Friends: Question: Really want to become friends with two girls in my class but dont feel like it will happen? |
- Question: Really want to become friends with two girls in my class but dont feel like it will happen?
- Question: Why do people assume i like them???
- Question: My childhood best friend is now a cheating whore should I stop being friends with her HELP?
- Question: Am I being paranoid?
- Question: I've been hooking up and having sex with this older man, but now another guy asked me to hangout?
- Question: I miss high school?
- Question: I should just like it right since im not really friends with them?
- Question: Why did I dream this?
- Question: I need advice on drama between me and a girl?
- Question: So literally my friend asked me if she can borrow 40$ but I remember letting her borrow 5$ and she hasn’t paid me back, it’s been 3 months.?
- Question: Best friend ignored me for months?
- Question: How can I tell when someone is dodging hangouts with me and not just busy or stressed or having big life stuff come up?
- Question: Can you suggest any ways of meeting new people?
- Question: Am I a Hypocrite?
- Question: How can I trick people into loving me?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: Would this be weird to send to my friend?
- Question: The odd one out?
- Question: I was arguing with my parents and the next door neighbor saw it?
- Question: Trading something doesn’t mean have does it?
- Question: Bad friends ! What to do?
- Question: Do these people want to be my friends or do they just pity me?
- Question: Why have I gotten so upset lately?
- Question: Hello, thanks for answering my question about me and my friend today. But I i replied and I need you to answer sorry and thank you?
- Question: What do I need to do if my friend is being distant, trying to avoid me, and talk to me less?
- Question: Is she criminal?
- Question: I don't hw to get friends?
- Question: There s a girl I can t stand, but she thinks I m her friend.?
- Question: Old friend issues?
- Question: Would you feel some type of way about your friend never liking your Instagram pictures?
- Question: Is it weird i hang out with an older crowd?
- Question: Help. i feel guilty?
- Question: My friend acts different around her other friends?
- Question: Dropping a friend? Opinions needed?
- Question: Does this seem reasonable to you?
- Question: Why not just meet at school?
- Question: Should I stop talking to this friend?
- Question: Going from being the popular kid; to the loner. (Tips?)?
- Question: Are people friends the each other just so they can kill them in the future?
- Question: So i'm in Paris for a month for my school, and i found out that my only friends here are keeping me around as a "pity friend", any advice?
- Question: How to make friends in university if you're socially and physically inadequate?
- Question: Is There an app i can use to talk to my mentees without giving them my phone number?
- Question: Is it normal to not want to be friends with the person I'm also rooming with.?
- Question: It's constant texting in a friendship normal?
- Question: Lost all my friends?
- Question: How can I make friends?!?!?
- Question: Fallen out with my friends?
- Question: I feel lonely social anxiety?
- Question: Is it weird to give someone you barely know a card, chocolates, and money for their birthday?
- Question: So I sent some packages to my friend to avoid my parents discovering what I ordered. Now my friends mom is asking questions. What do I say?
- Question: My friend sounds like a screaming frog?
- Question: Why did he say this?
- Question: Have you ever quit acknowledging an unfriendly acquaintance and later become friends?
- Question: I've been hooking up and having sex with this older man, but now another guy asked me to hangout?
- Question: Help!!! I like bullying people?
- Question: How to deal with coworker who snitched on me?
- Question: Why does he never hug me or tell me he loves me?
- Question: Why do they treat me like a terrible person?
- Question: How to get over jealousy and inferiority complex? I am jealous of a guy that has lighter skin and is better looking than me.?
- Question: My friends don't talk to me anymore?
