Family: Question: What do I do if my uncle's brother-in-law who is a bad man tries to break into my Mom and I's house?

Question: What do I do if my uncle's brother-in-law who is a bad man tries to break into my Mom and I's house?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:11 PM PST

He has met us before and is a bad man.

Question: My sister is mean. Will other people see this in her eventually even if they like her now?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:10 PM PST

Question: My parents are divorced. Mom won't let me see Dad. Can I call the police on her for this?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:10 PM PST

He did nothing wrong and wants to see us.

Question: How do I get my parents not to ban me from seeing my aunt and cousins when they come to town?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:09 PM PST

My parents don't like my aunt so they don't want me to talk to her. They also don't want to have a relationship with my aunt's children cause they are her offspring. I don't feel my cousins and I should be punished for the adults' on both sides behaving like they are younger then us (I am 16).

Question: Living arrangement with girlfriend.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:20 PM PST

I have a girlfriend and we have been getting along great for about a year and a half. She is staying at a retirement community in a condo that her family had purchased. She tried to add me as a tenant so I could move in but they got mad at her since the condo was setup in her aunts name. They said that I would have to pay around $8k to become a registered tenant there and I think that she would even need to pay the same amount to be registered as the main tenant versus her aunt. Her aunt lives far away and visits very infrequently. I was visiting her on Friday nights and would stay through the weekend and leave back to my rental 45 minutes away which is near my work. I am now concerned since my gf wants us to not see each other for a few weeks. Her neighbors have seen me and I think she is worried about getting in trouble. Ideally I would like me and her to move in together but it seems that she is sort of stuck in her living arrangement. She has two adult kids and I have one adult kid and two younger children and I visit them all at least once per week individually. I do pay a lot of child support for my two children who live 30 minutes away from my room I rent for $500. My gf insists that we are not breaking up. She did just have a hysterectomy two months ago. I am working on a side business (affiliate marketing website) in addition to my 40hr per week job. I would really like for us to stay together but I don't like how she is asking for this break.

Question: Brother in law blocks me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:10 PM PST

I hardly see him except on the holidays . I send him a request and he blocks me on everything ,same with sister in law . I dont get it ? They hardly know me but want nothing to do with me ?

Question: Do men with children watch “adult” videos?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:58 AM PST

I find that crazy and bizarre to even think about. Especially men who have daughters. Do such men watch pornographic content?

Question: Why are Americans so racist?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:50 AM PST

I'm Brazilian. I'm son are of white mother and black father. No problem here. No, Josh. I don't think myself better than anyone else. just what to know. IN BRAZIL, MORE THAN THE HALF OF THE POPULATION IS HYBRID (HAS TWO RACES, BLACK AND WHITE)

Question: What to do with this 70 year living organism?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:05 AM PST

This human happens to be the husband of my mother, whom i am living with and brought up by. Not by this 70 year old. Being absent from our lives and never fufill anything as a parent, has a woman and even a kid elsewhere in other country even he is married with my mom. Missing the entire life only to come at us when he can't make it outside anymore. Recently has began to say he wants to come and live in our house. Just because my mother never remove his name. Lived a few years here and caused tons of problems, living like a king on our couch the whole day, never pay for anything, steal our money and mom's jewelery, walking around naked, shouts when somebody is using the toilet, verbal abuse my mother. Collapsed a few months back and has been living in nursing home since he collapsed and was sent to hospital months ago. He is old and can't walk, needs wheelchair, arrogant, sturborn and disgusting. We won't be doing anything to accomodate him into our home. But he insist on coming and refuse to go back to the nursing home, paid by us. Now social welfare wants to intervene and even make decision for us to let him come to our home. How to prevent this person from coming and even stay with us? The house already doesn't have any of his stuffs anymore. What he has is a name my mother didn't remove back then and can't do it now as we don't want him to recieve any compensation from this house. If we just lock the door and refuse entry, will his death hold us responsible?

