And a lot of debt and kids to supper that they cannot afford?

Is it ok to discuss your martial problems including personal downfalls of your husbands and fights that you have with your husband without his knowledge to a male friend of yours that you grew up with whom your husband has never met and who is single? Or is this inappropriate to do while you are married? Is it disrespectful of your husband?

My mother recently passed away, and my dad still seemed furious about something, and it's possible it's that i inherited his divorced china set. Seriously, what's the issue with divorced people fighting over who gets the china set?

So i was clean for three months when i meet her. I usually just use pills, but eventually got in too deep. I used heroin for 3 months, and after got clean. I've been struggling for 7 years total. I have been in a 4 year relationship with her, but the last year, im so sorry, but i drug this sweet girl into my lifestyle. She had her own problems, like cutting and stuff: Probably why we understood each other. But now after a year of use, the last three months went from smoking to shooting. Well we just got clean. It's been 14 days and im finally done for good. Im exercising, watching inspirational videos, doing all the things I know help PAWS subside quicker. She on the other hand has no experience with this. She sleeps all days. Cant deal with things, like going back to work: Even though I continued to work through being sick. But the real problem is, even though she wont take my advice because this is new to her, is this the end? Will we never love each other again? Relapse is not the question. It will not happen. Im finally done. The question is once i finally am able to feel again, and her the same, will we love each other, or is it just a burnt out candle?

You see a woman's dating history sometimes as they age and they always were dating really handsome men in their 20's and then They end up marrying a guy who's way below their usual standards. Like going from athletic handsome tan guys who dress well and are doctors or engineers or lawyers to marrying a guy who is 50 lbs overweight has a double chin and never grooms himself and has a crappy job.

My wife left to go live at a friend s house because of some marriage issues we have had. Mainly me. We aren t divorced yet. I want her to come home, but I understand why she left. She said she wanted space. I looked up some advice on what I should do in this situation, and some of it said I should give her the space, and others said space is what makes her lose interest in me. I am scared shitless about her losing interest, or another man sweeping her off her feet. Any one else been in this situation? I could really use some answers.

My husband has told me some pretty weird things. We haven t been married for that long. He basically has told me that he s killed people before. I won t go into details for safety purposes. But most of these things that he s told me he said to me when he was drunk. He s never hurt me before or treated me wrong, he s always treated me with love but I am still scared that he ll remember these things that he told me. Should I go to the police? What can I do?

My husband doesn t hold my hand or kiss me or want to have sex with me anymore . He s 23 we ve been dating since I was 14 we had our baby when I was 16 and we got married when I was 18......he s like a 3x in clothes I don t know if he s feeling insecure or he s smoking to much pot. If I try to kiss him or touch him he says get off like I m aggregating him. He doesnt take me out or over to his friends houses with him while he stays out past 12 all the time because I don t smoke pot and stuff. I don t know how to go about this it makes me kind of sad sometimes because I want to be intamite and go on dates like a young married couple. No sex could go on for months. If I say I m gonna leave he says go idk how serious he is. My body isn t the same since the baby my boobs sag idk he a turn off maybe lol. I caught him cheating before through message tellling other wemon what he wants to go to them but he said nothing happend. He also watched porn I seen in his phone. We re living with my parents become of money and soon we re gonna be a position to buy a home but I ve been contemplating whether I should separate to see if that could help us because he doesn t appreciate me he barely helps with the baby days he ll get up for work at 7 and get off at four and hang in the streets until 12am and doesn t call.

Even things like bachelorette parties, girls night out, using vibrators (adult concepts) doesn't seem to make sense to her. She loves America but it is killing me because I feel she's doesn't get my reality. I never thought marrying a foreign born woman would compromise what I consider a normal American life.

So I suspect my wife is cheating on my with her iPhone she uses certain apps and she's always on her calendar app and times she would call people and let it ring once and then hang up and she would text people and use like certain words and she always deletes her emoji keyboard can someone tell how to just see what's hiding in plane sight this has been going on for a year now and I catch her she's always you won't find ****! And I want to so bad please help!

He wants me to cook clean do laundry work outside the home care for pets mow our yard do small household repairs pick up after him etc. My children take care of themselves and do more around the house than he does. If he happens to do anything he expects praise from everyone and for days after he does it. He doesn t work and if he does it s never for more than a month or two then he quits. What can possibly be done? What happened to being a man?