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:24 PM PST the reason i say that is because i dont have the confidence to walk up to them and say hi. also because i feel like they might reject me if i say hi to them. the thing is the two girls i want to be friends with want to be friends with everyone. |
| Question: Why do people assume i like them??? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:23 PM PST people have been telling other people that i like them for no reason. Like yesteray this guy asked me for a pencil and i gave him one and today someone told him i liked him. I dont like him and i never spoke to the guy before except when he asked for the pencil. And another time this guy sat next to me and i was minding my own business and someone tap the guy and told him i liked him and the guy says "i dont like her but she can like me" and the guy who told the guy i liked him started laughing and says "ahahaha you like him" I was talking to my guy friend and he asked for a hug and at lunch someone told him i liked him, my friend told me someone asked him if i liked him. Theres many more times, im quiet and i dont speak to anyone. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:21 PM PST Ok so one of my best friends from elementary school lets just say totally when in a different direction I was going I'm 23 & shes 24 I've had my medical job for two years now have my own savings , car & no kids but she hasn't had a job since we graduated high school in 2012 & that was McDonald's the only thing she's been doing for the past 5 years is live with her boyfriend who she didn't even want to marry but she accepted the engagement and still went along with it made him make they're account a joint account so she could use his money (even tho he's only a truck driver) so basically all she's done is live off a guy & sat at home all day just playing on social media anyways they recently had a baby but since the baby came he started making her do everything & controlling then one day she gets sick of it & leaves her "fiancé " to be with her old ex from high school who use to cheat on her & disrespect her and her baby daddy and her ex use to be friends and now she lives with the guy am I wrong for not respecting her as a woman anymore ? It's like she hopped from one guys house to another It's like she can't survive without a man what should I do In this situation I'd hate to cut her off but I'm so disappointed in her high school like decisions & mindset help 😩 |
| Question: Am I being paranoid? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:00 PM PST There's this college friend who I get the feeling sometimes doesn't like me. I mean we hang out often and usually if I'm too hammered he has no problem letting me sleep at his place and I'm free to chill after. Also, if we talk on the phone it can often be for like 30 minutes(which is not common for this day and age). Also a few weeks ago, he hit me up to check out his new apartment and the next day it snowed and let me crash there as long as I needed to and said he wouldn't let me leave because it was dangerous. It's just that sometimes he flakes now and then and isn't the best at answering his phone. The thing is though I realized is that he never answers his phone in general. Like I've seen him ignore calls from his parents, gf, other friends, etc. He also said I'm his only college friend who met his brother. I'm being paranoid right, he seems like a good friend, right. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:52 PM PST Ok so I've been hooking up and having sex with this older guy who lives in another state. We've only hooked up a few times though I'm 30 and he's 43. He doesn't have his own place and he's been living out of his car. I send him money sometimes to help him and for his services. This 30 year old guy at a store that I go to sometimes asked for my number awhile ago and today he called asking to hang out. I told him I would think about it I'm rushing anything with him though. He knew that I had gone to school for Massage Therapy. So he's been asking for a massage but he wants to go out to eat or something. Anyway should I stop talking to the older guy? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:45 PM PST I'm 22, just about to get my bachelor's degree and start my dream carreer but I suddenly miss highschool. I visited my home town and saw my old highschool and remembered how much fun and friends I had. It's only been your years since I left but I miss it. I wish I could go run with my track & field team, goof with my best friend after school, chill in the library with my friends, go to class and learn from my amazing teachers. I even had a great lunch lady I would laugh and joke with. Is it weird for me to miss Highschool this soon? Thank you. |
| Question: I should just like it right since im not really friends with them? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:42 PM PST so i follow these two girls from my class at school on instagram and i heard them talking about their birthdays being this week tomorrow. i am not friends with them but i follow them on instagram. so i should just like it right not wish them a happy birthday since we arent friends in real life |
| Question: Why did I dream this? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:29 PM PST I had a dream about my friend's wife telling me my friend has a big dick. Why did I dream this? Not a hoe, but thank you! |