Question: Is this abusive?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 10:36 AM PST

Not only does my Mother guilt trip me and say She is like Jesus(sacrificial love) for putting up with me, but I'm also under constant fear that She will further isolate me by taking away my phone and computer again, which She sometimes threatens. My Parents have once before because I was talking to an individual via text message and Facebook they found to be a threat.

Question: My daughter had a car wreck with my sister causing my sister to die, How can i help her ease the guilt and move on? She's 18. Thank you all?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:57 AM PST

Question: Am I too sheltered?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:07 AM PST

So I am a white middle class high school senior and in a few months I am going on a trip to Spain with my school. If I get caught drinking or doing drugs, I could get sent back to America. I'm not a huge partier but I know that it's a lot more common for teenagers to party in Europe. Part of my trip is a family stay and one of the other American students on the trip said it would be fun to go to a party with a host brother/sister. That sounded like the worst idea ever because not only could I be sent home, I also would be really uncomfortable with a bunch of strangers who speak a language I'm not totally comfortable with. If I were drunk, I would be making myself too vulnerable and I really don't want to be touched or worse. Is this valid or am I coming from a place where I'm too sheltered and I need to live a little?

Question: When did you first ***, what age were you? Did your mum or dad talk to you or prepare you for it?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 07:50 AM PST

So I walked into my eight year olds room and it really stunk of ***. It might not have been it might just have been something funky but It sure smelt like it. He has dyspraxia and I'm worried he will freak out or not be as "hygienic" or atleast discreet as a boy without special needs, I'm wondering if it's something parents talk to their boys about like you talk to girls about monthly's. Do you wish your parents did or didn't? To me it seems really young. But I have no idea what age is "normal" do I just buy a box of tissues and a new trash can and leave it in his room? Or do we have a pre birds and bees kinda talk. Please no filthy replies, probably best if just dads answer or mums that actually know , thanks.

Question: Who cares how we get their rent?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:52 AM PST

My husband feels that any grown adult living in our house should be paying rent. That includes my 21 and 23 year old sons (1st marriage). His 21 year old daughter is still in college so she's not subject to the rent rule. When my 21 year old was in school neither was he but he decided to graduate after 2 years so my husband said "you're an adult now and no longer a student so you must pay rent." Well, he originally said that my 21 year old had to pay $200 a month but he was struggling to pay that so after much discussion and arguing he dropped it down to $100 a month. That includes room, board, food, laundry, and all utilities. Well, this past week I transferred $50 from my son's account into our joint account and told my husband it was in there. He tells me to stop transferring money from his account because that doesn't teach them anything. He feels they should go to the bank or ATM, make the withdrawal, and physically hand the money over to us. He says I'm making it too easy for them. When they get out on their own their utility companies aren't going to have access to their account and can just log in and take what they want. I told him, "what does it matter how we get the money as long as we get it?" The 23 year old hasn't paid anything because he just started a job a few weeks ago. He hasn't lived with us since he was about 15 because he started getting into trouble so my husband said he had to go. He moved in with my parents and he and his granddad had a major falling out on Thanksgiving and he was no longer allowed to live there. I made the decision to let him move back in with us and my husband wasn't happy with that either. Again, I have access to my son's account and can transfer his portion of the rent to my husband's and my's bank account but my husband wants them to physically bring it to us and put it in our hands. Who cares how we get it? Isn't it more important that we get it?

Question: MY CAR MONEY HOME FAMILY ASSET BUSINESS TRP JOB OR EILL AOR YOU THINK IT IS CULTURE THANK FOR TIME IS IMPORTANT I WIL MAKE YEARLY PLANNING?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:29 AM PST

Question: I need help, i don't know what to do... living with a drunk dad and stuck here...?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:47 AM PST

