At this point in time I seriously think my Mom could be mental. Because, She not only Facebook stalked this guy I'm talking to and got his cellphone number, but also keeps messaging him randomly unprovoked. She doesn't approve of him because She thinks He's trouble and trying to tear our family apart by pitting me against my Parents. She also has threatened to involve the cops if He doesn't stop talking to me. It's totally inappropriate and She won't drop it. On top of this my Parents want adult guardianship of me too. I NEED to get away, but am currently stuck living with them because I had a stroke.

My cousins are a bit strange. We were ok until one day they stopped talking to me and were very dry twords me then one of them unfollowed me on snapchat and after a week her sister also unfollowed me!? I didn't wanna ask them cause I'm not that close to them especially they live in another country but I asked their mom (my aunt) out of curiosity then she said oh don't care, they're just crazy!? My aunt loves me a lot and always compliment me but her daughters are different. I looked back at myself to see if I did anything wrong but I couldn't find any reason I haven't done anything bad or rude to them. I know that they have that jealousy inside them ( one of them admitted that she gets jealous and always complain about her life and nag) from other people but me? I'm not really sure. What would you do?

All i have left is my 21 year old sister. Can she sign her name on the form?

I got asked what 7-3 was and I didn't know what the answer was and I didn't know 14-8 and my best friend is annoyed by it

My mother has this impression that family is only about blood and not about who you're tight-knit with. The thing is that she and I did not grow up with our biological family, as they live a 4-hour drive away. So we only see them occasionally, and therefore became very tight-knit with her friends from high school and their children who I call my godbrothers/godsisters. I basically think of them as my surrogate family, and I can honestly say that I know all of their birthdays by heart, as opposed to my biological family's. Not to sound mean, but if anyone from my biological family died, I wouldn't cry nor feel the need to travel to their funeral. My surrogate family, however, I would be just devastated if anything happened to them, and would be at their funeral at the blink of an eye. That's not to say that I have any disregard for my real family. Quite the contrary, I love them and am proud to be a part of them. But I don't feel the emotional connection to them that I do with my surrogate family. Basically, my mother always refers to my "godsiblings" as her friend's child, and doesn't see the big deal about spending time with our surrogate family. And I'm almost certain that if I died, my mom would only include pictures [hardly any exist] of me with our biological family in my funeral program and absolutely NO pictures [1,000] of me with our surrogate family. I really wish my mom would see the bigger picture here. Why does she act like that?

If we make their lives so miserable that they want to kill themselves will they finally get off their butts? Like just steal everything they have and put it into a gift trust to where they can't have it until they got a job?

My dad used to get so drunk he could barely stand up right, he would swear at my mom, my siblings and I (im 14, 3 siblings age 11, 6 and 4. He beats the dog so hard she yelps, kicks her and throws her when hes mad at her, even when he is sober. My mom sits on her phone all day doing nothing, and nobody can get her attention without her getting mad. She used to leave my 6 and 4 year old siblings alone when she would run me and my brother to do things while my dad was at work. When my dad gets mad he calls me worthless piece of s**t, piece of c**p and a f**king as*. I told my parents I hate myself and they said 'okay'. They fight all the time too, and my dad tells me bad things about my mom, mom tells me bad things about dad. Is this okay? Whenever I tell anyone nobody does anything about it, but it scared me the other day when my 4 year old sibling casually walked up the stairs and said 'daddys killing the dog' like it was the most normal thing in the world and sat down next to me playing with her doll. My 6 year old brother has ran to me screaming 'daddys trying to kill me, please dont let him kill me'. I think this is all normal from what people tell me, but I just want to make sure. Also when my dad would get drunk once it got so mad she sent my siblings upstairs to bed and had me lock the door in a room away from him so he wouldnt try to kill me. He was so mad about something, I dont even know what it was but my mom was afraid he would try to kill me thats why she did it, we dont even know what he was mad about but he always seems to go for me whenever it happens. Also when my mom gets mad she likes to go and scream at me 4 inches ish from my face.

