So my roommate is ALWAYS playing League of Legends with her friends, and she s really loud too and doesn t use headphones so I can hear her friends. I ve asked her before to please be quieter or if she can use headphones and she does but only that one time, and I don t want to keep asking over and over again. honestly most of the time I don t mid but sometimes it gets really annoying, especially if I m just trying to work or take a nap or something, it s like there s never a quiet moment from the time she s up to the time she goes to bed. If she s home all day then it will be for at least 10 or 12 hours. She doesn t even stop to eat really, just eats in between games. Her and her friends are super loud because like many people they get very passionate when they are playing. If it s just my roommate playing it s fine because she doesn t really talk to anyone but even outside our room I can hear it. We re pretty close and are planning on moving together but I don t know what to do because she has every right to play with her friends and our apartment is small so it s not like there s somewhere else she can go. Any suggestions? I don t want to live by myself either, and would prefer to live with her, it s just this one thing and she s been playing a lot lately so it s been getting to me a bit, especially since I can hear her through my headphones unless I turn them up super loud.

My friend doesn't have a car. She has to catch rides to work. She also has to catch rides getting home. Since March 2018 i have been taking her to work at least once a week. Sometimes more. I also work a full time job and sometimes i have to get up at 4:45 to take her to work and go back home and then get back up at 6 am to take myself to work. Sometimes I'll be so tired that i just give her my car to take herself to work and run her errands and then she'll just bring my car back when she's finished with work and other things etc. but sometime ami don't feel like taking her to work or I'm tired or i want to do other things and i feel bad but it's been almost a year what should i do?

I am an adult now but when I was 14 I was 6' and had a very deep voice and looked like I was in my 20's, 18 at least. First I met one girl because she laughed really loudly at a dumb joke I made and then asked started talking to me. After she got my attention her and her friend giggled and she popped out and said boo. Then she began trying to find any excuse to talk to me and butt herself into my conversations. She got red around me while talking, she made no eye contact while talking and starred off into space smiled and didn't stand still. She just found any excuse to talk to me and got giggly around me and just laughed @ everything. I minded my own business and she giggled and said "CJ". At first her friend wanted nothing to do with me. Her friend just asked me to be around them and found any excuse to and her friend found out information about me. The friend found any excuse for me to be around them. The 1st one wanted me as close as possible to her for a picture and had to be between me and her friend. These two girls both made eye contact and smiled at me a lot they always smiled. They laughed at dumb stuff I said to them and they'd defend, her friend told on someone because he said dumb stuff to us. Her friend offered me a ride when it was unnecessary. They both found any excuse to be around me and the friend did too she tried to get me alone. They both complimented me a lot and giggled said my name or said "You've been inappropriate recently" if I did something bad

Any ideas on what I can give my friend as a late Xmas gift ? D: I crossed out makeup cause she has a lot lol .

Well, I know its not okay but its weird. I'm 14 and just started my freshmen year of high school and it sucks. But lunch is the only thing I look forward to because I can eat without feeling like I'm being watched. Its quiet and I can finally relax without being so anxious about something. I hate the cafeteria because I don't have any friends and it's really hard for me to talk to people. So I used to sit alone and pretend like I'm texting people on my phone. Seeing everybody else with friends and people to laugh with makes me feel worse. I've been eating lunch in the bathroom since 8th grade :/ I hate my anxiety and I know I'm not helping my situation by avoiding it. I can't help it. I wanna talk to my parents about it but they already think something is wrong with me and so do my teachers. I don't know what to do and I also don't want the rest of high school to be like this. Middle school was just like this and I don't want a repeat of it either.