I'm 25 years old and new at life still... I'm originally from Maine, moved to Tennessee for 2 months to live with a guy who we went to high school together and known each other for 7 years, well things got bad money wise and he had to go live with his parents, and no room for me and my cat Riley, so I had no choice but to move to Florida with my father whom I haven't seen in 14 years.... I was in foster care separated from my siblings because of alcohol... I have no friends or family to help, I had a vehicle but I got it from a loan and I owed $4,000 on it and missed a payment and it got taken from me a couple days ago and to get it back costs $1,000, little more than that, and for everyday it sits its another $20... and dad cant get it back for me till the 1st, and he gets money from the VA and sits on his butt all day drinking beer and watching tv... I had a job for 6 days before I didnt have a ride anymore, and only earned $200 and he wants me to blow it all on his beer or I get kicked out.... and go homeless, and lose my cat whom I've had for 5 years now and hes my best friend... dad cares more about his beer than his own daughter, and threatened a couple times to kick me out on the streets for not wanting to spend my hard earned money on his beer..... what should I do? I'm depressed being here with him, sleeping in a hard cot between the microwave and front door, and can barely sleep at night with his tv blasting cuz of hearing problems and wont get help from doctors...

Question: My Mom wont let me meet my Dad. I want to know him. How can I do it without her knowing?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:31 AM PST

Question: Sexual assualt/groped?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 03:04 AM PST

Hi my parents friends moved in with us for awhile before & they had 2 kids 1 of them (male) kinda groped me he touched my boobs under my shirt & over it he grabbed them & touched & grabbed my inner thigh also pressed his part against my butt in a store i didnt wanna say stop cuz i didnt know if we would mad or not & i was scared he couldve easily forced himself onto me & in the store i tried to get away also but he but his arms around me & wouldnt let me move i just wanted to know should i tell my parents or is it no big deal

Question: Why wont my dad tell me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:54 AM PST

Few days ago,my dad went to my institutes so he could find out how well knowledge do i have gained,how good my skill is,how well did i spend time in learning(intuition)but i didnt know that he went for it.i asked him and he doesnt tell me.why?whats the reason not to tell me?

Question: Do you believe it s Coach favoritism in a toxic way? Or am I just a crazy parent ��?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:33 AM PST

Hopefully I can get some advise. So we are having this problem with my daughters current soccer coach she is 12. We are currently playing the top level of girls soccer and clearly in our team there is 3 top players and my daughter so happens to be one of them. Our coach seems to have sympathy for one player in particular out of those 3 which is okay but her actions are stressing me out. At the moment we are half way through our season my daughter has scored most of the goals out of those 3 players and the favorite player has score zero so clearly my daughter brings something to the team. Any how an example of our coach mind games would be....let s say there is a scrimmage and another player takes the ball away from her favorite she stops the game, or let s say their is a dispute on who s ball it is and the favorite is involved it s automatically the favorites ball, or let s say my daughter took the ball away from her favorite then she calls a foul or let s say her favorite takes the ball away from my daughter or the other top player then she praises her loudly she even has said In half times during games out loud that everyone should be passing the ball to her favorite because she is the best player in the team. It s becoming to bring a rivalry between the top 3 players it s becoming irritating and I m not enjoying the season at all. I don t want to sound selfish. I don t know what to do maybe just ask to be moved to another team?.....

Question: Should I tell my daughter the truth?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:27 AM PST

I'm a single dad with a teenage daughter I love her to death she's my world. Her mom is a drug and homeless and my daughter hates it when her mom shows asking for a second chance and she hate that I let her in. What she doesn't know is her mother use to be very different she was once smart and full of promise until she met me. I was the party boy and she was the bright girl who got straight age we met on campus and I got her drinking and doing drugs and not a day goes by where I don't hate myself for it. I was a scum bag I remember being hung over and her knocking on my door telling me she was pregnant I told her to get rid of it and I slammed the door in her face. Then a few years later she just shows up and says "The squirt is your problem now." and then she just left and I had a confused and frightened little four year old sitting on my couch wondering who I was. My daughter wonders why I am so soft on her but it's because I keep hoping one day she'll get clean and my daughter can meet her real mother and not the shell she's become. She's sixteen now and her mother has moved back in for the third time I'm hoping she'll stay clean (it's been three months which is actually a new record for her which makes me hopeful) but now my daughter is asking more questions and I'm not sure what to say. sorry I meant homeless drug addict and straight a's.