| Question: I need advice on drama between me and a girl? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:22 PM PST At the start of the school year, there was a new girl "Sara" that rode my bus. I sat next to her to be friendly, and she seemed nice enough. I wasn't interested in being good friends with her, just a friendly face on the bus. Sara was nice but we had different interests and friend groups. But she always complained about having no friends. I asked her who she wanted to be friends with, and she said my name. It was strange that she would tell me to be friends with her, even though I basically was. A few weeks later, she was walking behind me and I jokingly said "Stop following me". On the bus minutes later, she wouldnt let me sit next to her and verbally attacked me the whole ride. She called me a "f***ing *****", and other harsh words and I didn't do it to her because I knew that I could get in trouble if I was involved in the name calling too. After that, I didnt continue being friends with her. My parents told me to block her on social media and stop talking to her. I even stopped riding the bus to avoid her. After a few months, I accidentally unblocked Sara, and she requested to follow me on Instagram. I let her, and followed her back. She liked all my posts, which led me to thinking that she wanted to be friends again. My mom told me to let go of this and be friendly to her, but not friends. I don't know what I should do. Im not sure if I fully forgive her, but I want to stop avoiding her and having to worry about this everyday. Advice? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:21 PM PST It's been three months since she hasn't paid me so I just let it go... but 40$?? What should I do? |
| Question: Best friend ignored me for months? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:15 PM PST Close friend didn't answer my 4 texts for 3 Months. Now he apologized and said that he was busy because of his studies,but I always see him online in Facebook commenting Pubs? Is it okay if feel I can't forgive being ignored like that? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:06 PM PST I'm super into not taking things personally, like realizing that things happen in the lives of others that can make them flake or act weird and it's not about me. But, how can I tell? I don't want to be all, "Hey, are you avoiding me?" and I don't want to be all, "Hey, me again! AGAIN! Wanna go to this show?" You know? I just keep inviting my good friend and his wife--both seem into me and my husband, AND he just called me one of his best friends in an introduction--to do stuff. Sometimes they don't even respond to say they can't make it. So...am I good? |
| Question: Can you suggest any ways of meeting new people? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:04 PM PST To make friends as an adult. Money is very tight so it limits things like finding new hobbies. I've no kids so nothing like playgroups. I'm not religious so no churches etc. I go to the gym but you don't talk to people at the gym, you're just there to work out. I volunteer but not many people really suitable to make friends with and I'm mostly there to work (trainer, peer support for ex-offenders, admin in an office) so not much opportunity to sit around talking to other workers. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:49 PM PST So this may sound selfish but I don't know. Every year for the last 3 years me and my two best friends have had this tradition of giving each others gifts on our birthdays. The problem is that I have always given them gifts and they have gifted each other, but when my birthday arrives they always give me an excuse. I have never received a gift from them, not even a letter. And I know that not everyone has the facility to make a gift but I'll honestly settle for a paragraph and I don't even receive that. Am I being a hypocrite? I know that birthdays have nothing to do with gifts but sometimes they even forget to congratulate me and ended up doing it the next day. I just feel bad sometimes because we been friends for more than 5 years and it just hurts. We are on our first year of college. |
| Question: How can I trick people into loving me? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:48 PM PST |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:40 PM PST My good long time friend i talk to every day, just lost one of her bestfriends. She has been extremely upset and devestated. I haven't talked to her all week, only one time as she is going through a lot and does not want to talk to anyone really. Shes very depressed and ai've tried to be there for her but nothing is really working even thought i know nothing will fully heal her.. should i try calling latwr? Just to check on her or no? |
| Question: Would this be weird to send to my friend? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:38 PM PST My very good friend lost a childhood, LONG time friend. She is extremely devestated and depressed right now. Would it be weird if I had a tiny vase of flowers delivered to her house? We live in seperate towns. I havent talked to her as she really doesn't want to talk to many people right now.. what do you think? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:30 PM PST So let me start by saying that I am not great at talking to people. People get bored of me very easy and I am never a first choice. Recently I have joined high school gymnastics. Now let me tell you, I feel like ****. Its been a little bit into the season and everyone on the team are close and love eachother and laugh with accept for one peron; me. And, hear me out, I know that I have to make effort on my part to talk to everyone but ive tried to like, I try so freaking hard to be funny and fun to be around but im still the odd one out. I am actually in tears typimg this because this is just how things have been my whole life. And its not like my teamates are bitches, theyre all really nice people. It also doesnt help that im the worst on the team. I just really wish I actually feel like part of the team. Please, please, please, give me some advice to help my situation or just tips on talkong to people and being funny because im feeling so alone. |
| Question: I was arguing with my parents and the next door neighbor saw it? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 03:21 PM PST I was having a bad day at school and argued with my parents about something, not quite serious. I was so mad and went outside into the garage, and we started shouting there. There's a small window in our garage, and it has a film. You can stick a pencil through the film, so my neighbor was outside and heard and saw everything we were doing. I was so mad and put my fist up then cursed. The neighbor saw and pretended not to notice. I'm so embarrassed. It wasn't a serious argument, and now I just realize how dumb I look. My parents talk to them from time to time, but wouldn't ask about this. Still, I'm so embarrassed. |