My son is 5, and very smart for his age. He is in love with my mom, his nanny. He loves her to death and they have such a great bond. My mom has been battleing breast cancer and now it s terminal. It went downhill so fast that we didn t even see it coming anytime soon. I am heartbroken, as I m very close to my mom. She is very young and she hasn t accepted death yet. She isn t eating because she can t, she throws everything up, but she thinks she will get better and I just go along with it. I know she needs that for herself. She s always doped up on pain meds so she is loopy. Now I have to explain to my 5 year old that one of his favorite people in the entire world won t be alive for much longer, maybe a couple of weeks, and I dont know how to do that. I m so scared and nervous because I know there will be a lot of crying on both of our parts. How do you explain this to a loving, very sensitivity 5 year old?? I m going to take him to visit her one last time while she s still coherent enough to know who he is and I plan to explain it after we see her so he doesn t come out and ask her why she s dying or something. Please help. I m already heartbroken for my little man :(

What if we take away all their safety nets the government provides and spit on their faces? Will those disgruntled, below average humans finally get off their butts and get some income?

He was somewhat involved in our breakup, since... they are best friends basically (my ex had friends, but not close friends)... I eliminated him and his wife from Facebook and unfollowed them on Instagram, but they still follow me. I didn't eliminate the rest of the family and I eliminated them because they're on my ex boyfriend's side and it hurt my feelings to know that blood IS thicker than water in that family (my family is not like that, they tell me how it is)... Anyhow, my ex doesn't have social media, only his brother and SIL... his SIL doesn't always follow my stories, but my ex's brother ALWAYS does... why would he do that? I'm thinking about blocking them and unblocking right away just so that I don't have them being nosy... but at the same time, I like them to see what my ex is missing (everybody knew I was way out of his league)... I don't know... Why does he look at each and every single one of my stories?

My grandma sent me to the store to buy a money order for the rent. I counted the money to make sure it was ok beforehand and then I left. When I was at the storr the clerk said that I was missing 20 dollars and I had to put it from money she had given me to send to relatives. She then accused me of taking the money as a fee for getting the money order. I got angry and we started yelling at each other, I grabbed my purse and took out 15 dollars which was all I had and told her to keep the money if she wanted. I went to the bedroom and slammed the door but then I heard her crying. I feel bad and I can t reallt talk to her about it because she doesn t like talking about things. What should I do?

Ok so I have been having a hard time sleeping lately it would feel like I have been sleeping for only a second but then I wake up in the morning but feeling really drained and awake at the same time, I want to go to the doctor for this but if I bring it up I know that my mom will make excuses to make me think there's nothing wrong I shouldn't have to feel this way about wanting to go to the doctor. Her making me feel like that makes me really down I don't know why she won't I have good health insurance that will cover pretty much everything my medicine are usually only $3 each, accept for the fact she is lazy and careless I don't want to wait tell I get a job because then my insurance will cost some money. Should I try talking to her once? Honestly she makes me want to grab her hair hard if she was in my situation she'd want to go to the doctor to. I'm ready to say if she'd love me she would take me tell I find out what's wrong. But that would start a fight probably..

My mum spanks me really hard , to the point there's bruised and some place even bleed . She hits me with a belt or TV remote control , or sometime things that she could reached by . It really hurts . I am actually an adopted child .

I have this friend from math tuition who seems to hate me . We used to get along well , before some family matters happened . An introduction to myself , I am a 16 year old girl , recently my parent had passed away in a car accident , during their holiday . My math tuition teacher , she actually adopted me , as her daughter , last week . She herself , is also a mother . She used to have 2 kids , but both of them died last year . I would not be detailed as to respect her privacy . She treat me as her own kid even when her biological kids are still around . We really have a close relationship . So ..... I was friend with that girl called Gwen , we were sort of classmate . But I noticed that after the adoption process and so on , her attitudes towards me changed . She became colder to me , and even to the point that she steal my wallet and threw it inside a rubbish bin . I was definitely appalled . She also starts scolding vulgarities to me , And say things like I don't deserve to have ( my math tuition teacher ) as mother ... why I have a good life ... etc But currently I am feeling quite confused .... I mean , she used to be really nice to me . I know that she likes my math tuition teacher ( also know as my mum now ) . Like the three of us , we will go out and eat together . Really closer relationship . So I not sure what makes her become like that ... Have I done anything wrong .... please help me , I really don't want to lose a friend .