Question: My aunt on my moms side had a child(girl) with my dads brother (my uncle). There's speculation that my dad is the father.......?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:18 AM PST

Is it possible that me and her could take a dna test to see how close (blood related) we are to determine if we are half brother and sister or do we need dna from the speculated fathers to prove it?

Question: Help please?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:05 AM PST

The father of my child was watching my kid when I was at my best friends birthday when I a rumor had started that I had ****** my sister inlaws baby daddy. I didn't but I don't know what to do. Help please.

Question: I blame my mother for my father's death and destroying our family...please help!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:56 PM PST

Don't get me wrong. I've always been close to my mom, dad (while he was here) and my step-dad. My parents got married and were married about a year before they decided to have me. My dad had a son from a previous relationship. Anyway, my father died when I was 2. He drowned while swimming. But I still had a great life and childhood. In addition to toddler memories of my dad and his spirit watching over me, I had male guidance from my grandpa and I had a step-dad when my mom got remarried. He died of a stroke a few years ago, and my grandpa died the same year. At this point, life is good, but I found out that my mom may be what put our family through rough patches 20+ years ago. My mom revealed that she was controlling in her first marriage. She wanted everything perfect and her way and my dad left because of it and was living with another woman at the time of his death. She even said no when he wanted my half-brother to come live with us. I hate feeling like this because I do love my mom and two dads. But all this time I was thinking that his death was a random freak accident. He was swimming because he was stressed. My mom robbed me of a perfect, 4 member family home. How can I forgive her for this and move on?

Question: How do i deal with a totally hot step-sister. Help. I know it's wrong but I dream about her every night!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:40 PM PST

My widowed mother married her divorced father, so now we are step brother/sister! I was her friend before our parents got married!

Question: My mother broke my trust...?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:59 PM PST

And she said every single thing that i had spoken casually as a complaint to my husbands family members behind my back, and when i found out she says she didnt do anything. She has embarrassed me and now no one is talking to me as they did before.. And im unable to open up because i feel that i shouldnt have told her anything to begin with. My inlaws think that im too sensitive and emotional and now they never make a phone call. Ever. How do i solve this, i feel terrible and embarrassed. Please help! Btw, only person now i talk to is my husband.

Question: How do I tell my parents that I want to wear darker colors?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:52 PM PST

I'm almost 13 and my mom still shops at the children's sections for me. I don't like glittery pink outfits with colourful stuff on too much. Also,kids are teasing me at school because I dress way younger than them. I'd just like some black leggings and some shirts that are darker. Most kids my age are almost always wearing black. I think it looks really good on me when I try on my friend's but my parents still pick out my outfits when we shop

Question: DCF took my brother's kids away. Social Worker is calling my parents to try to convince them to get custody of all 3. Parents dont want to.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:41 PM PST

Brother and wife addicted to meth and living in the street. The lifestyle caught on to them eventually like we all expected and now DCF finally took the kids after years of suspicion and reports from neighbors. My parents are old and don't want to carry the burden of taking care of 3 underage kids but feel pity for them especially the 8-year old that probably doesn't understand. What can we do? They have been placed in temporary custody in a foster home and separated by their age group. My parents also don't want to enable my brother by having him "drop by" announced to see the kids as pawns to wiggle his way back into my parent's wallet. I'm still attending college and cannot afford 3 kids either.

Question: Girls, ever fight your brothers?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:25 PM PST

If they were bigger and stronger, could you defend yourself?

Question: Are you the friend/family member that helps everybody and nobody helps you?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:14 PM PST

I'm in nursing school and my car needed a minor repair. A family friend took the car to his mechanic because he would give him a good price. It was dropped off yesterday and I asked him to let me know what he said price wise, I just wanted an estimate for the moment and planned to do it on the weekend when I get paid ( just paid my full tutition out of pocket 😳- community college but still) . My mom communicated with him and even though I said I wouldn't be able to afford to do it until the weekend, they did it anyway without my permission. It's not the mechanic's fault because I didn't deal with him personally. But my mom basically went to pay for it with part of her rent money and expected me to pay up on the same day when I clearly said I couldn't afford it. I'm stressed out enough already with my final semester of nursing school but now I'm to find money out of nowhere to help cover her rent?! Nothing pains me more than being financially unstable. I'm always the person to help anybody , any way I possibly can buy it sucks when you can't havd the same. this isn't really a question..more just venting I guess.

