Okay, no one wants to read this.. I know that, but I keep crying and having panic attacks and I just want to vent about what's been happening in my life. Excuse my writing, I'm normally not this bad with words and grammar.. From my earliest memories, I have always been extremely anxious at my mothers house. When I was little, my parents got divorced and argued constantly. My mother has a heart condition and has been unemployed most of my life, he paid the bills and helped take care of us on her bad days. Soon after, my mother started adopting dogs in attempt to breed them and make money from home. We ended up with 11 dogs and ended up not breeding them. I love animals as I love myself, but as I got older i started resenting the dogs because kids at school would bully me for it. I begged my mom to give a few away to friends and family. She finally gave in and now we currently have 6. A few months back, she starting fostering/rescuing cats from our local humane society. She has literally spiraled out of control.. we now have 14 cats, plus cats she fosters on and off. On top of all that, four years ago she got married to my stepfather and had a baby soon after who is now 2 years old. He has behavioral issues and is very demanding and loud. My mother and stepfather have been nonstop arguing about my baby brother and my mothers issue with hoarding animals. I really don't think I have it in me to watch her go through another break up/divorce.

I have been working at my current job for about a year and six months and from the time started there I notice this guy( he's a customer he does not work there) has been staring at me something fierce. He comes in there almost every day and do he shopping and stares at me and I had not made eye contact with him simply because I was not ready to. He seems nervous and shy when he sees me and i notice things that he does when he is around me. I have even notice when he leaves the store he sits in his car for 10 to 20 minutes then he leaves( he's done this quite of few times). I saw him and his mother come in few times as well which is going to lead to last of this story. A couple of days ago I saw is mother shopping and I came across her and since I was finally ready to talk to this guy simply because I can't stop thinking about him I simply ask her do have a son( I described him ) and she was extremely nice about it and she said yes and she ask me do I know him and I said no but I notice him staring at me lot and she politely said he has a girlfriend but she was very nice about it then the day went on. Now I'm sorry about the long story but I need to know what's this guy playing at. I know guys look at other girls even when their with someone so spare me with that but this guy is doing different things. So I need to know is this just sexual or something real.

How can j get my friends mom to not come?

Mature relationship of 1 year 8 months, he is 34 & I'm 21. We just had an amazing vacation together and then once we're at his house he hits me with he "needs more space" and that we need to "take a step back", that we "are around each other too much". Everything was fine until we got back to his house where he shares a condo with his parents, dual ownership. He sucks on his mommy's teet, it's excruciatingly annoying. 1 year & 8 months in and we still haven't progressed at all, I feel we were going slow as it was. I was feeling like he was my best friend by my side. I grew closer to him. I decided to dump him because of this "needing space" and he has no plans of moving elsewhere for at least 3-5 years ..which means he'll be with mommy and daddy and they don't want me around much and I guess they previously agreed before buying the condo that no one would be moving in to it. So lame. Stunting our relationship and babying your son for eternity. I cannot be stagnant for another 3-5 years. We love each other, and it's hard to imagine life without him, but I just cannot do this anymore. What would you do?

I recently got to know this man with whom I have common interests. He is a super nice person and married since many years. Turns out he lives close to my summer house and he contacted me wanting to stop by. We decided on a day and he turned up with a bottle of wine and we spent the next 3 hours chatting away and drinking the wine. He didn't make a move or anything, so I'm wondering if we are now new friends?

So I don't live with my Dad... He's a raging alcoholic and very lonely since him and his girlfriend are no longer together all he talks about is how he's lonely and about his girlfriend and how she treats him like crap and all that mess and he just repeats himself every time he calls me. Now I know "why don't you just not pick up"? I always feel terrible about myself if I let it go to voicemail I mean it's my Dad...Any advice on what I should do? Thanks so much. Btw I'm 21

Her father must be so ashamed of her. She will ruin her genetics with inferior white blood and her kids won't be half as gifted as she is. Plus, white guys always say nasty things about her and then she turns around and marries one of them? Such a shame. I would never marry a white guy even if they were the last on Earth.

In person she was calling me sexy saying that I'm cute but when we text she's hot and cold sometimes doesn't reply and I can take up to a week but only because I'm nervous. I've had feelings for her since I was 12 but I'm starting to figure out love isn't real and she's got a boyfriend. I wish her well her family, they're all great people very sweet. I met her at a time in my life where I was very sad, she made me a man. She was my muse and at one point I considered her my best friend but I just feel numb kind of dead inside

I met my husband in college in Chicago. Our marriage was perfect, I believed in God because of our marriage. My husband and I were very loving and affectionate to each other. Even when I gained weight and had no make up, he would look at me like I was the most beautiful thing in the world. Then, his mother in Miami said we could live with her and she would help babysit our child. My husband said we could even have date nights where she babysits and she can help out if I get pregnant with baby number 2. My mother in law has directly taken dinner from me telling me to diet and commenting if I want acne medication for my face. My husband even started to look at me like I was ugly and told me to lose weight. We are always together, there is no other woman, but he doesn't even smile the way he used to at me. He even told me last Saturday he doesn't love me anymore. His mom is bipolar and I thought she would be okay with her medication, but she is also a headache and I have not had one date night here and she doesn't babysit. He even denies ever being happier and more loving to me in Chicago. Once we fought, and he called my mother and told her to take me back in Chicago. I got mad because we are married and he was going to stay with his mom instead of going with me. Finally he said he would think about going to Chicago with me. What do I do? Do you think he will go back to the man I married if we go back to Chicago or stay a jerk like this? He is 31 years old.

I asked them if they could help me relocate to another state and they agreed but they're not really thinking ahead. They couldn't give me an address which made job hunting before relocating hard since I was using an out of state address on applications. Then they finally gave me an address to use after arrived in NJ. Initially in our agreement I gave them a three month limit. I have no intention of using anyone or having them spend a lot of money on me. After that three month limit I would go back to where I came from if I couldn't find a job. So recently they got upset with me cause I don't shower them with attention constantly. The only thing on my mind is establishing myself here. But all they want to do is be all huggy and mushy all the time. Firstly they have me in a hotel which they are paying for which has me feeling guilty. My time is almost up so I'm stressed and most of my jobs don't start till next month. When I asked what they will do when the 3 months are up they said they will only stay by me if I take over the hotel payments and they will give me rides where I need to go in exchange. When I did the math and told them that I won't save anything that way and that getting an apartment would be better, they were against it. And now they leave me alone for days at a time cause I don't shower them with affection. What should I do? Should I call it quits and go home? Talking is not an option cause they will play the victim card constantly.