And why does people that live in overcrowded parts of the planet like to have huge families when there is limited resources and funds not for everyone

She kept having me do it every week for the past 2 months which kind of annoyed me cause she never did my hair when I was a kid. She always forced it on my sisters. She was also never around for most of my childhood. Also, the hairstyles she keeps having me do takes hours.

I am 21 years old now but have always resented my father. I used to be a huge daddy's girl but when I was 6 years old I vividly remember my mom and dad constantly fighting. One morning me and my dad were watching tv and I was sitting on his lap. Then he asked me if I wanted to do him a favor and of course I said yeah! He said to kiss him really hard on the lips and long. So I said why daddy? Mommy doesn't kiss me on the lips. He said because just do it. Kiss me the best you've ever kissed really hard and long. Act like I'm your husband. We'll play pretend. I had just finished watching the Brady bunch the night before and it was the episode with French kissing. So I said okay daddy, regular kiss or a French kiss I seen it on the Brady bunch. He said regular no tongue. So I said okay and did it. Then he told me good you're a good kisser you're a better wife than your mom. And I was happy I did a good job and made my dad proud. But along the years he would do other stuff like touch my butt and I never said anything. I hate him so much now. Everyone thinks he's the perfect best dad and I'm the messed up child for how disrespectful I am with him now. Should I tell my mom? Or was I wrong for doing it in the first place? Sometimes I feel just as sick as him because I did it. No one knows. Not even my own husband And we've been together for 5 years.

Like how can you tell which child is very similar to their mom and dad? or which child has most of their genes inside of them?

I am 13 years old and i have a younger sister (11). We are all a happy family but my mum feel ill and things changed. I now live with my dad and younger sis. every signal day a fight will break out over me hurting my lil sis or my dad not parenting me correctly. i don t like the way my dad parents me he punishes me for taking to long to get dressed. he loves my younger sis, when i hurt her my dad hurts me by hitting me, pulling me, pulling my hair and smacking me. i hit my father too sometimes. My dad doesn t parent me correctly he drinks and swears all the time, he doesn t each me and my sis right from wrong (my sis has taken my dads side). i telly dad he isnt right by hurting me, he says well then i should just leave what could i do and how should i react please help me!!

So.. me & this guy we re dating. We mutual split, then I found out I was pregnant but he had moved to another state by then. Never came to any doctors appointments but was for the pregnancy. I d put it out there about my baby shower, when my son was born & his 1st birthday party to his dad & everything. He always talked a good game but never actually showed up. He added me on snapchat about a month ago, it said he added me by my phone number(which he claims he "lost with old phone" a long time ago). Typical bull. Anyways, he s only seen our son one time & that was when he added me on snap. Once he didn t show up to his party, I blocked him & that was that. People always ask me if I d put him on child support but, I just don t know honestly. I think about it then I think about how sad it is to have a whole gov system make you take care of your responsibilities, so I just, idk. I hate the idea of that sometimes. Basically.. I was talking to this lady & she asked me if I d every try to reach out to my kid s dads family about it.. I have not. It crossed my mind maybe once but, I felt like it s not my place? Like, it s weird but I know the dads name atleast, because it s the same as his son & I ve found him on FB before trying to contact my kids dad. I guess my question is.. how out of line would I be if I contacted my sons FATHERS family about him helping in some way, specifically financially. I think it s sad even having to ask this but, unfortunately this is what it is.

