If they were older and/or bigger than you, did you have trouble defending yourself?

Bonus question: Will the rock hit my mother's head on the way down?

Lately my balls tend to stick to my thigh on and off, is this normal?

He's used to being single & has been pretty much been single all his life, but he feels lonely, but isn't interested in dating & likes his space. He keeps wanting to see me, but runs away from commitment. He is in his 30s. He doesn't sleep around. He still contacts me & we met up recently, but he hasn't changed, although I feel like I'm the only girl who's really got to know him so he won't let go. He just wants to see me every now & then. I won't see him though because we're on different pages. If I try to talk about feelings it's like talking to a brick wall. Sometimes my whatsapp messages take days to go through because he has no internet. When I met him he acted like we were together & kissed me on the lips as he always does when he says goodbye. But he doesn't want a girl clearly. So why keep talking to me over a year after we broke up? He also wants to cuddle & hold my hand like a couple.

Last night I had a dream about this guy that I know of and how his grandmother had died. I have never spoken to this guy before but we used to stare at each other when we would see each other because I think we have this really weird chemistry. Anyway in my dream when I heard that his grandmother passed away my heart sunk I immediately wanted to comfort him but I couldnt get to him. My dream got really weird when it jumped to the visitation for his grandmother being held at MY grandmothers house. At the visitation, I saw my family members there and I also saw the guy there too standing by the casket with his family. I was scared that he would see me and wonder what I was doing there even though it was my grandmothers house. The dream felt SO real but it was really freaky! Why would I be dreaming of him and his grandmother dying? Help me interpret this, it is really messing with me!

...and Scandinavian ancestry the only ones that are not beautiful, never curvy/voluptuous/chubby and never tall and curvy/voluptuous/chubby without having recent Slavic, Italian, Hungarian, Romanian, Lithuanian, Armenian, Albanian, Greek, Spanish, Portuguese, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Indian and Polynesian ancestors ?

(me and my gf are 15 and her mothers 46).I was camming with my girlfriend and we were making funny videos recording each other and putting w.e good ones on youtube. she uses her moms laptop because it has a cam and her computer in her room doesnt so the laptop is in her moms room. so we were camming and w.e and she heard her mom come home and she said ill brb so she walked out and 2 mins later her mom came into the bedroom and started undressing.. I know i should have turned it off but idk i frooze i guess because it was like i wasnt thinking idk how to describe it :/ My heart was POUNDING I thought i was going to passout or have a heart attack I heard my boom boom boom loud in my ears it felt like a crazy rush.. so i just i guess sat there so she took off everything and put on pjs she look at the laptop but i guess my g/f minimized everythign or couldnt see cuz she was still undressing by her closed about idk 8 feet aways but i know she didnt see cuz she look at it for just for a sec or two left and my gf came back but back to the problem after i was still in a fog and i saw that i was recording me and my gf before she left. I know too i should deleted the video but its like idk i cant bring myself to delete the recording.. i masterbated to it 4 times that night :/ and it was idk like really unique type of orgasm intense some of the best ive felt. i used the video and the day after and day after. Now i feel like a asshole I feel guilty about how it was recorded

So he's been wanting the Nintendo 3D (I think that's the one he wants idk??) so I can get him that or I was thinking of giving him a box filled with things he likes. Like I would include 2 bathbombs, a board game, 2 stuffed animals that have those big eyes, a gift card to the movies (I tink ninjago comes out a day before his birthday) and a gift card to Olive Garden because he loves that place. And then a lego set or some Pokémon cards he's been wanting. (Any other suggestions??) I'm away for college which is why I can't take him to the movies and to eat that day. Also, he's having a birthday party I don't know if that makes any difference.

We always remained close although my relationship with my adult children has recently been on bad terms due to unwarranted and false assumptions they have about me. My exes wife even personally invited me to go. Should I attend? .

