My parents will be fine with each other one day and the next day their arguing and yelling and door slamming and it gives me anxiety and its making my life miserable, because I just want the fighting to stop my mom always talks about a divorce and at this point I would prefer that then them fighting almost everyday.

My wife is having a baby in September she gets upset and cries at everything even if there's nothing to cry about. She cries at her favorite band , sad songs , ytp videos , movies etc. . My first wife was 18 when I married her she never cried she was pregnant 3 times. Only if she had a reason to cry. My current wife cries about everything. She mostly cries at her favorite band The Beatles everyday. Even watching their movies or the cartoon makes her cry. Also listening to their songs make her sad. Why does she cry so much ? How can I help her feel better ? She's 24 years old

Today I found a message thread in her phone where she has been talking with her co-worker for over a year where they sent each other all kinds of highly inappropriate messages. She made comments about wanting to be married to him and made comments about others who she shouldve married. She would tell him how much she missed him and couldn t wait to see him. She offered to go on walks with him and accepted money $200 from him. He constantly hits on her and calls her pet names. She did this before wjth the exact same man and i caught her and she said she wouldt do it again. These messages have been in her phone for over a year and I asked did She leave them in there for me to see and She says she didn't think anything of it. She says she doesn t like him like that she said she just likes the attention. I give her attention but maybe it s not enough. She says she just kids around with him and enjoys the attention and she doesnt want him. He has met our kids and makes comments about how much he likes them and calls them his angels. She tells him the kids miss him and he has a lot of money and I know she likes the idea of a man with a lot of money like him. She does seem to have low self esteem and insecurity issues. Should I divorce her or is it possible she has some issue with needing attention from others?

My wife was done this several times before, accepting gifts and cheating with other men. In her defense I have cheated in the past and she probably did have reason to seek out others. But fast forward several years and healing we were in a much better place. She caught me cheating again and I said I had a sex addiction and we agreed to finally work it out for the better one last time. And we did. Everything was great for a year, no cheating. But today I found a message thread in her phone where she has been talking with her co-worker for over a year where they sent each other all kinds of highly inappropriate messages. She made comments about wanting to be married to him and made comments about others who she shouldve married. She would tell him how much she missed him and couldn t wait to see him. She offered to go on walls with him and accepted money $200 from him. She says she doesn t like him like that she said she just likes the attention. I give her attention but maybe it s not enough. She says she just kids around with him and enjoys the attention. She does seem to have low self esteem and insecurity issues. Should I divorce her or is it possible she has some issue with needing attention from others?

What if the wife and children feel hurt? Are they only thinking of their selfish needs given what he wants really transcends everything in today's world? I don't care if you judge me, it's only a question to see the attitudes of a small segment of society. So go pound sand!

I am not trying to sound immature or selfish here. I haven't had a job in around 6 years due to diagnosed mental illness. My soon to be ex husband backhanded slapped me wanting a divorce. When I thought we had a good marriage. This i the issue below. My stepfather and mother have taken me in and give a place to stay while i look for employment. It isn't as easy as walking in a store and asking for applications anymore. They are paying for my medical expense and food. When I found a job either a bus pass or car. They have hired a divorce attorney for me because when my about to be ex served me with papers he wanted me to pay his fee and his lawyers fee. My step dad was like no way. So he calls my dad and tries to explain it calmly and my dad is hard hearing. My dads response if she wants the divorce let her sign the papers and pay the fees. But I won't help with any matters regarding money. They got into a heated battle and my dad hung up on my step dad. I agree with my mom and step dad. I am livid with my dad and he has asked me to go to lunch this week? My mom thinks I should what are your opinions?

Is it inappropriate for an old (female) friend of your husband to send him a picture where he's pretending to get oral from her? The picture includes other people and they are all fully clothed but her head is by his crotch. As a wife, are you wrong for getting upset?

He overcame alcoholism and decided she made him an alcoholic so he is divorcing her. Two of his three kids are understandably furious with him for him breaking his vow. There has NOT been infidelity to my knowledge.

