Long story short back in the spring i had an issue with a guy and had to tell him to leave me alone or I would have to file a restraining order . Well he ended up leaving me alone and hasn't contacted me since . But all of a sudden him and his mom and dad keep showing up at my job and hanging around the department I work in all the time . They haven't said anything to me but his dad practically almost ran me over with a cart like he was going to hit me with it ??? They know my family and sit by them at community events despite that big issue . I don't understand why all of a sudden they are always at my job or near my family ?? Esp when his dad almost hit me with a cart Idk if I'm over reacting but what should I do when I've left them alone and now they are always at my job ???

So just to provide a little background on myself, I'm 19 living in a small town and pursuing my bachelors in computer science at a small college. My parents have never been very informative on anything pertaining directly to life on your own therefore I hope this is a place where I can ask some questions. I can probably guess that most of you have been in an analogous situation as me at my age, thinking that the world is moving so fast around you and just feeling ready to go out on your own and start living. I guess you could say that I'm a bit scared to go out on my own. I don't know how to buy a house, I don't know how to get insurance on a car, I don't know about doctor visits, financing, investing, retirement, and I even don't truly know how to secure myself a place at a respectable job or how to work myself from entry level to the top. Is there something that I am missing or is this just normal for me to not know these things. I mean college is great and all and I'm very glad the I've had the opportunity to go but, it doesn't help me at all with actual life. I just don't know. If anyone has any personal tips, stories, or related books you could link me I would be so grateful.

I am concerned about the welfare of a 12 year old. She is hanging out with older teens that are involved in sex and partying at night. Also, she's showing promiscuous behaviours to "date" older boys. Her parents seem to truly love her and are providing all the essential needs. The child is the one putting herself in risky positions, but is not doing anything illegal. These parents aren't looking out for their child much because they're often away. A relative stays with the children often. All I know of is that the child has inappropriate conversations with high school kids, hangs around with them, and appears to act sexual.

My mom is brags about how she looks compared to me. Because at my age she had curly brown hair, she was really skinny, she has blue eyes. She says I'm short and not as skinny as she is and that she's glad she has blue eyes and not green eyes like me. I'm 14, 5'2 and 103 lbs so yes I am a bit fat because when she was 14 she was 89 lbs and 5'2. I have green eyes and she's like"Green eyes are weird, especially on men." And for Christmas she got me makeup and she's been pressuring me to wear it even though I said I didn't want to because all of it is like bright pink and I hate pink. And I don't even want to wear makeup. She says my hair color is ugly because it's light brown. She said "It's like your hair can't decide it wants to be brown or blond. It's just a weird color." And she doesn't like that's I wear black clothes. She thinks it's odd. And today she got me a darker brown hair dye. She thinks I'm ugly.

So last Friday (8 days ago) my brother and his wife had a fight. My brother knocked his cup of cereal down on his wife and it poured all over her. She had it and told him to get out and called her sister crying to come get the baby (two others were in school). She threw him out. He previously slammed a door and broke the glass in it during one of his temper tantrums. They married 8 years ago. He has a temper like a little kid. He is not physically abusive to her (other then the cereal incident). She was only 19 when they married so they married WAY TOO young anyway. So should I show sympathy to my brother even though this is mostly all his doing? He is not staying with our parents and the wife says she is filing for divorce. They did this once before and then got back together and she was almost immediately pregnant.

I mean really they use that phrase like it's a get out of jail free card to anything. For example: Kid: "So when you're talking to someone and I wait for like five to ten seconds when you stop talking to say something I'm in the wrong, but when I'm talking to someone and you just completely interrupt right in the middle of a sentence it's all good? Parent: "Don't question me, I'm grown."

She is an abusive narcissist the family doesn't speak to cause she disowned her own son and abuses her sister. However, I do have her on Facebook and wondered if this would be a nice thing to do?

I'm 21 and I'm pregnant which I haven't told my parents yet because when I was 20 after just started dating my boyfriend of a year they told me that if I got pregnant I wasnt allowed back there. But my brother who is 29 has 2 kids and they've let him live there along with helping him out with both of them. Also when I was 19 I wanted to move two hours away from them to live with friends in a different city and they wrote me a note of all the reasons why I couldn't move out and told me in the end I wasn't allowed to. Now I've been moved out for almost a year with my boyfriend and ever since then they don't let me see my niece or nephew unless I beg them to and they still try telling me to move back home because they don't like my boyfriend...I'm really confused and a lot people say they're contRolling and sexist.