| Question: Trading something doesn’t mean have does it? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 02:29 PM PST So me and this girl traded phone cases and I hope she doesn't think trading mean have... like I was planning on letting her keep it for 2 weeks or so? Do trading mean have? |
| Question: Bad friends ! What to do? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 02:26 PM PST I have toxic people around me. What should i do? Any advices , anything can help. |
| Question: Do these people want to be my friends or do they just pity me? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 02:21 PM PST long story short my bestfriend left me because i was too depressed and a new group approached me and asked me to sit with them at lunch and said i can sit there when ever i want. theyre very nice we have lots in common, they also reached out to me because they knew i was depressed. but do they truly want to be my friend? |
| Question: Why have I gotten so upset lately? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 02:14 PM PST Hi. The past two weeks have been hell for me though nothing bad has actually happened. I feel like I constantly want to cry and that I'm quite a burden on my friends. They don't actually care about me at all and I know it. Today was my birthday and it sent me into what seemed to be my worse state of sadness I've been in lately for a few reasons. I have always stayed up and texted my friends happy birthday at 12 am and a paragraph about why I'm glad to have them as a friend. I try hard not to forget their birthdays either and it felt really shitty this morning when they all pretty much forgot about it until one of my friends mentioned it. Secondly my best friend hasn't even texted me to say happy birthday yet at all nor has my grandma. I feel like such a shitty and bratty person for saying this I'm really not trying to I'm sorry. Does anyone know a reason as to why I've gotten so upset lately over such small things? |
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| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:52 PM PST She told me why she was being like this. She said that I ask to much complicated questions, and that she starting to find me annoying. But you know what, she never told me that until I confronted her because I knew there might be something up and she isn't telling me anything. She kind of left me in the dark. She acted as if nothing is wrong and that she is just being herself and she is just like to play around. But I knew all of that was a lie to I guess...spare my feelings? Or not trying to be rude like she says? I really still want to be friends with her, when ever I do something she doesn't like, but it isn't on purpose....I'm not very good with conversations and communicating with another human being. I'm really nice to her but then there is the problem with her not understanding me and me not being able to know my boundaries and not doing the right things. I am trying to work on making both of our relationship as friends better and giving her space. But she is still distant and tries to avoid me. I need advice and things I should do. I still want to be friends with her, even good friends. Also before, we were both pretty cool and better than now but now is different....and its because of me. But I really want to fix things and have things go back to the way it was before and maybe even better. I need help. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:51 PM PST Does anyone know more about the law? Here is the situation: two girls A and B are friend. A introduced B to her friends C, and C was a male. B and C had sex. After that, C abandoned B, and A and B broke the friendship. Was A criminal? Thank you. |
| Question: I don't hw to get friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:30 PM PST |
| Question: There s a girl I can t stand, but she thinks I m her friend.? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:18 PM PST There is this disgusting, nose-picking-weirdo that sits next to me in two classes, and because I think out loud to her sometimes (she follows the same genres of fiction I do), and tolerate her when she thinks out loud to me, that we are friends. It used to be not so bad because I only saw her once in awhile in the halls, but now I have two three-hour classes with her, and she expects to be all buddy-buddy. I can t stand her, but I was being polite to someone who was a bit out of the loop. And I don t want to blow up at her and tell her she disgusts me with her lack of social consciousness and terrible hygiene, that her art and writing is awful, and that getting a job in art is pretty much a guaranteed failure. Because I know that s awful no matter who you are talking to how do I drop the acquaintance when this garbage-human follows me like a lost puppy? I am a straight girl, for all those confused. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:16 PM PST so how do i apologize to someone that i haven't done nothing but being nice to them but they are one who is harassment me with a bullying me name so this one girl she have her own issues with a ex had hit her that i didn't know about in the past and they dated since i left the state but i go back to visit my family & my other few close friends but is this a reason she why she's treating me but she even told me she had talk to this other girl that we all in same class for same reason we that we all have learning disabilities and we went same class with since elementary so we knew each other half our life and so i really think she twisted things round to our one friend we went same class that we know each other since elementary so just be on her side because this other person had same thing that this one person she have talked to said she was annoyed by her too so what's best to do i know to ignore her but she say things behind my back to this other girl to get on her side but i really want send a good message to her is there a way i tired like 5 time |
