So my counsin told her husband that I used to pee the bed when I was younger but she doesn t know that I was molested as a child, I was so embarrassed , I even cried, I just feel like she wanted to embarrass me in front of her husband , why would you say that about someone unless you want to embarrass them. I m visiting her house but I really want to leave early in the morning with out her noticing, Am I overreacting.

So me and my husband got into a heated fight and things got physical. He pushed me and I kicked him and then he called me a whore and a ****. He s apologized and is sorry for saying it. He said that he said it because he was so angry after I kicked him. We ve only been married for 3 WEEKS and things have been awful. Do you think what he said is forgivable?

So my parents have been caught up in a divorce for 5 years, and for the last year I've decided to stay at my Dad's apartment. Sure, there's not enough space, its a lot smaller than the house, I can't really hang out with my friends there (yeah I guess its kind of mental too, not just that its small), but I am willing to make that trade off (unlike my sister, but she is 16 year old girl she needs her space I guess, 14 btw) because I really just find my mom to be mean, abusive, and honestly a little mentally unstable (she cries all the time and has random outburst) and uncomfortable. The divorce has really made her a lot more bitter. She doesn't want whats best for me and my siblings, she just wants to hurt my dad. There is sufficient information that would of been able to end the divorce in the first 3 months, but unfortunately the family court system is screwed. I have a younger sister I don't want it to keep effecting her like it has already. Now I've been to another therapist before, and my mom tried to tell him that my dad was abusive to his kids, he didn't believe her, so she accused him of being a pedophile and got to switch my therapist to someone who sides with her and is honestly incompetent (doesn't admit his faults and wrongs). Now there is a new court order saying I have to spend more time with my mom, which doing so makes me really uncomfortable. What can I do, in my case and in everything in general? Can I take any type of legal action? Testify? (idk the jargon)

I'm a single woman..have been heartbroken and used in the past despite giving my whole heart ... I would sacrifice everything for my lover... I'm attractive too. But every time I meet a man I love he just wants me for sex which I dont give...why doesnt anyone love me ? Thx

Like would you consider even dating them?

I am going to boot camp soon and my very recent husband is not on my lease ANYWHERE, like he isn't even listed as an occupant because his residency is listed elsewhere. I have heard that I can break my lease when I go off to boot camp and my husband doesn't want to fulfill the lease. Now on the other hand, my father in law seems to think that because my husband and I are married, my husband is going to have to fulfill the lease while I am gone and is threatening to make him homeless because of it (I'll take care of that in my own time) and seems to apparently know nothing of how it works. I'm hoping for a source/information on the topic because I've got everything else sorted, except that part. I don't want my husband to be forced to pay off my lease because I am going to boot camp

I know at least one of the friends sees prostitutes regularly. He didn't hide it but it sees like an odd thing to do. Am I just being insecure?

My husband is taking a few college courses this year. This week I went to visit him at his last class. Seeing that the class was over, but he was still in the lab room I walk in. The hubs greets me with a smile and explains that he has some work left to do. He invites me over to his lab station and I sit down next to him. As we are talking, this random vietnamese girl goes right between me and him. She puts her back towards me and her body faces him. She leans in and begins excitedly asking what chemical he is using. My hubs looks surprised and simply answers her question. I stay silent expecting him to mention that she rudely interrupted us. husband says nothing else and she continues to linger there. Eventually, my husband awkwardly asks me if I wanted to try this experiment. As I explain that I'm not even in this class I can feel a glare coming from this girl.. I ask quietly if he knew her. This girl then walks away and my husband assures me that she's never talked to him before until now. I look back at the girl and see she has all her belongings packed and that she is still glaring at me.. Eventually she leaves after my husband walks past her to go talk with a professor. Honestly, her body language was incredibly rude and disrespectful to me and our marriage. I'm also confused to why she was acting that way when my husband claims he doesn't even know her.. I'd personally like him to approach her and let her know, but he seems uncomfortable with the idea. Any opinions? Also, to the person who asked "why does it matter that she's Vietnamese?" It doesn't. There's nothing wrong with describing someone by race. I'm asian too and that's how I describe myself to others. Wow, internet makes a lot of you a bunch of rude a**holes. Fyi I've got my reasons for feeling this way. My husband hasn't been the most faithful person. If you've ever been cheated on, you'd understand a little about where I am coming from. Secondly, I'm perfectly allowed to visit my husband at this school. I've attended it before. The professors know me there as well as they know him.

So my husband told me that he used to get aroused by lap dances at strip clubs before we met. Long story short, we were debating whether or not guys really thought people didn't notice if they had a ***** in public places (like strip clubs). You can totally tell when a guy has a ***** in his pants, he's in denial!! So since lap dances were on my mind, later that night, we were just hanging out on the couch playing footsie and I was in my cute nighty, so I decided to give him one, and instead of getting all hot and bothered, after a minute or two he literally leaned to the side to look around me at the TV!!! And didn't even pop a chub in his shorts.. I wanted to punch him in the throat... I didn't though. I just huffed away and he continued watching TV. It wasn't even a good show, it was like an NCiS rerun or something stupid like that. Anybody else here that would be pissed about this?

I need some advice as to why my ex husband slut shamed me to one of my guy friends who asked him about me the other day.. he told him he better be good to me or he will take me away from him joking he said of course Andy friend told me he said " well u could prob get her if u wanted to"....:( he is somewhat familiar with my sexual history when we dated and broke up for a time period then we got back together got married and come to find out he wasn't marriage material .. so we divorced he didn't give me the attnetion I needed or anything we didn't even say our vows at our wedding?? Pls help how should I take this remark he made to my guy friend about me?? Why would he do this to me ! Is t Bc we are divorced and he's mad?? Pls help!