The husband of my ex is currently fixing his house, and is planning to move with her at the end of this month or next month. I asked my ex to describe to me the building but she says she still hasn t seen it and he is avoiding to take her because for him it is currently a mess. Do I have the right from now to ask about the neighborhood and exactly where the apartment is located? Or I have to wait until she moves and then discover the neighborhood? The court gave the child custody to me when we got married but they are still with her since we thought it is the best for them. But if I discover that the neighborhood is dangerous for them, I am ready to take them and raise them myself.

Without mentioning what special relation she had with all of them before marriage and what they shared among them?

My husband makes more than I do, But I pay for all the house bills, Cable, Elec, Light, Gas, my car payment and insurance, my cell phone bill and Groceries, whenever we go out I pay plus my 2 Kids needs and school supplies. plus I used to help him $150 with rent, But I had enough and told him to pay all the rent, since he doesn't help me with the house bills or groceries or the kids needs. the rent is 1450. he said he is only paying 1300 plus his cell, car and insurance bills. he states he pays 600 in child support but his kids are 22 and 13/14 years old. What is the correct thing do here? Its stressful! Who Pays what, is this fair? Please let me know what you think is correct in this situation? Should I still help him with our rent?

I ve known this man that I m in love with for 10 years, he has been my friend through many relationships, struggles and our entire teenage and adult lives. We have always loved each other and both known it. This marriage is my second, my first ended because my ex husband beat me physically and so I divorced him. My second marriage is with a man whom I love but not in the same way I love my friend. I think he s a good guy, and a good husband, but he doesn t provide for me emotionally and rarely wants to have sex due to a medical condition. We have no spark and are more like good friends, although I do have a romantic interest in him. I would ve tried to date 10 year man before marrying someone else, but the problem was that he was half way across the country, and he spent some time dating someone else. Whom he eventually ended the relationship with (I didn t talk to him during this time) because he can t see a future with anyone but me. The issue is, I love this 10 year man dearly and I do believe that he is the love of my life, I also have no children and although my current husband and I own a home together that is the only thing on the line. I m thinking of leaving my husband, but it does hurt because I truly think he is a great man, we treat each other well and his family really adores me. And I like them, too. I want a fresh start, so I m thinking of running away. I know this is selfish but I have always done what everyone else wanted.

Sorry this is gonna be a long one... Back Story: So i have been married for 3 years and known my wife for almost 4. We have two children and are currently saving for a house living with my mother. She has postpartum is bipolar and on the highest dose of possible meds she can legally be given. Her pregnancies were back to back basically with like a month or two in between. Current Issue: Over the past 2 years she has threatened divorce has developed a pill problem said shes hated me shes never loved me that I m a bad father and a bad husband. She is extremely controlling and the focus is always on her. She is a stay at home mom while i work a full time job. I come home and then start my second job as a parent and then I go to bed. She seems completely uninterested in me I feel unloved underappreciated and I feel she is putting the responsibility of making her happy and keeping her sane on my shoulders. Its been 2 years of hell and i have gone numb. I still love her and care for her but I don t know if i can get past the hurt. Im not perfect by any means and my mind knows that her emotional whirlwinds arent her fault but it hurts so much. I dont know what to do. We are looking into marriage counseling but I feel so detached its like the spark we had and the passion is just gone. What do i do? Should I divorce, separate, suck it up and be miserable? I m so lost.

me & my wife staying with our family from last 9 year,But my wife want to separate from me now immidiately.so we want to file a divorce mutually.so what is the minimum time to take divorce.

He got a series of texts from a new number. FYI I did not look thru his phone he had his phone open in front of me while we were laying on the sofa together and it was in my plain view when he had it open (we were reading internet news stuff together and the text came up) I asked him whose number it was and he blew up at me in front of his kids with rage and anger cutting me down in front of his kids saying I should trust him and I was crazy. I was. It snooping and just asking. I know I was wrong but was shocked by his reaction. What should I do?

Many French presidents had mistresses and everyone's fine with it in France. Whereas Clinton was so criticized for having that affiair with Monica Lewinsky. If Americans were fine with extramarital affairs, the divorce rate may decrease. So why are many Americans against extramarital affairs?.

First time we were married 18 years. The second 21 years. Now again 6 years later. She is not going to change at this point. Thankfully our children are adults and moved out but seriously I loved this woman.