| Question: Would you feel some type of way about your friend never liking your Instagram pictures? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:05 PM PST Just wondering if that's a big deal or not |
| Question: Is it weird i hang out with an older crowd? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:04 PM PST I go to HS and i don't really fit in, everyone is very childish. I feel like i fit better with people who go to Univerisity and that are usually around 18-20. Im 17 btw Would it be weird if i tried to make some University friends? |
| Question: Help. i feel guilty? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 12:51 PM PST so today my best friend needed like 10 bucks because she was paying someone to get her a breeze. so i gave it to her. and now i feel really guilty and i dont know why please help |
| Question: My friend acts different around her other friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 12:36 PM PST I have been friends with this girl for a while but I often feel like she doesn't like to be around me when she if with her friends who are more important than me. She has this one friend, lets call her M who she seems to really like. I am in the same spanish class as them. They always talk and they never even say hello to me. This could be my fault because I am pretty shy but she always talks to me when she is not with M. A couple days ago i had asked her a question during spanish and she basically acted like she didn't know me. I sometimes sit with her and M and my other friend at lunch but i am never included in the conversation. A couple weeks ago my friend had been wearing her XC clothes all day because it was a normal outfit basically and she has worn it with regular sneakers but she still took her XC bag with her so I had asked her why. She said in a snappy voice "Because my sneakers are in here" and muttered something under her breath but I did not know she wore different sneakers for it. |
| Question: Dropping a friend? Opinions needed? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 12:32 PM PST I have been friends with this girl for 6 years. From the time I meant her she, we always had fun but she has been depressed since the 5th or 6th grade on and off and now in highschool, she drinks a lot. I ve recently become friends with another girl and she feels like I left her and I m not gonna lie, I did. It is draining to talk to her and she always tells me about how she drinks to cope because she has no one else besides me and has a bad home life. She always goes to parties and brags about getting blackout drunk which I think is stupid and she shouldn t even be doing in the first place since she is under age. I have confronter her about this but she just tells me that she won t talk to me about it but it doesn t really make me feel any better and now I m just debating on whether or not to just stop being friends with her if she doesn t stop doing all these things but I also feel like it s not my place. I also have another dilemma. Since I have been best friends with her for 6 years, I feel like I shouldn t drop her and just soldier through it. Please tell me your opinions and what you would do in this situation |
| Question: Does this seem reasonable to you? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 11:41 AM PST Some years ago I was in a serious car accident. After a stay in the hospital they sent me home but they told me I would have to have someone with me round the clock for 2 weeks as I could not take care of myself. My husband Joe priced private nurses and they were way more than we could afford. Lucky for me Joe's grand mother Alice was a nurse and she volunteered to stay with me the 2 weeks. I made a complete recovery thanks in large part to Alice's great care she gave me. Alice would not take any money for helping me. We became good friends and remained good friends ever after Joe and I had a friendly divorce. I have since remarried. I am scheduled for surgery next week and the doctors told me I needed to have a care giver with me for 3 days after I get home from the surgery. I immediately thought of Alice. I called her and she readily agreed to stay the 3 days with me. It gave me great peace of mind that even after the divorce from her grandson she was still a friend that cared for me. However my present husband Jason does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband or his family. I told Jason this is my body we are talking about I want the great care Alice will give me. This has nothing to do with my ex husband Joe. This is one time Jason is going to have to accept my decision on this matter. Does this seem reasonable to you? |
| Question: Why not just meet at school? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 11:40 AM PST Last semester, noticed this guy from my program in the university's hallway but we never talked, but soon became acquaintances after we've been going to same library on campus. Now this semester, he saw me at our program's common study area and we chatted a bit but I was awkward lol. He then said, "I'll see you at the library since you are always there doing assignments"....but why not at the common study area? He did show up at the library (2 days later) and seemed distant. |