(me and my gf are 15 and her mothers 46).I was camming with my girlfriend and we were making funny videos recording each other and putting w.e good ones on youtube. she uses her moms laptop because it has a cam and her computer in her room doesnt so the laptop is in her moms room. so we were camming and w.e and she heard her mom come home and she said ill brb so she walked out and 2 mins later her mom came into the bedroom and started undressing.. I know i should have turned it off but idk i frooze i guess because it was like i wasnt thinking idk how to describe it :/ My heart was POUNDING I thought i was going to passout or have a heart attack I heard my boom boom boom loud in my ears it felt like a crazy rush.. so i just i guess sat there so she took off everything and put on pjs she look at the laptop but i guess my g/f minimized everythign or couldnt see cuz she was still undressing by her closed about idk 8 feet aways but i know she didnt see cuz she look at it for just for a sec or two left and my gf came back but back to the problem after i was still in a fog and i saw that i was recording me and my gf before she left. I know too i should deleted the video but its like idk i cant bring myself to delete the recording.. i masterbated to it 4 times that night :/ and it was idk like really unique type of orgasm intense some of the best ive felt. i used the video and the day after and day after. Now i feel like a asshole I feel guilty about how it was recorded I feel guilty When I have dinner with them I feel ackward around her mother I cant look at her in the eye I get nervous because ive seen her naked.. but i dont know what to do should I tell them about the video? if so how? I rly dont want to seem like a pervert that was trying to videotape her or anything like that because it was a accident I know if her mother found out idk what she would do or THINK and Its Hard as hell to think about deleting it i guess because she turns me on sooo much I cant see deleting someone so beautiful idk what to do can someone give me advice . if u were the mother in my situation what would u do or feel :/ what would you think is the best approach and than about my g/f im lost too if you a girl our age i could use your advice too thanks

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm 19, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend of mine, one you rarely come across. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences, especially for me being so young. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything and everything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other get through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. She even threatens to drive all the way over here (my college) and whip my butt. That she'd be monitoring me/my media posts etc.. to make sure I don't do anything stupid.. it's weird because some moments she can't be extremely rough and others she calls me her sunshine.. Why is she like that to me? Why is she just so special to me? I just get a special feeling towards her

My mother has this impression that family is only about blood and not about who you're tight-knit with. The thing is that she and I did not grow up with our biological family, as they live a 4-hour drive away. So we only see them occasionally, and therefore became very tight-knit with her friends from high school and their children who I call my godbrothers/godsisters. I basically think of them as my surrogate family, and I can honestly say that I know all of their birthdays by heart, as opposed to my biological family's. Not to sound mean, but if anyone from my biological family died, I wouldn't cry nor feel the need to travel to their funeral. My surrogate family, however, I would be just devastated if anything happened to them, and would be at their funeral at the blink of an eye. That's not to say that I have any disregard for my real family. Quite the contrary, I love them and am proud to be a part of them. But I don't feel the emotional connection to them that I do with my surrogate family. Basically, my mother always refers to my "godsiblings" as her friend's child, and doesn't see the big deal about spending time with our surrogate family. And I'm almost certain that if I died, my mom would only include pictures [hardly any exist] of me with our biological family in my funeral program and absolutely NO pictures [1,000] of me with our surrogate family. I really wish my mom would see the bigger picture here. Why does she act like that?

My oldest brother is currently living at home while he goes to school for his teaching credential. It's been a while since he's lived at home, but I'm pretty sure he got more insufferable during the time he was gone. Right now, it's just me, him, and our parents, since my other older siblings are away at college...they used to gang up on our oldest brother if he started to get too bossy, but now it's just me! And my mom gave him all the fire he needs by saying that he's in charge after school when my mom and dad are still at work, and it's just me and him at home. He tries to dictate when I should be home from school, or else he'll threaten to tell our mom that I came home late or something. And whenever i do come home, he won't let me watch tv or go on the computer or anything until I do my homework...the other day, he even took my phone from me! And sometimes if I do finish my homework, he'll try to get me to do chores, chores that our mom didn't even give to me! Where does he get off bossing me around like this? What should I do? By the way, he's 24 and I'm 16.

Just i want to say that, I am a man which is a responsible person.