Question: HOw do I deal with drug addict parents I’m 14 so I can’t really do much but it just annoying you know like I barley see any of them?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:52 PM PST

Anymore I mean my dad lives with us but he stays down stares most of the day I'm not saying anything's really wrong it's just everyone's going down the same road as them in my family no ones graduated yet I have 3 sisters I'm planning on dropping out I'm 14 my other sister already dropped out I'm smoking couple times a day drink when I can and my house is just dead I'm falling apart more than ever and have. No one to talk to so that's why I'm saying all this lol but just need some advice

Question: Is it normal for parents to constantly ask their kids to do stuff? This is normal, right?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:33 PM PST

I'm 22, I still live with my parents, and they ask me to things every second...I hardly have time to do my work and school work (college)..I was just curious how often is normal? I told my mom that I couldn't do something at the moment cause I was doing something important for school and she was yelling at me...that she pays for rent etc..I feel very guilty and maybe she's right that I should always be there but is this normal or are my parents abusing me and have I always been in an abusive relationship? They yell at me a lot and I always have to do what they ask etc..I am living with them to help, I financially can't leave, and I have to be here for my sisters kids..my parents do pay for almost everything so I guess they have the right to make me do whatever they want, right? Or is that not normal and I need counseling to understand what is normal? My parents are not well so I just want to know what is normal 😕I basically raised myself (never there for me emotionally/mentally) but they pay for everything..

Question: Are children generally safer living with their biological parents?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:27 PM PST

Children from stepfamilies are several times more likely to be sexually, physically, and emotionally abused. Foster children show even more statistics of these occurrences. Two married parents with children seem to be less at risk and more protected unless it's an abusive family.

Question: Is it generally better for children to grow up with their biological family?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:09 PM PST

Adoptive parents would be the best option if their birth parents cannot take care of them properly. Kids can still be happy being adoptees, but would a blood-related family generally be better? Children are more likely to have psychological issues growing up without their birth parents. Statistically, they do worse in school and exhibit more bullying behaviours. It might be a result of not knowing their past or something traumatic happened to their parents while the mothers were pregnant.

Question: I feel hopeless and I’m only 17.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:06 PM PST

I feel hopeless. I have been broken for a long time and I really don't know how to pick myself back up. To sum up, I'm 17 and in my senior year of high school and it's been a horrible four years. While in high school, I've had horrible self esteem issues, I have no friends, I literally have nobody to sit with at lunch (I always beg my mom to let me use her car for the sole reason to go home at lunch since I have nobody to sit with) I've spent a total of two weeks in juvie and no one at school knows that about me and even when I was gone for two weeks nobody asked where I was. I have a bad relationship with my family: mom, brother, uncles, grandma. I can't go a week without getting in a fight with my mom. I'm so obsessive about the way I look I constantly think I'm ugly only two people in the whole time I've been in high school have called me pretty. I've never dated anyone or had anyone interested in me. I can't save money for the life of me to buy my own car, and to make matters worse my mom wants to kick me out the day I turn 18 and I'm dealing with this all by myself because I have either nobody to talk to or I'm too embarrassed to tell them what's going on in my mind and afraid they'll judge.

Question: Me and my mom dont have a bond ?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 06:58 PM PST

my mom acts like she doesn't even care about me and no matter how nice i am to her she always grumpy im 16 and im just so heart broken i want to be able to talk to my mom about things and do things with her i never did anything with her i even tried talking to her about this and how i want to do more things with her and she just yells at me and pushes me away my mom is 40 and soon ill be 17 next month then 18 then probably move out and im just sad i never had the experience of a actual mom bonding with her getting our nails done or shopping together and getting matching outfits im just get so jealous when i see my friends and their moms bonding i feel so sad inside and i dont know what to do

Question: My Step-Sister Is Extremely Annoying! I Need Advice, ASAP!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 06:01 PM PST