I have a designated spot , like Sheldon. it is the only place I sit at and when I told my sister and her bf the must move and refrain from sitting that way they refused. I was also angry that earlier they made a smoothie at 12:15. I eat at 12:15 and do not like to hear any sounds or have anyone else in the kitchen during that time. So I ended up running into their leg and then screamed at them for hurting me, it kind of ruined family day because they left in a huff over this. I couldn't help it because their legs were both jiggling and it was driving me insane. Also they bought pizza and they got mad because I was going to throw it out because it had too many toppings on it and pizza should only have cheese and sauce on it. My parents are mad that I always start fights with my sister every 15 minutes whenever she visits after she bought me cheese pizza. She ruins my routines so it is not my fault. I actually have a lot of problems getting along with almost everyone. Except for my internet gf who is from Switzerland.

So I am a 20 year old female in college so once in awhile I talk to my aunt. She always acts like I am irresponsible she tries to but into my personal college life. She does not listen to me I feel like she takes bits and pieces out of my statement and turns it around. She acts like I try to start fights with people but actually I try to avoid them. So I stop telling her things and then she gets mad. I feel like she doesn't want me to take responsibility. She also blames my phone for certain things too. Ok it snowed here at the college and so I had to take a friend up to the horse barn. and So in the parking lot somebody parked in my spot and so I accidentally skidded in the the snow drift in the spot next to it. So my aunt is mad at me for my friend's vehicle not starting. it frustrates me, its like nothing I can do is good enough. I know that she is older than me but I really wish she would lay off a little. Right now she thinks my truck is going to be towed though it is in the parking lot in a spot. It stresses me out that she is like you done this or that. She thinks college is just about homework that they assign homework every day. And once in awhile I will take a nap and she would always call me during it. And she would get really mad at me for it. I finished my homework before the nap. She always calls up the office and tries to check up on me, I feel like she is trying to babysit me all the time. I am very mature, only once in awhile I get to goof off.

It's extremely aggravating because she does things she knows she's not allowed to do( stay out past curfew, wear revealing clothes, be on her phone at dinner) and she knows what she does have to do( keep on top of homework, keep her room clean) She just ignores it all, does as she pleases and then we fight. I've tried taking away her computer & her phone. What do I do?

They are going to see her this weekend for her birthday. She likes to tell my Mom bad things about her two sisters so my Mom then gets mad at her sisters. The friend is a snake who is trying to divide my Mom's side of the family. She is a former in-law of my Mom's sister (her sister's ex-husband's sister). My Mom got to know her cause they both are interior decorators. Worst part is she tells my Mom negative things her sister said about her (my Mom) when they were sisters-in-law. For example my Mom's sister called my Mom a "kiss up" 7 years ago to her then-sister-in-law and this woman told my Mom 4 years ago "your sister called you a kiss up when we were family". My Mom became this woman's friend about 5 years ago right around the time of her sister's divorce. Her sister and this woman are not friends.

She wrecked last Christmas but luckily this year she wasn't there so it was better.

She is only 6 years older then me as it was a 4th marriage for my Dad (I am from his 2nd marriage). I am 16 and in love with her like sexually attracted to her. It disturbs me as I know it is wrong. She is 22 and my Dad 62. I am going to be with them tomorrow and Monday and then she will take me to school Tuesday (she is a graduate from 3 years ago). They married over Thanksgiving weekend and dated since last August.

for starters, I hardly remember her in my childhood (same with my father but that's a whole other story). I moved in w her about 4 years ago bc my grandma could no longer take care of me. my mother is an embarrassment. she is obnoxious as hell. whenever we're in public, she likes to speak LOUD n let everybody around us know. she's stupid, always asking dumb *** questions. she's so close minded. I tell her I'm feeling sad one day n she got mad at me and started yellin @ me, she said I shouldn't feel sad cuz I got a roof under my head but then proceeds to get upset that we don't have a close relationship & i don't talk about my feelings w her. I suffered from depression at one point and she threatened to send me to an asylum. whenever I try eating healthy, she always showin me junk food, tryin to make me eat them. for example, I recently have gone vegan and whenever she cooks meat, she's asking if I want some. I don't even force her to be vegan!! I don't understand. she complains that I don't love her but she not even a mother figure to me!! I can't even trust you to confine my feelings with you! I try so hard to build a daughter-mother relationship but she puts in ZERO effort. she tries to control my future saying I HAVE to be a doctor, lawyer, insert high paying job. I don't wanna be that! or I'm in orchestra. I told I no longer had interest in that and she said she's not letting me quit!! she always tries to make me paint my nails or do girly things, but that's not who I am.