There's a man in my close friend group who's in his mid thirties. I'll call him S. He's never been married or had a solid girlfriend. (We suspect that he's kind of a womanizer, but that's beside the point.) When S was 18, he accidentally got a girl pregnant and became the father of a daughter. His daughter's mother never wanted anything to do with her and died a few months after she was born, so S has raised his daughter alone throughout her entire life. She's 17 now, and she's his only child. The two of them have always lived alone together, and they're very close. Now, S and his daughter aren't affectionate towards each other or anything, but in a way, they act like husband and wife. For example.... * Everyone else in our friend group is married with multiple children, but S only has his daughter. We'll have get togethers and everyone else will show up with their husband/wife and kids, but he always shows up with JUST his daughter – never a girlfriend or anything. You know how people refer to couples as "The (their last name)s"? Like, "The Smiths, The Johnsons", etc.? Well, people refer to S and his daughter like that. Of course he doesn't bring his daughter to couple events (he either shamelessly comes alone to those or just doesn't come at all), but he brings her and only her to all family/friend get togethers. (Continued in updates.) * S doesn't talk about his daughter excessively, but when most men would mention their wives, S mentions his daughter instead. He kind of talks about her like a man would talk about his wife. Once, one of our friends was griping about his wife, and S went, "yeah, my daughter is a lot to deal with, too. Girls are hard. I know exactly what you mean." Sometimes he'll say stuff like, "my daughter remodeled and decorated the whole house. She picked everything out. I'm not good at this stuff. I just paid for it all – I guess that's my role. I would've been content living with outdated yellow countertops, but this is what she wanted and she somehow talked me into letting her do it." * S's daughter is with him a lot of the time...like a wife should be. On lazy weekends and stuff, she'll just hang out with him and run his errands with him. Sometimes she'll go to his office with him just because she's bored. I remember a time that my husband and I invited S over to look at something we were doing, and he showed up with his daughter. Most men would show up with their wives or at least a girlfriend – not their daughter. I had no problem with it, but it was just strange. * S and his daughter joke with each other kind of like husband and wife. They don't have, like, sexual or romantic chemistry, but they have chemistry and get along great. They even rant to each other about "everything other than sex" (S's own words). It seems to me like S probably overshares with his daughter and tells her stuff about his job and stuff that most men would tell their wives. I kind of feel like S's daughter is playing the role of his wife and that's why he's never been married. He even said to me one time, "I don't think I'd get married even if I didn't have my daughter, but because I have her, the thought of marriage has never really crossed my mind. I like living like this, and I'm not lonely because my daughter keeps me company. Maybe I'll completely change my mind when she moves out — probably not — but I don't know." I know it's none of my business, but does their relationship sound a little weird to anyone else? I have no one in real life to rant to so I'm turning to strangers on the internet.

I want to run away to Tennessee (8 hours away by car) and I want to know what to bring. I have saved up a lot of money (in secret. My parents think I've been spending my allowance but I've saved up almost 3k over the past 5 years from doing extra chores. I swear on my gram's grave that this isn't a lie.) I know the risks. I'm just getting bored of staying here. I know I'll need self-defense. I can buy food and water. Please don't tell me not to.

I got a cute locket, and I thought of what pictures to put in it and it popped into my mind to put a picture of me and my dad when I was little. I'm 19 now, and I thought of doing it around my 20th bday or maybe Christmas, bc my mom had me and my sis most of our childhood and my dad misses us a lot and he cries now because he missed so many things when we grew up and he's sad he was not there in our childhood. (Mom left him, he didn't move on for at least 15 years to even start dating again.. Even stupider, it was cause "mom didn't like that he worked nights"...) So back to the point, a locket seems more like a gift for a woman and it'd feel a little weird giving it to him with little hearts on it, it's the shape of a heart too. Are there "equivalents" for a locket for a man..? And I want the gift to be from me since my sister just doesn't care and wont put any $ towards anything, so should I put a pic of her or just me and daddy..? (Daddy's little girl..) I want it to be pictures specifically, not sure of another "token" small enough he could carry with him..

I just saw my the PG&E bill and it has $702 due, with $229.31 to pay just to keep our services until the next 3 days. How should I bring this up to my dad since hes the one who is suppose to be paying these bills. He has a gambling problem but I always think it's kinda awkward to bring up his addiction so I never talk about it. What should I do?