Hello! I'm having a big dilemma at the moment involving my younger step-sister. (I'm 13, and she is 8). My mom divorced my father and is currently married to my step-dad. I love him like he's my real dad, but his daughter is just too much. Our personalities clash big time, and I'm not sure how I can deal with it. I LOVE my personal space, however she has no concept of it, and just won't leave me as well as all of my close friends alone! She does not respect my constant request of silence, or at least a quieter tone in the house, that I, as well as my mother and sister, enjoy and miss so much. It truly is a dread not being able to think without her repeated screeches, stomps, yells echoing through our very thin walls.The thing is, my mother gets in large arguments about this with my step-dad, and after losing many, she is deemed unable to really parent her in any way. My step-dad thinks that her behavior is absolutely fine, however it is not, and many others claim the same. I do feel as though her mother has some part in this, since she is also horrible. She's buying her an I-phone X, even though she gets bad grades and, according to her classmates, is the worst kid in their grade due to her constant rude comments and shouting out during class. I can't stand her!! Could someone PLEASE help!? D:

Question: I don't know what to do. Help?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:20 PM PST

So I am in 10th grade and I am very close with the 12th-grade assistant principal (let's call her S). She calls me her daughter, that's how close we are. But lately, we've been arguing a lot. And it's over my french teacher. My French teacher (let's call her A) and I do not get along well. And S expects more from me since "I'm her daughter." So we had an argument yesterday about how I need to stop being sassy with A (which I can't do because I feel disrespected ever time A opens her mouth). So right in the middle of the conversation, S told me she was "done" and I asked her "done with what" and she said she was "done with this conversation." So I felt hurt because we have never ever finished an argument without resolving our issues. So I told her "I was done with her overall." And I know I regret telling her that. I feel like I've lost a piece of me. I feel so alone. I honestly do not know what to do know. I'm stuck!!!

Question: Why is my father charging us higher rent?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:02 PM PST

I am 18 years old and recently started paying rent 700 for a room which I find reasonable. However, my dad now quit his job at 50 years old for no fuckimg reason and just wants to charge us 1k each lazy bastard so he can sit his *** all day and watch TV. Why doesn't he work?

Question: Should a teacher get suspended for getting into a headlock with a student?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:54 PM PST

This teacher in my district was trying to teach a 15 year old girl about headlocks. She passed out because he was fighting her too hard. He didn't get first aid and her parents weren't aware that she fainted at school. The student turned out okay, but the teacher was suspended for two weeks. From what I know, the teenager asked the teacher for this.

Question: Why do children behave bad?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:37 PM PST

I notice my nephew he is 7 came to my house he other day he was slamming the door screaming. I asked him if he would like to help me make eggs his eyes glowed and he was so excited. When we finish he never stopped staring at me and even asks about me. He enjoys baking, walking the dog and drawing, I also realized all these hobbies helps him develop appropriate behavior. Why do children behave poorly?

Question: Should I feel bad for not lending my family memeber money?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:33 PM PST

So I just graduated nursing school and been working very hard for 6 months as a nurse. Ever since then i had my aunt who is 20 years older than me ask me for money several times like for gas , to buy fast food etc. she has a job too .. , lives with her parents and has no car bill or any bills besides a phone bill and a 300 rent to her parents. She asked me this time now for 500 dollars for school because shes short on paying the classes. But she had enough loans to finish college but used it all on disney trips and she just went on a road trip last week and is now at the hair salon. I refused to give her the money because i see that she's irresponsible and does not know how to budget so now i have to pay the price. Should i feel bad ?

Question: How common is it to be the only girl out of four boys in a family?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:57 PM PST

I'm the only girl that's the very middle child in my family (two older brothers, two younger brothers). I notice that lots of large families tend to have kids of BOTH genders. My parents didn't expect a girl in our family either because the first two were males.

