My wife's uncle is dying she's really worried. They don't know how much longer he'll make it. He has a rare heart disease they can't do much for him. He lives about 2 hours away. She doesn't see him very mucn. His daughter or her cousin is her best friend she hasn't seen her in years. He's not that young but he's not that old either. She hope's he will live till September to see our daughter after she's born but they think he might not make it till the end of summer or even this month he's really bad they said. They said it could be anyday. She's been checking Facebook everyday to see if anyone has said anything. She also has asthma and health problems she's scared to have another surgery luckily she hasn't had one since she was 9 she's 24 now. She's done good. He had surgery 3 months ago then he got this disease I don't know the name of it but he's been in the hospital ever since. She keeps holding on to Mr every night crying and begging me not to leave her like he is. I dont know I can't promise her something that isn't true. How can I comfort her ?

My wife cried when we made love it was happy though. Why did she do that ?

I am in a very unhappy marriage, my hubby is actually in jail for at least 6 more months. He left me here with my extremely rude child, out in a rural place, no money, family or friends to ask for help anymore. I feel like just disappearing but I feel bad leaving my daughter even though she has hit me and calls me every name in the book.

I am interested particularly in stories where someone was in a bad first marriage with children, not thinking they could ever get out, then met someone who they fell in love with who also had kids, so that person finally felt they could end their first marriage and move on? Maybe resulting in remarriage and combining of families?

My son's father and I do not fight and are absolutely best friends. But I do not feel any sexual attraction anymore after having our son four years ago. Honestly the thought of being eith him intimately bothers me.. Which I don't understand he's so good looking. I worry spreading might effect out son. His father and I aren't the type to put my son through hell and can effectively co parent. Bit I'm so worried about damaging him with the separation alone. Should I stay for my son?

My husband is always touching my breasts. We sleep in the nude cause its confortable. I wake up to his arm wrapped around me :) hes so sweet and sometimes he just holds my big boobs and it feels good. I like my boobs getting held and attention. Is that normal?

This man was 42 years old. He had a wife and 4 year old son. He got killed in a bad motorcycle wreck. Some guy hit him! I would appreciate if you don't leave rude comments! This could be anybody!! Thank you

Hence "one ring to rule them all". Frodo, representing the clueless, inexperienced and unadulterated man - later when his desire for the ring takes hold, he feels the confusion and darkness fester inside. Smeagle, representing the female's unchecked desire for the ring, becomes twisted and contorted in its absence. It has stolen his mind thus he's willing to go to all and any measure, including betraying his friends to get it. Lastly, there's Lord Sauron, representing the married female. Lord Sauron wants it, knowing it will enable him to enslave the people of Middle Earth. Using all of his powers of manipulation and telekinetic fire ray eye thing, evil minions and giant minotaur beasts, he embarks on his quest to enslave the world to his bidding. Yet Frodo is victorious and able to destroy the ring by throwing it in to the volcano. Thus restoring order to the world. Thoughts?

My dad has cheated a lot and mostly through text form and about September last year my mom and dad almost were going to divorce when my mom found out once he was cheating. The only reason they didn't was because he begged to come back and said he'd stop. When he came back he didn't text any other woman or at least that I know of but in about march he started texting woman again. This made me really angry because he said he won't anymore and yet he comes back to do it again. I'm starting to think he wasn't worried about losing us but about losing a place to live. My mom is pretty happy and she's found out other times he's cheated and I don't know what to do. I'm 14 by the way and I also have to mention me and my dad were never that close because he was mostly at work when I was little.

They pressure men for marriage, then file for divorce, so weak so selfish, don't care about the guy they are destroying Why are there no women here defending themselves

I m going into my second semester really soon. And the last 3 months the baby s father had me believe he wanted this as bad as me. Then... He told me to get an abortion. Broke up with me when I said no. Then had me come back just to have sex then breaks up with me again when I confronted him about cheating on me for the umpteenth time. All of this within maybe 3 days. He basically said he didn t want the baby. Last time I was with him he put his hands on me and told me to get out over the baby and cheating. Weird huh? Said I don t have to tell him anything about the baby. So I won t. And I want to move out of state. Somewhere he can t find me if he changes his mind and wants to "be in the baby s life". What s all I can do? I think it would be the best for me and my. Safer without the lies and he can t touch me again. He s not usually physically abusive (mentally yes) but only physically when angry. And I also don t want that around my baby. I m sorry if this is all smashed together and confusing. I just want opinions and such. Thank you.