So heres my story after i graduated hs i became lazy for 2 years and was jobless and lived with my mom.. im 20 now and a few weeks ago i started college he pretty much told me im lazy and i dont do anything ..i lost my motivation of going to college because i feel like i really am not doing anything .what more can i do my mom doesnt want me to work beacuse she say im going to stress out too much but hes over here judging me because my mom pays my bills and helps me out.

If your male and say you wanted to make them a new grandparent. And that perhaps they are grandparents by your doing and just don't know it.

I play with slime and I think it's fun to make and all that stuff. I keep my slime stuff that I use to make said slime in a drawer in my room. I'm almost positive I'm the only one who knows it's there. For some background, last Saturday night to Sunday morning I was at a out of town sleepover bar mitzvah with my twin sister who we'll call Ellie. Earlier today, I was at my other sisters JV soccer game. My sister who played let's call Tori. My other sibling who's 20 months younger than me was left home alone with ellie. During the bar mitzvah, my younger sister who we'll call lyndsey was left home with Tori. Both times I come back to notice slime activator in my containers w/ my slime and that my slime is wayy overactivated. A different slime was over activated after the bar mitzvah and a different slime after the soccer game. Who was left home both times, my little sister who is known for lying but doesn't admit it. Would it make sense to accuse her tomorrow? Is there anything she can use to defend herself? By the way I've already asked if it was her and she said no but I think that's bullshit

I think this is my father but I want to be surehttp://tinypic.com/r/sdecqw/9

I know a guy. His mother died when he was a baby then his dad married his wife's sister. The guy's aunt. So his aunt became his step mom and she raised him ever since he was a child.

My friends keep making jokes that my teacher is my dad cause we look so much alike and he dated my mom in high school but his wife and him adopted kids could that be because he doesn't work she doesn't or there just good people? Also my mom doesn't seem like the kinda of person to cheat on my dad but Is it possible he really is my father and there keeping it a secret because I'm only 14? But maybe I'm just going crazy anyway I've had this weird father figure feeling for him sense I grew up around him and I came up with this theory Year's ago with my friends and I've been his student for 5 years (band) so yea, crazy or I should ask when I'm older?

I feel like I dont really love him. He broke up with my mom when I was three and then I barely ever saw him, maybe once a month, and whenever I did see him I felt more fear then anything else. my dad s very big in the weight and muscle department, he would always tell me that since he put me in this world he could take me out of it, but not in the joking manner. He told me how he tried to kill me as a baby. He sometimes grabs onto my wrists and it would bruise. And he missed so many of my plays, recitals and graduations that I believed that he didn t really love me either, that all I was to him was someone in his life that cared, because he has no one. He pushes everyone away and gets in fights with any one he becomes friends with. He drove while under the influence and lost his license and now he can t go anywhere because he has no friends that can drive him. I believed that my father would have the best possible future without me, I always just Got in the way. it s been so long and Ive recieved tons of calls and texts from my father, Ive never answered. this last one seems really true. He says "I love you and need you, please talk to me". But I still believe that he would be better off without me. He already found the love of his life and is getting married in the time that Ive been ignoring him, while in the past he couldn t have a relationship that could last over three months. I m afraid that when I respond he ll just put me down or scream at me. What should I do?

They just don't like me, they are afriad of me and I just want to move far away from them.

He will need to be taken care of by his family the rest of his life so I was wonder when my kids get older do I have to put them or are they fine where they are at

My mother is from 1978, my father is from 1964, my brother A is from 2001, brother b is from 2007. I am 2000.

So my four year old daughter said something that upset me. Her and her mother both live with this family. A mother, daughter and son. They rent a room from them and that is great, good people in this world but then my daughter tells me "dad, mommy and the guy kicked me out of the room and locked the door" I said um what happened. She says "I banged on the door and they didn't let me in" so I said what did you hear " she said the bed, which sounded like shrike shrike shrike." So I asked her mother and she says "why is she lying about things like that!" It was defensive and said she was crying because she don't understand why she would lie.... you oh the guy she speaks of is the son who is two years younger then her. what am I to think? Tell me.