I found out I was pregnant by this guy I've only known for 5 months . I know terrible , he was a sex buddy . My decision was to abort it and my mom encountered me not to . I took sometime and thought about that . After deciding not to abort . My mom randomly started saying it was nasty that I didn't protect myself against viruses . Ok I understand. Then she said be careful . When she was saying all of these things I said yeah I know . She then said yup you already made a mistake with all of this having a baby . So now it's a mistake now that I'm have my it . I then told her that I felt judged and that she's made plenty of mistakes and not to bring up mines etc . She then said , I would be quiet if I were you . YOu need Jesus ! I responded don't we all wow ? She then said IM gone ! Stopped paying rent , moved out knowing that I already have a daughter and now a 2nd one on the way. She also knew I needed financial support until April. She was like you need me ! She was also bringing up random stuff to me just to argue . Such as ...where's that toy I bright such and such . I'm like oh are you guys gonna play ? I gotta dig through stuff . She was like no . It's like she just wanted to see if I kept it or gave it away. I'm 29, yes I'm older . But my mom claiming to love her current granddaughter doesn't sound valid since now we are gonna be homeless right ?

Just curious after a story I heard of one.

Shouldn't the rest of the family just not take it personal? Why do narcissists do this?

I am in college and next week is when classes start. Before winter break I registered for my classes and one of them is from 7pm-10pm and my parents keep yelling at me and telling me that I need to change out of the class because I m a girl and girls shouldn t be out late. I ride my bike to and from school almost everyday because it is only 5 minutes away from student housing. My mom is threatening to stop paying tuition because I won t do what they say. The reason why I am sticking by my decision is because every time I try to make a decision for myself they try to tell me what to do and take control, I am 20 by the way. I would drive a car to the school if I had one but I asked my mom if I could borrow one of the cars she doesn t use just to get to and from school because the class gets out late but she keeps saying I m not ready for a car...I have my drivers license already. I already told them I will be working this semester and buying my own car which I will have to ride my bike to my job as well. I already put off this class last semester for the exact same reason but I have to take the class. What would you do in this situation?

I am 29-years-old and I am a loser. I am going to be 30 in August and I haven't achieved anything. I have been to jail 2 times already, I was in there for one year the last time. I have been through a lot in my life, I used to get bullied as a kid and my parents didn't like me and I didn't have any friends. That messed me up and now I smoke cigarettes everyday since I was 12. and I just spend days alone drinking alcoholic drinks. Fun isn't it? Not really. I can't even get a job. I live with my cousin in a tiny apartment at the moment. I used to be homeless. I can't get a girlfriend, also I am a registered sex offender for something that happened when I was 24. What should I Do? I want to get back on track. How can I stop smoking? Has anyone been through the same thing? I really hate my life.

I live in the suburbs with my mom and little brother. Ive never had a desent father figure to turn me in the right direction. The road im going on seems rough and i need help cause idk if im doing it right so what kinda of things has your father taught you

My brother passed 9 months ago due to to suicide. We held a funeral at our house. My moms brother, who never contacts anyone in the family showed up. He wouldnt stop talking the whole time, for example....he knows my parents are disabled so he went on and on about closing the program. He couldn't stop talking about sleeping with prostitutes in Korea....he went on about how his son was addicted to meth. He continuously was talking crap about my father and things he did in the past. His wife even blamed my father for my brothers death at one point.... one thing i could not take was....i was tired by the end of the night. I made an off hand joke about being tired and my brain being shut off. So the guy says "like your brothers is about to be"? This was 9 months ago and it still disgusts me, so i sent a facebook message outlying all the thing they had done, amd saying they are basically dead to me...and i STILL feel regret. All i reiterate to them were the problems they created, and then blocked those cancerous people from my life. How badly did i **** up?