I am an American guy in the military she is Korean from Korea. The first couple 6 years everything was great. The first 2 years we were married and in Korea, then we went to the states and still good and then back to Korea for 3 years. She started going out and staying out more and hanging out with friends over the weekend. She got a little distant, I did not think anything of it I was like we are in Korea she wants to spend time with her Korean friends. The night before we changed bases to go back to the states she said she wanted to stay there and I could go back to the states and we would see. I told here that is not a marriage, I did not want to live in limbo either we were together or not. She said fine and she said she would give it ago and then after a year of being at the new base she said she was unhappy and wanted a divorce and wanted to go back to Korea and had to be back on 2 August no earlier or later than that. I said ok gave her the divorce half our stuff and all and she left. I did try and ask what she was unhappy about as that is a very broad statement and asked her if she wanted to do couples counseling. She said no and would not elaborate what I am unhappy meant; I mean she wasn't mad neither of were we ended it ok. She would not tell her family that she was coming back to Korea either (which I thought was weird as I knew she did not get along well with them but why worry them). I still find myself stuck on what does I am unhappy mean? I just find it hard to move until I figure out what went wrong? She enquired through a joint friend about us getting back together after 5 months of being divorced and finding out that she went through all the money I gave her that she made a mistake and wants to get back together. I told the friend to tell her no as even if I wanted to I didn't have the money. Plus I did not want to feel like a fall back guy or be wondering is this the day she is going to want to leave me again. Females especially was I right for not taking her back and I need to know what I am not happy but not giving a reason your not means; it is driving me crazy as I am very analytical and wondering what did I miss? Was it me. her or something else?

I am an American guy in the military she is Korean from Korea. The first couple 6 years everything was great. The first 2 years we were married and in Korea, then we went to the states and still good and then back to Korea for 3 years. She started going out and staying out more and hanging out with friends over the weekend. She got a little distant, I did not think anything of it I was like we are in Korea she wants to spend time with her Korean friends. The night before we changed bases to go back to the states she said she wanted to stay there and I could go back to the states and we would see. I told here that is not a marriage, I did not want to live in limbo either we were together or not. She said fine and she said she would give it ago and then after a year of being at the new base she said she was unhappy and wanted a divorce and wanted to go back to Korea and had to be back on 2 August no earlier or later than that. I said ok gave her the divorce half our stuff and all and she left. I did try and ask what she was unhappy about as that is a very broad statement and asked her if she wanted to do couples counseling. She said no and would not elaborate what I am unhappy meant; I mean she wasn't mad neither of were we ended it ok. She would not tell her family that she was coming back to Korea either (which I thought was weird as I knew she did not get along well with them but why worry them). I still find myself stuck on what does I am unhappy mean?

I asked a diff. Q. Why do men cheat when things are good. I had very good replies. Except 1 answer was b/ I don't try new things in bed, which is inaccurate. I encourage my husband to try new things with me but he always tells me he is tired or sick and wants to stick with the basics (cowgirl style). My husband didn't and couldn't come up with a reason. I wanted to know where we went wrong as a couple to that we may improve it, but he said he was the 1 to blame for being a player before he met me & having a porno addiction on & off. I don't want want to throw my marriage of almost 3 years into the trash, I am not the type of person to give up on my husband so fast. Am I making a mistake? Why or why not? What would you do??

She's going for 5 days with the bride to be and her raunchy single friends, Ibiza is a wild place renowned for drunken liaisons screwing and all sorts. I told her I don't like it but she says I am spoiling her fun Will she cheat and how can I tell if she has?

I am not well endowed and sex before she lost her weight was difficult, could hardly penetrate her. When she said she would lose weight if I proposed, I did, otherwise I wouldn't have. The sex is good with the weight loss. Now I am worried that she will pile it on because she has the ring? What to do?

please stop telling me to leave him. i am not going to jeopardize my family with 2 kids just because of some bad behavior from him.

Would you forever withhold sex? I mean he won't divorce you because he will lose everything in the divorce.

It seems as though in the last 2-3 weeks I can not do anything right by that man. I get up, make sure his clothes are laid out and that he has coffee and lunch ready to go. When he comes home, I always make him and the kids a home cooked dinner and then clean. I will go fishing with him, offer to help him with other jobs any chance I get, even sit in the bathroom and listen to him vent while he is taking a shower... But I guess I am going wrong somewhere. At night he literally pushes me away so I can not cuddle on him. He doesn t seem as concerned about my problems at all. He pretty much ignores me and spends most of his at home time on his phone or outside smoking. He doesn t really say much to me and when he does it s been a lot of really mean and spiteful things. I honestly feel that our kids are getting more love and attention than me. That isn t a bad thing...except I am literally not getting anything. I really do not know what I am doing wrong. Please help.

So my ex and I have been divorced for about 5 years. In the last couple of years we have been able to get along and have a great co-parenting relationship, and I would even say we re becoming friends again. I was completely over the relationship. But because things are so good with us, I have started having feelings and thinking about the idea of trying to work things out again. I sometimes get the feeling she does too, but other times it seems like we re only going to be friends. How could I tell if she wants the same thing as me? I m afraid that if I say something about trying to work things out, our relationship would go back to how bad it used to be affecting our co-parenting.

my husband cheated and didn't have a reason to why he cheated except that he has a addiction to porno & he use to be a player before he met me. Now he is begging for me not to leave. I just don't understand him: we have been married for 2 1/2 years & we have great communication & find lots of quality time together. I am the one who asks to make love every night and many times get turned down. I'm 8 years younger than him. He always tells asks me how I chose him when I could have gone with way better looks. And I tell him it is not all about the looks but the heart

Does it feel better? Never had a bug guy!

How can I ask for having sex with me we both r married differently I find her attractive as she works in my factory we both r lonely every time and the place is also secure and closed