Ok, I'm 15 and I have wanted to graduate high school early for a while (and i can) but, i have to go to summer school next year in order to get the amount of credits and the main reason i want to graduate is 1) it is a pain to live with family members who constantly argue over dumb things 2) I just want to be independent faster...well, my mother threw that all in the trash by saying she won't pay for summer school and that i will just have to deal with my family members (she is always on their side)...so now, i'm starting to feel dark and resentful because, i have wanted to graduate at 17 for a while...And i feel like dropping out because personally, i can't stand another year with bullies at school...and don't tell me that i should graduate, in this world EVERYTHING is corrupt, so i'll just find my way to circumnavigate it all.

Hi there. I'm the eldest a sister of my two siblings, one who's age is still in the single digits. Both of my siblings young. My mother recently passed away, and I've noticed that it's already had a negative impact on me. I don't want my sisters to be impacted this harshly. I believe my sisters really need a supportive female figure at this point in their lives. I realize that I can never replace my mother in their eyes, but I still want to be able to support them. My dad can only do so much. Honestly, I'm currently your average snappy teenage sibling, but I need this to change. I want to improve my patience and become someone my sisters can look up to and confide in. My youngest sibling is especially stubborn and easily angers, so I want to learn how to see things from her point of view and try to calm her down without getting angry myself. What I really need are some tips and articles on how to be a patient and supportive sibling. Thank you so much.

Right now, my parents are going through a divorce. My dad, is probably the best provider anyone can ask for. But I also feel that he doesn t like me as much as my other sisters. Hell he even shows more attention to my sisters friend, more than me. Me and my mom are both **** ups, we have both been locked up, and my mom herself is an addict. But she is still a very good mother to me, because I m the only child who wants to actually love her and support her. I want to live with her instead of my dad, Me and him just don t connect as well. Can someone provide input? thanks.

She always stomps out of the room when she s ticked off. She stays locked in her room, she doesn t reply when me or my parents call her then she suddenly shouts at us when we repeatedly call her. She makes experiements and steals our stuff esp makeup and makes them into something that our baby sister might accidentally eat. She takes way too long in the bathroom with her phone saying she needs to poop but really she doesn t..My parents are always highblood because of her because she always picks an argument with me. I try to stay calm but she and talk to her but she just shouts. She also doesnt like to be told to eat cus she s thin...almost close to anorexia. Can anyone help I want to talk to properly and spend time....and want her to do the chores as she uses her rudeness to not do it leaving me to do all housework and if I did not finish it as Im taking care of my baby sister my parents get angry. Please help I don t want to shout back to her anymore

I'm in 9th grade and in high school and people don't know what 7-3 is. We did this multiplication sheet with negative and positive numbers for a warm up and nobody knew what to do! It's so easy! I knew how to do this kind of work since 7th grade and people don't know how to do multiplication and division! And people still use their fingers to count In my class.

I know it sounds crazy but he dated my mom in high school and I have nothing in common with my dad and I look so much like him people think were related, is it possible they are just not telling me because im 14?

I had problems with my mother previously before which now caused me To temporarily live with my father until next year sept 18, and has also been a year living with him. I'm experiencing major emotional conflicts with my dad and we argue a lot! He has also hit me many times before as well. The issue is, my father has a restraining order against my mom until September of next year. However I have been in contact with her and I told her the things that I'm experiencing with. She suggested that if he ever hit me again, I should report it to the police and that'd be my only way out of his custody of me. I honestly don't want him to get arrested or anything so I'm skeptical about her suggestions. I'm currently in bad terms with my father and I'm very afraid to ask him about me wanting to live with my mom again. I feel if I do so, it'd be such a waste of time and he wouldn't do anything about it. However, I'm not sure if I should be in contact with my guidance counselor and have child protective services involved and let them do their thing. I'm just afraid the after terms that'd be involved. Such as me applying for colleges, not having enough scholarships to pay off the tuition, and my dad wouldn't help out paying the other part because of our relationship that's damaged. Or he'd have so much resentment towards me forever. PLZZ HELP I'm in a very tight situation!!!!!! Me and my mother argued about silly things all the time but after with living with my father, I actually see why she reacted the way she did because all my childhood life my father convinced me that my mother was this bad person all alongafter they were divorced and we all know that there's two sides in a story. He did horrible things as well but he'd never tell me. And after they out my father in having full custody of me i tought itd be better off living with him full time. but ig not.. I was supposed to live with my mom from this past march but he pushed it back to next year. He told and lied to the out that I was having nightmares. *** lied to the court^^^