| Question: Should I stop talking to this friend? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 11:11 AM PST I have been friends with this person since high school. The time came to attend college. I stayed to attend the local state university and this person stayed for comm. college. Up to the point of going to college, I still kept in touch with this friend. We would occasionally hang out, but messaged a lot through social media. Recently, this friend has started to become distant. My friend would leave me on seen when I ask them something. I know we are on winter break and I have invited this friend to hang out like go eat breakfast or something. Now, I live 20 mins away and so I always need to plan if I am hanging out with someone. Anyways, this friend left me on seen when I brought up the idea of breakfast. She just asked if it was free or something and I was like no? It is when I figured I should stop bringing up ideas to hang out because she clearly does not want to spend money. But, oh she is always showing off multiple purchases she makes online. The new year came and she started posting on her social media how the people she thinks are friends are just people she knows. I was taken back because since then she started become cold. I honestly do not know what she even wants. I have always been a good friend and despite being busy and living afar, I still make the effort to hang out. Even if I cannot hang all the time. But I get the idea that this friend needs someone 24/7. I considered asking to hang out but now I do not feel like it is even worth it. |
| Question: Going from being the popular kid; to the loner. (Tips?)? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 10:53 AM PST Hey Everybody! I need some tips on how to go about my days in school now that I have nothing.. So basically in middle school me and a couple friends were the $h*+ and now, all of us went our seperate ways, and I'm kind of a loner :(. I have nobody in school I go about my breaks and lunches alone and I chill with a couple of people at lunch but truly I have nobody and I am starting to feel lonely :( |
| Question: Are people friends the each other just so they can kill them in the future? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 10:47 AM PST It seems to be a trend these days. These people are friends and then when one of them is ready they kill the others. I see it happen all the time |
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| Question: How to make friends in university if you're socially and physically inadequate? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 09:06 AM PST |
| Question: Is There an app i can use to talk to my mentees without giving them my phone number? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:51 AM PST I am a senior in high school and I will be mentoring students at the local middle school 2 days ago was my first day and I got many students asking me for my snapchat and Phone number but I dont want to give them my personal number so I want to know if their is an app i can use talk to my students without giving them my number kinda like a kik app |
| Question: Is it normal to not want to be friends with the person I'm also rooming with.? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:49 AM PST He has been my friend for almost 10 years. Is it normal to not want to be friends with someone who cheats on his girlfriends repeatedly and laughs about it while disrespecting other girls as well? He states he loves females but really he just lists females. No love. I try to find a nice girl in life but they don't seem to exist. Only thots, slurs or shemales. Seems like my friend brings an energy I don't welcome. Plus he brags about how he gets "bytches" and I don't. Like wtf lol. He loves to rub in my face and then either that or he will boost about himself constantly. I just don't want to be with someone and knock her up without being a dad to the baby. I must be nuts after all. I used to respect him and his older brother until I found out what white knights they really are and preach to me that I should be doing the same as then when it comes to the female situation. Is it weird that it gets on my nerves when they begin bragging about that they do and call me or at least hint that I'm lame? I starting to want to ditch all those I considered friend for the past 9 years. This friend of mine I don't really like anymore, we are 3 months into our 12 month lease. Its on his name too. Plus this friend of mine thinks its weird that I let my dogs lick my face or wirsts. I got 2 dogs and love them like they were my children and my friend is friends with a loser who had 2 huskies and one of them just recently died due to neglect. This guy we will call him"chuck", put the dogs body in the garage after it was dead then went out with his slut girlfriend he met on POF. Now all this o was told when my roommate told me. I don't go over there. I always thought of dogs, cats, and iguanas to be better company than my own kind. People can be such losers who repeat their bullshyt. I'm not anti social. I just want to make new and better friends now. I'm 36 so that might be a hard one. |
| Question: It's constant texting in a friendship normal? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:36 AM PST I met this guy through a dating app (we are both guys btw, not sure if that matters) 4 months ago. We hit it off but never officially dated as I was seeing other people as well and he ended up falling for another guy. The guy he fell for didn't feel the same (this was 2 months ago) and I never really hit it off with anyone yet. We have remained friends and I'm comfortable with this. But one thing that is beginning to bother me is his constant texting. I get good morning, good night texts everyday, texts throughout the day that have become repetitive and boring (I'm at lunch, I'm out of work, how's work. Etc). I do appreciate his well wishes, but I don't think we need to text all the time. For the past few weeks I have been not texting back after a few texts, texting him back less frequently etc. To give him a hint I guess. I think he's a nice guy, I don't want to hurt his feelings or feel ungrateful for his attention. It's it normal for someone to text this much?? And what is the best way to deal with this without offending him? |
