I cannot make any friends where I live, I got with some people who came in from a different state who were passing through that told me that everyone in this town is an elitist and told me I wasn't alone when I said I couldn't make any friends, they suggested I move. What are elitists?

I started talking to this guy who says he wants something real. He's always on my Instagram and tells me how beautiful and gorgeous I am. He's such a sweet guy. When it came to the topic of sex, I told him I was waiting for marriage. I'm 25 and he's 27. He said it was not a problem but stopped talking to me. I feel so confused. He checks my snaps less then a second they're uploaded doesn't text.

I like telling guys before we date so he can decide then. I told a guy I was talking to because the conversation came up and I felt I had to tell him then lie. Long story short we got a long well and he no longer talks to me...

that his penus is too big. so why do men shove it in?

posted a few weeks ago about a dad at my son's basketball practice and agreed that maybe I was reading too much into his behavior. But today, I'm not so sure. I caught him looking at me during practice, and afterward when another coach was talking to me, he hung around listening to the conversation and watching my face the whole time - he was standing off to the side. Then, when that coach moved away, the dad turned to me and said, similing "I'm ready for bed...". I said I was too, but his tone was different. He continued to make conversation and so did I. He seemed to be hanging around waiting for my son and I to leave, since he would not leave first. Now, is this how married men flirt? I found out through a friend that he's married and even though I don't want to start anything, I need to know if I should cool things off a little - we have emailed back and forth and I've noticed some behavior from him then too. Or misbehavior, I should say. He also stared at me when he was leaving and I was at a restaurant by the exit. I got flustered and looked away. I think what's been most blatant is the staring. But that's harmless, right? Guys stare at me all the time and since I don't reciprocate, that's where it ends. Is he a harmless married man?

Like a gift that shows they don't know you at all, or that it might have even been a re-gift.

someone blew a whistle the other day, and it was weirdly hot. i listened to videos about it, and idk what it does to me. what do i do?

These women around here are single but they are like the women that you'll find in a hooters, they have a bunch of guys that they're just with. These guys aren't variety, and are called 'the brothers' or 'bros' These guys overly use the word 'gay'. These guys would bully or beat up people or come after people. Typcially they're of an athletic build but are also seen with long hair and a smoker complex or something like that.. These women out here are all with these 'brothers' and you cannot have anything to do with them. If you attempt to talk to these women, eventually these 'bros' would appear around her and say something smart to try to get something started or they'd bully you. These women could just not like your shoes and say something to these 'brothers' and they will all come after you.

My mother passed away 2 months ago, and it s been hard as I do not feel her presence in any way. It s rare that I even dream of her. I miss her and just want to see if there is any way of me connecting with her.

I like this guy but he always stops texting me but watches all my snaps almost moments after I've uploaded. We get along but today he finds out I'm keeping my virginity. He completely stops talking to me. Still watching my snaps less than seconds of uploading. I'm very confused

Woman who works remotely with my company is married. I can safely say I wouldn't dare do anything physical with a married woman. I could never live with myself. That said, as far as I can tell, I am vaguely trying to lay the ground work for an emotional affair. I am also technically her superior, which makes it all the worse. There's a conference next month that lasts for almost a week that I know she's going to, and that I most likely will go to. Assuming I can go, I will be doing a lot of work with her. Emotional affairs don't really look different from real affairs, and I'd be surprised if it didn't look like I would be coming on to her from an outside perspective. I want to nip this in the butt now. This is my dream field of work and if something is misperceived or whatever, it will haunt me for a long time. Having just heard about someone in a different line of work (Dan Harmon), I want to make sure that I am thinking ahead, and making sure to do whatever is necessary now to make sure that at no point do my actions look like they have anything do with anything other than work. What do I do?

Mom was both an out of touch academic, and flaming liberal. That meant that I had to raise myself in some ways. She made sure I had play dates with children from Nigeria, children from genderless homes, and of course many kids from single parent homes. She was convinced that boys especially were better off being raised without fathers, which is how I first found out facts don't actually matter to academicians. It wasn't too bad, because seeing the mess these kids were safeguarded me.Mom also hates girlishness. When my sister said she wanted to look like Elsa from Frozen, she cried. Along that line she tried to raise us to not get married at all, and nourish careers. Of course, I did get married, and no, I did not have sex in high school or anything, but it never occurred to me to wait. Not that it is a big deal to anyone other then me, but I can't help but wonder if my life would be even better if I had. For all the crazy, my parents have a happy and fun marriage. Is the example enough? Am I missing out on something I can never know?

I can hear her eating over a TV and a radio playing, while also being in another room. It drives me up the wall, and I'm not sure why

These people moved in to the one bedroom apartment above me. It is a couple, along with their toddler which is a LOT of people for that small space, and the noise proves it. The toddler pounds around all day from about 8AM-9PM (I know this because I am home all day; I m 32 weeks pregnant and do not work). Then, after the kid goes to bed, the parents make noise. I m a super light sleeper and trying to sleep 8 months pregnant with twins is hard enough, so it is really unfortunate that these people move in JUST as I m enjoying my last few weeks of sleep for the next 18 years. To top it off, the walls are very thin. For example, they just got done having sex, and I heard both of them moaning (it lasted under 10 minutes, so it couldn t have been as good as she was making it sound). Okay, whatever; we all do it. But that s not the best part: I could literally hear skinny slapping. I could HEAR them physically having sex. These ceilings are WAY too thin if I can hear the intimidate details of their love session. Is there anything I can do while we look for a new place (our lease is up next month)? They are very ghetto so I doubt I ll get anywhere talking to them (and yelling up "I ll wait until you both climax to go to bed," clearly didn t work), and the landlord won t do a thing. I don t know if it s pregnancy hormones, but I m ready to bang on my ceiling so hard it creates a hole. Please, help. Is there anything I can do like I don t know put egg cartons on the ceiling?

It happened a couple of years ago. My boyfriend and I were arguing a lot and he decided that he didn't want to be in a relationship with me. He told me that. At that point in my life, I felt like I could not walk away and accept the fact that he didn't want to be with me. As I've mentioned above it happened a couple years ago. We are still together. This whole incident happened in February...long story short in May that same year he went out And cheated on me (one time). It got me mad...Do I have a reason to be upset or am I the reason to blame because he told me that he didn't want to be together even though we kept seeing each other.

my parent owns a restaurant I need to focus on my school work but all they ever do is pull to the place and work and even when it's no busy they want to supervise me I have no time to study, regulate my diet, and hang out with my friend. if I refuse let's just say some horrible thing is gonna happen to me and I am 14 what should I do?