Both of my parents are super strict with just about everything.. The one thing they are the worst about though, is my phone. Up until last year, I had it taken away for two years. And their only reason was because they didn't want me to have a phone. I'm turning 17 in a couple of months and I bought and paid for the phone myself. They take it every night and almost twice a week or more because of some petty excuse they can make up so they have a reason to take it. I've only recently gotten it back and they've put restrictions on everything. All I can do on it is take pictures.. I paid over $300 for it and I am frustrated they control me so much. I've tried everything I can think of, and when I told them to stop taking it away, they told me if I wanted to have it without restrictions I would have to move out.. What should I do?? I also pay for my own phone plan too..

I m 16,I recently moved back in with my mom after 4 years of living with my aunt and uncle in San Diego. I have 4 sisters and 3 brothers and my mom is incapable of taking care of all her kids. She is addicted to meth which is the main reason my siblings and I suffer, her main priorities are getting high. She refuses to enroll me in school. It s been 2 months since I ve been absent of school and my mom refuses to take responsibility as a mother and enroll me in school. I moved back in with my mom late February, it s now September. For several months I have been providing for myself by myself with no help from my mom although she is collecting welfare checks for me and my brothers and sisters. I don t want to call CPS or the cops because I don t want my little brothers and sisters to go into foster care. But I do want to finish school and make a batter life for myself which I can t do since I cannot enroll myself in school

I wanted a bowl of smores cearel but she said it had too much sugar. I had to eat something that wasn't as good. Why is she acting like this ? I'm 17

I didn't realize at the time that if I refused to unlock it and he took it away, that I could remotely wipe it. I've literally never been bothered this long about anything. I can not get over this, I regret it SO much, he had NO right into my personal digital world, but I gave in and unlocked it, he saw YA! and looked at my Facebook messenger and Facebook. Not a single thing on the phone was is, everything is and was mine, long before I ever transfered my stuff to the phone. I'm 21, not a minor! I know I can what happened can NEVER be undone, I've even contemplated suicide. If he did take the phone (I don't know the law, but in the eyes of the law he pays for it, I never paid directly to AT&T, since I couldn't sign my own contract) I wouldn't have got my job call later that day though, and I wouldn't have gotten any interview. Think of this as logging into your personal accounts on a public computer, even if that DID give the public place the right to your data, you would try to prevent them from seeing any of it. You don't understand how sacred my online and digital world has been to me for years, I should have never agreed to be on someone else's phone plan. I should have just got another Tracfone and a new iPod Touch and waited until I could afford an iPhone myself. I usually get over things the next day or less, but this is SO DIFFERENT, it's been 5 days and I'm still feeling f'd up about it, how my private space that was fully mine was invaded, how I actually let him in it, and continuing to see people tell me they wouldn't have let him and I shouldn't have keeps making me more disturbed. Also now knowing I could have wiped the phone clean if he took it away. My privacy is EXTREMELY important to me and I've kept it private for years and now this happened. I didn't even TRY explaining to him how everything inside the phone is fully mine , even before I put it on the phone, and how it's even connected to MY OWN PERSONAL COMPUTER. And I could have even said "I can pay for the last two months anyway (since I haven't)". I feel like suicide is a must for me now, I don't really want to die, I want to get out of this house and move away and start my own life, but it'll forever be that my privacy and digital property was invaded, spiking it all, my safe space broken into, which I even fully owned and have cur years, I just moved it and access it from a phone that someone else TECHNICALLY PAYS for. What he did to me, has actually happened to me by other people, but it never bothered me this bad or for this long, probably because I hadn't created such a personal safe space and relied on it for years yet. He didn't even see my most personal stuff that I wouldn't reveal TO ANYONE FOR ANYTHING (except a trusted SO/spouse, and MAYBE a VERY CLOSE TRUSTED FRIEND) but it's not just WHAT he could see, but the fact that my privacy was invaded and my safe space I've had for years infiltrated. If i was hiding anything illegal the FBI would have tracked me already. I remember my dad saying he had the right to know what me and my therapist talked about because it was HIS INSURANCE, but even when I was a minor, the law agreed it was fully me and my therapist's business. I admit I've become too reliant on the Internet and could and should have found better solutions to not be idle in my life, but that's it's own story. My most personal, sacred stuff,is fetish stuff,and support stuff My BIGGEST secret, the thing I was MOST scared of being found out (I no longer keep anything about it on my phone) is my ABDL fetish (Google it).