| Question: Lost all my friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:12 AM PST So I've fallen out with my two best friends because I've finally decided that I don't want to be left out and treated like crap anymore. But now I have nobody to hang out with and basically no real friends that I can talk to about stuff. I feel really alone and depressed now, even more than I felt when I was friends with them and I don't know what to do. I'm not really close with anyone else and it makes me not even want to go to school and even though it's sixth form, it's still a long time to be alone. |
| Question: How can I make friends?!?!? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:06 AM PST I really want to have someone to meet and laugh with. I am in my fourth year of college however, I transferred to another school so I am starting new. How can I make friends. All trash questions. Sad! |
| Question: Fallen out with my friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 07:58 AM PST I've had these two toxic friends for a while now, they used to treat me like crap and leave me out constantly so I decided I'd had enough so I'm not speaking to them anymore. But now I have nobody else to hang out with, they were my best friends and they're in my form at school and talk to the people I talk to so it's really awkward. I don't know what to do because I feel depressed and lonely now I've lost the only friends I had. It's sixth form so I've only got a year left of the two, but i just feel depressed all the time now and honestly feel like moving school or something. |
| Question: I feel lonely social anxiety? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:48 AM PST I finally decided to make plans with an old coworker and a family member for an outing. I thought this would benefit me and make me feel happy since I don't really have many friends and don't really get to do anything because of my anxiety. For some reason I don't know why if my head is playing tricks on me I felt completely lonely. I felt like I didn't connect at all. We went to the movies and have in mind we all use to work together. Until the coworker quit. But we formed somewhat of a friendship and I felt left out. During the movies they were both whispering to eachother and laughing I was just there. I asked the coworker if she wanted to hang out with me and she said yes but then told me to ask my family member if she wanted to come since they haven't seen eachother. And If not we could go just the two of us. So I think she might have just agreed just to see my family member. And idk I felt like the third wheel the whole time, my mind tells that she never liked me and I'm being used they feel bad for me. That's why she wanted to bring my family member so she wouldn't have to be just with me. Idk do you guys thing it's my anxiety? I just feel like I can't make any friends that I can connect with. They both seemed like best friends and I was just there. |
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| Question: My friend sounds like a screaming frog? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:43 AM PST How do I deal with this |
| Question: Why did he say this? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:30 AM PST Last semester, noticed this guy from my program in the university's hallway but we never talked, but soon became acquaintances after we've been going to same library on campus. Now this semester, he saw me at our program's common study area and we chatted a bit but I was awkward lol. He then said, "I'll see you at the library since you are always there doing assignments"....but why not at the common study area? He did show up at the library (2 days later) and seemed distant. |
| Question: Have you ever quit acknowledging an unfriendly acquaintance and later become friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 04:38 AM PST We all have people who we know by sight and sometimes by name, and we acknowledge them by nodding, saying "hi" or the like. Maybe it's a neighbor, someone at church or the gym, or somewhere else. Have you ever just stopped bothering to acknowledge an acquaintance (maybe they weren't friendly or they ticked you off), and later you actually became friends with them, despite having stopped speaking to them before? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 02:48 AM PST Ok so I've been hooking up and having sex with this older guy who lives in another state. We've only hooked up a few times though I'm 30 and he's 43. He doesn't have his own place and he's been living out of his car. I send him money sometimes to help him and for his services. This 30 year old guy at a store that I go to sometimes asked for my number awhile ago and today he called asking to hang out. I told him I would think about it I'm rushing anything with him though. He knew that I had gone to school for Massage Therapy. So he's been asking for a massage but he wants to go out to eat or something. Anyway should I stop talking to the older guy? |
| Question: Help!!! I like bullying people? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 01:25 AM PST I'm in 9th grade and I love bullying people, I have been bullying people since the 4th grade. At school I usually push people, trip people, I steal things from people, I always like taking people's clothes from the lockers and throwing them in the showers. I also like calling people names. Now I am starting to feel bad. I recently lost all of my friends because of this. At school I was a leader of some group and we would all go bully people, there was 8 of us. Yesterday at school all of them came up to me and told me that they don't want to be my friend anymore because I'm a bully, I pay some of them to bully other people. I just love bullying. I even go as far as telling people to commit suicide. And I always make fun of some black guy at my school for being black. I am feeling bad now because I lost all of my friends and now I am alone at school. What should I do? How do I stop bullying? I always tell myself that I'm gonna stop but I keep doing it. It feels good. But now I am left with nobody and I'm losing my confidence. Can this be something psychological? I can't get myself to stop. What do you think? |