Question: Who is right?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:45 PM PST

My asian **** mom was being a cock and she keeps yelling at me for stupid reasons but I think the reasons she is yelling at me for is stupid as ****. So my day today was good and I went to the gym after school(important event that happened today) and my mom doesnt know I workout cause my mom doesnt let me cause of like stunting your growth and a waste of time. So when my mom picked me up she yelled at me cause I got a 88 and not a 90 or higher on my chem test, and she yelled at me the whole time until we got to our house. Then when I went home I ate cereal and a banana and greek yogurt. Then after like 2 hours I was hungry so I got up to get a little snack then my mom yelled at me for eating too much, told me that when I eat I should eat a lot. So i didn't get a snack. Then some people came who my brother tutors so that was my chance to get a snack cause then my mom can't yell at me then I got my snack and she gave me a dirty *** look. Then after they left she yelled the **** out of me calling me a fat ***** when im not even fat pretty jacked if you ask me ;). Was she wrong to yell at me?

Question: My uncle called his step-daughter a "Pill Popper" for taking anti-depressents. Is this heartless?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:26 PM PST

Question: My Dad lies a lot. How do I know when he is being truthful and when he is being his usual liar?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:25 PM PST

Question: My sister is a bully. How do I cope with a mean bully for a sister.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:16 PM PST

Question: My Dad didn't call me to see if I got home from work today. I am scared, what do I do?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:13 PM PST

Question: I have a mean and narcissistic family member who expects us all to hate who she hates. How do I we avoid being ruined by her?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:12 PM PST

Question: How do I know if my Mom lied to me about who my Dad is?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:12 PM PST

Question: My step dad is an ignorant prick?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 02:59 PM PST

I'm 17 and I cannot stand my stepdad although I've know him for most of my life. He is so ignorant and makes mean jokes. For instance I was sent home from school because I was depressed and someone told the school I was suicidal and first thing he says to me was "heard you got kicked out of school" and started laughing and I actually hate him for that like who in their right mind jokes about that stuff. And he's so rude he thinks he owns everyone and always bosses me around and is just plain mean

Question: What is up with this girl?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 02:58 PM PST

I'm 16 and this girl I used to like is 12 (just hear me out before you call me a sicko). Let's just call her Jill. She lives with her 2 mothers who are both snitches and drug addicts. They're pretty crazy, too. I live all the way across town. So last month during the first week of Christmas break I spent the night at Matt's house (He's 15). He invited Jill over when it got really late and everyone was asleep. She came over and all 3 of us watched t.v. for a little bit and then Matt fell asleep. I was sitting in between them and Jill put her legs in my lap and leaned her head on my shoulder. I got up a few minutes later and went upstairs to lay down and she followed. I got on the bed in the guest room and she got on top of me and we made out for like 2 hours straight, and she sucked my d*ck. She told me she was 14 and I thought it was pretty convincing. The next morning she went home and told her mom what she did to me. I don't know why the hell she would do that. I later learned that she was raped twice when she was younger, so I guess that f*cked her up in the head. And then I learned she was 12. Her mom told Matt's mom what she did, and Matt's mom sent me home. Matt told me that she tried to run away the next day and got caught by police. Then she tried to kill herself but was caught. Her moms threatened to send her to an asylum. Now she's depressed and I feel so bad for doing anything with her. It's been 2 weeks since the incident. Was I in the wrong? I meant to say it's been 3 weeks. Not 2.

Question: Am I overreacting?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 02:31 PM PST

I'm crying because I feel like **** that I let my mother buy me food. She said it wasn't expensive (it was fast food) but I kind of feel like it was, and I already felt guilty because I had been spending nonstop on food in fast foods this week. I feel like **** for letting her do that, since she kind of gives me some bit of money for the week (I'm a college student) and it's not that we're struggling for money, but money isn't as great as it used to be. I tried to convince myself that she wanted to do but I can't stop feeling bad about it.

Question: Parent being rude?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 01:58 PM PST

so my dad drinks instant coffee every morning, which is not good for you and less flavorful. sometimes he likes to splurge and go to a real coffeehouse. i was trying to be nice, so i got him a coffeemaker and blend of coffee from his favorite place. he then yells at me, because he says he doesn't want to clean a coffeemaker. like he doesn't have to use it if he doesn't want to, but he should yell and complain to others.