I hooked up with a guy last week, and he said that he wanted to start something with me. At first we thought about being causal since I am moving in three months, and there's no point in a relationship. But then I told him I wanted to just be friends. He kept trying to do stuff with me last night, but I kept telling him no and that I did not want to do anything. Before we went out, he kept telling me to take three shots until I said yes. When we went out, I drank way too much and don't remember half of the night, so I am just going off of what he told me since he drank nothing. I was so gone that I had to be carried up the stairs, and we had sex but I remember nothing. He said that I wanted to, so at first I just thought, "Oh wow I am so stupid." But then I told my friend, and she keeps saying that it's rape based on the Title IX definition, but is it really? Before I told her, I just figured it was me being stupid and all my fault. Another thing he sent me that he did is a video he took of me. I watched it, and I was not aware he videoed me, my clothes were gone, I don't remember any of it and I look completely gone. Now he keeps asking to hang out, but I haven't said anything. I don't know what to do. Also, please don't tell me I have a drinking problem. That's not what the question is about, and I am aware.

I met someone during my trip we had a good talk good conversation ended up taking pictures so sad I didn't get his name but he told me info about him like where he was from and where his parents were from but I have a clear image of me and him but Is there such thing where I can find someone to reconnect as friends based on an image. What can I do the most? It sucks I didn't give him my email or anything but fortunate news is I have a clear image of me and the person I met.

This guy solicits pictures of many women in his social circles. It seems fairly obvious he is probably having an affair as well with at least one woman. He's been known to trade pictures (and videos) with several women but justifies this behavior by saying he has boundaries and can only trade pics with women vs having a physical relationship with them. And he rarely lets any of these women know that he is married. He basically talks them up and reels them in to get them to start sending pics, then hits them with the boundaries conversation once they're already invested and have given him pictures of themselves. WTF?!?

Preferably no songs talking about "I don't need you or I'm getting over you." I'm at the point where my emotional wounds are closing up, but I'm still tender. Need songs that will strengthen me to love again I guess.

Due to personal circumstances I have not been able to move out. I am still in education so I'm not just sitting doing nothing all day. Is it really that bad or uncommon?

I am having some difficulty with my in-laws and am trying to grasp if it is a difference in the way that we process thinking or if they are being manipulative. I guess I hate to jump to conclusions, for me the things I ask them are pretty common sense and clear, but I'd hate to assume that they are being difficult out of manipulation. Here is the situations: when it comes to our children, the in-laws take every instruction from my wife and I painstakingly literal...not in a way where they try to respect what we ask of them, but rather as a means around what we ask. For example, they were picking the kids up from the house after school at 3:30 and taking them to McDonalds every day after school, then the kids were refusing to eat dinner at 6:00 because they weren't hungry anymore. The wife and I asked them to stop taking the kids to McDonalds after school because they weren't eating their dinner and they said ok. The next day there were Burger King bags in the trash and when we asked why they took them to Burger King, they responded, "you said not to take them to McDonalds." We then clarified, not to take them for fast food after school. The next day there was Chick-fa-la in the trash. When we asked the why they took them for fast food, they responded, "it's not fast food. It's more healthy and a fast food alternative." This is just one example, but most things go this way when we try to restrict anything with the kids. Thoughts?

So, I discovered that I was cheated on by my partner since about three years back. Not married and we¨'re both young but I want to fix the relationship so badly. I just want to forget this but I feel I need to meet with the person who helped my partner cheat. ¨ It's an awful idea but I can't get over it, don't even know who but I can probably figure it out. Don't know what I want to say, maybe just a slap in the face or some-thing. Just talk me out of it, unless it can actually help.. . I don't know. It isn't was never super serious, we live togheter and do couple stuff but we dont date and tlak about our future. Some-times, because of jobs or other, we can also be apart for weeks but...

My boyfriend if 7 months whom I live with has been responding to casual encounters online with transsexuals. I'm very heart broken because I love him and I've asked him several times to tell me his sexuality. He always says straight and drops the subject. In these messages with trannies he's trying to hook up with them and asking them for their address. One tranny even asked for Anal and he said he would. Ironically he's always home. ALWAYS. So if I didn't snoop, I wouldn't know because he's always playing video games and he doesn't leave out once he's home. I'm just so scared for my safety. What if he actually meets up with these random people? I even found a video from 3 years ago that he made doing 69 with a tranny. ): There's so many illnesses out here and I'm not trying to be another statistic. What should I do? I love him a lot. I wonder if I damaged this relationship myself by snooping, but regardless it would've come out.. Right?

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm 19, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend, one you rarely come across. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. I just get a special feeling towards her.. months ago, she said I was special to her and a kindred spirit, she's a lady who doesn't express feelings or stuff much, so that meant a lot because I felt it too.. although it's been 8 months, she's said I'm special and valuable to her a couple times but never the kindred spirit part again.. do you think we are still kindreds or did it fade off?.. she hasn't mentioned it again that's why I'm wondering

we saw her underwear, so we all started to kick her when she was on ground. blue face, that's funny from anonymous.

I mean I don't like dating someone who is jealous but my current boyfriend hasn't shown his jealousy side yet but when we were at a show I tend to look around the place when I'm not feeling the music or sometimes to see if I see any of my friends around and my bf thought I was looking back at someone so he was staring at me a lot and I caught him staring at me and I told him "what?" And he looked away. I started to feel anxiety because why was he staring at me? So later the next morning he told me that why was I looking back at the same guy behind us like what?? I told him I tend to look around when I'm getting bored of the music and he's like no I saw u looking back and the same guy was there. Is he overreacting or what? I just hate when I get blamed for something I'm not doing..

I really need help, because I feel that my step sister is being very unfair to me. We're both still teenagers (I'm 15 and she's 16). I have had a crush on her, and I did a few things that made her call me a "pervert". I admit I did steal her underwear, but I didn't ever think she would notice. She got really mad though, and now she found out that I have a medical disorder, that affects my sexual development. So she is making fun of me, and calling me her "sister". And she told some girls in school about my lack of manhood (cause I'm less than 2 inches down there), which is super embarrassing. Why does she treat me like that? Isn't what she did way worse than anything I did? I still have a crush on her, but now she got a boyfriend who she says is "ten times bigger" than me. I want her to like me, but she just calls me a pervert. And I always thought "size doesn't matter", but she says the opposite. Why does she think like this (honestly)?