So my husband had plans to watch a football game. I initially didn't go because it's usually only guys and I don't watch football anyway, so I assumed it was him hanging with the guys. But what happened was two of our mutual (female) friends were there with them at his friend's house and I wasn't invited. So THIS is what has upset me about it even more: The day of the game, we were running errands. I noticed he was texting profusely all day. At first, I just assumed he was texting his friends about food to grab for their get together. Then he joked "I'm playing matchmaker for our friends." So he was texting our mutual friend who is a female. My first thought was "why didn't she ask me instead?" My other thought was "why is he texting her back and forth all day and why does he care so much about 'playing matchmaker?'" I later saw their conversation because he agreed to let me look. He genuinely felt like he had nothing to hide. The messages went something like this: HER: Heyyy!! Where are you watching the game? HIM: Lol my friend Bob's house, you probably remember him. You got plans yet? HER: None so far HIM: Yeah it will be me and my friends that you and your friend inquired about. You down? You can ride with me. I am extending my official invitation if that helps. And basically, he kept egging her and her friend to come because of HIS friends that they took liking to. BUT he offered to give them a ride and ugh... It all just seems so unnecessary! Is this a little off?

Before this year, I had four friends. We recently all became friends with another girl who was friends with one of my friends. Let's call the new friend Anne. Anne became friends with all of us and it was good for a month or two. Until she started calling my friend a spoiled rich kid. They got into a fight and now they hate each other. Then she got into a fight with 2 other of my friends for no reason. I know that Anne is a good person and can be nice but she is ruining my friendships because I'm still friends with her. What should I do?

Also they're under 18 years old. I talked with my parents and they won't let my friend stay at my house.

There's a girl that was my best friend, but on New Year's Eve, she completely bailed on me and was rude and mean about it. i was super upset, and didn't want to talk to her and I hoped that she would realize that what she did was wrong and would reach out to me to apologize. Well, she hasn't yet and it's been 3 weeks. I want things to be good between us and I'm ready to forgive her, so I want to text her. What do I say? It's not like I'm the one apologizing so I don't know how to phrase a text.

Im in high school got no friends and my peers tell me im ugly. I got 3 friends on Instagram while everyone else has over 1000...ive heard ppl say. O no hes ugly dont talk to him many times. I see all the attractive ppl going out, filling their college applications and living a full life. Im not really good at anything and ppl tell me im just not worth it. Does this mean I shouldnt aspire to be anything?

Some weeks ago i saw a familiar face that was the guy's friend that I've seen and he was at my neighborhood liquor store and he ask me did i need anything and i said no but do you think he is using his friend to spy or do you think he was just in the neighborhood?it felt weird because that was the only time i seen him at the liquor store.

They are unmotivataded, depressed. Every time I meet them I have to listen to their problems. And they do nothing to change their lives. I really love them they are good people but I'm tired. What should I do?

Hi Wondered if you wanted to go somewhere for a week and wanted a friend what could you do and how would you ask around see who you know is free Thanks

They are unmotivataded, depressed. Every time I meet them I have to listen to their problems. And they do nothing to change their lives. I really love them they are good people but I'm tired. What would you do? Should*** **** the would was the right one

First off I want to make it clear that my parents have Yahoo accounts, so I m using a friend s. So recently my parents and I haven t been seeing eye-to-eye on some things, and I know they re disappointed with me in the past few years. They ve always been strict, and I know they only wanted the best for me, but I often feel overwhelmed. I know some will say to talk to them about this, and I ve tried but according to them I m "too soft" and I "don t know anything". Like I cant imagine them not rolling their eyes when I tell them how I feel. Now, all they ve wanted for me was to go to college, but I ****** that up and forgot about the deadline and now my classes have been dropped. Classes are starting tomorrow and I don t know what to do. I know I should come clean and tell them, I also know I should start looking for another job (since I won t be in school), but I fear they may kick me out. My parents were always strict on me so I don t have any friends, only acquaintances who are dealing with their own stuff. I m really lost right now, can anyone give me advice?