They fight practically every other day but for the past several months their fights have been about getting 'divorced'. In my perspective, they seem to be getting sick of each other's habits, but I don't know if they actually don't have affection for each other anymore. My dad is our family's breadwinner, but my mom works just as hard with part-time jobs and taking care of the house. If they were to divorce, my dad would be financially fine, but my mom, on the other hand, would have nowhere to go. So in this state, would they realistically divorce? Other things to know: - My mom never admits she's at fault, and my parents' fights take hours mostly because my mom keeps saying s*** - My dad hates my mom's nagging (and believe me, her nags are stressful to the point I want to leave the house) - After work, instead of coming home right away, my dad drinks and spends hours with his friends. When he comes home he'll watch movies till 3 or 4 AM. - We are a family of five, I'm in high school, my brother is in middle school, and my sister is in college. Both my parents are almost 50. We are an Asian household (idk if that helps).

An officer in my area found a 4/5 year old alone at night. The girl was desperate to find her parents, but they also discovered 27 other kids in the same area. There was also a puppy mill running in the same place. A few of them had no clue where they are. It seems as if none of them are related or have specific reasons to be there. Nobody expected this - an adult was concerned about the child's welfare at first, tried to take her to the police station, but ended up finding more children (and animals). None of the parents seemed to be there.

People are more open about adoption so this might be the reason, but I seem to meet more adoptees now. I heard that more parents are willing to adopt and have both biological and adopted.

i'm 13 and my dad has become very angry and hostile. for as long as i can remember, my parents have verbally faught. but over the past few months, my dad has not only picked fights with my mom, but me as well. he'd call me names, a b****, worthless, etc. he'll tell my brothers to ignore me because i am just a b****. but tonight was by far the worst he's gotten. my mom was working a night shift so my dad was watching me and my brothers, he started to say some rude things to me with no reason. then i started to say some smart a** comments and he began to lash out. he stomped over to the couch and ripped my computer (that my grandma bought me) out of my hands and the charger and slammed it very hard. i stood up and walked to my room, where he procceeded to kick me and throw my computer on my bed. he said some other comments but otherwise left me alone. my computer is now broken and i've been crying all night. what do i do?

My step Mom offered me some food by asking me and I said no not right now and she said 1. Don't talk to me in that tone and she told me to go away meaning I can't have any of what she made she headed to their room with my Dad and that's where my Dad said you're mean and I said no I'm not you're mean they're mean by just saying that I will be reporting this to my therapist tomorrow what is their problem?! Gosh!

Hello ladies and gents, it's your pal Jimmy here. It recently occurred to me after attending my step brother in law's birthday party, that I have a very VERY hard time socializing with other humanoids, especially in regards to humor. I don't really understand why none of my jokes ever land. I repeat all the good ones straight from Reddit, and they never seem to get a good response. I always get strange looks, and questions such as "why are you talking to me?" and "who are you?" Honestly, this happened several times at my step brother in law's party, and it's made me feel really distanced from the family. Could I be adopted perhaps? That would explain why I can only speak in a monotone voice, and why my eyes are much squintier than my parents. Anyways, sorry for the rant. Can you help?

Long story short I'm 23 years old my stepfather molested me from God knows how long probably since he's been in my life since I was 2 until I finally spoke out and told when I was in the 7th grade! Of course I told my mom and she did NOTHING! This man has choked me thrown me on the bed,tried to kick me out of the house, hit me in the back of my head and blamed me for my mom and his marriage to be messing up! After it all my mom stayed married to him and shamefully still is married to him. Well now I'm pregnant 2 months with my first and I really really don't want or feel safe with my son or daughter to be around this man. I know for sure this is going to cause something and he's going to play victim and claim he's never did anything to me and everyone as usual is going to try to make me feel bad for me not wanting my child to be around him. Am I wrong?? I mean come on my mother tries to force me to have a relationship with him, he calls me his daughter and says "daddy loves you" it's so weird! I been forgave him but having to be around him because I had to move back home from college is so bad and emotional for me right now. I just wish I could move on from this trama forever but I can't 😔 This whole situation is just stressing me out!