| Question: How to deal with coworker who snitched on me? Posted: 09 Jan 2018 11:54 PM PST I had a coworker who I tried to help and avoid him getting in trouble. I asked to call a customer back and help them out since he made all of these empty promises to them. Instead of responding, he reported my email to the boss and tried to get me in trouble. The situation was resolved, but I look at him differently, he tried me. Is it okay to ignore him from now on since I don't have to talk to him anyways? |
| Question: Why does he never hug me or tell me he loves me? Posted: 09 Jan 2018 11:43 PM PST I have this friend, we've known each other a year and a half and have been friends for 10 months. He's 11 years older and like a mentor to me and in a way, he's like a big brother to me. We're not SUPER close, but close enough that he knows how to get to my house by memory and hasn't needed my address in months. He shows he loves me as a friend by trying to make me laugh when I'm obviously down, he helps me out when I need it; I jokingly told him once that I thought he forgot about me and he said "I generally don't forget important things", etc. He's never told me he loves me, though. Also, he's never hugged me. We used to work together and back when I still worked there and he visited, he gave my friend a side-hug, but he's never hugged me. I gave his family a bunch of presents for Christmas and even then, he was appreciative, but didn't hug me. He's married--do you think he deems it inappropriate? I've called him "bro" and "the big brother I've never had" (he treats me a million times better than my biological brothers), so I would hope he wouldn't think I thought he meant it outside a platonic way. Again, he definitely SHOWS it, but I want him to say it once in a while. Do you think he ever will hug me or tell me he loves me? |
| Question: Why do they treat me like a terrible person? Posted: 09 Jan 2018 11:01 PM PST I worked for this job for over a year. I used to think of the people I worked with, as my work family. Last Christmas (2016), I even gave my entire management team and some work friends gift bags of candy. A few months later, I found out how fake several of those people were. I found out they had been talking crap about me for months, including a manager I had a giant crush on. Most of the management started taking advantage of me and thought they could treat me however they wanted. Instead of praising me when I did things right, they'd get pissy and yell at me at the slightest mistake (which weren't even major mistakes). I got fed up with it, put my 2 week notice in, but didn't show up to work ever again. Fast forward 4 months, I still visit (it's a fast food establishment) and most of them treat me like I never worked there, as if they don't know me. They'll make eye contact and practically look right through me, like I am a freaking window or something. Some have deleted me off Facebook with no explanation, some have denied my follow request on Instagram. My friends who still work there, never invite me places because half the time, the fake, two-faced people are with them. I don't know why my friends even hang out with the fake people, I guess they don't realize they're fake. Why do they treat me like a horrible person, just because I put in my 2 weeks and never fulfilled it? I left because they were treating me like crap and then I get treated like crap for leaving. Mind you, the former GM is a friend of mine and when he visits (knowing they don't like him...most people weren't secretive about disliking him), they all still talk to him. Of course, the minute he leaves, they talk smack about him. Maybe they hate me because I'm friends with him, which is messed up because he is SO kindhearted and loyal and real and so am I, but we get the shaft. -_- And it still bothers me because like I said, I am still friends with some of my former coworkers, but they won't invite me to places. I recently invited 3 of them to my birthday celebration and they all had excuses for why they couldn't make it. Psh. I just think it's ridiculous. I was so kind to these people for so long and all the while, they were talking smack about me. Then, I stand up for myself and leave and then they still treat me like crap. The next work day after my last day, they were swamped and short-staffed. They want to be upset that I didn't fulfill my 2 weeks, yet they never even called me that day. I would've came in had they called. 3 months ago, one of them anonymously gave me crap in my Sarahah for quitting the way I did By the way, these are adults doing all of this crap...people in their 20's-30's. The main person who talked smack about me so much is a woman in her late 30's who has three kids! She acts like one of her teenage children. |
| Posted: 09 Jan 2018 10:58 PM PST He is a gujurati and I am a kashmiri. He has sharp caucasian features. I am the lightest skin person in my family but we still look like typical kashmiris and typical indian pakistanis. Gujuratis are suppose to be darker and not as good looking as we are, but this guy is a lot better looking than me. He doesn't even look indian. I am very jealous of him. I want to know how I can get over my jealousy and hatred for this guy. |
| Question: My friends don't talk to me anymore? Posted: 09 Jan 2018 10:53 PM PST Im in 10th grade and I have 6 friends at school and we all hangout at lunch time and play tag. Today at lunch time we were going to play tag and then my friend Brandon yelled out "IT'S RUN AWAY FROM ISAIAH DAY!!!". And then all of my friends started running away from me, I went to try to go find them and I found them and they just kept running and then my friend Asher yelled "IF ISAIAH TOUCHES ANYONE THEN THEY ARE CONTAMINATED!!!". I then went to go sit down alone and I started crying. I hate them so much for doing that. Lunch is 1 hour and I spent most of it alone, crying. I am scared to go to school tomorrow because I'm scared that they are going to do that again. What should I do? Should I switch schools or should I commit suicide? I was thinking about jumping from my balcony. |
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