Im 14 almost 15 in a month and i hardly want to live. Its mainly cause of my dad. Hes so overprotected which causes me not to get invited anywhere with my firends. For example, he doesnt allow me to ride a bike place becuase he thinks ill be hit my a car. It ridiculous, i live about a mile away from a park and he wont allow me to go there by myself. Hes ruining the last year of my childhood, because i hope i will be driving at 16. My friends usually bike around the city or part of it and my dad said wherever they go he will drop me off, the i say well they are biking around and not staying in jjst 1 place and then he says "sure they are". Im so fuI

So, I m not doing so hot at Math. At all. But then, my parents come along and yell at me. I try to say "It doesn t help my self-esteem." because not being up to my parents standards hurts me in a lot of ways. Then they yell at me saying "Bullshit" and stuff like that...it honestly made me want to go to my room and cry. I m trying atm to get my grades up, but it seems like it is not enough. What should I do?

My daughter is turning 6 soon and her "dad" left when she was 1. He's been in and out a couple times until I said, you're either in or out. Now it's been 3 years and he's never called, asked about her anything. She's asked me where "blank" is a couple times. Now at school there's donughts with dad.... she gets a bit sad, I think and now she's embarrassed if my dad, her grandpa goes with her to it. How do I gently explain that her dad had made other choices ?

Today, I was in the car with my mother to go to school. As soon as I got into the car she told me that my nose is big that's why I have trouble breathing. (I was asking her if she could buy me this sinus thing because my nose is blocked and I cannot breathe) she said my nose is big that's why I cannot breathe. She knows that I am insecure about my nose. Then I told her that it is not how it works. She continue to talk **** about me saying that she looks younger than I am and that if I was standing next to her, people would think that she is my daughter. I am 17 and she is 49. She usually hits me when i do something wrong but she is emotionally draining me. She talks **** about my boyfriend and when I told her that my nose is stuffed not due to the fact that my nose is "big" then she told me to get out of the house etc. She told me to walk home and she won't let me in the car and she always takes my Xbox away from me.

Lately, I've been so busy that I haven't been home much. My relationship with my parents isn't where I want it to be, so now that I have a day off. I just want to get out of the house and feel sick to my stomach. Why do I feel this way?

My parents marriage was failing. They divorced. But the thing is that the period after divorce was HELL and now that things are better I find myself 21 good looking but with no sense of life joy.Like I'll never be happy. My family's very dysfunctional my mom doesn't know what love is and my dad is irresponsible. And I feel sorry to the point of crying every night for the kind of life I'm living. Every time I only want to cry . It just feels like nothing is worth it any more. How's this supposed to last?

My mother has been unreliable my whole life. She's gotten worse after her second divorce and will make plans with me and not show up continuously. It has become impossible for me to have a relationship with her. She also is always causing problems, bad talks me to my brother, bad talks my brother to me and vice versa. She did the same with my father and her ex husband. She would always cause problems with everyone. I ended up cutting ties with her and she's made me feel very guilty. As far back as I can remember I've never been able to have a relationship with her.How should I handle this?