I went to my mums the other day and she was feeling sorry for herself. She hurt her back so she had a sick day, but I can see she over acts when she is sick.. I am a nurse myself, so I can tell acting. She was very negative and called yesterday to ask why I was in such a bad mood that day, I said I wasn't and have just finished a 16 hour shift and she said 'why the hell would you do that?" anyway, i can't deal with her.. and my sister, who always asks me for things but doesn't consider me. how can i deal

Ok so long story short my fiancé and I are planning our housing situation and I feel myself getting mad. His daughter is 15 and I have four kids with my ex husband ages 11 8 4 and 2. I have two boys and two girls in my current four bedroom house. The girls share a room and the boys share a room. I have sole legal and physical custody of my kids as my ex was abusive. From my ex husband I get 3500 a month in child support plus I make just as much after taxes in take home pay. My children live a nice life but my fiancé brings home 1/4th of what I make. He has his daughter every other weekend and that's it. We recently got in an argument because he wants us to move so his daughter can have her own room. I said we can move but she's not getting her own room. I'm not going to have a room vacant because she wants it when she's only here every other weekend. I stated my child support is for my kids to live comfortable lives and have their needs not to make sure your daughter has her own room...am I wrong over this?

In my last question like I said my sister has John Lennon for and imanginary husband she said she and him are gonna have a baby not real just for pretendend but I'm not happy that she had learned about pregnancy and sex she's only 11 years old. Times like this makes me glad she's home schooled. She doesn't have very many friends she doesn't really have many friends just The Beatles are her friends. She said George is her best friend. I don't know where she could have learned this from. Our parents died it's just me and her now we've got The Beatles living with us sort of. It's good thing they're imaginary. She said she had sex with both Ringo and John but I guess John is the baby's father she said. Where did she learn this stuff from ?

My sister is 11 years old obsessed with The Beatles she has the cartoon on DVD she watches it everyday she loves John and Ringo. She has both Ringo and John for an imanginary husband. She said she had sex with both of them also she's pregnant John's baby. Not real though she's just pretending. Yet she loves Ringo the most she spends more time with him than with John. She said George is her best friend she doesn't care for Paul. She said when she first met them John and Paul were both fighting over her. I feel really bad for myself having John Lennon for a brother in law even though it's just pretend still feel guilty. Is this normal for a kid ? Also she wants to know which name sounds good for her imanginary baby Ringo Jr for a boy or Lily Marie ?

My dad accidetally started giving me $20 a week for allowence, and just never stopped, which is twice what I used to get. So I only have about $60 saved so far, but I'm itching to buy something, i just don't know what? Should I get new shoes, makeup, a cool blanket? Ideas? *Accidentally and *allowance

My sister is 11 she loves The Beatles she's watching the cartoon she has a crush on John. She should know that he's a cartoon cartoons aren't real. In real life she loves Ringo and George but in the cartoon she loves Ringo and John. She doesn't care about Paul. When she watches the cartoon she starts crying over John. She said he's so cute and adorable she said if cartoons were real she would marry him and Ringo too. She has John for an imanginary husband. She's in love with him she even cries about him. She sais shes pregnant with his baby its not real just for pretendend. Does she need help or is this normal for a kid ?

My Son and I never had the best relationship. His Mother left when he was pretty young, and I had to work multiple side-jobs to make ends meet and keep our buisness afloat, so I was not around much for him growing up. He seemed to get better towards the end of high-school, but after his first year of college he quit. He told me that his life was terrible, and more to the point, he is angry that he was born with a finite lifespan and blames me for his unavoidable death. He said that as a parent, I owe him everything for forcing him into existence, and that every problem he faces in life is due to me getting his mother pregnant (and by extension his birth). He said that he is leaving, to pursue ancient artifacts or the secret to becoming immortal. As a parent, I am simply speechless. Any thoughts or advice??

