong for ex today. .y Dad's friend came over had a 24 pack and I ended up taking two and my mom caught me I begged her to wait til the guy left but no made a whole scene flipped my room and had the drunk guy tryna letcure me . Am I crazy or am I right in a way?

I am 15 years old. I have known my stepmom for 2 years she doesn't have any kids and we do get alone. Now she is laying law down on me. She made my dad take the lock off my dad. My curfew was 11pm now its 9pm. She is checking my texts and messages on Facebook. I haven't say anything to my dad or her and I am not going to I just like going with the Flo. I like my stepmom and I want my dad to be happy. I keep telling my sister to stop making a big deal about the our stepmom's rules. My sister is 17 years old and hate our stepmom, she wants to run our stepmom off. I meant my stepmom made my dad take the lock off my door. My sister freaked out when took her lock off her door. She slapped Our stepmom

raised my nephew since he was one now he's 10 almost 11. I've put mydating life, social and everything on hold for him. I'm 28 and don't have kids just graduated college after having to stop multiple times. When he was 10 months, my sister gave him to my Mom and my Mom got married and left him with me and vanished. I was in college and had to drop out work 3 jobs just to survive. Meanwhile his mom kept any government assistance and tax benefits. He's become very defiant, always lying and very unappreciative. I get a call from school everyday about his behavior. I asked him last night was he happy with me he said no he just had no where better to go. I try to give him the best life but not spoiling him. He's upset because I won't buy him a iPhone X and because he has chores everyday. I'm just at my breaking point. I feel like I'm failing him. I've gave him all of me but it's never enough. I talk to him, try to make him not be so materialistic. When he get in front of others he shows out and talk back.Would I be wrong to give him back to his mom and go on with my life. Of course I would always be there for him.

I'm the youngest child in family and I need my parents help but they don't want to help me money wise.

So my dad was friends with an 'Irish man' 20yrs ago then over some apparent money getting stolen which wasnt my dad. the 'Irish man' stabbed him 12 times and my dad was 1mm& 2 minutes away from dying but was saved by paramedics.. when my mom told me the story she said the mans name, what the man looked like and his specific accent & my new neighbour has the same name. Looks like how my mom described him. he's got the same northern Irish accent & he's already had an argument with my other neighbour and pulled a knife out on him before (which surprisingly my other neighbours been stabbed before too so he just pulled out the biggest knife in his house and said if he got him he's gonna get him back twice as hard... basically) I'm worried that this man could be the man who stabbed my dad 20 years ago & if so I'm alot bigger and stronger than my dad (also been frikkin stabbed myself because this shitty town I live in) but what would I do should I ask my mom if it's the same man and do something about it??

I tried using my strength to bust out of my mom's basement it's not working. I'm locked in like a prisoner.

1. Grown man 2. Haven't had a stable job for over 15 yrs 3. Gets Drunk everyday and curses out family members 4. Father of two and lives with family but doesnt do anything to support it (providing food and shelter) 5. Lets mother (his ''wife'') do all the hard work as he sits around and gets drunk everyday. 6. Arrogant, never think he's wrong, and only cares about himself.

it says it in the ten commandments honor thy mother & father but I dont know what to do? My father wants me to live on my own in a house which is something I always wanted but my mother wants to help me find a apartment. It's a struggle because when I talked to her about me living on my own to what I wanted she doesn't think I can do it and she thinks I dont care about her or what she thinks anymore. She competently blew up on me even when I told her how honest I was about it and I didn't tell her behind her back. She was always the first person I came to about it. now she thinks I hate her when I love her so much. I feel like im stuck in the middle..

I don't see her very often. I lived with her when I was very little but can't remember much of it. She'd throw big house parties, a bunch of weirdos would come over. Normally one would babysit me and my brother. I don't think she knew them well. My older brother often got abused by the babysitters. One ended up rapeing him when he was like 7. My mom would get really angry sometimes. She'd hurt herself, she use to cut herself in front of my brother when she was upset. Being a toddler at the time I copied her. When I got upset I'd hurt myself, started as hitting myself and as I got older I would cut and burn myself. She did drugs and ended up with my brothers and I in foster care. The youngest got adopted and I can't contact him until he's older. My other brother and I ended up with our aunt, later he moved to his dad's and I moved in with my dad. My mom would go years without contacting me, few times she did when I was little ended up with my dad picking me up early cause she'd get caught with meth or cocaine. I always felt bad growing up because people would say " oh could you get your mom to sign this? " " Why don't you ask your mom for help?" It made me angry as a kid cause most kids had a mom who was around. She's off drugs ( I think) and lives with her friend a few states away. I don't know how to feel about her. I mean, I got a few good memories with her. But I feel like she didn't want me.

I wanted to find out some info to get some clarification my roommates kids up stairs think of me as there older brother is there something wrong with that? they are family to us since we move in with them just wanted to figure out it started a fight between us and wanted to get to the bottom of it

How can a mom say this? Is that even normal??! I know my mom is going through something really difficult right now, but is that an excuse to say that? Then I said I will not go pick up the delivery and she can go pick it up herself because of talking to me this way. She said she does not care and will go herself and that she does not feel guilty for what to say and does not have a need to apologize.

My mom just came home after going missing for a few hours, looking as if she'd been crying, claiming that she is going to stay at a hotel for a few days to clear her mind. My parents have been having a few arguments here and there, more often lately. My mom has been acting weird for a long time. She left just about an hour ago and my dad came home just now. I don't know what to do with myself. I'm scared, I really hate the thought of them splitting up. Btw, I'm 15.

I miss my daughter. She was a real fatty, and I kept letting her know by calling her "Whopper Pounder" cuz of all the Burger King she ate (my other fave nickname was "The King"). But she got tired of this, and after training in boxing with my old buddy Ralph, she got buff and beat the **** out of me and ran away. That was seven years ago. Four weeks ago my banging hot anorexic wife have me an ultimatum, that if my dogter (not a typo, she looked like an obese pog) didn't return, she wouldn't let me have sex with her while she reads the New Yorker. But I can't stand the sight of my whopper eating DOGter! What to I do? How do I get her back and make her not so fat?! help daddy horny!!!