She has been my best friend ever since we were in preschool... but I feel something is wrong with the relationship and always has. She has always had everything she's wanted (she's an only child) so she's a little spoiled... we always watch whatever movie she wants, do whatever she wants and it's never been fair. Also we were at a movie one time and I was texting one of my other friends when it was over and she demanded to see my phone.. to which I finally stood up to her and said no (I never want to be mean with people so I just get bullied into things without realizing it.) I've always known she has been a little jealous of me because I have so many friends and she only has a few... and I've always stocked with her through everything for years when she's had no one to sit with at lunch I always sit with her instead of my friends taht actually care about me. And whenever I do decide to sit or spend time with them she gets super jealous and "sad" trying to make me feel guilty for not staying with her. But she tricks people SOOOOOOO easily, she seems like such a sweet person so that I seem like IM the bad person for leaving such a nice person alone. She is also super minipulative, she picks the strategic moments to bring me down right after she knows I'm in a great mood. She points out my flaws straight to my face (she has no freaking filter in her questions).. She is totally not supportive of me, and clearly doesn't want the best of me.

I am definetly not a popular person, but I am always super nice to everyone I see. I might just have a resting b*tch face or maybe it's because I'm not popular but I don't understand why people get so idk how to put it but just an obvious unliking. I'm not even a bad person, I'm good and focused at school, have a great group a friends, but the other people just hate me so deeply.. maybe because I'm shy? Does anyone have tips on how I should act? Maybe what I'm doing wrong, AM I doing something's wrong?? Im so confused and often I come home sad because of the treatment when all I did was be nice.

I have an extremely low tolerance of when people lie to me. I know it and I often confront them. It's easy to catch someone red handed... Of course they don't like it! Recently I try to make myself just walk away and stop dealing with those people. I'm not sure it works well as they start questioning what happened. What should I do??? I deal with lots of different people on a daily basis due to the nature of my work - lots of customers... new, returning, close and very special

I'm moving this summer and I wanna know how to adjust and make new friends.

So I have this group of friends that I really like. and a few months ago 2 of my friends started dating. lets just call them E and F. well E moved schools but they were still dating. a few months pass by and F wants to break up because she had fallen out of love with E. A, E s best friend who still goes to our school was against it. She doesn t want F to break up with E. well F breaks up with her anyway and they got into a big argument. A is also good friends with C. C was best friends with F but now since F broke up with E they aren t friends anymore. A and C left the group. F is distancing herself from everyone. Me and a 2 others who are constantly being asked to pick a side are really upset with all of our close friends leaving. I miss the way my friend group was. I know I can t fix anything but can anyone give advice on what to do now? I also wanna say thanks to who ever just read this long af paragraph. sorry it's so long.

So my friend has been dealing with some c.u.n.t's at her work and has had every right to be by what i've heard. One girl proved she was one and HR got involved, she ended up quitting the next day (yay). Unfortunately, the girl that quit was doing other girls dirty work because they started trying to push my friend out the door but she is a tough chick! Anyway, I was having an off day when my friend was now telling me someone has been giving out her personal number to the men at her work and spreading rumours that she's sexually into these guys and they're all coming up to her at work asking her inappropriate non work related questions and remarks. Now that I type this out I feel horrible. I didn't listen to her to understand only to reply, "Is it really that bad???" She hasn't talked to me since. I haven't bothered to reach out to her either.

Im moving to a new school, im a girl, and im starting highschool at a new school. How do i become popular

after you think they needed time to cool down.. If they didn't block you on social media but the last time you "talked" it was butting heads over the friendship falling apart. If one friend were to say to you, "I'm sorry but you haven't been supportive of me like I have to you so effortlessly. You haven't even tried to make an appearance in my life, like I have with yours. I've asked you a lot to meet up in my area and you can't even do that." I was offended at how true she was and threw it back in her face, vaguely, all I could come up with was "you're one to talk" now I feel bad. I also messaged her sister who isn't involved in this to "pass a message along" saying "we had a fight, can you tell her I love her" I don't want people to think i'm a bad friend lol

I feel no matter how good I try to be to her, she eventually always pushes me away and yet there seems to be nothing I can do. She obioously has issues and I'm starting to think that she doesn't know what she wants in life. I tried to tell her to go into counseling but won't listen. What am I to do? Why is she so typical?