Right off the bat, let me say I married really early. I am 19 and my husband is 20. I know this may have not been the "best" decision to make but he is in the army and in order for me to be on his orders, marriage is a necessity. Anyway, we always go on and off on the subject of kids and sometimes I will agree on wanting them and then other times... Not so much and that really upsets him. We end up fighting about this a lot and I want him to be happy and have thought about just having children for his benefit but I know I will feel so detached from the child and my anxiety and depression will be a lot worse.. I research different experiences people have had when they have a child and i am honestly so afraid of it all. I am not very selfless and I know if you're going to be a mother, that is one of the most important qualities that one must have. We try to be open about this but the more i resent the thought of a child to him, it breaks him down. One of my biggest fears of having a child is that I feel that this child would consume our whole marriage and our marriage wouldn't even feel like a marriage anymore, making me resent my child even more. Is there a way I could change my negative perspective on this and be able to be happy with giving my husband the "gift" that he desires so badly? And what could I do after I have the child to ensure my marriage doesn't run dry so early in my life? Please have understanding and good advice to help me in such an early marriage. Thanks.

She due to health reason can't stand at the sink and wash them, We came up with the answer buy a dishwasher. We purchase the one she research and now that it is install, we still have dirty dishes piled up. Have not use the dishwasher since install over a week. What gives??? Wouldn't a homemaker, wife/retired want to use her new appliances?

At first it didn't bother me as much but as time goes on I keep telling myself I can't be seeing her every other two weeks. She comes in pack their clothes, get them ready. My husband dont want no part getting the kid's ready, Sometimes she don't leave right away. She comes in, walk around. Carry each kids one by one, put them to sleep. Hugged the little boy for 4 minutes in front of my husband. The longest she ever stayed was 20 minutes. Should it not bother me?

Things with my husband are just not right anymore. He has been an alcoholic and said such disrespectful things, spit in my face, hit my car, and other things but I keep giving him more chances hoping he will change. I really feel that all this damage done I am not in love with him anymore like I care for him and don't want him to be harmed but there is no love. I try to talk to him about this but he freaks out and yells and screams and then drinks. We have no kids together and nothing tying us together but I feel like he is too comfortable to get out of this marriage but for me I am ready to move on.

My husband and I have been together for 2 years. He has two from another marriage and I have one. In the last 6 months he has been buying his kids toys and allowing them to take them to their mothers. I have expressed my distaste because they are not even allow to were decent clothes when they come from our house. So when the kids come back they never bring the toys or nice clothes we send them in. Then they ask us to buy more to replace the item's. Which their dad does. I've asked him why he does it. He said because she struggles (the wife). But every time I see her she has her nails, hair and name brand products. Plus she is out eating and partying. What she does is her business but I do not feel like it's fair that we supply toys and clothes for two households. Am I being ridiculous or do I have a reason to get upset?

My husband and I have traded in being bread winners and both contribute to everything. Just recently, ive been in a slump and he's had to give me a few hundred dollars to fix my car. He wants me to pay him back knowing I don't have any money. He on the other hand does. I feel like I'm getting played.

For so many years she has gotten upset with me. Sometimes it is the usual stuff. Other times it is over random things. Take today as an example....I got yelled at because I took too long to get a shower and we were the last ones leaving the aquatic centre on closing time. Fair enough I should not have taken 10 mins for a shower and to get dressed. So a fun day wasn't fun. I was tired anyway as I have just started my night shifts. As we left she said that all I do is make her angry and that's why she doesn't want to go anywhere with me. Then this evening before work, we tried to be intimate but I couldn't finish. I was tired. She got angry again because she was convinced that today is the day her egg is coming to conceive (despite the tests saying otherwise). Every time I am tired and can't finish, she blames me for us not having a child as it's probably the day her egg is coming. Yet we know that my morphhology has been low and I've been making diet and exercise changes to improve it. She told me to get out and leave her alone. P*** off were her exact words. So I left. She has been texting me bible versus of sadness. Usually she does that when she is upset. And she will ignore all my calls and texts so I don't bother when she is angry. Are there any couples out there who are actually happy together? I'm starting to think I'm defective and like I can't do any better because no other woman would put up with my behaviour of being slow to get things done etc.

Last week was the first time I met my husband's good friend that lives in another state. Before I even met him he was jokingly saying on the phone that I had a sexy voice which I thought was kinda odd since he is married? Now when he calls my husband he will make unnecessary comments like me bring my husband's sex kitten and how I'm good looking. This offends me since he is married and my husband talks to this guy regularly. He explained that's how he is, just a loud mouth and his wife doesn't care supposedly. What bothers me is that he is okay with his friend talking to me this way. Am I overreacting by my husband's lack of concern/his friend being obnoxious?

Is this normal in marriage? I think it's disgusting, why would you want anyone to smell your poop? Have some courtesy and close the door ffs nobody wants to smell your sh*t

She says we're only friends but it really makes me feel bad