I'm confused because the guys I like never Spoke to me in person. He was in my lecture classes and would sit near me and stare at me. He would always sit with me on the bus. He emailed me after the semester and asked me to go out with him on last minute dates twice. Even when I told him I was busy and told him my availabilities. I'm really confused...did he actually like me

la cosa es que conoci a esta chica la cual no suelo ver muy seguido y me enamore al instante, no dejo de pensar en ella, la verdad es que la necesito, ella me ha visto pero no me conoce, me pongo muy nervioso cuando estoy cerca de ella lo cual hace que se me dificulte bastante hablar con ella porque me da miedo lo que pueda pensar o que me rechaze. Tenia planeado abrir su bolso y dejarle un regalo anonimamente para que se diera cuenta de que fui yo y asi ella me hable a mi, que deberia de hacer?, creen que me pueda prestar atención?

Recently I have been going through a lot. I know I might not be the only one out here, and I should be happy that I have a home to sleep in, always have a full belly, and have people that love me, but I am not happy sometimes and feel like giving up, sucks. I'm bearly 20 years old, I'm going to college to pursue a degree in nursing with a masters in anesthesia (hopefully I get there because I'm not very smart). I had a nice apt by myself until my bf moved in and basically crumbled my life down. We've been knowing eachother for 6 years, and it's been wonderful but horrible because last year I was abused for the 1st time for 6 months until the beginning of 2017 because of jealousy to the point that I was left with bruises, bleeding lips, &constant pain, I couldn't talk to anyone but I told him parents. Nothing like that has happpend since then, but I feel trapped because he is controlling. I also went through a miscarriage in December '16 which was hard. Also, I racked up bills and depts (20,000$ In credit cards, broken lease, furniture, medical bills, borrowed parents money) to the point that I can't pay anything back and my score has 3 collection accounts, but I'm getting back on track slowly. I work at a nice job, as a Pre K teacher, I love kids & I'm always laughing and it seems like my life is perfect, but when I'm alone I feel hopeless and like I'm never getting out of this whole of dept and suffering. It's nice to talk with friends but strangers on here won't judge me.

I need some advice right now, I'm not gonna sugar coat this at all. Basically my question is Am I wrong or is she? And should I apologize? And maybe a little advice. Here's basically what happened: So I've been working a lot recently and my fiance is on a work break, we don't really see each other a lot now. Anyways I got home early today, bought roses, her favorite takeout, and ordered the a cute romantic movie hoping to have a nice night in. I stayed up all night then looked on insta to see she was put drinking with friends, obviously annoyed I went to bed. She ended up coming home later tipsy, I wasn't sleeping. And I don't really remember how the conversation started but she ended up telling me I was a party pooper because I don't want to go out destroying my liver. I'm not a big drinker(my family has a history with addiction). We ended up having a argument when I decided I was going to sleep rather that argue with her. She left and came back in the room with a vinegar and threw it as me (that burns).I was pissed so I ran after her and tried to grab the vinegar and we both cut our hands, mine worse.She started hitting and biting at me so I grabbed her shoulders and slammed her into a wall (I didn't want to hit her back). And she started scratching in my face and my neck trying to stop her from clawing our my eye I grabbed her wrists pretty hard. The neighbors called the cops and they saw my face bleeding and took her in. I feel horrible for getting physical with her.

My crush kept asking me out last minute and I wasnt available even when I had told him my availabilities. I'm confused. Did he wanna bang? He was very shy in school. Would stare at me during lecture but never spoke to me. Sit close to me and with me when there were available seats. He instead emailed me once the semester was over...I'm confused...he never emailed me back after I told him I was working and couldn't hang

I met someone and I was very interested in him. He is in his late 30s and I'm very attracted to him. The only downside is that he has a rotation of about 10-15 women that he flirts with and keeps close. They all go back and forth with each other on social media, exchanging likes and flirty comments as if it were currency. All of these women mirror his behavior, have adopted similar hobbies and interests as him and go as far as to even display it blatantly on social media. Its almost intimidating how committed they all are to one and other. He never skips a beat with telling them they are beautiful, stunning, gorgeous on all their selfies and is sure to comment on everything they do and vice versa. I dont play that game so I havent contributed. Is it a waste of time to bother?