Not really "running away" because I'm no longer a minor, but I'm in a very toxic, almost abusive(not really, but maybe socially) situation, and my situation has been manipulated to the point that I literally have no option. Bare with me but the story is that I have six siblings and my parents both worked and so I was never able to get a job or even extracurricular activities at school because I had to stay at home and watch my siblings, which is fine, I get it, but it's hindered me now, because they never had "time" to teach me drive no matter how many times I asked, and now they moved us all out to the country, like in the middle of the country, and I have no idea what to do. All the money ( like over 1200 bucks now ) I had saved up, they had to "borrow" because they were "financially" in trouble (yet they had money to go buy things for their motorcycles... Ok), and that was okay at the time bc it seemed like they needed it, but now im stuck and idk what to do. Seriously. I bought a car to learn how to drive, but they continue to say they don't have time and Im trying to rush it so I can get a job and get out but now my mom is saying I need to pay 500 to live there since I won't get a job and ???? I can't though??? We're 10-15 miles away from the closet business so it's not like I can walk or ride a bike... And my friends... I moved here before I graduated so I'm no longer close with any actual friends so it's not like I can couch surfing (I tried calling them up). And about college.. I can't afford it. And my parents make too much to qualify for fasfa so .. I don't know what to do. I can't stay here any more.  Things are getting beyond worse , with how she talk to me and stuff, I won't list it cause it's personal, but it's getting bad and I don't want to be here, but i already talked about getting help finding apartment and job in the closest town over, but that was shut down . . . I'm in the process of joining the air Force, but my recruiter said I could get disqualified because I have to get a waiver, and yeah it might be a couple of months before I can even start the process and my mom has already talked about kicking me out cause I can't live there for free cause rent is 500 a month and I don't have that money ... So this is my only option. How do I do this. I'm in Texas so ... Do I just packs my bags and go ... I only have 900

I mean, I think every single person gets irritated when they are suddenly supporting someone who can't contrubute, but is getting extreme (looking through your phone, threatening to kick you out, shutting the water off when you're in the shower, threatening to charge you rent DESPITE KNOWING you're unemployed, etc.) normal? The reason they probably value money to such an extent they'd treat their unemployed broke child this way, is because they have to pay loads of money for their own way of living, and feel taken advantage of (my parents have said they feel I did that when I was TRYING TO GET A JOB, because I wasn't paying money WHILE LOOKING FOR A JOB). They feel leeched off of. Some people think you should actually be HOMELESS (which many people are) if you can't support yourself or contribute to others.

Let's say a physically developed girl who's 13 compared to her peers who still look more like children. Even if she has the maturity of the average child at that age, should she be more protected?

After having a stroke and being forced to move in with my Parents(I'm 33) I have discovered that my Mom is narcissistic and emotionally abusive. The problem is, due to being currently incapacitated, I'm in the same home as Her.

If you have one child of each gender - both at the age where they want freedom. While responsibility and trust matters very much, should gender also be a factor? Most parents today don't hinder girls' privileges but should they, just because the child is female?

Hello. I got grounded on December 12, 2017 for staying out past curfew. I do not get ungrounded until February 23, 2018. I have been doing chores and keeping the house really clean and I have been making really good grades. When I did get grounded, I did not argue or anything. Now, I can't do anything on the weekends or holidays or after school until I get ungrounded. I do not want to ask to be ungrounded completely, but I would like to have my girlfriend come over for a little bit (I am 17) sometime this weekend because I haven't gotten to see her much except at school. I want to make some kind of deal with my mom, but I don't know how to go about this. Any tips? Thank you.

I want to know what I can do to care for myself since I cannot trust her whatsoever.

My wife and two of my three kids died in a car crash a week ago. The funerals were yesterday. My 10 year old son was with me at the time and so survived. I am afraid he will feel more depressed staying home all weekend even though that is what I'd like to do now that the week and funerals are over. What activities might help him this weekend even if hard for me. He is having a hard time to and we have just stayed inside all day today. He played some video games he had gotten back at Christmas but Christmas (which was wonderful this year) now seems like a century ago.

My grandpa was cremated a year ago and he has 12 kids, they all decided to pass his ashes around to each one so that everyone had time with him before he was sent to Mexico to be burried with his parents. But the first sibling that kept him is not letting any of the other siblings have a turn. I live in Oregon . Is there some kind of law that requires for them to share? Thanks in advance!

Her mother has warned me she is a liar

so i was texting my friend and accidentally hit the wrong key and cussed lol. i said oops and stuff but she was like "don't say that" and i said it was a mistake but she just changed the subject. again she said "when ur bff cusses" with a pic and i said it was an accident and said "the "f" key is next to the "g" key. i was tryna say "OMG" but hit the "f" key. it's was an accident" and she said "dude. no." then changed the subject. IM SO CONFUSED. what does she mean? if she saying something i'm not understanding??

she always blames me for everything when something goes bad. Yes I've done things in the past but i don't do them now. She doesn't listen she thinks she knows everything and yells whenever I talk. She's honestly pissing me off, and I know when I leave and become successful at what I do she's going to want to talk to me.