About a week ago, I was stopped by a patrol while I was driving my wife to her aerobics class. They searched the car and found a dime bag under the seat. Having priors, I panicked over going back to jail for possession. When the officer asked whose weed it was, I looked over to my wife and said "cupcake I thought you quit". The police pulled her out the car, placed her face down on the hood and read her rights to her. She just kept looking at me through the windshield crying "You know this isn't mine", but all I could do was look back at her and mouth a sorry with jail at my forethought. I bailed her out, but for the past week she has been living at her mothers and refuses to even answer her door when I knock. How can I make this right? I only did it because I knew she would get a slap on the wrist for her first offense.

My husband and I have a 4 and 2 year old. My husband also has an 8 year old son from a previous relationship. Husband has majority custody. He and ex are court ordered to put communication in writing bc their relationship is so bad. She's bipolar and - even in writing - she threatens to kill him, slash tires, etc. According to the parenting plan, on Halloween we have son. She gets 30 minutes for pictures. But ex comes and brings her mom, dad, brother and two aunts. And when husband discretely mentions her time is up, she makes a scene (screaming with neighbors watching, getting her family involved, etc.). They've been to court over her not following the plan, but there isn't much you can do when you are outdoors in a public space. To stay away from the tension, I usually pass out candy at the house. This year - to avoid the drama - my husband has offered for ex to take son out herself. She accepted. I was looking forward to going out with the 2 little ones out this year instead of passing out candy. But his ex just notified him that she will be at our house at 5 p.m. on Halloween with her family. She thinks our neighborhood will have better candy. She also said she expects husband to come with her too. I told him to do what he thinks is best for son - but I don't want any part of that. I'm not angry or anything, but I do want to enjoy my time. I'll take little ones elsewhere to trick or treat. Husband is upset. Do you have advice? He's upset because he's in a difficult situation. He'd like to be with the two youngest for their first Halloween out...and he is trying to avoid conflict with his ex by doing what she wants. Since we've signed up for several trick or treat-type events in our community prior to the holiday, I don't think his older son feeling left out will be an issue. I was initially worried about this so I found events the 5 of us (husband, 3 kids and me) can do to have Halloween experiences together. Beatrice, ex used to only have 8 supervise hours a week, But, when he was 6, a judge - saying a bipolar diagnosis shouldn't be used against a parent - granted ex unsupervised EOW with overnights. Judge said as long as negative language and actions aren't directed at child, it shouldn't be used against her. Obviously, since husband was still named primary parent, there were other issues too.

I know he is mad and frustrated but I feel like i can only sit and wait for him to leave or find enough energy to do it myself because I don't know what else to do. He has gotten mad at the lack of sex, and criticized my boyish body and said I don't know how to please a man and my butt is too small, and he rarely (never anymore) initiates sex. I always had a higher sex drive than he did, but now I have no desire to please him. I think he slut shamed me at one point, saying women don't come onto men like that. If I say he has watched too much porn, he will say it's my fault I force him to. Does this sound like a porn problem? I like giving oral, I like every part of his body but I feel very rejected. Does this sound like a porn problem?

My wife is a med device rep. She meets w/doctors often and has lunches and dinners. It s her job to build a relationship with the doctors so they will use her product. There are times she will go out for a drink with doctors, which is fine. But lately there s one doctor she will go out late with at like 10pm and return at midnight or so. We ve discussed the situation and how I don t feel that it s totally appropriate to go out and get hammered with a client multiple times a week. I told her I understand her job is to make these connections with clients for business but isn t there a more appropriate time? I asked "why couldn t you have gone to lunch and chatted" or even dinner. The doctor is recently divorced. Does he not ever think that it s maybe a little over the line to text my wife at such a late hour to go get drinks? Idk what to do. One night he texted and asked if she could pick him up from the airport and give him a ride home.....his flight came in at midnight. My wife is making me feel like I m a crazy person for feeling uncomfortable with this. Maybe I am, I m not sure. Last night she was going to meet him at 10 and I asked if I could join. She said "umm no, that would be kind of weird" and said they mostly talk about work....am I wrong for feeling weird about this? How can I handle this situation? (Please don t answer if your just gonna say (she s cheatin on you bro)

I have been married for a few years now and I am the best at compromise. But, I really miss having my own bathroom back when I was single. If I were cleaning up a splat or some hair from the sink, I knew it was MY OWN hair....so it made it easier I guess. I love my hubby so much and adore the manly things he does on a daily.....but ladies, can someone share my frustration? What are the things you miss about having your own bathroom? And by the way, not everyone has the luxury of two bathrooms.....some of us are on the struggling end of the stick :)

So right now my boyfriend is homeless. I have my own place however we had bad issues in the past so we had to part at one point but I have my place again and were back together but im not ready for him to move in with me yet...I have some trust issues with him inviting people over etc the list goes on anyway What can i do to help my boyfriend? he has no family out here that he can live with so idk what to do.

My husband lost his teenager son in Iraq in 2004 and I met him in 2013. We got married in late 2014. We're both in our late 50s. Over the years he's gone to therapy but to this day he doesn't want to talk about his son and on special occasions such as memorial day he just pretends nothing happened. Last night we were seeing old pictures of him from his family albums and we came upon his son's picture too. He started sobbing and closed the album. When we talked to therapist he said that he wakes up every single day thinking about him. and I am aware that what happened with his son will never go away completely but I'm sure 13 years later his son wouldn't want him to be like that.Earlier this morning he told me something like "I'm sorry but even if you love me you do not know what I'm going thru. To me it's like he died yesterday. Every morning,every single day I find new ways to get thru the day realizing that he's not here,so please let's not talk about him" and when I ask him how he feels he always says he's fine but I know he's not. Any advice?